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TheKennedys posted:so, work in a kitchen? Welfare queen. Sit around, do drugs, get paid. Nice work if you can find it. Fake Edit: Top of the page so I guess this has to have content. Overworked job goon: Injure yourself on the job in a way that no one questions it but doesn't impede your lifestyle. Then see above. limp_cheese fucked around with this message at 00:11 on Oct 23, 2017 |
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Oct 23, 2017 00:11
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rock stars' jobs are basically to have sex, do drugs, and play rock n' roll, and they all end up offing themselves by the time they're 27, presumably because all the fun things in life have become work
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Oct 23, 2017 00:20
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A rock star leans back in his solid gold chair while three nubile fans go down on him. He snorts a line of blow off the erect penis of another fan while he watches two men fight to the death for his entertainment. He sighs to himself and fantasizes about having to call IT because Excel isn't pulling up files from the shared directory anymore.
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Oct 23, 2017 00:44
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It's like I've always said, the idea that you should do what you love is bullshit. You might love coding, cooking, singing, or whatever the gently caress else, but the moment you start doing it for a living, it stops being fun and starts being work. Then all of a sudden you're left without your passion, and everything sucks. The trick is that you need to find something you enjoy, but wouldn't otherwise do unless you're being paid for it. That's why I'm a caregiver. Do I enjoy taking care of the elderly? Sure, most of the time. It's emotionally satisfying and all that crap. Would I do it if I weren't getting a steady paycheck? Hell no.
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Oct 23, 2017 00:56
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Ziv Zulander posted:It's like I've always said, the idea that you should do what you love is bullshit. You might love coding, cooking, singing, or whatever the gently caress else, but the moment you start doing it for a living, it stops being fun and starts being work. Then all of a sudden you're left without your passion, and everything sucks. The trick is that you need to find something you enjoy, but wouldn't otherwise do unless you're being paid for it. That's why I'm a caregiver. Do I enjoy taking care of the elderly? Sure, most of the time. It's emotionally satisfying and all that crap. Would I do it if I weren't getting a steady paycheck? Hell no. Thank god I love jerking off. I can do it once a day easily. Anymore and it does feel just like work.
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Oct 23, 2017 01:25
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LingcodKilla posted:Thank god I love jerking off. I can do it once a day easily. Anymore and it does feel just like work. So you work from home op?
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Oct 23, 2017 01:27
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Pffft, once a day is a minimum. Can't let that goop build up or it will go bad and you'll get ball cancer. On a rainy day home alone I could knock out like 7 or 8. It's a fun and safe way to kill 55 seconds!
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Oct 23, 2017 02:34
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Job Guy: Whether or not she's being unreasonable isn't terribly important, it's the message that is--she's saying "dude you are never here and that sucks, is our entire marriage going to be like this because gently caress that." You get to decide if this reaction is acceptable or not as you'll be the one, you know, building a life with her. What you don't want is for the long hours to continue for the next year and to come home early one day to find a strange car in your driveway and a half-naked dude jumping out your bedroom window. I guess, unless you're down with that?
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Oct 23, 2017 15:23
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runupon cracker posted:I'm going to take a slightly different tone with Overworked Goon: yeah this. Don't let the boomer assholes work you to death and ruin your life and marriage so they can further enrich themselves at the expense of you and everyone else. gently caress them right in their whiny entitled asses.
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Oct 23, 2017 15:34
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quote:Right after college I began dating a woman. quote:I know this will sound like a fake ghost or alien fiction confession, but this is what I've experienced, believe it or don't I don't care. Me and my family (mom, dad, 3 younger sisters) moved in to a very old house in Vermont a couple years ago. I've always been creeped out by it and the random creeks and knocks that you get with any old house. Recently though I've started to have recurring dreams where I hang myself while the rest of my family is dead on the ground and it always ends with "me" coming back to life and saying some variation of "do it". The first few times I just brushed it off as just a random dream, but things have been getting stranger recently. Multiple times I woke up with scratch marks on my stomach and I often snap awake covered in sweat for no apparent reason.
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Oct 23, 2017 15:41
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It's pretty hard to feel any animosity toward domestic abuse goon. If it was as hosed up as you say, well, everybody has a breaking point I guess.
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Oct 23, 2017 15:50
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I was reminded of Martin Freeman's character in season 1 of the Fargo TV show because, like, on the one hand, he murdered his wife, but on the other hand, his wife was a horrible person and I was glad to see her die, but on the first hand again, though, literal murder Not sure if I'm glad that guy's ex is literally dead but I'm def glad he's free
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Oct 23, 2017 15:52
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What if the spooky is a ghost and an aliem at the same time?
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Oct 23, 2017 15:54
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Burn the house down and see if you still get the dreams
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Oct 23, 2017 16:02
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got any sevens posted:Burn the house down and see if you still get the dreams with everyone inside. 
