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Applebees Appetizer
Jan 23, 2006

Enourmo posted:

i did everything right and still hit a loving pit how the gently caress can i bring myself to believe it'll ever work?

Because you don't have a choice? All you can do is keep at it, if you work hard and and least TRY to keep a positive attitude things will be ok in the long run.

But if you give up and mope nothing is ever going to change, ever.

1500quidporsche posted:

Seriously the biggest lesson I've learned in life is that nobody wants to hear me bitch.

Pretty much. My wife has to pull it out of me when i feel like poo poo because i honestly think no one wants to hear about my health issues. I don't complain about anything anymore and I'm just thankful I'm living at this point :v:

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iwentdoodie
Apr 29, 2005

🤗YOU'RE WELCOME🤗
Edit:^^^pretty much. My wife knows something is wrong because I literally can't move or ignore it any more.

Enourmo posted:



e: when will i accept that everyone here hates me and wants to see me perma'd

I've said literally nothing but good things about you, you loving egg.

Elmnt80
Dec 30, 2012


Do I get to complain about my neighbor calling me at work (as in on the phones at work, not a cell phone that she has the number to) while I was dealing with customers to complain that the poor condition of my yard is the reason her house isn't selling? And demanded that I either come home right then and do gardening or pay someone to do it for me. :v:

Now I'm trying to decide I should decide if I should spite her by going full redneck and parking a rusted out late 80's firebird on cinder blocks in the front yard that "I'll totally get around to restoring!!!!" or just ignore her and watch her eventual meltdown.

F1DriverQuidenBerg
Jan 19, 2014

leica posted:

Pretty much. My wife has to pull it out of me when i feel like poo poo because i honestly think no one wants to hear about my health issues. I don't complain about anything anymore and I'm just thankful I'm living at this point :v:

I still end up doing it once in a while but end up wondering why the gently caress I got so worked up afterwards and yeah things have gone so much better for me by just not bitching.

I got a far better bonus and performance review compared to the year before and the only thing I've changed other than not bitching as much was working at home on Fridays where I usually just nap on the couch with my laptop open and send the occasional email I saved as a draft earlier in the week so it looks like I'm hard at work.

Super Aggro Crag
Apr 23, 2008




And, of course as always, kill Hitler.


Elmnt80 posted:

Do I get to complain about my neighbor calling me at work (as in on the phones at work, not a cell phone that she has the number to) while I was dealing with customers to complain that the poor condition of my yard is the reason her house isn't selling? And demanded that I either come home right then and do gardening or pay someone to do it for me. :v:

Now I'm trying to decide I should decide if I should spite her by going full redneck and parking a rusted out late 80's firebird on cinder blocks in the front yard that "I'll totally get around to restoring!!!!" or just ignore her and watch her eventual meltdown.

I vote full redneck.

clam ache
Sep 6, 2009

Elmnt80 posted:

Do I get to complain about my neighbor calling me at work (as in on the phones at work, not a cell phone that she has the number to) while I was dealing with customers to complain that the poor condition of my yard is the reason her house isn't selling? And demanded that I either come home right then and do gardening or pay someone to do it for me. :v:

Now I'm trying to decide I should decide if I should spite her by going full redneck and parking a rusted out late 80's firebird on cinder blocks in the front yard that "I'll totally get around to restoring!!!!" or just ignore her and watch her eventual meltdown.

Go ultimate trailer trash but only leave a wheel off so it looks like it's always being worked on.

F1DriverQuidenBerg
Jan 19, 2014

Find out where she works, phone her up, and tell her to gently caress off.

Cage
Jul 17, 2003
www.revivethedrive.org

iwentdoodie posted:

you loving egg.

I love this.

Previa_fun
Nov 10, 2004

The company I work has been getting new cars in two weeks for the past couple of months. Initially rumors were they were going to be Jeep Renegades or maybe Chevrolet Captivas but somehow we all got disappointed when a brand new Chevrolet Trax showed up in the parking lot. I got to drive one today.

Trip report:
+Nice big tacho and digital speed readout, a la Sonic. Looks cool. Easy to read.
+1.4 turbo 4 seems to pull nicely. It's not fast but the power delivery is well suited to this vehicle.
+Transmission is pretty good! It has a legit manual mode that will shift quickly and hold gears.

