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Arglebargle III
Feb 21, 2006

Honestly they deserve it the screaming little shits.

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Octy
Apr 1, 2010

Arglebargle III posted:

Honestly they deserve it the screaming little shits.

This post looks really weird out of context if you just clicked on 'last page'.

Strategic Tea
Sep 1, 2012

At least for the Roman Plebs, I remember reading that infant mortality was so high that they'd try avoid getting too attached to a baby. Might explain how they could be so casual about exposure. You could argue that they didn't get full 'personhood' until they had lived long enough to have a good chance of surviving. Meanwhile slavers/charity served as the unloaded gun in the firing squad.

Jerusalem
May 20, 2004

Would you be my new best friends?

Arglebargle III posted:

Honestly they deserve it the screaming little shits.

Why can't you be more like.... uhh... hang on I'll just do a quick Google search for Romans who loved children..... why can't you be more like Emperor Tiberius! :colbert:

Halloween Jack
Sep 12, 2003
I WILL CUT OFF BOTH OF MY ARMS BEFORE I VOTE FOR ANYONE THAT IS MORE POPULAR THAN BERNIE!!!!!
You know, for a culture that seems to have been a lot more frank and open about sex, everything Suetonius writes sounds like it was made up by a disturbed teenage boy with a porno magazine.

Fish of hemp
Apr 1, 2011

A friendly little mouse!

Strategic Tea posted:

At least for the Roman Plebs, I remember reading that infant mortality was so high that they'd try avoid getting too attached to a baby. Might explain how they could be so casual about exposure. You could argue that they didn't get full 'personhood' until they had lived long enough to have a good chance of surviving. Meanwhile slavers/charity served as the unloaded gun in the firing squad.

I seriously think that this propably made these people somewhat messed up in the head. I mean people who lose their children go through unbelievable sorrow and guilt. I can't imagine how it must been if you have to through this regularly, even yearly.

euphronius
Feb 18, 2009

Well that and the lead infused water.

Grand Fromage
Jan 30, 2006

L-l-look at you bar-bartender, a-a pa-pathetic creature of meat and bone, un-underestimating my l-l-liver's ability to metab-meTABolize t-toxins. How can you p-poison a perfect, immortal alcohOLIC?


Intentionally keeping your distance and avoiding emotional attachment probably helps a little, and people were generally more used to death because they saw it more. But for sure, it was hard on people. There are historians who argue that some of why the pre-modern world seems to have so many hosed up things like witchcraft trials and generally more violent cultures and such is because everyone was psychologically traumatized. On the other hand, people are probably more resilient to that than you'd think from growing up in our comfortable world--that horrible pre-modern condition is what we evolved in and lived for 99% of our history, after all. Modern people just don't experience it so we don't develop the same sort of mental fortitude they did.

Sorry about not posting much, I am starting a job as a history teacher finally :toot::hist101::toot: so I am pretty busy for a while.

Hedera Helix
Sep 2, 2011

The laws of the fiesta mean nothing!
Congratulations, Grand Fromage!

Kemper Boyd
Aug 6, 2007

no kings, no gods, no masters but a comfy chair and no socks

Fish of hemp posted:

I seriously think that this propably made these people somewhat messed up in the head. I mean people who lose their children go through unbelievable sorrow and guilt. I can't imagine how it must been if you have to through this regularly, even yearly.

People get more of the sorrow and guilt thing because it's uncommon these days. Up until the 1920's or thereabouts, infant mortality was a shitload higher everywhere in the world. It was simply how things were.

WoodrowSkillson
Feb 24, 2005

*Gestures at 60 years of Lions history*

Grand Fromage posted:

Sorry about not posting much, I am starting a job as a history teacher finally :toot::hist101::toot: so I am pretty busy for a while.

Still in Korea or back in the states?

Grand Fromage
Jan 30, 2006

L-l-look at you bar-bartender, a-a pa-pathetic creature of meat and bone, un-underestimating my l-l-liver's ability to metab-meTABolize t-toxins. How can you p-poison a perfect, immortal alcohOLIC?


