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Nocheez
Sep 5, 2000

Can you spare a little cheddar?
Nap Ghost

canyoneer posted:

Sometimes I'm offended at the ads facebook pushes to me



BWM: paying for an education in pet reiki, or paying for reiki for your pet.

I have absolutely nothing in my "likes" section of facebook and scrubbed as much personal detail as I could. Now I get some of the oddest ads, simply because they're targeting 18-40 year old Americans. I get ads for Disney, I get ads for timeshares. I even got one for a cricket match, and I've never, ever watched cricket. It really messes up their algorithms.

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Devian666
Aug 20, 2008

Take some advice Chris.

Fun Shoe
I have seen some discussion over meth testing nonsense. New Zealand created a fake problem by selecting an inappropriate testing level that was used for political gain. If there is some politician pushing for meth testing as an excuse to make people homeless and create a meth testing industry that isn't needed then you may want to refer them to this article.

https://www.stuff.co.nz/national/politics/107225424/housing-nz-to-compensate-800-tenants-over-bogus-meth-testing

quote:

Housing New Zealand will compensate 800 tenants kicked out of their homes for meth tests the agency now admits were wrongly used and not needed.

In a huge mea culpa, the state housing agency has finally apologised and admitted to misusing a Ministry of Health guideline while pursuing an "dogmatic" policy of zero tolerance it now admits has "little merit" and cost $100m in unnecessary tests and cleanup.

The apology and offer to compensate kicked-out tenants by between $2500 and $3000 comes as a report into the agency's meth testing regime was finally released on Thursday morning.

It found that between July 2013 and May 2018 nearly 5000 Housing New Zealand (HNZ) properties were tested for meth contamination, with about half of these tests testing positive for the too-low standard at the time.

This is a costly disaster that could have been avoided. Even the new cut off point is set ridiculously low. No word on compensating landlords who were misled into major building work because of the testing.

KYOON GRIFFEY JR
Apr 12, 2010



Runner-up, TRP Sack Race 2021/22

Lockback posted:

Disney is a bit like Vegas in that it can mostly conform to your budget, but with no upper bound. That latter piece is why it can end up ballooning on people who end up spending like 15 grand for 5 days for a family of 4.

You can do it pretty cheapo by staying off-site, doing a couple days in Disney and a couple days doing some of the other Orlando family stuff. It's still not going to be a shoestring budget but it can fall in line with most destination vacations. Most people decide "If I'm doing Disney I want to do all the stuff" which gets pricey.

Disney talk is boring. Here's one. It's long but it hits a lot of BWM tropes, in a pretty sad kinda way. I'll try to bold highlights, but it's basically all a highlight.
I'm over $40,000 dollars in debt and I don't know how to combat it. I need some help.
https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/9fbh7g/im_over_40000_dollars_in_debt_and_i_dont_know_how/

tha homie owes four thousand dollars in driving violations

dude

dude

brugroffil
Nov 30, 2015


Lockback posted:



Disney talk is boring. Here's one. It's long but it hits a lot of BWM tropes, in a pretty sad kinda way. I'll try to bold highlights, but it's basically all a highlight.
I'm over $40,000 dollars in debt and I don't know how to combat it. I need some help.
https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/9fbh7g/im_over_40000_dollars_in_debt_and_i_dont_know_how/

How does one person make this many bad decisions

Moneyball
Jul 11, 2005

It's a problem you think we need to explain ourselves.

brugroffil posted:

How does one person make this many bad decisions

https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3827922

KYOON GRIFFEY JR
Apr 12, 2010



Runner-up, TRP Sack Race 2021/22
edit: :cawg:

brugroffil posted:

How does one person make this many bad decisions

it's gotta be one of those things like in mobile app games where like 0.1% of the users represent 98% of the revenue

0.1% of Americans make 98% of the total bad decisions

edit: i like that he just kind of glosses over that he defaulted on some loans and bounced some checks when he was younger nbd

