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Sneaks McDevious: Jul 29, 2010; by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Manc Hill posted:

looks like night crew is back - and its worse than ever

Hello night crew

# ? Aug 29, 2018 08:59

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fridge corn: Apr 2, 2003; NO MERCY, ONLY PAIN

julian assflange posted:

I always wonder what thesr sort of people look like

# ? Aug 29, 2018 08:59

Bogan Krkic: Oct 31, 2010; Swedish style? No.
Yugoslavian style? Of course not.
It has to be Zlatan-style.

its fuckin weird to include sexual fetishes in your wedding no matter what level of hosed up or not they might be

# ? Aug 29, 2018 09:00

Sneaks McDevious: Jul 29, 2010; by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

fridge corn posted:

I always wonder what thesr sort of people look like

Turn OFF your monitor

# ? Aug 29, 2018 09:00

Sneaks McDevious: Jul 29, 2010; by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Pissflaps posted:

PWM: prep the bull you sissy

# ? Aug 29, 2018 09:01

Bogan Krkic: Oct 31, 2010; Swedish style? No.
Yugoslavian style? Of course not.
It has to be Zlatan-style.

julian assflange posted:

Turn OFF your monitor

drat, nice twist on the old classic

# ? Aug 29, 2018 09:01

African AIDS cum: Feb 29, 2012; Welcome back, welcome back, welcome baaaack

julian assflange posted:

Hello night crew

Absolutely devastating

# ? Aug 29, 2018 09:03

Bape Culture: Sep 13, 2006

Bogan Krkic posted:

its fuckin weird to include sexual fetishes in your wedding no matter what level of hosed up or not they might be

Wow thanks for telling me this sooner!!!!!

# ? Aug 29, 2018 10:02

Manc Hill: Jul 19, 2001; ^^this is u ^^this is me

julian assflange posted:

Hello night crew

hello!!!!!!!

# ? Aug 29, 2018 10:13

track day bro!: Feb 17, 2005; #essereFerrari; Grimey Drawer

grez ya fookin doyle

# ? Aug 29, 2018 11:02

fat gay nonce: May 13, 2003; _{actual penis length: |-----------|}

Winner, PWM POTM January

track day bro! posted:

grez ya fookin doyle

Grez got into some difficulty at work with some of the coloured lads

# ? Aug 29, 2018 11:25

Literally Lewis Hamilton: Feb 22, 2005

Bape Culture posted:

Wow thanks for telling me this sooner!!!!!

So did you prep the bull

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:20

paddyboat: Feb 20, 2013; Maxi, Maxi Rodriguez
Run down the wing for me

Pissflaps posted:

PWM: prep the bull you sissy

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:21

shut up blegum: Dec 17, 2008; --->Plastic Lawn<---

This was posted in the reddit relationship (I think) thread ages ago.
There's a follow up where they agree to display 'berth ell pup' (anagram of prep the bull) at the end of the video and tell their family that it's some Norse saying or w/e

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:37

shut up blegum: Dec 17, 2008; --->Plastic Lawn<---

I'm super glad I know stuff like that :suicide:

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:42

RideTheSpiral: Sep 18, 2005; College Slice

im back in bumfuckistan and hell im glad after 3 months in Europe

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:42

Literally Lewis Hamilton: Feb 22, 2005

Let me just start by saying I [25F] love my husband [30M] very much, we have been married for 3 years and have two children together.

I don't know where to start. Basically I keep finding that my husband prefers to watch gay porn. I'm not sure if he likes it more than the normal stuff but it happens a lot. When we first got together I found that he had posted ads on craigslist looking to hook up with men. I confronted him, and he said he would never do it again bla bla bla. Some time passes and I found out that he did it again!!! This was all before we were married and I'm very forgiving person. So I forgave him and we moved on.

We got married and everything seemed so great. Until he started watching gay porn and hiding it from me. I am not homophobic at all, and I might even be interested in trying MFM but it makes me feel so strange that he keeps hiding it.

A few months ago we got a little drunk and started speaking openly, he said he might be bi. That's fine with me! I don't have a problem with it and I told him that if he needed time to "explore" or whatever I would rather have him be open with me. He said he didn't actually want to go through having sex with a guy, and that he just likes watching videos with two guys jerking off. That's all fine, I just asked that he be open with me and tell me what turns him on, maybe I would watch with him. But he keeps hiding it from me.