WoodrowSkillson posted:

Still in Korea or back in the states?

China, actually. Mo' money mo' noodles.

euphronius
Feb 18, 2009

Teaching history in China? you must be a party member.

Exioce
Sep 7, 2003

by VideoGames

Grand Fromage posted:

Intentionally keeping your distance and avoiding emotional attachment probably helps a little, and people were generally more used to death because they saw it more. But for sure, it was hard on people. There are historians who argue that some of why the pre-modern world seems to have so many hosed up things like witchcraft trials and generally more violent cultures and such is because everyone was psychologically traumatized. On the other hand, people are probably more resilient to that than you'd think from growing up in our comfortable world--that horrible pre-modern condition is what we evolved in and lived for 99% of our history, after all. Modern people just don't experience it so we don't develop the same sort of mental fortitude they did.

Sorry about not posting much, I am starting a job as a history teacher finally :toot::hist101::toot: so I am pretty busy for a while.

I've often wondered this about sexual abuse. We know that children that are abused sexually turn into damaged adults. In eras where there were no controls on it or perhaps even conceptions of it, I expect it would have been pretty widespread, to the extent that a huge proportion (by modern standards) of adults would have been abused as children and would go on to abuse. More prone to anger, depression, violence, promiscuity, substance abuse, risky behaviours in general.

Is it possible to not be traumatized by sexual abuse if it's 'normal'?

Cyrano4747
Sep 25, 2006

Yes, I know I'm old, get off my fucking lawn so I can yell at these clouds.

The "lead in the water" thing is probably way over blown. See http://penelope.uchicago.edu/~grout/encyclopaedia_romana/wine/leadpoisoning.html for a decent online summary of the issue.

Fish of hemp posted:

I seriously think that this propably made these people somewhat messed up in the head. I mean people who lose their children go through unbelievable sorrow and guilt. I can't imagine how it must been if you have to through this regularly, even yearly.

While I'm sure people back then loved their kids too, you're trying to apply modern emotional and cultural values to an ancient civilization. Even today some people react differently to that kind of loss. Some grieve and get over an infant's death in a few months, for others its a defining event in their lives from which they never truly recover.

Think of it this way: if losing an infant was automatically some kind of unspeakably traumatic event that would cause serious mental derangement than how the gently caress did we, as a species, survive the 99.9% of our history where 50%+ infant/early childhood mortality was completely normal? If our minds were so fragile that this kind of loss would inevitably be emotionally crippling we probably never would have climbed down out of the trees, much less become the dominant species on this planet. Even if we were that way at some point in the distant past you would almost have to assume that being able to cope and deal with sadness and loss would be a major evolutionary advantage, almost guaranteeing that we would, as a species, develop some way of not falling apart every time someone we cared for died.

euphronius
Feb 18, 2009

I know it was a joke.

my dad
Oct 17, 2012

this shall be humorous

Exioce posted:

anger, depression, violence, promiscuity, substance abuse, risky behaviours in general

Man, that's an good description of Roman society.

Strategic Tea
Sep 1, 2012

The best comparison would probably how people raised in longstanding violent tribal or criminal environments adapt, though I don't really know anything about modern studies on that. Warzones too, though a lot of them would be on a much shorter timeframe and involve more conscious aspirations to Western-style legitimacy.

Breaking Bad posted:

For what it's worth, getting the poo poo kicked out of you, not to say you get used to it, but you do kinda get used to it.

gizmojumpjet
Feb 21, 2006

Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt.
Grimey Drawer
How did mail work in the ancient world? If I'm a mom in Roma and I want to send my son some socks and underwear, and he's posted way up in Brittania, how do I get him his undies?

