|
quote:took my mom to the hospital tonight and she just called saying doctors think she has gallbladder cancer. after reading about it online i feel pretty crappy and im all torn up about a lot of different things right now. i dont know if i want to stay in school which will be important big picture once shes gone and my dad left is taking care of their grandkids because of a lovely situation (dumb sibling, no chance of them getting their act together even now) and we all pretty poor, or if i should take however long she still has off to primarily work and spend as much time with her as i can. hopefully tomorrow things are different and some of the other tests say something different, i dont know. im mostly writing this to help me feel better bc i have no friends and its stressful talking to my dad about it right now. ill write a non-depressing confession when im feeling better. It'll definitely be tough for a while, but I'm of the opinion that if it's at all possible to finish your degree while putting food on the table (part-time classes, maybe community college) you absolutely should. It's a good long-term investment. Talk to your dad about if he can tough it out until you graduate at which point you'll help out yourself; maybe he can do it. quote:So, I'm homosexual. I live in Canada and was raised by 2 liberal atheist parents. And yet, I am very firmly in the closet, and will never come out, for one simple reason: the stereotype. You're being real log-cabiny about this bro
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 14:26
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 10, 2024 18:23 |
|
|
Geez, bit touchy about your masculinity fella? Why the heck does it matter how other people live their lives? Go be happy in a big Greco-Roman wrestling orgy or something and others can go be happy in their leather fetish suits. E: I mean gently caress there are about 100 billion different gay subcultures for hypermasculinity go loving hog wild
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 14:30
|
|
|
quote:So, I'm homosexual. I live in Canada and was raised by 2 liberal atheist parents. And yet, I am very firmly in the closet, and will never come out, for one simple reason: the stereotype. I know quite a few "regular guy" gay guys. In fact one of them is my roommate. You coming out and letting people know you're gay has nothing to do with how other gay people act man. It's just your sexuality, not your personality.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 14:47
|
|
|
loquacius posted:
Imagine having masculinity so fragile that you become a homophobic homosexual also lmao "the ancient greeks accepted gays because gays didn't act like this!" they also accepted boning kids too, if you find a feminine dude more objectionable than actual pedophilia, you have way more issues than any of us can help you with
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 14:55
|
|
|
Look at all the goons jumping down the dudes throat for trying to not get stereotyped. Too bad the stereotype he's trying to avoid falls into the goodthink group and must be good. Clearly this gay man is homophobic. Actual advice- 98% of gay dudes are exactly like you in the whole "tried their best to avoid the deviant image" and are, in fact, good enough at doing so you probably didn't realize they were gay. Most people's impressions of gay men are the super flamboyant stereotype not out of hate, but simply because it's the most visible one. Your never gonna completely avoid the looming stereotype, but just acting like yourself is pretty much the key to showing everyone around you that literally nothing is different, except your not lying to yourself.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 15:21
|
|
|
Hey, dude can do what he likes, just saying don't be a dick if others do too
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 15:27
|
|
|
Double Monocle posted:Look at all the goons jumping down the dudes throat for trying to not get stereotyped. If you don't consider calling gay men "simpering queers" and "disgusting degenerates" homophobic, then 
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 15:35
|
|
|
loquacius posted:When I was really young, I would take a poo poo in my hands and put my poop into my Play-Doh dispensers. I'd shape my feces into various forms, like a crescent moon or a star. 