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Oct 23, 2017 16:04
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what was the quote, "all of american horror is fundamentally about poor real estate investments" If you just moved into a creepy old house, it's p believable you'd start to get scared about it and have bad dreams because that's like the entire horror genre
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Oct 23, 2017 16:10
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everybody snaps awake covered in sweat at least some of the time. and you're probably just scratching your own body in the middle of the night. trim your nails. I sometimes suddenly wake up at 3am with a terrible pain in my face and then i realize that i'm just biting the inside of my cheek really hard. that or ghosts. you know who to call
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Oct 23, 2017 17:27
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Is Murdergoon a male or female? The reason I ask is because if this was a male being abused it is something that mostly goes unnoticed and unheard. Domestic abusers can be of both sexes and it is not something that is addressed, mostly because the world/internet thinks all males who speak out about it are members of the /r/incel community.
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Oct 23, 2017 18:12
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half coke half diet posted:Is Murdergoon a male or female? The reason I ask is because if this was a male being abused it is something that mostly goes unnoticed and unheard. Domestic abusers can be of both sexes and it is not something that is addressed, mostly because the world/internet thinks all males who speak out about it are members of the /r/incel community. Yeah I called the cops on my ex girlfriend once after, during a heated argument, she hit me in the head with a wine glass and punched me a couple times in the face. She was verbally/emotionally abusive before that but had never escalated to physical violence until that point (she would continue this trend and I eventually got rid of her). I had a clear mark on my head when the cops came in to evaluate the situation (which I thought was the needed evidence to put her in jail). She pulled the crying act and got off without anything, the cops gave me the info for the domestic abuse hotline and suggested I go get a hotel or something for the night but that was it. I don’t really begrudge anyone in my story, but I do think it’s bullshit because I’m nearly sure if the roles were reversed I’d be taken to jail and had charges pressed against me. It’s a strong case for why we need feminism in my opinion. Women can’t expect equal rights but be able to get away with this kind of abusive behavior. Job Goon: I think you need to talk with your wife if you haven’t already. Communication is key in relationships after all. Discuss how you’re feeling and make a plan with her on how to move forward before doing anything.
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Oct 23, 2017 18:39
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half coke half diet posted:Is Murdergoon a male or female? The reason I ask is because if this was a male being abused it is something that mostly goes unnoticed and unheard. Domestic abusers can be of both sexes and it is not something that is addressed, mostly because the world/internet thinks all males who speak out about it are members of the /r/incel community. The complicating factor is that there are a bunch of MRAs who only care about issues like domestic violence against men as a derail of a discussion about women's issues. Then there are more reasonable people who care about such issues, but who don't really want to bring them up for fear of taking away space from the more common case of domestic violence against women. The MRAs take this as evidence that people "don't care about" it, which isn't true; it's just that people don't want to have that conversation in the context of "what about the mens".
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Oct 23, 2017 19:41
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Historically it's usually the man commuting the abuse. The cop at least didnt call you a pussy and teach you how to best choke slam her like she was a POC. Baby steps.
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Oct 23, 2017 19:45
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Goon working on getting people banned: Can you focus your efforts on PCOS Bill for a while? Wouldn't mind seeing him banned.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:02
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Incoherence posted:Then there are more reasonable people who care about such issues, but who don't really want to bring them up for fear of taking away space from the more common case of domestic violence against women. The MRAs take this as evidence that people "don't care about" it, which isn't true; it's just that people don't want to have that conversation in the context of "what about the mens". I read your statement and cringed. You realized you just marginalized a potential male abuse victim because domestic violence happens against women. Keep thinking that domestic violence is just a one way street, if it makes you feel better. Reasonable people don't speak up against male domestic abuse against men because they are pushed aside to point out that women are abused too and that is the real problem. Not that domestic violence from either partner towards the other is bad, mind you the LOGICAL thinking in the matter. But in doing so you will be labeled a horrific person that does not empathize with the plight of women everywhere.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:08
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Hello, visitor from MRA planet. Male domestic abuse victims and female abusers are absolutely a thing; nobody disagrees with that. It's been brought up in this thread and the other anon thread, the r/relationships thread, the e/n breakup thread where the male victims get tons of support. I strongly encourage you to read some more on the topic and maybe even do something to work towards ending domestic violence, instead of just posting about how you're so oppressed you're the only one brave enough to mention it.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:13
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Incoherence posted:The complicating factor is that there are a bunch of MRAs who only care about issues like domestic violence against men as a derail of a discussion about women's issues. Then there are more reasonable people who care about such issues, but who don't really want to bring them up for fear of taking away space from the more common case of domestic violence against women. The MRAs take this as evidence that people "don't care about" it, which isn't true; it's just that people don't want to have that conversation in the context of "what about the mens". Pro tip: They are not reasonable people, they are loving idiots and equating a tiny proportion of the population (MRAs; a loving subreddit of incel morons) as even worthy of consideration is monumentally stupid on a level that cannot adequately be expressed. Making domestic violence a gender issue is indicative of how loving stupid the population of this planet is right now.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:16
