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Gaunab
Feb 13, 2012
LUFTHANSA YOU FUCKING DICKWEASEL

Sentient Data posted:

My grandpa (79) started hitting on me (27M) after I came out to him as gay. The problem is I'm actually straight, how do I let him down gently?

Suck his dick fuckman

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stump collector
May 28, 2007
My grandpa obviously has alzheimers, help reddit

Thursday Next
Jan 11, 2004

FUCK THE ISLE OF APPLES. FUCK THEM IN THEIR STUPID ASSES.

Professor Shark posted:

Can someone clarify whatever ArbC was trying to say there?

no dont

Professor Shark
May 22, 2012


Jesus Christ I asked that like yesterday late-o, more like Thursday LAST

vyst
Aug 25, 2009



I didn't even know ephebophile was a real thing. I'm glad I have normal sexual tendencies

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

vyst posted:

I didn't even know ephebophile was a real thing. I'm glad I have normal sexual tendencies

you put that into google and now you're on a list

it's okay all GBS posters are probably on a list anyway

Professor Shark
May 22, 2012

After this thread I think we're all on lists

George H.W. Cunt
Oct 6, 2010





Nazzadan posted:

Alright, searching Nazi is the new hotness.

My [26M] with my girlfriend [25F] and her weird Nazi fetish. She wants me to dress up like an SS officer during sex.Relationships


"I'm too much of a pussy to tell my girlfriend I won't blitzkrieg her from behind, I think I might dump her instead"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jr9Kaa1sycs

Bin Laden play is the new hotness

Yorkshire Pudding
Nov 24, 2006



I always have to assume most of these people have deeply flawed relationships but can't see it because they're too close. All these "We've been dating for 6 years and I just found out he's actually a heroin user" just make me think these people are blind as hell. How do you get married to someone and not know basically everything about them?

kalel
Jun 19, 2012

"ephebophile" is a word hollywood came up with to distinguish themselves from regular old toddler molestors

ziasquinn
Jan 1, 2006

Fallen Rib

Tequila Sunrise posted:

I always have to assume most of these people have deeply flawed relationships but can't see it because they're too close. All these "We've been dating for 6 years and I just found out he's actually a heroin user" just make me think these people are blind as hell. How do you get married to someone and not know basically everything about them?

Seriously. It's fine if people wanna shack up within weeks of dating but know your devil, mother fucker.

corn on the cop
Oct 12, 2012

Break what must be broken, once for all, that's all, and take the suffering on oneself.

― Corey Dostoyevsky

Tequila Sunrise posted:

I always have to assume most of these people have deeply flawed relationships but can't see it because they're too close. All these "We've been dating for 6 years and I just found out he's actually a heroin user" just make me think these people are blind as hell. How do you get married to someone and not know basically everything about them?


speaking of deeply flawed relationships

quote:

Update: My (27F) husband (26M), married 7 years, together 9, "flirted" with a girl (19F) and got rejected.

TL;DR of my last post: my husband tried to hook up with a younger girl after I had to leave our vacation early to care for our sick daughter (1F). She rejected him and he called me upset about the fact that he basically ruined our relationship.

After he got home we talked a lot. I made him tell me the story over and over, start to finish, forwards and backwards, middle, etc to make sure he wasn't lying about anything. I got some more details from him about how it went down, so I will summarize for you now:

He was in the wash house living area watching a movie with our son (6M). Two girls came in and went into separate bathrooms for showers. The girl in question left the shower and went back to her cabin or where ever. During this time he started fantasizing about her and decided to remove his wedding ring (he previously allowed me to believe he had it on by not telling me otherwise when I said something like "you had your ring on and our son was there while you did all this, how did you ever think it would work?") The other girl finished her shower and came out. He was not attracted to this girl but he asked her "Are you guys over 18 (super loving creepy question, I pointed out multiple times)? She said "I'm not, but my friend is."