Grand Fromage
Jan 30, 2006

L-l-look at you bar-bartender, a-a pa-pathetic creature of meat and bone, un-underestimating my l-l-liver's ability to metab-meTABolize t-toxins. How can you p-poison a perfect, immortal alcohOLIC?


gizmojumpjet posted:

How did mail work in the ancient world? If I'm a mom in Roma and I want to send my son some socks and underwear, and he's posted way up in Brittania, how do I get him his undies?

I really hope someone knows about this, because I don't at all and I just realized what a big hole in my knowledge it is. I know some form of mail existed in the empire but no idea how. The only thing I've encountered was the cursus publicus, which was a courier system for government needs.

Deteriorata
Feb 6, 2005

gizmojumpjet posted:

How did mail work in the ancient world? If I'm a mom in Roma and I want to send my son some socks and underwear, and he's posted way up in Brittania, how do I get him his undies?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cursus_publicus

my dad
Oct 17, 2012

this shall be humorous
Wasn't there a preserved letter by a Roman mom who sent her son socks and stuff and asked him if he's getting along with the other guys in the barracks? I think it was posted in this thread.

Sleep of Bronze
Feb 9, 2013

If I could only somewhere find Aias, master of the warcry, then we could go forth and again ignite our battle-lust, even in the face of the gods themselves.

gizmojumpjet posted:

How did mail work in the ancient world? If I'm a mom in Roma and I want to send my son some socks and underwear, and he's posted way up in Brittania, how do I get him his undies?

Dunno, but they did it.

Vindolanda tablet 346 posted:

"... I have sent (?) you ... pairs of socks from Sattua, two pairs of sandals and two pairs of underpants, two pairs of sandals ... Greet ...ndes, Elpis, Iu..., ...enus, Tetricus and all your messmates with whom I pray that you live in the greatest good fortune."

E: Oh, look at that.

WoodrowSkillson
Feb 24, 2005

*Gestures at 60 years of Lions history*


I would imagine it was just horse drawn carts that tagged along with other official caravans or something. Once a week the supply shipment to Britannia leaves or something.

Logistics in the Roman world must have been immensely complex and fascinating.

Also I love that little note since it shows just how little people have changed.

Lewd Mangabey
Jun 2, 2011
"What sort of ape?" asked Stephen.
"A damned ill-conditioned sort of an ape. It had a can of ale at every pot-house on the road, and is reeling drunk. It has been offering itself to Babbington."
I strongly suspect gizmojumpjet was aware of that tablet, otherwise the example he chose for his question is a little freaky.

Kemper Boyd
Aug 6, 2007

no kings, no gods, no masters but a comfy chair and no socks

my dad posted:

Man, that's an good description of Roman society.

Tho it's worth noting that Romans thought of getting crunk as hella unmanly and the same with promiscuous behavior.

WoodrowSkillson
Feb 24, 2005

*Gestures at 60 years of Lions history*

Kemper Boyd posted:

Tho it's worth noting that Romans thought of getting crunk as hella unmanly and the same with promiscuous behavior.

Those were ideals essentially no one but cato the younger upheld, and even he loved the sauce.

suck my woke dick
Oct 10, 2012

:siren:I CANNOT EJACULATE WITHOUT SEEING NATIVE AMERICANS BRUTALISED!:siren:

Put this cum-loving slave on ignore immediately!

Halloween Jack posted:

You know, for a culture that seems to have been a lot more frank and open about sex, everything Suetonius writes sounds like it was made up by a disturbed teenage boy with a porno magazine.

Suetonius: the original goon?

Berke Negri
Feb 15, 2012

Les Ricains tuent et moi je mue
Mao Mao
Les fous sont rois et moi je bois
Mao Mao
Les bombes tonnent et moi je sonne
Mao Mao
Les bebes fuient et moi je fuis
Mao Mao


Halloween Jack posted:

You know, for a culture that seems to have been a lot more frank and open about sex, everything Suetonius writes sounds like it was made up by a disturbed teenage boy with a porno magazine.