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I don’t think that’s necessarily the issue. Most feminists that I’ve talked to recognize the problem, but it’s an issue of emphasis and limited resources. Quite frankly it happens to women a lot more often, and the same attitudes that feminism seeks to erode are the same ones that lead to the stigma against male victims. So it’s understandable why the focus would be where it is. There’s absolutely a space for us men to look out for and take care of male victims of rape and abuse, it’s just that the MRA types are more interested in trying to score a gotcha against feminism than doing that.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:22
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Don't marry someone that is physically capable of hurting you. This is why I only date quadriplegic pacifists.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:26
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That’s why I only date ch—ahhh, nice try Chris.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:30
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- Critiquing the foundation of a social interest movement because it doesn't focus on another/all permutations of the same problem. - Attacking someone who's demanding recognition of another permutation of the same problem, because it undesirably broadens the scope of he main issue. Both stupid, unproductive things, done by people who like having the conversation to help draw lines in the sand and pick sides rather than to discuss issues.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:32
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I think it's sad that patriarchy made it so pence cant control himself and cannot trust himself to be around non-wife, non-mom, women alone and has to take long horse rides to get rid of this emotional turmoil what a bad way to live. still, he's the vp so maybe it works idk
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Anne Whateley posted:Hello, visitor from MRA planet. Male domestic abuse victims and female abusers are absolutely a thing; nobody disagrees with that. It's been brought up in this thread and the other anon thread, the r/relationships thread, the e/n breakup thread where the male victims get tons of support. I strongly encourage you to read some more on the topic and maybe even do something to work towards ending domestic violence, instead of just posting about how you're so oppressed you're the only one brave enough to mention it. Wait a minute, I’m a bit confused. Who’s the MRA you and others are discussing? Is it me? Because I’m totally not an MRA. I was just in an abusive relationship and something lovely happened to me. My stance I mentioned earlier was actually fortified by a hardcore feminist type when I told her about it. My interpretation of feminism is usually along the lines of removing any and all double standards/prejudices between both genders (this mostly applies to women naturally, but in some cases also men). Domestic abuse is a two way street and I think marginalizing one type in favor of the other is bad news bears and only creates more resentment between both sets. Sexual assault is another issue where I’ve been seeing this, though probably not on the level of domestic violence. I’ve been sexually assaulted as well (yeah I’ve been in some lovely relationships). When that whole ‘me too’ thing happened on Facebook I noticed a lot of people on my feed were calling out men who were posting it as ‘trolling edgelords’ and I’m like what the gently caress? It’s pretty wrong for people to immediately assume that of men who posted that without any further context. Yeah some might being assholes, but others might be trying to show that sexual assault loving sucks and are trying to establish dialogue/support/further awareness.
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facebook jihad posted:Wait a minute, I’m a bit confused. Who’s the MRA you and others are discussing? Is it me? Because I’m totally not an MRA. I was just in an abusive relationship and something lovely happened to me. My stance I mentioned earlier was actually fortified by a hardcore feminist type when I told her about it. I think that was for me because I pointed out that domestic violence is a human problem, which is when the usual "jump on him he is a MRA" poo poo happens. MRA != Incel just like Feminist != 3rd Wave Feminist
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half coke half diet posted:I think that was for me because I pointed out that domestic violence is a human problem, which is when the usual "jump on him he is a MRA" poo poo happens. half coke half diet posted:I read your statement and cringed. You realized you just marginalized a potential male abuse victim because domestic violence happens against women. Keep thinking that domestic violence is just a one way street, if it makes you feel better.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:56
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One time I passed out in a hallway at a party and later on one of my roommates saw this girl we knew loving me right there while I was unconscious. We still tell that story and laugh about it. We gave her the nickname "Rapey Carrie." Personally I thought it was hilarious, and I have no idea how she managed it cause my dick must have been like a wet noodle, but whatever.
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Oct 23, 2017 20:58
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Anne Whateley posted:It was for you, but it wasn't because you "pointed out that domestic violence is a human problem" (which everybody knows), it was for this nonsensical MRA party line Yes something that effects every sex is a nonsensical MRA party line
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Domestic violence is not an MRA party line. Being against domestic violence is not an MRA party line. The poo poo you posted is an MRA party line.
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half coke half diet posted:I read your statement and cringed. You realized you just marginalized a potential male abuse victim because domestic violence happens against women. Keep thinking that domestic violence is just a one way street, if it makes you feel better. If you prefer this phrasing, this post is making the same point: fruit on the bottom posted:I don't think that's necessarily the issue. Most feminists that I've talked to recognize the problem, but it's an issue of emphasis and limited resources.
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Incoherence posted:I said nothing of the sort, and the fact that you read that into my post says a lot about you. If anything, a story like the anonymous confession is a great way to remind everyone that yes, men can be victims of abuse, and that they tend to have problems getting people to believe them. If I misread it I misread it and you followed up, I appreciate that and you are right I read it the wrong way. Now if only we could figure out if Murdergoon is M/F that would make my day a bit more complete
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When it comes to the topic of murder I must say I'm against it
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