A few minutes the other girl came back alone. He asked her if she wanted to talk outside and so they stepped outside of the wash house (so this conversation wasn't right in front of our son like I had originally thought). While stuttering and stammering because he was apparently very nervous, he told her he thought she was very attractive (exact quote apparently, no idea why this didn't go well for him) and she said "That's a new one." He asked her if she worked at the camp and some other small talk I didn't memorize the details of, like are you single etc., (She never asked him his age or relationship status) then he said "I have never done this before but I am going back to (our state) in a couple of days and I wanted to know if you would be interested in anything casual?" She said she was flattered but not interested and then left. After that, like I said before, he went into the bathroom and masturbated, and then called me crying.

There were some things I left out of my original post because I wasn't sure if they were relevant but now I know they are. My husband has a history of a porn addiction which I had previously thought was resolved. When we first moved in together it became a problem because he was masturbating with porn all day and never wanted sex. We talked about it and he dialed it back and things were good for about a year until I was pregnant with our son, when he picked it back up all the time and our sex life stopped again. Again we talked about it and he tried nofap and stopping porn completely, which helped for a while but we also had a new baby and I was in college and he was working full time so I didn't really notice as he slowly moved back to his old habits.

5 years later when I was pregnant with our daughter I found out he was completely back to masturbating to porn throughout the day and pretty much never wanting sex from me. At that point I was like clearly porn is more important to you than this family so if you can't stop, we are done. He promised he would stop and honestly things hadn't been that bad but we also had a new baby and both working full time so I didn't have a ton of time to notice he was slipping again.

During our conversations about this event he admitted to me that he was back to using porn constantly and that he was pretty sure not having any phone service therefore no access to porn was the reason he hosed up. He tried blaming me a few times for stuff like not keeping our sex life interesting enough or getting into the shape he'd like after our daughter was born or whatever but it was all bullshit. I have had so many conversations with him about his sexual preferences and what he wants from me to spice things up but he always said nothing because he was happy with his porn.

He has been to a therapist who specializes in sex issues once so far (He will have weekly appointments from now on) and she told him she is pretty confident he has a sex/porn addiction. He also has a history of being sexually abused (raped by a stepfather and introduced to porn at a very young age by his dad) which he needs to work through, I'm sure that is contributing. He has opened up to me about some of his desires and we are working on getting healthier together and trying some new things in the bedroom.

I'm still not really sure if I am ever going to be okay with us again after all of this. I don't trust him at all which is extremely difficult to live with. We will go to couples counseling after he has had individual for a while and then go from there. Divorce is not off the table for me and he knows that and that isn't what he wants so hopefully he will keep working on himself.

I'm sure this update seems disorganized but that is how my brain feels when it comes to this relationship. I love him so much and I want to help him through his stuff but at the same time I want to leave so I can possibly find a healthy relationship while I'm still relatively young. The only thing really keeping me here is our kids, because I know he needs to be healthy for them either way.

TL;DR my husband and his therapist believe this is a result of a sex/porn addiction. Is it worth it for me to stay while he tries to overcome?

CubanMissile
Apr 22, 2003

Of Hulks and Spider-Men
Marriage is hard because you're supposed to support people through thick and thin, but that dude is never going to get better.

im cute
Sep 21, 2009

Poonerman posted:

speaking of deeply flawed relationships

i saw the title in the latest posts list but didn't open it or post it here because "nah, too obvious." glad you did, though because lol

Stunt_enby
Feb 6, 2010

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS

CharlestonJew posted:

I remember reading the opposite story a while back, where the girlfriend had a fetish for murdering nazis

Like she'd dress up as a nazi and have her boyfriend "kill" her during sex and thats what got her rocks off
i think this is the only acceptable way to have a nazi fetish

Nissin Cup Nudist
Sep 3, 2011

Sleep with one eye open

We're off to Gritty Gritty land




the moral from all these stories is don't get married

Barudak
May 7, 2007

CharlestonJew posted:

I remember reading the opposite story a while back, where the girlfriend had a fetish for murdering nazis

Like she'd dress up as a nazi and have her boyfriend "kill" her during sex and thats what got her rocks off

Man some people have all the luck.

