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That's fine too. I think some people just prefer the make sure you're saving enough and you don't have to think about budgeting approach. Again, all of these problems come from bad family members. Very rarely from strangers. If your family doesn't suck.....
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For the people who use LastPass, just use KeePass because it keeps your database stored locally. You can then save the (heavily encrypted) database online to like your google drive or something to act as a backup. There, no more concern about LastPass getting loving hacked again.
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# ? Mar 23, 2018 22:51 |
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KingSlime posted:This is the finance forum, do you really think logging in to your bank once every 1-3 days to check up on things is irrational or a chore? Checking once a week, or at least reading the monthly statements? That's more reasonable. Knowing what's going on with your money is good, but checking in on it constantly is irrational. Just like how washing your hands is good, but washing them every ten minutes is irrational.
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KingSlime posted:This is the finance forum, do you really think logging in to your bank once every 1-3 days to check up on things is irrational or a chore? That’s not what the claim was to which I was responding. E: do you cross-check charges with your significant other every day too? Subjunctive fucked around with this message at 23:07 on Mar 23, 2018 |
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Haifisch posted:Checking every 1-3 days? Unless you have reason to believe your account's been compromised, yes, that's excessive and possibly bordering on paranoia. How would you have a reason to believe it is compromised without taking a look? Obsessive checking is too much (that's why I prefer the text alert, I don't have to check anything, it notifies me of any changes), but I don't think once per day is too much. I generally log in every day or two to do my ledger stuff (confirm transactions have cleared, apply rewards balances that have accrued, etc) and then I'm done. Takes about 5 minutes to do for all of my accounts. That 5 minutes is well worth it to ensure my books are in order. Fraud is probably at the bottom of my concerns when I check, but just by logging in and comparing posted/pending transactions to what I have recorded (I use quicken & quicken mobile for this; mobile app is poo poo but the desktop app is p nice for managing stuff) I also check to see if any fraud or mistakes have happened. Most of those habits began in my BWM phase in my 20s when I frequently mismanaged money. A bit of discipline and routine has kept that in check for a while now. Subjunctive posted:Yeah, I do hourly sampling of my home’s power usage so I know the utility company isn’t cheating me. At a bare minimum checking your meter and comparing values isn't a bad idea. Also having a general idea of your power usage is a good idea. You don't need to know exactly what you're drawing at any given time, but if you know to an approximate level what you're running you can easily see if there is a problem. Sometimes the problem has nothing to do with the utility and is just a lovely appliance. In my BWM days I was the type that assumed plugging something in and running it all day had trivial costs; actually analyzing what I had and what I used put that into better perspective. Then I created strategies on lowering usage; comparing the MoM bills and YoY bills would then let me see if what I was doing made a real impact. Turns out it does. There's definitely an argument to be made about where the perfect balance is; but checking what you're being billed is the absolute bare minimum that one should be doing.
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Subjunctive posted:And you think the limit on that is laziness? Yep.
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Haifisch posted:Checking every 1-3 days? Unless you have reason to believe your account's been compromised, yes, that's excessive and possibly bordering on paranoia. Whaa?? It takes ten seconds to login? But also I do a lot of freelance work and get deposits from clients every few days so that might explain why logging into my bank is such a routine thing for me
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Subjunctive posted:Yeah, I do hourly sampling of my home’s power usage so I know the utility company isn’t cheating me. Look at this fool that doesn't simply break into his electrical box, turn the reader upside down for two weeks, and then turn it back around before they take the next reading.
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Haifisch posted:Checking every 1-3 days? Unless you have reason to believe your account's been compromised, yes, that's excessive and possibly bordering on paranoia. Depends what your risk tolerance is. I checked weekly but still had an account drained between a perfect storm of events. I still only check it weekly, but at least now it's an accepted risk.
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 03:11 |
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I just like lookin' at the numbers, man just lemme look at the numbers that keep getting bigger
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Higgy posted:I just like lookin' at the numbers, man same but smaller (they're bad numbers)
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Krispy Wafer posted:Oh man, the day I discovered the 'use non-ambiguous characters' button in LastPass was a red letter day in the Wafer household. No more l or I problems. So now when LastPass leaks all my passwords, the hackers will have no problem logging into everything I have. For about 15 years, I've had a Yahoo address that solely exists for places that will probably spam me, such as Pinterest. I can tell these places not to spam me, but no big deal if they do. Nothing important goes that email address and I check it perhaps every three months. Last time I checked, there were over 1,000 unread messages.
