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Given their £20 for 4 pills price I'm thinking of using my depression pills as an excuse to get an £8 pack on prescription instead! I'll probably buy a pack first to see if I like it. On one hand I'm not as hard and for as long as before the pills but on the other it does raise to the occasion during penetration and I haven't had any complaints. So it'd be semi lie semi truth anyway.
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Is there any advice for riding cowgirl cause I like the position and being on top in general but I’m bad at it/can’t go fast enough Part of it is penetration is often painful for me (I get embarrassed about it which doesn’t help) even with lube, so taking the lead myself can be tricky.
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Dec 6, 2017 02:35
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Can't go fast enough for which of you? I'm not sure how you do cowgirl wrong really, you've got up to two directions you can go and which you can do depends how good your legs are.
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Dec 6, 2017 03:32
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Octolady posted:Is there any advice for riding cowgirl cause I like the position and being on top in general but I’m bad at it/can’t go fast enough Don't have sex moving faster than you're comfortable with, that's a path to injuries to either you/your partner. I'm not a vagina-haver, i.e. this is advice from the bottom side of the cowgirl position: the angle of the hip in both partners affects the way penetration feels enormously in my experience. I like cowgirl a lot, think it's a good position to take it slowly and drop need for speed. But it doesn't do anything for me some times or w/ some people. A girl I was seeing disliked riding me due to pain/discomfort which bummed us both out and we gave it a thorough researching. Something like hollowing her back and rotating her pelvis forward, which she'd never intuitively done, made it feel way better on both ends. I did something similar but the effect was not as pronounced. Talk to you partner, slowly see what feels good and avoid hurting anyone (I guess that's a cliche for a reason)
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Dec 6, 2017 04:07
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OwlFancier posted:Can't go fast enough for which of you? I'm not sure how you do cowgirl wrong really, you've got up to two directions you can go and which you can do depends how good your legs are. For my partner, I don’t mind taking it slow but he usually instinctively tries to take over and speed up and I find my angle or whatever is off and it doesn’t last very long.  I’m nervous about PIV sex but I want to expand what we can do in the bedroom, I guess it’s not rocket science though! Old Binsby posted:Good things This is all great advice, thank you! I’ll speak to him about it and give it another shot. I probably also need to build up my legs.
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Octolady posted:For my partner, I don’t mind taking it slow but he usually instinctively tries to take over and speed up and I find my angle or whatever is off and it doesn’t last very long. You can't both thrust at the same time. It's hard to be in synch when that happens. So either he should thrust - though that sounds like it would just suck for you - or you should talk to him and ask him to stay more still. Try leaning forwards to give you more ability to do an up-and-down motion as opposed to grinding. It gives you more space down there without you having to have superwoman thighs to bounce. Remember that real sex is very rarely anything like porn sex.
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Dec 6, 2017 22:14
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I find personally it works if the guy hangs onto your hips/waist and follows your lead.
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Dec 6, 2017 22:19
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Leaning forward or backward can help with finding comfortable penetration angles and endurance. It can also serve to make things last longer if he's moving too fast, because switching angles should back him off a little. YMMV, but squats can help with those thigh muscles if you're dead set on doing the porno cowgirl bounce.
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Thanks guys, you’re right that the “porn bounce” was how I had in my head it should be done, I’ll just try to relax and take it slow next time!
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Octolady posted:Thanks guys, you’re right that the “porn bounce” was how I had in my head it should be done, I’ll just try to relax and take it slow next time! In general, it's useful to remember that porn sex is what looks good for the camera, not necessarily what feels good for anyone involved.
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Dec 7, 2017 01:52
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Lean forward and brace your hands (headboard, mattress on either side of his head, whatever) and use your whole torso/back flexing to go up and down, less exhausting and imo hurts less with over endowed partners. Plus face boobs
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A headboard is a useful piece of equipment for sex yes though I have snapped several so you may wish to make some modifications to the bed to attach it better. Also faceboobs are generally welcome too.
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I'm getting my girlfriend an Xmas gift, years ago I got her a tiny vibe that she absolutely adores, and now I want to get her some cool thing that'll rock her world in a different way, so I looked at one of these: https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=15336&reviewpage=1#customer_reviews Is it good? Have you used a similar one? I'm getting it partially for shock factor because she knows zip about sex toys and is kinda sad she doesn't get anything internal from her clit vibe, but I want to get the right one. Also if I have to tell / help her use it, what works for you.
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Rabbits are completely hit or miss because it depends on how your anatomy lines up with the toy, and unsurprisingly anatomy varies a lot. Is she into g-spot stuff? An Njoy fun wand or pure wand doesn't buzz or anything, but it does have some kind of g-spot seeking magic if that's a good thing for her.
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Turtlicious posted:I'm getting my girlfriend an Xmas gift, years ago I got her a tiny vibe that she absolutely adores, and now I want to get her some cool thing that'll rock her world in a different way, so I looked at one of these: https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=15336&reviewpage=1#customer_reviews Go silicone or go home, IMHO. All the advice I have is the Magic Wand is the queen of external toys, and if you want a realistic dildo, Vixskin by Vixen are the best. Go wireless if you can. My question: My feet keep slipping on the bedroom carpet. I can't get any real leverage going. Any ideas to get more traction?
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Dec 7, 2017 07:23
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Beachcomber posted:Go silicone or go home, IMHO. http://www.americanfloormats.com/content/product/large/Kleen%20Thru%20Plus%20600.JPG
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Dec 7, 2017 07:40
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Just lol if you don't wear boots with crampons while having sex
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Dec 7, 2017 15:37
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This is why I strap myself into Batman's weird upside down sleeper thing before I gently caress
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Anne Whateley posted:Is she into g-spot stuff? An Njoy fun wand or pure wand doesn't buzz or anything, but it does have some kind of g-spot seeking magic if that's a good thing for her. Seconding this, bought my wife the pure wand for Christmas in 2014 and it's one of her favorite toys. Also works well for prostate stimulation if you're into that or want to try it out, and since it's made of stainless steel you can safely boil it or use harsh cleaners on it.