Larry Parrish
Jul 9, 2012

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
Lmfao at the California girl upset that she keeps running into homophobic/racist people. Doesn't she get that what's racist by California's standards is mildly rude by most other countries standards. It's OK that some dude says he doesn't trust Mexican day labor to work on his roof or he's tired of gay dudes hitting on him.

resting bort face
Jun 2, 2000

by Fluffdaddy

Bonzo posted:

wait for it....




wait for it....

What girl do we think this is?

I bet it's Hazel

Lutha Mahtin
Oct 10, 2010

Your brokebrain sin is absolved...go and shitpost no more!

CharlestonJew posted:

Like she'd dress up as a nazi and have her boyfriend "kill" her during sex and thats what got her rocks off

Today I Learned that there are some fetishes I wouldn't be able to help a partner with, because there is no way I could keep a straight face during it.

vyst
Aug 25, 2009



Lutha Mahtin posted:

Today I Learned that there are some fetishes I wouldn't be able to help a partner with, because there is no way I could keep a straight face during it.

You just don't understand love

Cthulu Carl
Apr 16, 2006

Lutha Mahtin posted:

Today I Learned that there are some fetishes I wouldn't be able to help a partner with, because there is no way I could keep a straight face during it.

Just say your kink is laughing uncontrollably while indulging other's in their kinks. Bam, now if they're offended THEY'RE the rear end in a top hat.

Gaunab
Feb 13, 2012
LUFTHANSA YOU FUCKING DICKWEASEL
Me [28 M] with my coworker [35 M], making sexual, racist jokes about my wife

quote:

Throwaway because wife reddits

I've been at the company i work for about 3 years now and everything's been fine until 2 months ago. My dept was merged with another and now I'm working with a guy called 'Todd'. The first few weeks were cool and I got to know him. Seemed like a decent guy. Then some weird poo poo started happening. We work out of a small field office so more often than not, there's only 4 people there at any given time, so it's pretty laid back. Lots of sports talk, ribbing etc. I'm fine with all of that, but Todd finds a way to make EVERYTHING sexual. It's always 'lets take off early and go gently caress some waitress!' or 'CelebrityX is so hot, id gently caress her til she squealed.'

I'm obviously not gonna post his pic, but imagine a cross between the O face guy from Office Space and Andy from the Office tv show. I just figured he was douchey but harmless. But the ribbing started crossing the line. He knows I'm married, so he's started making comments about our sex life i.e. 'going home to slam the missus?', 'running late? had to get that morning mattress workout in eh?' Whatever. Then I realize he's saying poo poo like this EVERY day. And it gets worse. A few weeks ago it turned into little scenarios about her cheating on me... 'I wonder what your wife gets up to when you're not home?' (she works fyi). And now, for the past week, it's turned racist. When we're alone in the office, he leans in and says poo poo like... "oh god, what would you do if you went home TONIGHT and found some friend of the family loving your wife. What would you do??"

I was stunned. We're both white guys. He's said a few hosed up things generally about Muslims and Mexicans lately but he's a big Trump supporter (literally everything is 'cant stump the Trump!' i.e. 'did you get that work order taken care of?' 'yup! can't stump the Trump!') so I've ignored it. I've just been deflecting it with other jokes like 'I'd tell your wife to take off the wig and get out.' When he's saying these things, he's not picking a fight, he's got some poo poo eating grin on his face the whole time. And when I said that back to him he cracked up.

After 3 days of this though I got fed up. My wife and I are a mixed couple, so I said 'can you cool it? It's not funny anymore and my wife is black.' In my experience, racists usually stfu when a face is put on the people they're insulting. Well, that just made things worse. Now since Wednesday it's been stuff like

'do you think about all her exes loving her? With those big friend of the family dicks just RIPPING her apart??'

'gently caress, imagine how hard she choked on their black cocks.'