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 15:41
|
|
|
I won't gently caress a man who doesn't simper enough
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 15:42
|
|
|
Danaru posted:If you don't consider calling gay men "simpering queers" and "disgusting degenerates" homophobic, then it's an anonymous confession. His verbiage was embellished to illustrate his point, but continue to be morally outraged on our behalf.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 16:06
|
|
|
I'm not mad at him for basically stereotyping himself, I'm just kind of nonplussed that he apparently has never heard of non-gender-bendy gay dudes. Like Solice Kirsk said, most of the gay dudes I actually know are normal guys who happen to like dudes. His whole thing kind of comes off as, well, log-cabiny. sharia_law_conspiracy_theory_poop.txt
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 16:10
|
|
|
Double Monocle posted:it's an anonymous confession. His verbiage was embellished to illustrate his point, but continue to be morally outraged on our behalf. you are not the only gay person in the world, hth
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 16:18
|
|
|
Double Monocle posted:it's an anonymous confession. His verbiage was embellished to illustrate his point, but continue to be morally outraged on our behalf. Guys, I think we found him. Also my brother and his fiance are gay, and not at all the stereotype, so anon is really self-hating it seems and lashing out.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 16:21
|
|
|
Double Monocle posted:it's an anonymous confession. His verbiage was embellished to illustrate his point, but continue to be morally outraged on our behalf.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 16:53
|
|
|
There are people who hate gays for (hilarious verbage) "shoving it down their throats". Then they find out someobe is gay and retain their opinion convinced that person is "just one of the good ones". I don't know if gaygoon's went too liberal and vcr'd pride parades or other extremes. Or he isnt attracted to effeminents. Or, most likely, despite liberal parents you are scared shitless of what people will think of you and blaming it on others. I hope you meet "one of the good ones" yourself so you see nobody cares and normal people dont associate them with pride week in the office.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 17:58
|
|
|
loquacius posted:So, I'm homosexual. I live in Canada and was raised by 2 liberal atheist parents. And yet, I am very firmly in the closet, and will never come out, for one simple reason: the stereotype.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 18:43
|
|
|
Some people just buy into a stereotype and can't let it go, even if it is about a community they belong to. That can lead to a lot of shame and self loathing. Secret gay man, you know that you are not the "flaming queer" that you are disgusted by. Is it unreasonable to think that there are others like you? Maybe some of them don't like this kind of behavior or maybe they just don't care about it. You don't have to like "those people" to be gay and you don't have to be like them. Anyone that imposes that stereotype on you is an idiot or a bigot (including, currently, yourself). Don't let bigotry keep you from living your life.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 19:01
|
|
|
LethalGeek posted:This was not written by someone who's spent any actual time around gay/bi men. Finding effeminate or leather dudes takes actual effort, as others have said most of them are typical boring dudes who just wanna get laid too. Eh, I've met my fair share of effeminate gay guys too (mostly through my normal gay guy friends and theater friends). The thing is that those guys typically like to hang out with other guys like them and not so much watch football and make fun of Tom Brady's haircut like me and my friends do. They certainly exist, but I'd be hard pressed to find anyone, including my redneck uncles and cousins, that believe all gay guys act like that. Maybe in Oklahoma or something it's more common, but it seems like such a minor thing to be worried about that there may be something deeper going on. Sort of like if I didn't want to mention I'm Hispanic to anyone for fear that they'd think I'm a Latin King.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 19:12
|
|
|
"I'm gonna make you simper like a queer, boy"-- gay hillbilly in Deliverance
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 19:38
|
|
|
Maybe he's a Marine: "Simper Fi"
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:21
|
|
|
The good thing about gay people is if God's sending them all to hell, at least you know it's been gentrified by now. Like, the only problem with hell is you can't afford to live there anymore.
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:35
|
|
|
lotta dudes in here thinking about getting busy with other dudes and other dudes getting busy with other dudes
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:37
|
|
|
That's a lot of dudesex
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:43
|
|
|
literally all I ever think about nooner
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:46
|
|
|
theres a lot worse things to be thinkin' about
|
|
#
?
Dec 5, 2016 23:47
|
|
|
quote:I'm a pyromaniac and have burnt down 7 abandoned buildings in my life. I always make sure no humans or animals are inside the places I burn, as I am not a murderer or animal killer. In fact I view this as an act of compassion since these abandoned buildings are usually in bad shape and need cleared out. I typically scope a place out for a week or so, then the night before the burn I go in and make sure no homeless live in there and there are no stray animals. If there are, I move on to a new place. quote:My wife and I have no secrets between us, except for one, and I fear it may soon cause a major issue. seeing a little discrepancy w/r/t whether they're already married or not  and a bonus because it's short quote:I just clipped my toe nail and used it as a toothpick. gross
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 00:31
|
|
|
Wrasslin' goon, you should convince your girl to go to a show just to humor you one time. Then, when she's in the audience, get in the ring.
