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dijon du jour posted:I saw a post about it on Imgur and the absolute worst comments about it are the "Well maybe he consented, then it wouldn't be rape would it didn't think about that huh. " posts like, no, gently caress off, adolescents are still in the process of developing their cognitive control system, and, likely connected to that, are more sensitive to (peer or otherwise) pressure than adults. They make bad decisions. A lot. Is it really that difficult to imagine that a situation where a fully cognitively developed adult (two of them in this case) having sex with someone with diminished decision making abilities may just set off some alarm bells, regardless of whether or not he "wanted it"? Do these people not remember making a single decision as a teenager that they look back on as an adult and go "WOW, that was stupid"? I don't necessarily disagree with your sentiment, and then that they are authority figures this is absolutely wrong. That being said, in a lot of countries the age of consent is 16. So in those countries, if they were a 24 year old, and a 32 year old that weren't teachers, this would be totally legal. It would still be gross though.
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If Slashdot (a cesspool) counts as social media, guess what the comments are like on this: Online Creeps Inspire a Dating App That Hides Women's Pictures Make sure to show all the comments with the slider.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 05:44 |
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karl fungus posted:If Slashdot (a cesspool) counts as social media, guess what the comments are like on this: I got through 3 comments Although, scrolling to a random point, I did get to this pair of comments quote:What natural order? Among both our closest relatives, chimpanzees and bonobos, the females are at least as agressive in pursuing mates as the males, if often somewhat subtler in their approach. The whole "males do the pursuing" thing is probably a cultural artifact of the brief period in our species history when women were chattel. (Yes, it lasted for several thousand years - that makes it what, a few percent of the time in which we've been more or less human?) I honestly can't tell if he's agreeing with the first post or entirely unaware of any kind of human history?
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Goosed it. posted:I don't necessarily disagree with your sentiment, and then that they are authority figures this is absolutely wrong. That being said, in a lot of countries the age of consent is 16. So in those countries, if they were a 24 year old, and a 32 year old that weren't teachers, this would be totally legal. It would still be gross though. I wasn't saying adults and adolescents having sex is always strictly illegal, just giving a scientific backing to why so many people consider it totally gross and weird as a counterargument to the theoretical idiot reading this thread after posting about how the kid in the news story was totally asking for it so stop worrying. I tell you that theoretical idiot was so theoretically blown away by my argument he was theoretically literally bowled out of his theoretical chair. I sure theoretically showed him.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 06:33 |
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Lblitzer posted:Dammit Gamersgate just keeps getting really dumber. They were kinda hot and Louisiana's age of consent is 17 or something similarly ridiculous
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 07:59 |
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These are the teachers: I remember when those kind of stories would break here in the UK and even when I was in school, the general opinion would be that the (male) kid is a legend. The age of consent here is 16. Although strangely, sexual predator teacher stories that I've seen always seem to be cases where female teachers are attractive, male teachers tend to look much creepier. It's obviously wrong to take advantage of that kid, but I can't imagine it would've been too hard to coerece a hormonal 16 year old boy to have a threesome with two attractive women. With all that being said, I always assumed that the general consensus was that guys are pretty gross to older women until they hit around 20. You'll hear plenty of older male creepers talk about how hot they find teenage girls, but I never hear creepy older women talk about how much they're turned on by teenage guys.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 10:05 |
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Yeah the kid sure is a
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 10:27 |
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Question Mark Mound posted:With all that being said, I always assumed that the general consensus was that guys are pretty gross to older women until they hit around 20. You'll hear plenty of older male creepers talk about how hot they find teenage girls, but I never hear creepy older women talk about how much they're turned on by teenage guys. The difference between what older male creeps and older women creeps talk about is probably related to the fact that even outside creeper circles, women's sexual worth is generally tied to their physical attractiveness, which in turn is equated with youth - it's okay for them to be stupid and inexperienced and passive, because their tight body's what counts the most. With men it's more the opposite, experience is sexy. I think that skews the numbers. Or maybe the female creeps attracted to teenage boys are just less vocal about it. Regardless of gender, I think adults who are attracted to teenagers are egotripping on being with someone who doesn't know better and is impressed by the stupidest poo poo. It's hella gross.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 10:33 |
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South Park had a pretty good episode about it.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 11:32 |
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Beartaco posted:South Park had a pretty... nice episode about it. FTFY
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 12:37 |
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Question Mark Mound posted:These are the teachers: Would
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 12:37 |
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Ratjaculation posted:Yeah the kid sure is a Oh yeah, poor 17 year old, all having willful threesomes with hot teachers, I can't imagine how much therapy he'll need
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 12:58 |
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nice, nice.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 13:38 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Oh yeah, poor 17 year old, all having willful threesomes with hot teachers, I can't imagine how much therapy he'll need Statutory rape is fine as long as the rapist is attractive
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 14:00 |
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Hijo Del Helmsley posted:Statutory rape is fine as long as the rapist is attractive It is
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 14:19 |
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Hijo Del Helmsley posted:Statutory rape is fine as long as the rapist is attractive Probably shouldn't try to argue with people who still think like dumb horny teenagers.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 14:35 |
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I joined the group Cop Block on Facebook. It's about filming cops and trying to hold them accountable for the poo poo that they do. Also Bill O'Reilly hates them and wants to take them down. It has the most diverse people. Didn't edit any names. This is a public page and all those profiles are public. Also Imgur counts as social media right? It was taken down before I could get the rest of the comments. The guy tried hard to defend himself from the rest of imgur laughing at him.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:00 |
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First rule of teaching: don't gently caress your students.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:03 |
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DemeaninDemon posted:First rule of teaching: don't gently caress your students. My family would not exist if this rule were actually followed. Half the people in my family have ended up marrying one of their students. Mostly college students, but still.