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 05:40 |
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quote:He has talked about divorce before; it seems to be his go-to strategy for whenever he is unhappy or doesn't feel like our relationship is what it should be, but this time he wasn't yelling, which makes me more apt to "believe him" and think this is not just him having a tantrum because we aren't having enough sex. Here’s a guy outraged over currency conversions: quote:First off just want to say I am in a financially sound position to spend this money on an engagement ring so I don't really need any comments about whether or not expensive engagement rings are worth the money.
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 07:37 |
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I travel enough where I get irritated by this too. Charge me in Euros? Fine. I’ll eat the cost. Charge me in dollars and I still have to pay the juice? gently caress that.
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Trying to get a review removed claiming someone isn’t a real customer is super scummy, though.
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Blinkman987 posted:I travel enough where I get irritated by this too. I think they only hit him on the return, which makes sense. Why would the retailer eat the exchange costs for an order that isn't even shipped? I am a bit curious if it was just invoiced as straight CAD though and that it didn't mention anything about conversion. I'm guessing that part is conveniently left out. 22 Eargesplitten posted:Trying to get a review removed claiming someone isn’t a real customer is super scummy, though. That's assuming he is accurately relaying that portion of course. What seems more likely to me is that Allurez disputed the claim and he took from that what he wanted. Happens all the time in my line of work where someone will complain to the BBB but they completely misunderstand the situation, so we dispute it and it gets knocked off. Then the person comes back irate that we are conspiring with the BBB about whatever. Not that BBB complaints even mean poo poo of course. All of that said, if their dispute claim was really that the person wasn't a customer then ya, that's scummy as gently caress, because even with a return they transacted business, thus he is a customer.
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 08:06 |
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It sucks for sure, I tried to wire money to the wrong account in Indonesia once and it was returned and lost a lot of value due to currency fluctuations. It wasn’t a fault of the bank (or in this case, the business).
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 09:58 |
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Try buying foreign currency from a bank sometime. Built in conversion fees throw people for a loop when they think they're getting it at the current FOREX rate. I've never had someone not do it once it was explained to them though.
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Hoodwinker posted:For the people who use LastPass, just use KeePass because it keeps your database stored locally. You can then save the (heavily encrypted) database online to like your google drive or something to act as a backup. There, no more concern about LastPass getting loving hacked again. KeePass is great, I have it in my cloud storage so I can update from anywhere I access it. The phone app also uses an unambiguous font, so there’s no question between 1 and I and l or O and 0
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Raldikuk posted:Not that BBB complaints even mean poo poo of course. That was my first thought; what was the last decade when the BBB mattered in any meaningful way? Why would anyone with literally anything else to do put the time and effort into filing/disputing those reports?
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Who would have thought that giving a hooker your debit card and PIN number could be bad with money?quote:Throwaway for obvious reasons, really feeling like a dumb rear end in a top hat right now, would very much appreciate it if I didn't get any snarky comments as I'm quite low already. So what happened was that I was in a red light district (a legal one in Germany, and I am a US citizen) and decided to enter one of the establishments. It's just me and the hooker in the room and before anything she pulls out a slip of paper that is essentially a receipt/contract I believe, and it states the amount I am paying (100Euro) and I sign it. I give her my card to pay the 100 and she also makes me write down the pin number on that paper I signed earlier and then she leaves with the card and paper to another room. I never got a copy of that paper and she doesn't let me see it again when I ask. https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/86rza3/escort_service_charged_my_debit_card_much_more/?st=jf5kt12i&sh=4e98f304
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If that dude knows what to say he won't be held liable for those at all. Just say his pin and card were stolen and the bank will just credit that poo poo back. It won't even be worth the hassle for them to really research that small of an amount from a foreign transaction. Should have done that as soon as he noticed it. I actually see this a lot with "strippers" somehow stealing people's phones or debit cards and making ~$500 withdrawals while they're in the club. Unless they have a bunch of claims the bank won't give them too much flack.
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# ? Mar 24, 2018 18:32 |
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GWM: legally change your gender from male to female, retire 5 years earlier than you otherwise would have.
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Women should work longer since they live longer. Misandry!
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Solice Kirsk posted:Women should work longer since they live longer. Misandry! Did you even read the article? I know the translation is not perfect but clearly they're saying that women are allowed to retire 5 years earlier than men.
