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Brutor Fartknocker posted:The wares look alright , they are very cheap for those sorts of toys. As for time, if he's anything like the vendors I know its entirely how many orders he currently has. My favorite local guy can make a few floggers or whatevers a day, give or take by toy complexity. What did you order? I ordered a custom braided leather collar. LeJackal posted:Sorry, but whenever I hear Etsy all I see is bedazzled googly eyes. That's fair.
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dovetaile posted:No, I'm not buying bedazzled kink gear off etsy. Bedazzling would defeat the purpose of what I want it for. I dunno, I could see rhinestones being... interesting.
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With a collar you should be totally fine. I'm really tempted to get one of his floggers, they look like nice light ones. Dating myself here, why was the old kink thread shut down? I know it would be tempting for awful troll bullshit, but I'm not sure why a thread of general kinky stuff ie rope, impact play, and power dynamic, wouldn't work.
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Brutor Fartknocker posted:With a collar you should be totally fine. I'm really tempted to get one of his floggers, they look like nice light ones. iirc it was a combination of trolls and the threads rule of trying to be nonjudgmental about everything .
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There were a bunch of sequential kink megathreads that went fine. Then the OP of the last one had a meltdown because iirc "how dare a sub girl say no"? So after a few pages of fighting, that was killed. Then when the new one was opened, the then-mod included the rule "no kinkshaming" for the first time, which made incredible gross weirdos come out of the woodwork, so it got shut down fast, mercifully. I think one like the old ones, basically just "get consent, don't accidentally kill anyone, here's a rope thing on youtube" would be fine as long as the "how can I eat someone alive after marinating in their poo poo" guys were kept out.
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Brutor Fartknocker posted:With a collar you should be totally fine. I'm really tempted to get one of his floggers, they look like nice light ones. All right then. Guess I'll wait a bit longer then. The first two (?) kink threads were mostly all right and then in the third one, some dumbass wanted to know how he could simulate cannibalism (IIRC goons suggested ham)>
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More condom talk incoming--I feel so incredibly dumb about my measurements method. I did measure my boyfriend correctly, but I was hell bent on finding a condom that would be the same measurement as his width (instead of searching for something a little wider). No wonder everything that I have picked out has felt painfully tight. I've taken my own measurements before going shopping, so I have no idea how I didn't catch this. Thank you to the person who mentioned that the length doesn't have to be the same! That's a really good point. I'll make sure to tell him to not unroll it all the way if we end up having to get something longer than him (which it looks like we will, since his width seems to be on the higher end, but his length seems average). I found a width chart on condommonologues.com that I'm going to show him since his width is at the higher end, since he seems really convinced that he would never need anything branded as "large" and I have to fight him tooth and nail to get him to try on anything that isn't like "snug fit" or "average" or something. EDIT: I feel kind of lovely making him try on larger condoms because I don't want to give him anxiety, but on the other hand, we've had four condoms break because they're too small and my insurance won't cover me visiting my ob-gyn to discuss birth control until November so I feel like it's something that would be less stressful than the alternative... legsarerequired fucked around with this message at 23:47 on Sep 23, 2015 |
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legsarerequired posted:EDIT: I feel kind of lovely making him try on larger condoms because I don't want to give him anxiety Something tells me this won't be a problem.
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You don't want something bigger than him (positive ease, in the clothing example), because it will come off and then you'll both be sad. You want something the same size as him or a little smaller (no/negative ease). He doesn't want to be strangled to death, obviously, but the whole point is for it to be snug.
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He is larger than average in BOTH measurements. You want the circumference to be slightly smaller at the base than he is. The tip doesn't matter - dicks are typically the same girth all the way through but condoms are wider at the top for comfort. He needs to stop comparing himself to porn stars. Seriously. Some advice for you - tell him if he doesn't man up and try some proper size condoms, he's not getting laid. You're going to get pregnant if he doesn't cut the poo poo. KillHour fucked around with this message at 00:47 on Sep 24, 2015 |
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The last thread got shut down because a dude was talking about making GBS threads on an African American woman in a cage constantly.
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Turtlicious posted:The last thread got shut down because a dude was talking about making GBS threads on an African American woman in a cage constantly. And that man's name...was Albert Einstein.