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RFC2324 posted:My family would not exist if this rule were actually followed. Half the people in my family have ended up marrying one of their students. See that's a lot more acceptable and not as creepy compared to a teacher having sex with someone barely old enough to drive and at the prime for laughing at fart jokes. cage-free egghead has a new favorite as of 15:13 on Oct 3, 2014 |
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:09 |
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Lblitzer posted:See that's a lot more acceptable and not as creepy compared to a teacher having sex with someone barely old enough to drive and at the prime for laughing at fart jokes. You let people drive before you let them have sex? And they can drink alcohol when? hosed up country imo.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:14 |
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Lblitzer posted:See that's a lot more acceptable and not as creepy compared to a teacher having sex with someone barely old enough to drive and at the prime for laughing at fart jokes. I was mostly pointing out that he should have included high school in there somewhere. Tho I am sure some goon would have taken that to mean grade schoolers are acceptabe
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:20 |
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sassassin posted:You let people drive before you let them have sex? They can have sex with each other, just not with adults. This isn't social media but I'm not sure where else to post Sporcle being racist. Who let this slide?
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:22 |
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RFC2324 posted:My family would not exist if this rule were actually followed. Half the people in my family have ended up marrying one of their students. If the people in your family started relationships with students while they were teaching them that would still be kinda hosed up. But at least then there's just the abuse of authority issue, rather than that plus the mental maturity issue. Hopefully it still turned out alright.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:25 |
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RFC2324 posted:I was mostly pointing out that he should have included high school in there somewhere. No it goes for college too. The student-teacher relationship should not involve loving. Now consensually loving a former student is perfectly fine and should be encouraged. See the difference?
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:26 |
sassassin posted:You let people drive before you let them have sex? Look, you can have a moral debate about this for the rest of eternity about what constitutes rape but most will say that it's wrong for two adults to have sex with a minor, nevermind that it's your own grade school student. I'm just wondering when the whole "America is dumb for not letting children drink beer" thing will stop, as if that's a huge problem this country really needs to be focusing on. Hell, most adults shouldn't be drinking alcohol.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:29 |
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RFC2324 posted:My family would not exist if this rule were actually followed. Half the people in my family have ended up marrying one of their students. And nothing of value would have been lost.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:32 |
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Lblitzer posted:Look, you can have a moral debate about this for the rest of eternity about what constitutes rape but most will say that it's wrong for two adults to have sex with a minor, nevermind that it's your own grade school student. The land of the free.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 15:56 |
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IamnotJoe posted:Also Imgur counts as social media right? I'm surprised Imgur went against the guy considering shittalking against Anita Sarkeesian was front page forever. edit: I like looking at pictures of cats okay. Peanut President has a new favorite as of 16:10 on Oct 3, 2014 |
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Lblitzer posted:Look, you can have a moral debate about this for the rest of eternity about what constitutes rape but most will say that it's wrong for two adults to have sex with a minor, nevermind that it's your own grade school student. I don't know if this is regional but where I'm from "grade school" refers to elementary, primary, kindergarten through 5th grade type schools. We generally frown on having sex with those kids.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:02 |
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Hijo Del Helmsley posted:Statutory rape is fine as long as the rapist is attractive Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it. E: and before someone twists my words to make me look bad, it would be a good term if it wouldn't include the word "rape" to take away agency from people who can be tried as adults. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:06 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it. Listen, we already know you watch anime.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:12 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:13 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it. It's sex that's non-consensual based on a technicality. Sounds accurate to me.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:16 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it. I bet you're also the type of person that gets mad when people say 'pedophile' when what they really mean is 'ephobophile'.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:19 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Statutory rape is a bullshit term, and you know it. Yeah I can totally see why this is a post you would make and hit submit on
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:21 |
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Who What Now posted:I bet you're also the type of person that gets mad when people say 'pedophile' when what they really mean is 'ephobophile'. (USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:23 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Tbh ephebophiles are just people who were unlucky enough to be born in the holy empire of the us and a Dude, stop now. Seriously.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:25 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Tbh ephebophiles are just people who were unlucky enough to be born in the holy empire of the us and a This will surely end well.
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# ? Oct 3, 2014 17:29 |
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ANIME MONSTROSITY posted:Tbh ephebophiles are just people who were unlucky enough to be born in the holy empire of the us and a Yes, why can't the ultra-fascist USA leave the poor
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