'I bet she goes back to the ghetto to get her some when you're asleep' (my wife's family is probably better off than mine were btw and lived in a nice area)

I told him to leave it alone, but its as if me being annoyed by it is only making it funnier for him. I left early on Friday just to cool off. I'm a big guy (6'5, 260) but I HATE confrontation. I prefer to walk away from a fight than agitate one. When I was in college I got jumped with some friends and I ended up putting 2 of the guys in hospital. It doesn't matter who starts it, I don't wanna feel like that again unless it's self defense for my families lives. And I really don't want to hit this guy because I'd kill him.

I obviously haven't brought this up with my wife, she'd be mortified. And now the clock's ticking. The company are doing a Cinco de Mayo thing where all the families are invited and the idea of him leering at my wife after saying all that poo poo makes me feel sick.

Should I let this ride out and expect he'll move on to something else or do I need to contact HR? Here are my concerns...

He only does it when we're in the office by ourselves, so no witnesses
He's worked for the company for over a decade.
I've said some jokes back to him (though nowhere NEAR as bad), so he can turn it into a 'we were both messing around' thing
I would want to speak to them in person, but the HR is an hour away by car
How the gently caress do I even write this poo poo in an email?
I've never had to go to HR for anything in my life

And as silly as it sounds, I don't like the idea of getting the guy fired. He has a wife and three kids that depend on that paycheck but I'm at my wits end with this. It's Sunday night and for the first time in this job I'm actually irritated that I have to go to work tomorrow.

tl;dr: Coworker making sexual, racist jokes about my wife and won't stop. Why is he so obsessed with race and cheating? Should I go to HR about this?

UPDATE: Todd didn't show for work today because apparently he was too drunk to make it home from Wrestlemania. I've had the office to myself for most of the morning, so I've been taking in the great suggestions. I also spent about an hour on the phone with my older brother. I basically told him everything. He considers my wife to be the best thing that ever happened to me, so to say he was livid is an understatement.

He and you guys opened my eyes to how bad this really is. I thought I could talk my way out of this, but I can't see a future working with Todd. The time for talking has passed, I've told him multiple times to stop over the past few weeks and he hasn't. I need to compile a list of everything that's happened so far and then go to HR. I've made an appointment and booked off Thursday to drive up.

As an aside, my brother thinks him being a Trump supporter has more to do with this than I knew. Apparently there's some weird thing some of them have with black men trying to sleep with their wives. It's called 'cucking' and he says you see it a lot on social media. Is Todd's wife doing that to him? Is that why he's obsessed with it? Either way, it's not my problem anymore. He can have that conversation with HR.


My [21 F] autistic roommate[19 F] makes racist comments/remarks towards me.

quote:

My roommate has Autism so social interactions are difficult for her. Yes, she feels empathy and sympathy. Yes, she is aware that when she does something wrong, it is wrong. She told me she was autistic when we first met and I didn't care.

She has been saying horrible racist things towards me about myself, my family, and other people who aren't white. At first I thought maybe she didn't know better, but she explained that she did and what she was saying was true.

I've asked some people for advice, and was told to pity her because she is the victim due to her autism and doesn't know any better. So I decided to explain to her in depth why her comments were offensive/hurtful towards me and others. She simply brushed it off as too much effort/work.

I don't know if I should grin and bear it because her autism or do something about it. If so, what do I do?

I don't believe I can change roommates or leave her because she has grown attached to me and I "help her socialize/make her better" (as she tells me).

tl;dr: Autistic roommate says racist untrue things to/about me and will not stop. I cannot leave her because I "make her better". What should I do?

My [33F] boyfriend [30M] of 3 months used the N-Word and thinks it's ok

quote:

Last night I we were talking about the class he is taking (he is going back to school) and apparently he finds the communication style of some of his classmates frustrating. He said, "I don't know how to say this without sounding racist, but, I just can't stand the (n-word)-speak in this class." And I was taken a bit aback and said, "Yes that does sound racist." And he said "Well what would you call it?" and I said, "Anything but that word. Like, black urban dialect, or something" And then he goes on about how doesn't get how black people can say that word, but he (as a white person) cannot. He also said that the word 'cracker' is offensive but he doesn't get upset when he sees a box of crackers at the store, and then I said that was comparing apples to oranges. He didn't want to talk about it anymore as he had to finish a term paper, so I hopped into the shower and tried to wrap my head around it all.

