TheSickeningTruth posted:I've never claimed it harms me, nor that it hurts the social fabric. I'm not sure why everyone is acting like I'm on an anti-trans crusade or something. All I've said is that even is some male claims to be a she, he'll still have his xy chromosomes and everyone is behaving as if I said trans people should be put in concentration camps. People tell me to get hosed, to go die, but I'm the bad one. Whatever, I don't think what we're posting here has any impact on the lifes of trans people anyway. Because that is THE ultra no no subject here. In no way, shape, or form is anyone ever allowed to voice anything other than complete and total support and positiveness about the trans community that totally don't want equal rights but rather special protections.
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Fatkraken posted:It actually does. These are all good points, and I have changed my stance in this regard over the past several years. I admit that I struggle with the notion of 'preferred pronouns' when it comes to things like xe/xir - but I have yet to encounter this situation in my life. I would say that a little more understanding that mistakes happen would be in order, and accepting the apologies offered by the well-meaning friends would be healthy all-around. Of course, there are people who use this sort of thing to generate drama and gain some sort of perceived advantage. An example: Not exactly a gender issue, but some years ago, my wife had a student with a unique name. Wasn't hard to pronounce once it was learned, but about every two weeks, the parent would decide that it needed to be pronounced a different way. Of course, she didn't bother to tell anyone about her decision, she would just get huffy and start flinging accusations of racial bias and ill-intent. After a few cycles through the possible permutations of the name, it became clear that she was just addicted to the drama associated with being a victim and ultimately made it more difficult for other kids with hard-to pronounce names, because many preschool teachers aren't willing to put in the effort if all they are going to get is drama in return. I called Starloop "she" because I have always assumed it was a Sandi sockpuppet account - the language and perspective seemed to line up really well with what I have seen of her personality. It had nothing to do with weenie-tucking. Star Citizen is still bad.
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DapperDon posted:Because that is THE ultra no no subject here. In no way, shape, or form is anyone ever allowed to voice anything other than complete and total support and positiveness about the trans community that totally don't want equal rights but rather special protections. gently caress off, this is about respecting someone's chosen gender.
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Hav posted:People are generally awful and thoughtless, and a small kindness, just accepting someone as they want to be, is literally the lowest bar to having a society that functions. This is about the most profound thing you could say on the matter. You may not agree with someone's worldview on things, but it costs you nothing to be a decent person. Now I would like to point out that being decent and respectful of peoples wishes and not sharing in their belief system CAN occupy the same place.
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Jobbo_Fett posted:gently caress off, this is about respecting someone's chosen gender. Ah, so now you're Captain Forum Freedomfighter. Got it.
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Golli posted:I would say that a little more understanding that mistakes happen would be in order, and accepting the apologies offered by the well-meaning friends would be healthy all-around. This was a bit of an odd situation, it was a vague acquaintance rather than a friend, it was a bit more than a casual slip up and the apology was also a bit excessively long winded, the whole thing was just aggravating and ended up just causing a bit of a tilt for the friend who it happened to. They did accept the apology with good grace, they just had to have a bit of a vent about it in private later, the person who made the mistake never knew any of that. The vast majority of trans people are aware than mistakes occasionally happen and are fine as long as people make the effort
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Using someone chosen gender pronouns might be doable in english (and i'm all for it if it make someone feel better, unless they insist on using something without literary roots, i.e :Zie, Sie, Hir, Vis and other aberrant ideas. I like humanity in all colors of the rainbow but i'm not re-learning english to suit you.), but when you try to do it in language with grammatical gender it quickly turn complex sentences into a complete mess, without clear rules for verb ending and superlative accord.
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Come on CIG, I know you can screw up something today so we have something to talk about.
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Oh dear God you guys, this derail really needs to end. Whatever your opinions are on trans people, preferred pronouns, etc. this is absolutely not the place to discuss it.
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TheSickeningTruth posted:I've never claimed it harms me, nor that it hurts the social fabric. I'm not sure why everyone is acting like I'm on an anti-trans crusade or something. All I've said is that even is some male claims to be a she, he'll still have his xy chromosomes and everyone is behaving as if I said trans people should be put in concentration camps. People tell me to get hosed, to go die, but I'm the bad one. Whatever, I don't think what we're posting here has any impact on the lifes of trans people anyway. Besides the fact that X and Y chromosomes don't necessarily mean male... Why do you even care? Seriously I just look at this thread to see what stupid poo poo CIG has done lately. Evil_Greven fucked around with this message at 13:59 on Aug 14, 2018 |
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I think star citizen is a bad game, who is with me you guys?
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fatal oopsie-daisy posted:I think star citizen is a bad game, who is with me you guys?