I know that he has a reddit specifically for watching porn, so I looked up his username and saw that just a few weeks ago he posted a video (the only video on his profile) of two guys jerking off. He keeps telling me he doesn't even watch gay porn anymore and then I see this and I'm so so confused. But then I snooped more (I know I'm bad but we have a lot of history and it's a little hard to trust) and I went to look as his reddits history. It's all straight porn. Then I discovered that he has been pressing "hide" on all of the posts that are gay. And it seems to be getting more extreme because he's now watching videos of guys penetrating each other, which he told me before he doesn't even like to watch and that its "too far" for him.

I haven't confronted him yet and I know that I will, I'm just waiting to calm down so that we both don't get angry.

I feel like this is my last straw. How can I trust someone who I asked to be honest with me and he keeps deliberately lying (if you count omission as lying). This has just happened so many times that I'm not sure if I can trust him. At the same time I would never want to spit our family apart. I feel trapped. What should I do?

I'm not sure what I'm looking to get here but I needed to vent. Please has anyone been through ANYTHING similar?

# ? Aug 29, 2018 12:44

mang: Jul 21, 2015

I have been through something similar OP thank you for asking. And well,

# ? Aug 29, 2018 13:35

track day bro!: Feb 17, 2005; #essereFerrari; Grimey Drawer

go on

# ? Aug 29, 2018 13:57

brocked: Oct 25, 2005; All shall love me and despair!

Stop cutting off the video game console chat at the end of all these stories

# ? Aug 29, 2018 15:42

shut up blegum: Dec 17, 2008; --->Plastic Lawn<---

shut up blegum posted:

This was posted in the reddit relationship (I think) thread ages ago.
There's a follow up where they agree to display 'berth ell pup' (anagram of prep the bull) at the end of the video and tell their family that it's some Norse saying or w/e

I posted this thread a few days ago:
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/544j8m/my_28f_fiances_31m_fetish_is_getting_out_of/
Since then a lot of people have private messaged me with good advice. Some people have insulted my fiance. A couple tried to get themselves involved in my sex life by asking if they could be a bull (what the gently caress?). I took the advice to heart and had a talk with my fiance.
Here's what happened:
The hotwifing/cuckold fetish stuff continued on as I expected. He continuously kept pushing new ideas about how I can humiliate him at our wedding. First he asked if we could get married with my boyfriend's semen inside of me, and I said no. Somewhere between his suggestion that my vows to him involve talking about how useless and pathetic of a man he is, and his other suggestion about me wearing an "I <3 BBC" anklet (he goes crazy when I talk about my black exes although I'm not sure how I feel about him fetishizing a race), I interrupted him and told him it wasn't working for me. I basically poured out all of my feelings about how his attitude is ruining my wedding.
After a lot of talking, some yelling, and an unhealthy dose of self-deprecation from him, we've come to an understanding that I want to please him, but don't want to make it public. So, where possible, we're working in a few things that he wants to do, but they're very small and limited. It makes him so happy when I agree to an idea so I can't help doing something. Instead of writing "prep the bull" at the end of our highlight video, we're going to write berth ell pup, which is an anagram of it. If asked we'll just say it means "I love you" in Old Norse. I won't wear a visible anklet, but I'll wear panties with a similar message on them (with another white pair on top). As for having sex with my boyfriend before the wedding in the makeup room, I told him that definitely crosses the line and the answer will still be no.
We have started couples counseling with a therapist who is qualified as a sex therapist as well. We all acknowledged that my fiance has a serious problem, although the therapist said that indulging in his desires from time to time is not terribly harmful in this sort of case. She gave us indispensable advice about instead of focusing on what I refuse to do, focus on a line of what we can do, making clear rules. He should respect those rules by not even suggesting something which bends them. My rules are if it's safe, painless, and private, I'll happily consider it.
Things are going better now although there was one hiccup of him getting turned on during the therapist's meeting and later admitting in private that he was playing with himself in the bathroom (apparently when the two of us were discussing how he was being selfish it set him off?). I was too confused to know what to say, but shaming him for having sexual desires doesn't seem right either. I don't know if I want to bring this up in our next session.
tl;dr: Drew some lines with my fiance, and things are going better! We're in therapy now. Thank you for your great advice.

# ? Aug 29, 2018 16:19