-Somehow a brand new compact crossover with 70 series tires rides like poo poo.
-Handling is not confidence inspiring. The vehicle feels top-heavy and there is little feedback from the road.
-No cruise control.

My daily work steed is a fleet spec Focus and it felt like a race car around corners after driving the Trax.

Adiabatic
Nov 18, 2007

What have you assholes done now?
All I'm gonna say is people operate at the level of drama they comfortable with and it slowly increases until:

A. They realize it and open the PRV
B. poo poo gets real

Make your inevitable choice, bro.

Adiabatic
Nov 18, 2007

What have you assholes done now?
Oh also I just popped my valve so thanks Enourmo I'm gonna go do all this poo poo now.

Fender Anarchist
May 20, 2009

Fender Anarchist

iwentdoodie posted:


I've said literally nothing but good things about you, you loving egg.

Sorry between goons, the sort of friends I had growing up, and my whole dad's side if the family I'm used to kindness being a front for petty sniping or outright hatred so my sincerity detections perma hosed

Fender Anarchist
May 20, 2009

Fender Anarchist

Adiabatic posted:

Oh also I just popped my valve so thanks Enourmo I'm gonna go do all this poo poo now.

My bad for being a source of stress

Slavvy
Dec 11, 2012

rowebot44 posted:

It's a 250 in a 1970 Nova.

Oh so another terrible GM I6 :v:

Adiabatic posted:

All I'm gonna say is people operate at the level of drama they comfortable with and it slowly increases until:

A. They realize it and open the PRV
B. poo poo gets real

Make your inevitable choice, bro.

Holy poo poo is this a profound truth or what. I've always known this but I've never been able to or seen it articulated properly.

Fender Anarchist
May 20, 2009

Fender Anarchist

Re: releasing pressure what do you think all this poo poo I've been posting today is

Adiabatic
Nov 18, 2007

What have you assholes done now?

Slavvy posted:

Holy poo poo is this a profound truth or what. I've always known this but I've never been able to or seen it articulated properly.

Mindfulness meditation and Zen Buddhism is a conscious effort to propagate Option A.

Super Aggro Crag
Apr 23, 2008




And, of course as always, kill Hitler.


Craving chocolate like I am on my period.

Adiabatic
Nov 18, 2007

What have you assholes done now?

Enourmo posted:

Re: releasing pressure what do you think all this poo poo I've been posting today is

Naw, you're farting out little peeps of pressure that come out like whines but you're too comfortable with the pressure to let it all go. Just open the drat thing.

Fender Anarchist
May 20, 2009

Fender Anarchist

Adiabatic posted:

Naw, you're farting out little peeps of pressure that come out like whines but you're too comfortable with the pressure to let it all go. Just open the drat thing.

The last time I tried to really let go my mom freaked and cried and made me stop before I even really got any catharsis out of it, and made me apologize

I was raised all stuff upper lip and don't let people get to you meaning I never learned how to properly clear all that poo poo out and my "valve" is basically welded shut

Slavvy
Dec 11, 2012

You know who actually wants to hear your poo poo? A therapist who gets paid money to sit there and listen to you unload.

Fender Anarchist
May 20, 2009

Fender Anarchist

Slavvy posted:

You know who actually wants to hear your poo poo? A therapist who gets paid money to sit there and listen to you unload.

Fine gently caress it bye

Mat_Drinks
Nov 18, 2002

mmm this nitromethane gets my supercharger runnin'

Elmnt80 posted:

Do I get to complain about my neighbor calling me at work (as in on the phones at work, not a cell phone that she has the number to) while I was dealing with customers to complain that the poor condition of my yard is the reason her house isn't selling? And demanded that I either come home right then and do gardening or pay someone to do it for me. :v:

Now I'm trying to decide I should decide if I should spite her by going full redneck and parking a rusted out late 80's firebird on cinder blocks in the front yard that "I'll totally get around to restoring!!!!" or just ignore her and watch her eventual meltdown.

In a similar situation I would be physically unable to not seriously gently caress with the neighbor.

If you PM me your address I'll amazon prime you a pink flamingo :3:. In fact, start a new thread where we mail you crazy poo poo to put in your yard, then take pictures of us and tell us about the reaction it gets! :haw:

Adiabatic
Nov 18, 2007

What have you assholes done now?