Overall I'm feeling very disappointed in him, I thought he was better then that. I just feel so unsettled and am wondering what else lies beneath the surface that I just haven't seen yet? Is he hiding more? Or is this just willful ignorance? He has black friends, he is a very kind and patient man. He said he's talked with people for hours about it before but still doesn't see why he can't just say it. I just don't know how to deal with this.

tl;dr Boyfriend said n-word and doesn't know why black people can say it but he cannot. I don't know how/if I can accept this or what to do about it.

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008
Probation
Can't post for 2 hours!

Gaunab posted:

quote:

It's called 'I REALLY SUCK AT POSTING' and he says you see it a lot on social media.

word filter on point

Khorne
May 1, 2002
Now I'm working with a guy called 'Todd'

quote:

My [33F] boyfriend [30M] of 3 months used the N-Word and thinks it's ok
Meets prejudiced remarks by telling him to use different prejudiced remarks.

I had to double check the ages because if it were [16f] [15m] it'd make more sense.

Khorne fucked around with this message at 04:53 on Jul 28, 2016

corn on the cop
Oct 12, 2012

Break what must be broken, once for all, that's all, and take the suffering on oneself.

― Corey Dostoyevsky
Two days ago my [38F] divorce became final, after 18 years of marriage. He had a secret family, a woman he met the day after he met me and some children and a house for them. Not sure how to cope or how I feel

quote:

So I apologize in advance if this is really long and rambling and all over the place. Even though my divorce is final and it’s all over, I still feel like a bit of a jumbled mess and I’m not sure exactly how I feel, if that makes any sense.

Two days ago my [38F] became final. My ex-husband [38M] and I were married for exactly 18 years and together for exactly 20 years. We first met and had our first date on July 25, 1996. He proposed a year later and a year after that on July 25, 1998 we got married. I don’t know if it’s a trick or something that’s meant to be funny, but our divorce became final on Monday (July 25, 2016). I filed on our anniversary last year and I had left him on our anniversary the year before that. Everything broke two years ago. On our 16th wedding anniversary I found out that he had a secret family. He had a girlfriend [38F] and they had 3 children ranging in age from 15 to six at that time, and she was pregnant again when I found out. She also has now had their fifth child, earlier this year. He told me he didn't want children ever.

He met her the day after he met me but he still pursued me and asked me to marry him even though he kept her on the side. She was pregnant for the first time at the time of our wedding. She also knew he was marrying me and didn’t care. During our honeymoon and many of our vacations over the years she was staying at the same place and he would secretly go see her. He bought her a house and everything. No one knew about his secret life, the kids and her family and friends thought he was away for work a lot and his family and friends didn’t know anything. He told me the same thing about being away for work but really he was spending time with her. I found out by accident and he even lied at first. I went to stay with my cousin that day because I was so upset and I never went back. It took me a year to work up the courage to file for divorce and stop being so stupid. We are divorced now. She had told her family they eloped together all those years ago, but that was a lie because he was already legally married to me.

So the divorce is final now. He doesn’t have my phone number or email address and doesn’t know where I live or work. Legally everything is taken care of and I have no reason to ever see or talk to him or have anything to do with him again. It’s over and I thought I would feel relief but I don’t. I don’t even know how I feel. He tried to make me the bad guy because I got the house he bought his girlfriend in the divorce (because he used money I made at my job to pay for well over 50% of the mortgage payments and down payment) and she and the kids had to move out and he also got evicted from our apartment because he couldn’t afford the payments without me. It probably sounds terrible but I don’t even care. The house has already been sold and I’m still living with my cousin. I feel like an idiot for not seeing through his lies for almost 20 years. I can’t believe I didn’t know. His act was so good, I thought he was the best husband and would have never suspected him of cheating. I don’t know what to do now and after two years of anger I’m numb instead. If anyone who has gotten divorced, especially anyone who was cheated on, I would love to hear your experience and how you dealt with it.

tl;dr Divorce became final two days ago after 18 years of marriage and 20 years together. He had a secret family. There was a woman he met the day after he met me and he bought her a house and they have children (now 5 in total). I found out accidently and never saw it coming. Now that the divorce is final I’m numb and not sure what I feel.

