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H.H posted:My wife died in late April at the age of 35 (cancer). We had two daughters, now 12 and 9 years old and trying to be strong for them and help them through it is becoming unbearable. None of us are handling it well but I have to pretend I am for them and also at work so I don't lose my job. My confession is that I think every day about sending the kids to their grandparents' place for a while so I can have a break from it all and deal with my own problems, but I feel like I'd be abandoning the kids when they need me most. On the other hand, I feel like I'm going to snap and go insane if I keep this up much longer. I'd never say it out loud because I love them very much, but sometimes I wish we never had children just because of how terrible it is watching them go through this at those ages while their inept father tries and fails to figure out how to help them. I think it is pretty normal that you are "burnt out" by having to be strong for your daughters every day. It messes with the natural stages of grieving, which means you don't get to cope with it as you should. Have you considered asking one/both of the grandparents to come stay with you and help out for a while? If they can do it I am sure they would especially when you explain to them why you need their help. Or, if you can afford it and have the extra room, maybe get an au-pair?
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# ? Jun 14, 2016 13:59 |
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Kitchner posted:She just found it funny because she was pretty cool. I just hooked up with her once and then it became a regular thing, but I referred to her as a slump buster to one of my mates and he kept using it so I confessed to her before his fat mouth landed me in it by accident. She single?
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# ? Jun 14, 2016 17:02 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:She single? I wish.
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# ? Jun 14, 2016 17:07 |
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See, you hosed up son. Any girl that laughs or understands sports analogies is usually a keeper. Typically it means they have a good relationship with their father, which is a big deal.
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# ? Jun 14, 2016 18:22 |
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H.H posted:fat girl date This might seem like a weird place for me to say but it sounds like you need some bro Or at least find SOMEone you're not worried about judging you, get drunk, and just like unload your emotions on them. Talk their ear off. Find another fat ugly girl on a dating site and instead of trying to score just drop this giant feelings bomb on her (the "friend zone" offensive). Like, that you went on a date with this girl, that you attempted to have sex with her despite being apparently disgusted by her, that you didn't close the deal, and that you are depressed about all of the above seem to suggest that you have some self-esteem issues you should probably talk to someone about.
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# ? Jun 15, 2016 22:12 |
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loquacius posted:This might seem like a weird place for me to say but it sounds like you need some bro Bartenders are a good source of drunken therapy too. I've gotten some pretty decent advice from bartenders over the years. They're not usually your friends, they listen to drunk people for a living, and they see all sorts of poo poo. The poor man's therapist!
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# ? Jun 16, 2016 15:41 |
The main bartender I know loving hates that poo poo, and most of these places i end up in it's similar. Depends where you end up going i guess. I miss hanging out in "old man" bars
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# ? Jun 17, 2016 03:34 |
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I hope there's another confession soon... Here's a mini one right now. I've recently taken to saying the phrase "Get feebly beefy" out loud to myself. I LOVE the way that it sounds, but I really hate the message. Getting Beefy became a bit of a mantra for me, encouraging me (and others) to get strong...but all along, the birth of the phrase was all about the way that it sounded, not what what it actually means. I appreciate that feeble is kinda like the inverse of beef in both letters and theme, and 'feebly beefy' is so much fun to say, but it's not strong and powerful! it's a pissy poo poo thing to say. EDIT: Just found this: https://desustorage.org/r9k/thread/24810391/ lil pissbitch fucked around with this message at 05:42 on Jun 17, 2016 |
# ? Jun 17, 2016 05:20 |
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Hey H.H., have you asked the mods if you can bring this back to GBS? In sure they wouldn't care so long as you don't release really stupid confessions. Or ones about loving the owners pregnant wife.
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# ? Jun 17, 2016 12:37 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:Hey H.H., have you asked the mods if you can bring this back to GBS? In sure they wouldn't care so long as you don't release really stupid confessions. Or ones about loving the owners pregnant wife. Yeah do this please. I have more sins to confess. I think, or I've been drinking and feel important and powerful for no reason.
