wyntyr posted:

Harley Quinn goonette that's going to get murdered by her boyfriend: PM me, I can put you in touch with some resources.

CodfishCartographer posted:

It didn't sound anything like this to me, it just sounded like the wife not wanting him alone around their kids. it didn't sound like she was actively antagonizing hi m - it sounded like they got into an argument and she finally let out bottled up feelings. As did he, I guess.

Profondo Rosso posted:

i'm not a parent or married or a victim of child abuse, but i struggle to think of something crueler to do to your spouse that just came out to you about being raped as a child than to deny them access to their children and tell them "no mother will ever trust you around their kids"

Nooner posted:

lol wow this thread is cool and good now, im sure glad we are all talking about this

Bombadilillo posted:

Do you want to tip the scales back to cousin loving chat?

Nooner posted:

is it okay to hit your cousin if you suck their dick after??

Solice Kirsk posted:

Violence has solved more and bigger problems than anything else through out history. Who are we to question violence?

Nooner posted:

you guys wanna talk about what we had for dinner instead? I mead cheesy fajita stuffed chicken breast and fresh guac

Mycroft Holmes posted:

i ate a bison bacon cheeseburger with a potato bun. potato bread makes good buns.

Nooner posted:

potato bread owns bones when it comes to buns

Mycroft Holmes posted:

bison owns when it comes to burgers

dog buttz posted:

This is how the r/relationships thread got gassed.

Nooner posted:

burg chat?

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hi, i'm still in love w/a sociopath.

i wish i was creative writing. i wish i was just a girl in a story instead of a real bleeding human being.

he didn't cut my face open, like, out of nowhere. it was a sex play thing. the thing he was hitting me with hit my face. i thought it was a mis-hit until he told me otherwise.

i'm glad someone acted like i exist even if they think i'm fake too.

he's going to be gone for awhile. i feel like something hibernating or going dead in winter. but he left me with just enough psychological degradation to last.

i thought i wanted advice but there's no advice for me. no one can save a bomb that's destined to go off. something else will hit the trigger before he comes back. or he'll come back, and i'll head that way again.

thanks anyway.

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in response to loquascious:

People don't like it when the browns move into the neighborhood is because usually browns = poverty = crime. There are exceptions, but it's flipped around from the way it is with Whites. Yes, there are bad white people too - some white people have that methed out trailer park look or have a black husband and you know they are trouble too. The underlying problem is poverty, but there is also a reason why they are disproportionately impoverished, and the blame doesn't fall entirely on white people.

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It was smack singular and it was a wood handled silicon spatula.

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Ive been with my girlfriend now for 5, nearly 6 years. I think I love her but I'm not certain. She lost much of her sex drive a couple of years back and we only have sex once every 6 months or so.

I feel so shallow about it, but I think its her bust size. She's only a C. If she was bigger I might try harder. I love huge tits to the point it could be considered partislizm. I have spent a few occasions banging escorts with G and H cup size tits to get off.

drat, I love huge tits but I know this is toxic.

H.H posted:

Okay, I'm finally back, and not a second too soon by the looks of it:

H.H posted:

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Well here goes. My confession is, like so many other confessions, that I really and truly hate myself and want to die.

I guess I should also say that I'm too chickenshit to actually kill myself, even though I've fantasized for years about different ways to do it. I can't stand the thought of what it would do to my family (especially my spouse) and any first responders who would have to deal with it though, so I guess I'm safe there. I hate the thought of causing so much grief and trauma to other people, especially not the people I love. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about killing myself though, and there hasn't been for over ten years now, so it's just something for me to live with.

I also think I'm total trash as a human being. I'm not nice, or funny, or hard-working, or helpful, or generous. I have no redeeming qualities. I try to be those things but I feel like everything I do is just acting. Other people seem to like me and my spouse treats me like royalty, and I don't understand why. I like other people well enough, and I love my spouse desperately (seriously, they are one of the all-around most amazing people I've ever met) but I see nothing redeeming about myself.

Something I have told very very few people is that I have bipolar (possibly schizoaffective) disorder. Yes, I have a wonderful doctor and am in therapy and all that. I am fully compliant with my medication and have been the entire time I've been on it. I'm stable on the current mix and my doctor has been very patient in helping me find a working regimin.

I think other people see me as having my poo poo together and being a functional, normal human being. I guess I just wanted to tell somebody that I'm not, I'm a totally worthless piece of poo poo and I'm not worth anyone's time. Sorry.

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To most people my life is pretty good. But I'm terribly jealous of my coworker friend. His wife's family is rich, she has a trust fund and it feels like everything is handed to them.

When we got engaged, we carefully budgeted for our wedding and cut back on luxuries for a year so we could pay for it ourselves. My friends father in law paid for theirs and their engagement was much more carefree. My wife and I had to learn to live together, fought, made up, went to counseling, and have compromised and grown over our marriage. My friend and his wife are gamer nerd types that never argue about anything and think if you have to change your behavior in a marriage you're doing it wrong.

My wife is infertile and we've spent thousands on fertility treatments and are in the process of adoption. The journey has been hard, especially for my wife. Friends wife popped out two kids easily, something she blurts out often. Her trust fund pays for childcare and she doesn't need to work so never has to worry about childcare meanwhile we know we'll have to finale work schedules, family and budget to maximize time with our future kids.

Our work pays well but we work long hours and have to save scrupulously to try to get enough of a down payment to afford a house. Friends wife was gifted a house as a wedding present and doesn't need to work. Friends job basically pays for all their fun stuff and they can freely blow money on luxuries since they lack a mortgage, rent, or many bills the trust didn't cover.

It's really hard to be happy for our own success when my friend has everything we want and hasn't had to bust his rear end to get it. It's given him and his wife the perception these things don't take much effort to get. Whenever my wife gets depressed and talks about how she always imagined having kids and owning a home in her thirties it makes me particularly bitter that we have struggled ND worked so hard and don't have nearly as much to show for it.

I was raised to believe hard work pays off but I've gotten so cynical it feels like I could've done jack poo poo the last six years and not made any difference. The tortoise is a suckers bet in a life that Is most definitely not a just world.

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Nearly all my sex for the past several years has been with women 55+. I just turned 25 and this has been my preference for at least 4 years now and I don't know if it'll ever stop even though I feel gross when I think about it too hard.

I even go so far as to want to have sex with older porn stars - especially Kim Anh. Is this a sign of some kind of mental problem?

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I watch Steven Universe. The show is Tumblr as gently caress and I hated the fusion between Steven and Amethyst, but I still watch it.