Gaunab
Feb 13, 2012
LUFTHANSA YOU FUCKING DICKWEASEL
Having a second family is truly impressive. I didn't think it could be done in modern times.

literally a fish
Oct 2, 2014

German officer Johannes Bolter peeks out the hatch of his Tiger I heavy tank during a quiet moment before the Battle of Kursk - c:1943 (colorized)
Slippery Tilde
That's pretty hosed up if true.

Yorkshire Pudding
Nov 24, 2006



Gaunab posted:

Having a second family is truly impressive. I didn't think it could be done in modern times.

Again, that's one of those things that makes me say "How in the hell do these people have so little knowledge or understanding of each other?". Even just sleeping around outside your relationship is such an immense task to keep quiet with the huge amount of social media, GPS, electronic receipts for everything you buy, internet chat history, and everything else that makes having a hidden personal life difficult. How the hell can a person be able to successfully keep two entire families of people in the dark for nearly two decades. Either this dude is James Bond levels of cunning, or the person writing this is just willfully ignorant.

Like how in the gently caress can this dude afford to support a wife while he also is supporting 4 kids and buying a house for his second family? How the gently caress would you not notice something like that?

"Honey, I've noticed that despite you making $250,000 a year we still only manage to save about a thousand dollars a month after bills. Where is the $15,000 you get every month going?"
"Uhhh, Steam sales."
"Oh, Okay!"

darkhand
Jan 18, 2010

This beard just won't do!
who would even want to pay for 2 families

Larry Parrish
Jul 9, 2012

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
It reads like one of those stories about your great-great-granddad Peter who worked on the railroads or whatever the gently caress and had a family in California and a family in New York and neither of them knew since he'd be gone for 6 months anyway

Yorkshire Pudding
Nov 24, 2006



I used to live in Mongolia and tons of people still traveled for work constantly, so it was pretty accepted that you had a home girlfriend and an on-the-road lady. I had a friend who was engaged to a Mongolian girl who lived like an hour away from him and every single person he told about her was like "Oh right, well you've got her, but what about here? Who's your girlfriend in this village?"

Centripetal Horse
Nov 22, 2009

Fuck money, get GBS

This could have bought you a half a tank of gas, lmfao -
Love, gromdul

Tequila Sunrise posted:

I used to live in Mongolia and tons of people still traveled for work constantly, so it was pretty accepted that you had a home girlfriend and an on-the-road lady. I had a friend who was engaged to a Mongolian girl who lived like an hour away from him and every single person he told about her was like "Oh right, well you've got her, but what about here? Who's your girlfriend in this village?"

This is an example of a bad thing, right? Sometimes my testosterone spikes, and things aren't so clear.

Xaris
Jul 25, 2006

Lucky there's a family guy
Lucky there's a man who positively can do
All the things that make us
Laugh and cry

Poonerman posted:

Two days ago my [38F] divorce became final, after 18 years of marriage. He had a secret family, a woman he met the day after he met me and some children and a house for them. Not sure how to cope or how I feel
:stonk:

That's pretty hosed up but I have to wonder what the gently caress is she doing not to notice the finances like that for so long (it'd be different if he had a separate bank account and his own high paying job to hide that), and also what the gently caress is going on through his second girlfriends head that it's ok for her "boyfriend" to be married to someone else and never being around much to raise their kids and poo poo like that for 18 years--like I could see that going on for maybe a couple years but wouldn't you want him to be around almost full time??