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# ? Jun 18, 2016 06:08 |
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quote:(For some reason Guerrillamail.com wasn't loading for me earlier so I tried a different anonymous mail client to send this...I'll send it again here in case you didn't receive it earlier.)
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# ? Jun 18, 2016 10:13 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:Hey H.H., have you asked the mods if you can bring this back to GBS? In sure they wouldn't care so long as you don't release really stupid confessions. Or ones about loving the owners pregnant wife. I just did. Hopefully it doesn't raise the ire of the powers that be and it will be moved soon.
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# ? Jun 18, 2016 10:29 |
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Excuse me, ma'am, but do you think that maybe you should just get ..reeeal beefy you lil queefer bitch? holy poo poo lol
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# ? Jun 18, 2016 23:01 |
"Excuse me, ma'am, but do you think that maybe you should just get ..reeeal beefy you lil queefer bitch?" Motherfuck if I saw this earlier than right now I would have lost my loving job, I wouldn't have been able to hold it back
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 01:02 |
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Kitchner posted:She just found it funny because she was pretty cool. I just hooked up with her once and then it became a regular thing, but I referred to her as a slump buster to one of my mates and he kept using it so I confessed to her before his fat mouth landed me in it by accident. Confession: Every girl I've ever slept with is in the top 4 girls I've ever slept with
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 04:25 |
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welcome back thread my guess is lowtax doesn't like these threads less because of cuck and more because some idiot is going to confess to being a serial killer or ISIS member and he's going to get a call from the fbi
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 15:00 |
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Pretty sure H.H. would be the one dealing with them since it was emailed to him.
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 16:03 |
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Drunk Nerds posted:Confession: Every girl I've ever slept with is in the top 4 girls I've ever slept with Don't worry, I've only got a top 3 because 3 were genuinely great and the others are all varying levels of OK
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 17:54 |
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need a gang tag for monkey hatred
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 18:34 |
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quote:I recognize that this is an extremely silly issue to have, but nonetheless:
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 18:39 |
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H.H posted:Ovipositors I'm sure the VR revolution will have you covered shortly.
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 22:22 |
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H.H posted:Ovipositiors Hey buddy, stay ovipositive.
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# ? Jun 19, 2016 22:48 |
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H.H posted:lil pissbitch As I understand it you have classic Tourette's, but IANA psychologist. If you feel this is interfering with your life, because they can absolutely treat that poo poo. Honestly though all I can think is that if you manage to make it to an upper management role you can make this your catchphrase. "Here's my proposal for the second quarter, Mr Pissbitch" "You call this a marketing plan? Get beefy, bitch!" *pounds desk w fist* "Er well I've also been kicking around plans for a radio campaign..." "RADIO? I don't think you heard me correctly. *grabs dude by his tie* Get... REAL beefy... you little loving queefer bitch." "Yessir, I'll have a new plan for you first thing in the morning." "Well, Mr CFO, I guess we COULD scale back our projected earnings at the shareholder meeting, but you know what I think? *leans forward at table conspiratorially* I think it's time... to get beefy, bitch." "Ho ho, I like your style, Pissbitch! Promotions all around!" H.H posted:spider fetish dude There's a community on Tumblr that would be extremely supportive of this, unlike me who will just say your wife is a saint Seriously god bless that woman for knowing you have a fetish like this and not only understanding but being willing to indulge you with it. I say surprise her with flowers, take her out to a nice dinner, then take her home, open a bottle of wine, light some candles, and give ovipositor dildo night a shot. Maybe you'll like it, and she'll feel good and appreciated for helping you. "BUZZ CLICK I AM A SPIDER" "Oh no, spider person, please don't ovipositor me" "BUZZ CLICK SPIDER NOISE"
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# ? Jun 20, 2016 16:03 |
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My not anonymous confession is I hate your new av loquacious.
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# ? Jun 20, 2016 17:29 |
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*Steve Urkel bursts through the Winslow family's door* "Geeeeet beefy, bitch!" *audience whoops and hollers for ten seconds straight* *later something bad happens to Carl* "Get REAL beefy, bitch!" *audience just loving loses it cheering and laughing* Solice Kirsk posted:My not anonymous confession is I hate your new av loquacious. this makes me the saddest boy of all
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# ? Jun 20, 2016 17:49 |
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We're all waiting for robot bodies, Spiderman.H.H posted:the woman grows to love her monster babies and raises them.