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Devonaut posted:Did you even read the article? I know the translation is not perfect but clearly they're saying that women are allowed to retire 5 years earlier than men. Solice is making an ironic counterpoint.
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legendof posted:I use a password manager, have it generate random strings that I use for the answers, and then store the question and answer in the password manager as well.
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# ? Mar 25, 2018 05:18 |
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Randomized passwords from password managers regularly have over 100 entropy bits even for the 16 character ones.
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This is a pretty good thread. A bunch of silly BWM stories: What did you impulse buy that you instantly regretted? quote:I had an uncle who was STOKED to purchase a shipping container sight unseen filled to the brim with furniture which he planned to sell the piece at a time over the course of a few months. He was talking about making at least 8x what he was paying. quote:Got 1k in graduation money after high school and instead of putting it towards tuition or textbooks, or anything else, I bought a loving DJ set. Never learned how to use it. If I could go back in time, I would knock myself out and buy a used flying-V. quote:I bought a couch online once. It was grey. quote:I watched my coworker spend $25 (after tip to the driver) to have a sandwich delivered to our work. The sandwich normally costs $8, and the shop is 1.5 blocks from our work. quote:I bought a used MINI Cooper S. I thought I did my homework and bought a one owner car with a full service history and a clean carfax. By the end of my bonership with this car I was on a first name basis with my parts guy at MINI. The third day I had it the header cracked and there just went a grand the last month I had it put brand new Conti DWS tires on it and the DSC pump poo poo the bed later that week which was going to be another grand for just the part that's how bad it was. gently caress THAT CAR. I sold it a month later having never fixed the DSC pump. I didn't give a poo poo that the dashboard looked like a christmas tree. quote:Two years ago the Toronto Blue Jays were world series contenders for the first time since 1992. World Series tickets went on sale shortly after Jose Bautista's legendary bat flip. Obviously I couldn't get any tickets directly, so just said gently caress it and went through a re-sale site. quote:A ShamWow. I think it's actually worse at performing its intended function than any other product of its kind. quote:My first car. 245,000 miles on it, just shy of $7,000. Mom helped me out and paid half so I could buy it cash and pay her back over time. Cost me an additional $2,000 in maintenance, and I got $1,200 when I traded it in 6 months later. quote:I bought a fish tank and 12 fish when I was just visiting a pet store with my girlfriend literally less than a week ago. quote:Chocolate strawberry from Godiva in the mall. quote:One of those kiosk people in the mall ambushed me and started buffing my nails and putting lotion on me and I bought it. It actually wasn't bad stuff but I am annoyed at it, over a decade later.
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Switchback posted:This is a pretty good thread. A bunch of silly BWM stories: Probably the cheapest story in terms of money, but it made me burst out laughing.
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Don't reuse passwords, use a password manager like keepass, or even a spiral notebook that lives under your anime body pillow. It doesn't matter how pronounceable it is if you don't have to personally remember it, and you're probably not a savant that can remember a unique password for many sites.
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Reusing passwords, no matter how complex they are, is almost the most Bad With Security thing you can do. This is veering off topic, but haveibeenpwned.com is a great resource to see how many of your passwords might be floating around. Unique passwords for every site or die. I don’t have any BWM material to contribute at the moment but I figured it was important enough to continue the derail. Perhaps tomorrow I’ll see a horse.
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# ? Mar 25, 2018 13:09 |
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I use the same password for every website except SA I use horsemoney123!.
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# ? Mar 25, 2018 13:11 |
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there are a lot of people who read this and set their password to correct horse battery staple
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# ? Mar 25, 2018 15:16 |
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Frequent password changes just end up with everyone writing their passwords on post-it notes.
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Enfys posted:Probably the cheapest story in terms of money, but it made me burst out laughing. I bought $5 of chocolate from Godiva in the mall and apparently they illegally printed credit card information on the receipt. so now I am a class member in a lawsuit and in theory will receive a settlement of many times what I spent. So GWM I guess in the end.
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Congratulations on your future 75 cent settlement.
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Volmarias posted:Don't reuse passwords, use a password manager like keepass, or even a spiral notebook that lives under your anime body pillow. It doesn't matter how pronounceable it is if you don't have to personally remember it, and you're probably not a savant that can remember a unique password for many sites. I never said that people should reuse passwords.
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theHUNGERian posted:I never said that people should reuse passwords. When did you stop reusing your passwords?
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hailthefish posted:Congratulations on your future 75 cent coupon.
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