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fatal oopsie-daisy posted:I think star citizen is a bad game, who is with me you guys? I think Star Citizen was cancelled when Chris Roberts absolved himself of responsibility for its development.
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fatal oopsie-daisy posted:I think star citizen is a bad game, who is with me you guys? Excuse me? Would it kill you to use Star Citizens chosen pronoun? Calling it "Scam" literally takes no energy on your part and referring to Scam as "Game" is very offensive to the posters ITT who have spent years working on Scam's true identity.
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So, no sign of santaball in the roadmap then?
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Who among the main cast at CIG et al, is most likely to turn state's evidence? I vote Sandi - provided they agree that she can play herself in the film adaptation.
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Golli posted:Who among the main cast at CIG et al, is most likely to turn state's evidence? He's probably already planned for that contingency. Chris and Sandi don't plan further than the nearest smooth flat surface.
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Star Citizen Release Incentive: 0 Results Found
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Vertisce, posting about star citizen is the game, we are just playing the free 2 play version.
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Lack of Gravitas posted:speaking of, we haven't seen any pics of our doggo moderator in a while
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RIP Starloop https://www.reddit.com/user/starloop You crazy bastard, I hope you are OK
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Beet Wagon posted:Oh dear God you guys, this derail really needs to end. Whatever your opinions are on trans people, preferred pronouns, etc. this is absolutely not the place to discuss it. Yeah, but look at all the lurkers. It's like Derek popped back in to say he and Chris had buried the hatchet.
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peter gabriel posted:RIP Starloop Man, what the hell did user/xb0r3dx even say to them??
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peter gabriel posted:RIP Starloop Also, get help. Dogeh fucked around with this message at 03:59 on Aug 15, 2018 |
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Dongsturm posted:What can change the nature of a man? Whatever you believe.
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Agony Aunt posted:Whatever you believe. I believe in a thing called love
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Dogeh posted:Also, get help. That's been the prevailing theory for a long time, I think. I'm not sure what it was that convinced people, but people have been calling "Boo" Sandi for years. Personally I don't think Sandi actually gives enough of a poo poo about anything to do with Star Citizen to do more than show up for their weekly video rundown things.
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Colostomy Bag posted:Come on CIG, I know you can screw up something today so we have something to talk about. And on the 70th month since Kickstarter, Chris rested...
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CIG is the biggest game development train wreck in history, by an enormous margin. There's practically no mistake they haven't made - we almost need to create a new word for the level of failure and ineptitude embodied by their Chairman. All that is true, and it still can't keep the interest of the denizens of a thread dedicated to it. We're drama content locusts.
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As always, if you're having suicidal thoughts don't suffer in silence : https://www.samaritans.org/ And if you're having thoughts about pledging for gently caress sake get help.
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Beet Wagon posted:That's been the prevailing theory for a long time, I think. I'm not sure what it was that convinced people, but people have been calling "Boo" Sandi for years. Personally I don't think Sandi actually gives enough of a poo poo about anything to do with Star Citizen to do more than show up for their weekly video rundown things. The idea that Sandi logs into redit at all is laughable in the extreme
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Beet Wagon posted:That's been the prevailing theory for a long time, I think. I'm not sure what it was that convinced people, but people have been calling "Boo" Sandi for years. Personally I don't think Sandi actually gives enough of a poo poo about anything to do with Star Citizen to do more than show up for their weekly video rundown things. There is just no way I'm buying the idea of Sandi doing literally anything other than whatever gets her face in front of a camera lens. The Beer emails are a sample of her direct involvement in a conversation with a high-profile backer, but that was for her own ego. No way in hell is she going to create forum accounts in different places and post about something she doesn't care about or understand on any level beyond how it gives her free, unearned money. It makes far more sense that she found a peon with her same attitude and set them loose. Some kind of drama queen social media warrior. They're paid to lie and be assholes. I can get behind the idea that Sandi is behind all their forum astroturfing because only toxic people are out there. You won't find polite, well-behaved "backers" trying to catch flies with honey rather than vinegar because being caustic and cruel is all Sandi knows.
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Brazilianpeanutwar posted:As always, if you're having suicidal thoughts don't suffer in silence : https://www.samaritans.org/ I read that as "smartians" and realized I've been in this thread too long.
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Yeah bro huxley is just some super fan, take off the foil hat.
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Beet Wagon posted:. Personally I don't think Sandi actually gives enough of a poo poo about anything to do with Star Citizen to do more than show up for their weekly video rundown things. I think you've nailed it. She doesn't ooze empathy. Kinda shows, though, that goons are more concerned about a troubled Citizen than the SC community are.
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Remember, old boo has been banned before on the official forums.
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Scruffpuff posted:I read that as "smartians" and realized I've been in this thread too long.
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Didn't Boo eat a ban for using the word "tickle" ?
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