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# ? Jun 21, 2016 05:50 |
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Ovipositorgoon should read Saga, there's a smokin' spider babe in that
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# ? Jun 21, 2016 07:10 |
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Drider-man, Drider-man Does whatever a Drider can Needs a mate, to ovipositate Good luck, Mr. Drider-man
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# ? Jun 21, 2016 08:01 |
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Hedrigall posted:Ovipositorgoon should read Saga, there's a smokin' spider babe in that She got them titties out an errrything
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# ? Jun 24, 2016 17:38 |
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I don't remember even posting anything in the last thread.. Either way, here's a non-anonymous confession: Earlier this week I was celebrating my birthday at a house owned by some family I don't know that my friend and his wife were looking after while they were out of town. Early on after I arrived my friend and I both had a couple shots of bourbon then we got into bathing shorts and hopped in the pool and proceeded to shoot each other w/ water cannon guns that the parent's kids owned. After a glorious victory on my part in the water gun war, I got out of the pool and let my friend know I was going upstairs to take a piss. When I got upstairs, I went into the a pitch black room that I thought was the bathroom, but it wasnt... it was really the staircase that leads downstairs to the walkout basement. I tried to find the light swtich but instead tumbled down the stairs. brusied my left-side pretty badly (especially my rear end) and hit my head once. I let my friend know and we waited to make sure I didn't have a concussion. When it turned out I didn't, we drank more. The end. True strory.
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# ? Jun 25, 2016 03:49 |
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Why the gently caress did I just read that?
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# ? Jun 25, 2016 04:42 |
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fordham posted:Why the gently caress did I just read that? Too much self loathing?
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# ? Jun 25, 2016 13:53 |
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Here's a confession I was asked to post in another thread (http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?noseen=0&threadid=3762804&perpage=40&pagenumber=43#post461442504):quote:Sears comes up a lot for good reason, and I work for their network provider. We just got the word from on high yesterday that, due to over 2 million Dollars in unpaid bills, we're putting a complete freeze on any and all work for them. Any pending orders for new service (yes, somehow Sears is still trying to open new stores in 2016) are being put on hold or cancelled outright, and any existing sites are having their monitoring disabled with any pending repair work also being cancelled. Any and all questions, comments or complaints are being referred back to Sears corporate. H.H fucked around with this message at 22:47 on Jun 25, 2016 |
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H.H posted:Here's a confession I was asked to post in another thread (http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?noseen=0&threadid=3762804&perpage=40&pagenumber=43#post461442504): SELL SELL SELL SELL
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# ? Jun 27, 2016 07:32 |
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get beefy bitch
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# ? Jun 28, 2016 13:47 |
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quote:All my friends know me as a fun guy that is always up for doing stuff, going out and entertaining people. I always invite people over to my house every weekend after we've been out to a bar or whatever and I keep a huge stock of booze in and everybody has a great time. People bring their own quite often too so I know it's not like I'm just being taken advantage of - I earn more than most of my friends so I don't really care about that anyway, I just like it when people have a good time. And everyone is always like "oh that was loads of fun last week, same again on Saturday?". Truth is I'm a miserable sack of poo poo and I can rarely wait until it's like 3am and everybody has hosed off so I can drink in peace until I pass out. I just feel like if I'm not making other people happy then there is literally no point to my existence.
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# ? Jun 28, 2016 17:06 |
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H.H posted:Host with the most Start going to other people's places after drinking. Just tell everyone that you're a little sick of your place. Or just stay in and drink by yourself once or twice a month. There's nothing wrong with drinking in solitary so long as it's not a crutch for something else. I like drinking by myself and writing music for instance. Or even just getting drunk and playing a video game. Getting away from people is good sometimes.
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# ? Jun 28, 2016 20:51 |
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Drink alone you'll be happier
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# ? Jun 28, 2016 22:19 |
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LethalGeek posted:Drink alone you'll be happier Life TruthTM
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