Romans were pretty neurotic about sexuality, they were kind of prudish to be honest. I mean sure some of them had crazy gay orgies but everyone does in history and many of those stories we have of those we can only take at dubious value as to authenticity (ex. Suetonius). Christianity was able to make big head ways in Roman society because it was able to co-opt a lot of those hard-assed and prudish old Roman virtues.

achillesforever6
Apr 23, 2012

psst you wanna do a communism?

blowfish posted:

Suetonius: the original goon?
No I thought that was Nero? I mean he loved things that most of his peers thought was beneath them, trouble with his parents/women, and had a neckbeard. All the classic symptoms.

Strategic Tea
Sep 1, 2012

Not to mention his love for Glorious Nippon Hellas

Dwarf
Oct 21, 2010
What was Roman slang like?

Ras Het
May 23, 2007

when I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child - but now I am a man.

Dwarf posted:

What was Roman slang like?

Like Spanish, Portuguese, French, Italian, Romanian, Neapolitan, Sardinian etc.

Kaal
May 22, 2002

through thousands of posts in D&D over a decade, I now believe I know what I'm talking about. if I post forcefully and confidently, I can convince others that is true. no one sees through my facade.

Grand Fromage posted:

I really hope someone knows about this, because I don't at all and I just realized what a big hole in my knowledge it is. I know some form of mail existed in the empire but no idea how. The only thing I've encountered was the cursus publicus, which was a courier system for government needs.

Well there's the cursus publicus of course, but I've always assumed that the Roman mum sending socks and sandals was tapping into the regimental supply system, just like Americans did in the Civil War-era and Brits did in the post-Napoleonic Age. They'd talk to the local legionary officer, or conversely there'd be a call for donations, and then the mail would be on its way - and while it might not get into their son's hands, it probably would. I could be wrong of course, but it seems the logical course to me.

gizmojumpjet
Feb 21, 2006

Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt.
Grimey Drawer

Kaal posted:

Well there's the cursus publicus of course, but I've always assumed that the Roman mum sending socks and sandals was tapping into the regimental supply system, just like Americans did in the Civil War-era and Brits did in the post-Napoleonic Age. They'd talk to the local legionary officer, or conversely there'd be a call for donations, and then the mail would be on its way - and while it might not get into their son's hands, it probably would. I could be wrong of course, but it seems the logical course to me.

My totally unscholarly theory is that, for non-official business, merchant caravans or what-have-you filled in for this. "Oh, you're headed in the general direction of Brittania? Can you foward this along to my son?" The parcel might be labeled something line "Ad: Gaius Farticus, Vallum Aelium, castrum calcitrare clunem, Brittania." Through being handed off between various caravans, and a dash of luck, it might get to where it was intended to go.

I'd never heard of the cursus publicus so thanks for that!

Dwarf
Oct 21, 2010

Ras Het posted:

Like Spanish, Portuguese, French, Italian, Romanian, Neapolitan, Sardinian etc.

I meant more like slang words within Latin (what I really mean is how many synonyms for "dick" were there).

suck my woke dick
Oct 10, 2012

:siren:I CANNOT EJACULATE WITHOUT SEEING NATIVE AMERICANS BRUTALISED!:siren:

Put this cum-loving slave on ignore immediately!

Strategic Tea posted:

Not to mention his love for Glorious Nippon Hellas

A Greekaboo then :haw:

Nostalgia4Dogges
Jun 18, 2004

Only emojis can express my pure, simple stupidity.

Leather underwear :sweatdrop:


Sure is cold over here in Britannia! Least I got these socks for my sands

Jerusalem
May 20, 2004

Would you be my new best friends?

WoodrowSkillson posted:

Those were ideals essentially no one but cato the younger upheld, and even he loved the sauce.

Didn't he make a point of drinking the shittiest wine possible because while he loved getting drunk he thought it would be morally wrong to enjoy the taste while doing so?

Cato was... kinda hosed up.

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Fo3
Feb 14, 2004

RAAAAARGH!!!! GIFT CARDS ARE FUCKING RETARDED!!!!

(I need a hug)
The original goon (box) drinker.

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