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Segmentation Fault posted:Atheist culture is still culture. Same as furry culture. This is super old but I'll show my age and point out that this guy was a known serial troll on LJ, winding up furries and furry haters both. He was banned from a lot of communities. So no, it is entirely not real (though idek who could think it was).
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Grrl Anachronism posted:She is definitely not a doctor, she was a patient herself when she met this new person. This may be even more than #2, but at this point it's getting hard to keep up with where she meets her crazy people. How did they meet? The mental hospitals I was in during my teens had adults and adolescents very,very separated. Like, they didn't even eat with adolescents and the juveniles.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:11 |
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:Uh yeah dude, raising them to think "god isn't real" is just forcing your beliefs on your kid and shaping their developmental years. Uh this is kind of weird. I'm not saying raise your child to go out and scream God isn't real but isn't your entire job as a parent TO shape their developmental years?
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:15 |
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Uh this is kind of weird. I'm not saying raise your child to go out and scream God isn't real but isn't your entire job as a parent TO shape their developmental years? Ideally, you provide guidance and boundaries but starting around adolescence you have to give them the space to make their own decisions and come to their own conclusions.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:17 |
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1stGear posted:Ideally, you provide guidance and boundaries but starting around adolescence you have to give them the space to make their own decisions and come to their own conclusions. I don't think the child in that story was an adolescent. I do see where you come from. I just don't see how your own views wouldn't be influenced naturally. My kids never ask me about church but I don't go and don't see any reason to ever go. If they ask me in the future if I believe in God I'll tell them I don't and I don't consider that "indoctrination" but it will obviously color their worldview, being children.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:24 |
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Bored posted:How did they meet? The mental hospitals I was in during my teens had adults and adolescents very,very separated. Like, they didn't even eat with adolescents and the juveniles. The girl was 18, so grouped with the adults.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:31 |
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:Uh yeah dude, raising them to think "god isn't real" is just forcing your beliefs on your kid and shaping their developmental years.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:35 |
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Leon Einstein posted:I'm not sure why you think the default belief is that God exists. I believe the default belief is that god does not exist because you don't know poo poo about anything so how could you? I also know that roughly 90% of the world believes in one, so maybe ease up on the god ain't poo poo stuff. RenegadeStyle1 posted:I don't think the child in that story was an adolescent. I do see where you come from. I just don't see how your own views wouldn't be influenced naturally. My kids never ask me about church but I don't go and don't see any reason to ever go. If they ask me in the future if I believe in God I'll tell them I don't and I don't consider that "indoctrination" but it will obviously color their worldview, being children. That's sort of indoctrinating them into your worldview, though. I don't mean it as something like you're brainwashing them, but kids follow their parents' lead for a long time. I think you should certainly teach them about morality and culture at that time but not necessarily religion if it isn't completely ingrained, like it is for most people. Ideally, you should prepare them for the fact that not everyone agrees with them and how to handle that in a civil matter. If I were that kid's dad, I'd blame myself above anyone else, even recognizing the deck was stacked against me.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:44 |
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Holy poo poo no one cares.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:46 |
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kazil posted:Holy poo poo no one cares. lol a lot of people do obviously
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:47 |
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:I believe the default belief is that god does not exist because you don't know poo poo about anything so how could you? I also know that roughly 90% of the world believes in one, so maybe ease up on the god ain't poo poo stuff. I'm not sure what the alternative is to that though. Do I take them to church and talk about God then when they are 18 be like "oh haha nah I don't believe in any of that"
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:47 |
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Religion is dumb and atheism is also dumb, just don't really bring it up. Kids aren't brain dead, they can actually decide stuff like that a bit better than you think.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:49 |
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:I'm not sure what the alternative is to that though. Do I take them to church and talk about God then when they are 18 be like "oh haha nah I don't believe in any of that" Well I'd argue that a useful alternative is teaching them about various faiths and kind of let them draw their own conclusions. They won't understand poo poo at five but they'll do it well before 18.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:49 |
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Elliotw2 posted:Religion is dumb and atheism is also dumb, just don't really bring it up. Kids aren't brain dead, they can actually decide stuff like that a bit better than you think. Kids also fart on each other so
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:49 |
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Elliotw2 posted:Religion is dumb and atheism is also dumb, just don't really bring it up. Kids aren't brain dead, they can actually decide stuff like that a bit better than you think. Oh cool believing in things and not believing in things are both dumb. Tell us the cool 3rd option to that.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:51 |
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Maybe the truth is somewhere in the middle
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:56 |
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:That's sort of indoctrinating them into your worldview, though. I don't mean it as something like you're brainwashing them, but kids follow their parents' lead for a long time.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:57 |
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My kid believes when I put on a Halloween mask that I literally turned into a monster even though she saw me put it on and I am wearing the same clothes so excuse me if I don't leave her alone to figure it all out on her own.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 18:58 |
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Leon Einstein posted:So anything short of teaching them about religion is indoctrinating them into atheism? Haha, ok. lmao that's exactly what I said you colossal retard
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:00 |
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JPEG compression strikes again:
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:06 |
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Elliotw2 posted:Religion is dumb and atheism is also dumb, just don't really bring it up. Kids aren't brain dead, they can actually decide stuff like that a bit better than you think. Man I don't even have kids and I understand that they rarely let you off the hook when they start wanting to know how something works or why something is this way or that way. Seems like telling them to stop asking is just going to lead to them seeking out an answer from a source you don't know and don't trust, so as a parent why on earth wouldn't you teach them what you think is the correct answer?