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Turtlicious posted:The last thread got shut down because a dude was talking about making GBS threads on an African American woman in a cage constantly. Wait, that was the last Sex Questions thread.
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For a second I thought I posted in the wrong thread, I do that sometimes, and that is a post I did NOT want in another thread.
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Turtlicious posted:For a second I thought I posted in the wrong thread, I do that sometimes, and that is a post I did NOT want in another thread. Man, how embarrassing would it be if the people you interacted with in other threads could see what you wrote here? I mean, could you imagine if every time I saw a post by you in the D&D4e thread I thought to myself "That's the weirdo from the Sex thread." Oh man, that would be so embarrassing!
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KillHour posted:Man, how embarrassing would it be if the people you interacted with in other threads could see what you wrote here? I mean, could you imagine if every time I saw a post by you in the D&D thread I thought to myself "That's the weirdo from the Sex thread." Oh man, that would be so embarrassing! It would be so humiliating. I am feeling very degraded right now. Please continue.
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KillHour posted:Man, how embarrassing would it be if the people you interacted with in other threads could see what you wrote here? I mean, could you imagine if every time I saw a post by you in the D&D4e thread I thought to myself "That's the weirdo from the Sex thread." Oh man, that would be so embarrassing! no, more like, "well now watch the DND4e thread derail about scat mechanics." goons derail for like... No reason whatsoever. e: Scat fetishes would give advantage to garbage sorting though.
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Turtlicious posted:no, more like, "well now watch the DND4e thread derail about scat mechanics." goons derail for like... No reason whatsoever. Can we make this happen? I'm sick of the arguing over weapon mechanics (yes, I know). Edit: So, when is the goon orgy supposed to start? I've been sitting here waiting for 55 pages. KillHour fucked around with this message at 01:44 on Sep 24, 2015 |
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Ready and waiting, send everyone over to my house. I still have some chicken and rice in the fridge, so there's food for after.
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Mechafunkzilla posted:And that man's name...was Albert Einstein. Zwei Madchen, Ein Stein.
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Turtlicious posted:The last thread got shut down because a dude was talking about making GBS threads on an African American woman in a cage constantly. Wasn't it because people started talking about wanting to eat people? In the knife and fork kind of way, rather than oral sex I mean.
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hookerbot 5000 posted:Wasn't it because people started talking about wanting to eat people? In the knife and fork kind of way, rather than oral sex I mean. The last kink thread I read had a dude trolling the thread talking about master-slave role play a la the Antebellum South. Partly because of "no kinkshaming," the whole thing kept going until he was talking about making GBS threads on an Abe Lincoln shirt and making her eat it, both the poo poo and the shirt. This may or may not have been the last thread. When it finally disappeared for good, it burst into flames, was gassed, and reborn, like, three times in quick succession. I almost want to say it all happened in a week or two.
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legsarerequired posted:More condom talk incoming--I feel so incredibly dumb about my measurements method. I did measure my boyfriend correctly, but I was hell bent on finding a condom that would be the same measurement as his width (instead of searching for something a little wider). No wonder everything that I have picked out has felt painfully tight. I've taken my own measurements before going shopping, so I have no idea how I didn't catch this. Try http://www.theyfit.co.uk/. If you're in the US/Canada, you'll need to use a forwarding service because FDA regulations only allow certain condom sizes for some reason, but they're approved in the EU. The sizing is intentionally supposed to be random so that if you were to be buying these at a store, the average person wouldn't know what size you're buying, which might help his size anxieties. They are more expensive but might offer the best option between now and November, if they work right.
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KillHour posted:Can we make this happen? I'm sick of the arguing over weapon mechanics (yes, I know). My penis has Reach 2.
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OwlFancier posted:My penis has Reach 2. But how does that work with flanking?
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Oh hey, as an update, I canceled the etsy BearThings order and went to his website instead! Once payment processes (about a day or so) and he starts/ships it i'll have my lovely work collar!