Enourmo posted:

The last time I tried to really let go my mom freaked and cried and made me stop before I even really got any catharsis out of it, and made me apologize

I was raised all stuff upper lip and don't let people get to you meaning I never learned how to properly clear all that poo poo out and my "valve" is basically welded shut

Here's our interaction:

Me: Do this
You: [excuse]
Me: No but really, do this
You: [excuse]

Now realize every interaction you've had in this thread has been like this.

Your excuses are not holding you back. The pattern of thoughts that bring you to make them is holding you back. Break the cycle.

First step: Go see someone that is specifically trained in helping you break the cycle.

BigFuzzyJesus
Dec 4, 2007
Now with more Jesus
^^he's right.

Has anyone in here ever replaced the steering box on a GMT400?

Super Aggro Crag
Apr 23, 2008




And, of course as always, kill Hitler.


At least I listened to you guys and put down the bong. :colbert:

Slavvy
Dec 11, 2012

Enourmo posted:

Fine gently caress it bye

The one time I really wasn't trying to be a dick.* :sigh: Hope he didn't kill himself.

*:well aside from that time I said oval office a bunch of times.

Adiabatic posted:

First step: Go see someone that is specifically trained in helping you break the cycle.

But what is this mysterious and miraculous profession called?!?!

Super Aggro Crag posted:

At least I listened to you guys and put down the bong. :colbert:

Wish I could do this (and commit) but my god the world is a loving terrible place and people are mostly just giant turds with legs and a speaker on the front I swear to god. I don't sit there dwelling on it but it grinds me to a nub during the day and 3.5 hours simply isn't enough to unwind all the stress without artifical means.

El Jebus
Jun 18, 2008

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Elmnt80 posted:

Do I get to complain about my neighbor calling me at work (as in on the phones at work, not a cell phone that she has the number to) while I was dealing with customers to complain that the poor condition of my yard is the reason her house isn't selling? And demanded that I either come home right then and do gardening or pay someone to do it for me. :v:

Now I'm trying to decide I should decide if I should spite her by going full redneck and parking a rusted out late 80's firebird on cinder blocks in the front yard that "I'll totally get around to restoring!!!!" or just ignore her and watch her eventual meltdown.

"I'm so sorry! It's just my lawnmower and trimmer both just broke, my mother had surgery and needed money to pay for it, and they just fired some people back at the shop so I'm barely making ends meet but even more busy than usual. If it means so much to you, perhaps you could be neighborly and pay someone to do the yard work for me? If money is tight, you could do the work yourself!"

And then pull up a lawn chair in your front lawn, put a flamingo next to you and the broken firebird, and drink BEER OF CHOICE ICE/LITE. While wearing jean shorts, a white 80s hair metal tshirt with the sleeves ripped off, aviators, and a trucker hat with a funny saying a la 30 Rock.

Kia Soul Enthusias
May 9, 2004

zoom-zoom
Toilet Rascal

Adiabatic posted:

All I'm gonna say is people operate at the level of drama they comfortable with and it slowly increases until:

A. They realize it and open the PRV
B. poo poo gets real

Make your inevitable choice, bro.

PRV? The lovely anemic V6?

Raluek
Nov 3, 2006

WUT.

CharlesM posted:

PRV? The lovely anemic V6?

Pressure Release Valve, presumably.

cakesmith handyman
Jul 22, 2007

Pip-Pip old chap! Last one in is a rotten egg what what.

I'm less than a mile from work, I've moved 0.4 miles in the last 45 minutes. I'm already late. When I find out who had a crash and caused this I'm going to tut in an emphatically British manner.

Splizwarf
Jun 15, 2007
It's like there's a soup can in front of me!

Slavvy posted:

But what is this mysterious and miraculous profession called?!?!

Prostitution.

Cakefool posted:

I'm less than a mile from work, I've moved 0.4 miles in the last 45 minutes. I'm already late. When I find out who had a crash and caused this I'm going to tut in an emphatically British manner.

:10bux: says it's a Fiero flock of geese.

CAT INTERCEPTOR
Nov 9, 2004

Basically a male Margaret Thatcher

Splizwarf posted:

Prostitution.