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 01:06
|
|
|
I would have said do some kinda speech about the two loves of your life finally being together, but ur a heel so, eeh, I dunno if you could make it work. As a face maybe the crowd being ultra supportive could help? Dunno man, don't dislocate your spine out there, good luck
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 01:09
|
|
|
Wrestler goon, if this woman can't support your professional wrestling lifestyle you shouldn't marry her, your life will be nothing but misery
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 01:13
|
|
|
if you really think about it divorcing your wife in the ring would be the ultimate heel move
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 01:13
|
|
|
Arrhythmia posted:if you really think about it divorcing your wife in the ring would be the ultimate heel move
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 01:20
|
|
|
Arrhythmia posted:if you really think about it divorcing your wife in the ring would be the ultimate heel move
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 02:46
|
|
|
Arrhythmia posted:if you really think about it divorcing your wife in the ring would be the ultimate heel move my god
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 02:53
|
|
|
Arrhythmia posted:if you really think about it divorcing your wife in the ring would be the ultimate heel move Oh yeah!
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 04:35
|
|
|
LethalGeek posted:This was not written by someone who's spent any actual time around gay/bi men. Finding effeminate or leather dudes takes actual effort, as others have said most of them are typical boring dudes who just wanna get laid too. There are a whole bunch of people living in small towns who only have been exposed to the pop culture version of whatever they are. And the pop culture version of gay is 
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 04:45
|
|
|
"And in the red corner! Weighing 275 lbs, the Goonchacho, who by the way, will not be giving away his balls bitch!"
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 04:51
|
|
|
tactlessbastard posted:There are a whole bunch of people living in small towns who only have been exposed to the pop culture version of whatever they are. And the pop culture version of gay is People in small towns shouldn't talk to the rest of us as if they know what's up with anything.
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 05:49
|
|
|
screenplay for nacho libre 2 lookin good
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 06:45
|
|
|
wrestlegoon, take your lady into the ring and solemnly promise her you're retiring ...just before you suplex her and pose triumphantly with one foot on her unconscious body just think of the heat you'll catch for it, you'll be bigger than Hollywood Hulk Hogan, brother  On a less frivolous note, the only way out of this conundrum that I can see is the painful way: you will absolutely need to come clean about the double life, sooner rather than later. The longer you hesitate, the more corrosive your convenient untruths become to the trust that is the bedrock of a not-shitawful relationship. I think you need to rip off the metaphorical bandage, and let come what may, because even if she might warm up to your life as a performer she's probably not okay with all that and lying about it. SatansOnion fucked around with this message at 07:55 on Dec 6, 2016 |
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 07:51
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 10, 2024 18:23 |
|
|
I have no problems with people's sexuality but totally get that guys complaint about not wanting to be "that gay guy" There is a gay guy at work and he's a loving princess about everything. Nobody can stand him, and it has nothing to do with the fact he fucks dudes, it's all to do with his lovely personality and behaviour. He's basically that character Craig from the last few seasons of Parks and recreation. Super flamboyant, flies off the handle about poo poo all the time, treats people like garbage if they don't do what he wants them to. management is totally incapable of dealing with him because he immediately plays the discrimination card when ever anyone reports him, and they are trying too hard to be progressive to actually tell him his behaviour as a person in the workplace is unacceptable. And yeah I know a friends friend who is a "normal dude" gay and he can't stand gay guys like that either. I didn't even realise he was gay for like a year because he seemed to dislike gay guys himself. Then I met his boyfriend at a wedding and he was just another "regular guy who is into guys" and both are chill as gently caress. And yeah most people don't like being associated with the stereotypical negative of whatever group they are a part of is. I don't know why anyone is surprised by that.
|
|
#
?
Dec 6, 2016 09:02
|
|