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I am trying to convince my girlfriend to get an IUD or the slow-release implant thing because her insurance it's hosed so she has to go get a brand New prescription every month for the pill which she then takes but never gets on a schedule cause she skips the placebo pills near the end and then has trouble getting the next month dosage so she's off and on again constantly. I've heard the IUD is a very popular, reliable, and comfortable option. She is convinced it hurts and gets squeamish when I bring it up. Anyone have experience with either one or some third option?
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Crazyeyes posted:I am trying to convince my girlfriend to get an IUD or the slow-release implant thing because her insurance it's hosed so she has to go get a brand New prescription every month for the pill which she then takes but never gets on a schedule cause she skips the placebo pills near the end and then has trouble getting the next month dosage so she's off and on again constantly. There's also the ring, which is essentially the pill but much easier to stay on schedule since you just put it in once for the month, and there's also a shot you can get every 3 months. IUD might be uncomfortable while it's being put in and for a day or two thereafter, but that's it.
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My wife loves her IUD (in fact she's on her second) and our friends that have them love them as well. A little bit uncomfortable to put in, and a little uncomfortable for a few days, but not needing to worry about pills for 5 years far outweighs the small negatives.
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My wife was initially against an IUD - she went to the GYN seeking a tubal and they gave her the usual run-around about how she actually wants children and will surely change her mind in the next 5-10 years (she was 28 at the time), so instead of setting up yet another appointment to roll the dice with another doctor she went ahead with a Mirena. Two years later she's fully on board and is planning on getting another when this one is up for replacement. Everyone's experience is different but she has almost zero side effects - she gets a little bit weepy when she goes on her period. But for tradeoff her periods went from 1-2 weeks of heavy bleeding and debilitating pain to next to no/no bleeding for a few days and only minor discomfort. If you want more information there's a Birth control megathread.
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Geoj posted:My wife was initially against an IUD - she went to the GYN seeking a tubal and they gave her the usual run-around about how she actually wants children and will surely change her mind in the next 5-10 years (she was 28 at the time), so instead of setting up yet another appointment to roll the dice with another doctor she went ahead with a Mirena. Two years later she's fully on board and is planning on getting another when this one is up for replacement. And if it doesn't work, Mirena is a lovely name for a girl.
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Condom update! I finally asked my boyfriend to try a Skyn large even though it was the same measurement as the magnum, which he said was baggy. He loved it. I guess if anyone else is in a similar situation where the condoms are too small until you add a mm and they're suddenly too large, check the shape of the condoms you're trying. I think what made the difference is that the websites say the magnum flares out at the top whereas the Skyn Large brand has more of a tube shape so it fits him better. Also, I didn't tell him the measurement of the new condom because I was sort of scared he would refuse to try it on. Afterwards I explained to him it was the same width of the magnum, but without the flare at the top which is why it fit better. I just want to make sure he understands this so he doesn't try buying more of those too-small condoms. Crazyeyes posted:I've heard the IUD is a very popular, reliable, and comfortable option. She is convinced it hurts and gets squeamish when I bring it up. The IUD does cause pain for some people when it's first inserted, and a small percentage of the population has really bad pain afterwards--maybe it'll constantly hurt, or their monthly cycles will have intense cramps...  A possible third option is the depo shot. I used it for a few months, but stopped because I was gaining weight (which honestly was probably caused by other things). The one problem is that she might have to take time off work to drive to the clinic and get a shot--it's a super short appointment, but I know at least one person who was trying to get an RN friend to administer the shot because missing work for any reason made her nervous. If I weren't dealing with a hereditary hormonal problem and also unable to afford a non-hormonal IUD, I would probably switch to the depo. legsarerequired fucked around with this message at 22:02 on Sep 27, 2015 |
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My wife had a mirena. She had heavy and painful bleeding and lost patience with it so had it removed. She'd only had it in to try to control her periods as I've had the snip. Also, the string ends stab into the end of your cock every time you go balls deep so I didn't enjoy it either!
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It suits some women and not others. I've had one for years and love it - can't feel anything when it's in and for me insertion/extraction is no worse than a smear test. Also I'm one of the lucky ones who get no periods when it's in. But I know people who had horrible side effects so there's no guarantee. And I understand the squeamishness thing - I don't have it with the mirena but when I had the implant I hated thinking about it or looking at where it was.
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