The man here is wise.

If it flies, fucks or floats, hire it by the hour.

spog
Aug 7, 2004

It's your own bloody fault.

Cakefool posted:

I'm less than a mile from work, I've moved 0.4 miles in the last 45 minutes. I'm already late. When I find out who had a crash and caused this I'm going to tut in an emphatically British manner.

I nearly missed a flight because an entire dual carriageway was shut down for 30 mins because the police thought they saw someone near it. 6 cars and a helicopter.


There wasn't anyone there.

literally a fish
Oct 2, 2014

German officer Johannes Bolter peeks out the hatch of his Tiger I heavy tank during a quiet moment before the Battle of Kursk - c:1943 (colorized)
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Splizwarf posted:

Prostitution.

there's a reason for that whole tumblr picture thing where they call therapists "feelings hookers"

Ether Frenzy
Dec 22, 2006




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randomidiot
May 12, 2006

by Fluffdaddy

(and can't post for 11 years!)

Holy mother of god, Quickbooks "support" is loving terrible.

They keep emailing me saying they're going to close my ticket because they haven't heard from me and because their "backend support" hasn't followed up. Which always results in the same reply from me - "are you loving kidding?". They keep saying that the error I'm encountering is "user actionable" and entirely my fault.

I've been trying to link a bank account for 6 weeks. Their product doesn't even ask for all of the details required by said bank to login to the account, but their product does give the correct URL to the bank's online banking. :fuckoff: It'd be one thing if they just shrugged and said they don't support that bank's online banking, but they keep trying to close my ticket over "user error" while claiming they do support that bank.

They alternate between promising that they're working "fervently" to resolve my issue (the only time I've ever seen that word used has been in bad eastern European porns) and "you're not entering the correct login info, too bad".

wallaka
Jun 8, 2010

Least it wasn't a fucking red shell

some texas redneck posted:

Holy mother of god, Quickbooks "support" is loving terrible.

They keep emailing me saying they're going to close my ticket because they haven't heard from me and because their "backend support" hasn't followed up. Which always results in the same reply from me - "are you loving kidding?". They keep saying that the error I'm encountering is "user actionable" and entirely my fault.

I've been trying to link a bank account for 6 weeks. Their product doesn't even ask for all of the details required by said bank to login to the account, but their product does give the correct URL to the bank's online banking. :fuckoff: It'd be one thing if they just shrugged and said they don't support that bank's online banking, but they keep trying to close my ticket over "user error" while claiming they do support that bank.

They alternate between promising that they're working "fervently" to resolve my issue (the only time I've ever seen that word used has been in bad eastern European porns) and "you're not entering the correct login info, too bad".

So you're telling me that Quickbooks still exists. Weird.

blk
Dec 19, 2009
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spog posted:

I nearly missed a flight because an entire dual carriageway was shut down for 30 mins because the police thought they saw someone near it. 6 cars and a helicopter.


There wasn't anyone there.

It might help if you took something faster than a carriage, like a car.

angryhampster
Oct 21, 2005

1500quidporsche posted:


2016 has loving rocked compared to 2015 for me and its been purely down to mindset.

Fuckin A. Gonna be a good year.

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cakesmith handyman
Jul 22, 2007

Pip-Pip old chap! Last one in is a rotten egg what what.

Splizwarf posted:

:10bux: says it's a Fiero flock of geese.

Someone walked into traffic about 2am. drat. It's never that bad is it? That walking in front of a truck is the solution?

Anyway, to cheer today up I've been called a lazy loving liar today, to my face. Because I won't embark on a quarter million pound safety modification with no proven benefit, no budget, no time in my plan and it's barely within my circle of responsibility. Requested by someone lower down the ladder than me. I'm expected to treat this person with dignity and respect when they treat me like that right to my face with their supervisor standing right there. I'm so loving angry.

To clarify they identified a problem with their standardised work and proposed I make massive changes to the machine. I kicked it back because it's unreasonable and suggested they look at other changes, examples included, my boss agrees, I provided some documents that prove its a much bigger job than they thought. The documents (ISO guarding standards and excerpts from the 700 page verified machine technical installation manual) are all lies, I'm lazy and don't want to do it, apparently.

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