Nirvikalpa
Aug 20, 2012

by Fluffdaddy

WampaLord posted:

Continuing the theme of "Complete lack of respect for your partner" - Me [21F] with my boyfriend [20M], been together for 2 years. A few days ago he fell in love with a stranger. please help me


E: Bonus detail in the comments - they were both on ecstasy.

Ecstacy is great

a7m2
Jul 9, 2012


Gaunab posted:

Having a second family is truly impressive. I didn't think it could be done in modern times.

i know a guy who did it and after a couple of years his wife found out because his 4 year old son (not hers) answered the phone hahaha

she didnt divorce him

putin is a cunt
Apr 5, 2007

BOY DO I SURE ENJOY TRASH. THERE'S NOTHING MORE I LOVE THAN TO SIT DOWN IN FRONT OF THE BIG SCREEN AND EAT A BIIIIG STEAMY BOWL OF SHIT. WARNER BROS CAN COME OVER TO MY HOUSE AND ASSFUCK MY MOM WHILE I WATCH AND I WOULD CERTIFY IT FRESH, NO QUESTION
Just jumped forward to say I actually like you ArbC but you suck at explaining yourself without sounding like a retard.

He was just saying its incredibly dumb how every post with a girl offender in it was automatically followed up by some goony white knight who had to question the idea that girls can be fuckwits too.

And I agree. But dude, you always gotta turn this poo poo into "a thing".

Lunchmeat Larry
Nov 3, 2012

Xaris posted:

:stonk:

That's pretty hosed up but I have to wonder what the gently caress is she doing not to notice the finances like that for so long (it'd be different if he had a separate bank account and his own high paying job to hide that), and also what the gently caress is going on through his second girlfriends head that it's ok for her "boyfriend" to be married to someone else and never being around much to raise their kids and poo poo like that for 18 years--like I could see that going on for maybe a couple years but wouldn't you want him to be around almost full time??
buyin theother house with her money. how the hell

Shnag
Dec 8, 2010

"I'll be whatever I wanna do!"
Alright, whose girlfriend is this? etc etc

quote:

My [24F] SO [24M] has asked me to stop streaming now that I'm getting more views.Relationships
submitted 3 hours ago by thrwgaway
I just started streaming games (mainly Overwatch and different MMOs) about 3 months ago just for fun. I was getting about 3-5 views per stream at the start. Then at the beginning of this month for whatever reason I started to get 100+ views per stream.
I know this isn't a lot of views but it's still really exciting for me. So I told my SO that my views were increasing, and at first he seemed happy for me. Then yesterday he told me he wanted me to stop streaming, he didn't give me any reason other then the fact that my viewers had gone up and it wasn't "fun" anymore.
I hadn't done anything different in my streams either. I rarely stream with cam on. The majority of the time it's just the mics on and I'm playing with 2-3 friends. Obviously I want my SO to be comfortable but he won't talk about any of this with me, he just told me he wants me to stop and that it isn't fun. It's still fun for me though, it's exciting now to see how many viewers I may get and everything.
I'm just not sure what to do. I don't know how to get my SO to open up to me about this. I have asked him so many times and he is starting to get impatient with me and starting to imply that I care more about my stream then his feelings.
tl;dr: Started streaming 3 months ago. Was only getting 3-5 views. Now I'm getting 100+ and SO has asked me to quit. Won't give me a reason other then it's not "fun" anymore. Won't talk to me about it and is getting impatient with me over it.

I could kind of understand if she was getting tens of thousands of viewers, and having rabid fans, but 100 views is barely anything. Also, lol at making a throw away account on a issue like this.

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loquacius
Oct 21, 2008
Probation
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Poonerman posted:

Two days ago my [38F] divorce became final, after 18 years of marriage. He had a secret family, a woman he met the day after he met me and some children and a house for them. Not sure how to cope or how I feel

This one kinda stretches the bounds of believability, both because the numbers would never add up especially if she was the breadwinner and because she doesn't really specify how she found out (you'd think that'd be a pretty major part of a story like this)

Oh, and also because she has access to a bunch of information that I'm not sure how she'd have if they have no contact and he doesn't know where she lives or works

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