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:11 |
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I want someone to sleep next to me forever so I find her on Google? e: Religion - I grew up in the 80s, and we had 'religion' classes. It pretty much just covered the more interesting bits in Moses' years and a bit about Jesus and him flipping over tables in that temple. This was in early classes, like 3-4, I just thought it was mostly boring with sometimes a cool story. I didn't learn what a muslim was, though old bean factory has a new favorite as of 19:18 on Sep 26, 2014 |
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mng posted:I want someone to sleep next to me forever so I find her on Google? Well if you want a 2D image to sleep next to you it's better to find it on Amazon really.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:17 |
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Huntersoninski posted:
Is that your opinion? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WkeNd1Ni4Uw
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:19 |
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Lumberjack Bonanza posted:Well I'd argue that a useful alternative is teaching them about various faiths and kind of let them draw their own conclusions. They won't understand poo poo at five but they'll do it well before 18. You can always do what my parents did - never really discussed it, my mother contributed time, energy and money to various faith based charities to the point where I always assumed she was vaguely religious. I never felt any pressure to believe in anything, or not believe in anything. But when we did discuss it when I was 38 or so, I discovered that they have absolutely no religious feelings whatsoever.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:20 |
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There's a difference between not raising your kid with a religion and raising them explicitly as an atheist. One is about letting them come to their own conclusions and one is about telling them what to believe, that's a big difference even if they both likely lead to the same outcome.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 19:45 |
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Edit: Never mind.
Celery Face has a new favorite as of 20:18 on Sep 26, 2014 |
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Oh cool believing in things and not believing in things are both dumb. Tell us the cool 3rd option to that. The cool 3rd option is to not have a debate about atheism education in a PYF thread about idiots on Facebook. Video games and bad edits of old political cartoons remain serious business.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:12 |
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Elliotw2 posted:The cool 3rd option is to not have a debate about atheism education in a PYF thread about idiots on Facebook. This picture has to be a joke.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:17 |
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:I'm not sure what the alternative is to that though. Do I take them to church and talk about God then when they are 18 be like "oh haha nah I don't believe in any of that" My parents did this, though I was 14 and had just gotten confirmed
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:20 |
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Zeether posted:JPEG compression strikes again: At least I won't sleep alone anymore.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:31 |
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That DICK! posted:My parents did this, though I was 14 and had just gotten confirmed My dad did the same thing. I had gotten confirmed like 2 weeks before, and I ask him about it and he just laughs and says - Nah, we go because your mother's dad would get mad at us if we don't. And your mom still kinda believes.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:39 |
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Elliotw2 posted:The cool 3rd option is to not have a debate about atheism education in a PYF thread about idiots on Facebook. #notyoursheild
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:39 |
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40-Degree Day posted:This picture has to be a joke. It's a parody, but GG hero Adam Baldwin retweeted it seriously https://twitter.com/AdamBaldwin/status/515301576919875584
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 20:50 |
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But you're supposed to indoctrinate your child into your worldview. That's what makes it a worldview and not a matter of personal taste.
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Elliotw2 posted:The cool 3rd option is to not have a debate about atheism education in a PYF thread about idiots on Facebook. FAFSA loans. I do like the lineart of Sarkeesian and Alexander and friends though.
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 21:16 |
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Segmentation Fault posted:FAFSA loans. They look like that A. Wyatt Man cartoon
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 21:23 |
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Tetracube posted:It's a parody, but GG hero Adam Baldwin retweeted it seriously https://twitter.com/AdamBaldwin/status/515301576919875584
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 21:27 |
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Zeether posted:On a side note, he's attending a convention in my area next year. While I'm sure nobody on the staff knows about his GG bullshittery the mere presence of him would make me not want to go. Not that it will probably change anything but you can always make the organizers of the convention aware that you aren't planning on attending due to one of their headliners having absolutely awful views about women. Not that nerd cons are known for being super duper progressive about that kind of poo poo (see: Pedophile being payed by DragonCon for a decade even after they knew) but who knows until you try?
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# ? Sep 26, 2014 21:55 |
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Tetracube posted:It's a parody, but GG hero Adam Baldwin retweeted it seriously https://twitter.com/AdamBaldwin/status/515301576919875584 Awww, Jane, why you gotta be like that
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