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Turtlicious posted:I'm getting my girlfriend an Xmas gift, years ago I got her a tiny vibe that she absolutely adores, and now I want to get her some cool thing that'll rock her world in a different way, so I looked at one of these: https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=15336&reviewpage=1#customer_reviews I am a fan of rabbit vibes and like my Jessica Rabbit one. I do not like g-spot stuff though, so I wouldn't like this model. I went with this one and I enjoy it. It's one of the few vibrators like this on the market (or was when I bought it) that doesn't have an annoying cycling function for the various speeds. The buttons make the swirly bit go faster/slower and the rabbit buzz stronger/weaker by pressing either up or down on the controls - which is how it should be, in my opinion. Simple to use even when you can't see, fun with a partner or without, pretty much everything I personally want in a rabbit vibe. As ever, the standard advice if you're not 100% sure is to shop with your partner alongside you. There's a chance that she might want the slimmer version, for example, if you are already confident she wants something with both clitoral stimulation and penetration. And regarding the anatomy differences - for me, this shape of clitoral stimulator can gently caress right off. I had one like that and it jammed me in the clit painfully and was not fun at all. But I assume they work for some people otherwise they wouldn't make them. So unless you're dead set on it being a surprise, consider making a cute voucher or something for her to open and shopping with her for the actual toy.
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My partner and I use Trojan condoms with their ULTRASMOOTH lubricant, which my partner prefers. Which of their bottled lubricants most resembles this stuff? There doesn't appear to be a ton of information aside from the buzzword names
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This reviewer compares it to this lube.
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MAKE NO BABBYS posted:Dude, just use a “secret photo vault” app. You’ll be fine. Can you link them? I’m not listening to his podcast
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What are the best positions if your bitch is tall and you are not (4’9’)
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On the fireplace mantle while your woman has sex with a real man in bed.
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vaginal facsimile posted:What are the best positions if your bitch is tall and you are not (4’9’) 
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vaginal facsimile posted:What are the best positions if your bitch is tall and you are not (4’9’) Depends, is he into oral?
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vaginal facsimile posted:What are the best positions if your bitch is tall and you are not (4’9’) Don't have sex with your dog even if it is female.
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What's this thread's stance on problematic kinks? I've had girls want me to slutshame them, fake-rape them, or abuse them in other ways, and I go along with it but it makes me feel weird. Like is this perpetuating harmful ideas or are these just things they want and can't change and they're not in a real context anyway so I shouldn't worry about them?
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You shouldn't do sex things that you're uncomfortable with, and you should listen and communicate with your partners to make sure the things you're doing are producing positive feelings It's ok to not like some things other people like and vice versa, some dudes like to get roughed up too
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Jeb! Repetition posted:What's this thread's stance on problematic kinks? I've had girls want me to slutshame them, fake-rape them, or abuse them in other ways, and I go along with it but it makes me feel weird. Like is this perpetuating harmful ideas or are these just things they want and can't change and they're not in a real context anyway so I shouldn't worry about them? You're right that we ultimately can't change what we want, but you shouldn't do things you're not comfortable with. If it's just the morality of it that bothers you, I don't think there's anything wrong with rape-play and stuff like that as long as there's no actual risk of harm, but if you don't like it on a visceral or personal level, don't force yourself.
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Don't force yourself to be sex positive, or ggg, whatever you want to call it, to the point you feel like you can't say no to something that really makes you feel bad. I think that's a trap a lot of well intentioned people fall into.
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I noticed you were asking if you'd be perpetuating harmful ideas if you participate. I have numerous friends who are sexual assault victims that find rape play to be very empowering and enjoy it a great deal. I do think there's a significant difference between someone calling me a whore or a dirty slut when I ask them to vs. someone who's saying that because they actually feel that way. As a pretty woke feminist, I don't think that you need to worry about making others think that it's cool if you slap women around in general because you slap them around in bed - especially if it's a thing you're doing behind closed doors in a very specific context. That being said, definitely don't do anything you're not comfortable with. It's totally legit to not enjoy degrading someone that you care about. However, I have found that it is pretty fun to hit someone who really, really likes it - even if it did initially make me feel weird.
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Also don't be the "woke" guy mansplaining to her that her kinks are problematic and wrong.
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I find that you should not wall off and hit them super hard even if they ask for it, I kind of got lost in the moment once and her jaw as a bit agape, we chipped a tooth. She was less than pleased.
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I think wanting to combine violence and domination with your sex life is extremely hosed up and that your instincts are good and you should trust them.
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Turtlicious posted:I find that you should not wall off and hit them super hard even if they ask for it, I kind of got lost in the moment once and her jaw as a bit agape, we chipped a tooth. She was less than pleased. That's pretty intense
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OwlFancier posted:I think wanting to combine violence and domination with your sex life is extremely hosed up and that your instincts are good and you should trust them. same goes for nearly any combination of things(meaning don't do things which permanently gently caress up your body) done between consenting adults, and tbqh get hosed if you disagree
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Turtlicious posted:I find that you should not wall off and hit them super hard even if they ask for it, I kind of got lost in the moment once and her jaw as a bit agape, we chipped a tooth. She was less than pleased. C'mon dude, not sure what you were expecting. I don't think you'll find many Maywether apologists in SA.....
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My fetish is to deliver insanely brutal combinations of punches, kicks, and off-the-top-rope aerial attacks to my partner's face and genitals If you have a problem with this you're a bigot
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