KYOON GRIFFEY JR fucked around with this message at 02:52 on Sep 20, 2018

Suspicious Lump
Mar 11, 2004
Guy buys a bought even though he has no idea how to safely operate it. In the first week this happens:

quote:

A friend who has never been on a boat, decided that it would be a good idea to buy one... got close to the shore, waves rolled him over... Got it totally trashed the first week... Complete loss...
Story not complete..he actually flew from Mexico to California to buy this, bought against all of us suggestion a jet engine instead of an outboard.... Paid a friend to drive 1000 miles to help them tow the boat back... Did not go for a test drive, first time he ever driven a boat, did not have a license or boat registration,yet.. insurance won't cover...and can't get out... Beach is not accessible..boat is full in sand..has been there for 2 days already... One of the Passengers almost drowned.... What could possibly go wrong?..all in one week..

quote:

Q: What exactly was he doing going in so close to shore?

OP: ... girls...
https://www.reddit.com/r/Whatcouldgowrong/comments/9h909h/a_friend_who_has_never_been_on_a_boat_decided/

:stare:

FrozenVent
May 1, 2009

The Boeing 737-200QC is the undisputed workhorse of the skies.
That’s basically pleasure_boater.jpg though.

mandatory lesbian
Dec 18, 2012

KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:

tha homie owes four thousand dollars in driving violations

dude

dude

I imagine the last 3000 dollars worth of tickets has been driving on a suspended license

FAUXTON
Jun 2, 2005

spero che tu stia bene

BEHOLD: MY CAPE posted:

Pediatric ER isn't that bad in my experience. 99% coughs ear infections bumps and bruises, with the chronically ill medically complicated patients usually being admitted directly to their appropriate service such as oncology or cardiology and the grevious heart-wrenching stuff like car accidents usually evaluated by surgeons. Guess your experience can vary a lot by location and even a small dose of child-related sadness can be a lot to cope with but a lot of nurses I knew liked peds ED.

Kids among the big hispanic community in my city have been attempting suicide way more frequently since oh 2016 or so and it's driving my mother into early retirement from her job in the ED at the local children's hospital. :smith:

Lockback
Sep 3, 2006

All days are nights to see till I see thee; and nights bright days when dreams do show me thee.
(edited for readability and bolding)
Upside down on Camry.

quote:

Hey guys/girls,

First time poster in this forum. I’m looking to get a little bit of insight on this matter at hand. First off the car I have is a 2013 Camry with around 120k on the dash currently. So, my question is should I look into either holding on to it and just rocking out with the rest of the payments or should I see about getting a different car with lower mileage?

Little back story I had a car that I owned about a year and a half about but the transmission went. I was in need of a car and didn’t have a lot to put down on a car so I went to one of “those” places. Got a car(the Camry) for about 600 down. I’ve had the car for about a year and a half made the payments on time with zero issue with any of them. I have about 51 months left with a total of 17k left with 8500 just for the interest alone. Aghhh. So I haven’t had to do anything crazy maintenance wise to the car since I’ve had it. Thank god. My credit score is around the low 600s I make around 18 per hour at my job. My payment for the car now is really high already it’s 480 per month. Would it be smart to just hold onto the car since it’s a Camry and the shape and drive ability of it has been great or should I look into having that car rolled into a car with a lot more miles?

Would it even be worth my time doing that because I don’t want to get killed with even higher payments. I know if I do go that route the payments will be high because the old payment has to get covered somewhere. So basically what would be the smarter of the two options? Thanks for any valuable input on the topic and sorry for the grammar errors. Thanks again all.


I dug a really deep hole for a 2013 Camry. Should I keep digging?

edit: In 2017 the guy bought a 4 year old Camry with 100k miles on it for ~$35,000, mother of god

Lockback fucked around with this message at 16:15 on Sep 20, 2018

Nocheez
Sep 5, 2000

Can you spare a little cheddar?
Nap Ghost

Lockback posted:

(edited for readability and bolding)
Upside down on Camry.


I dug a really deep hole for a 2013 Camry. Should I keep digging?

They would be so much more hosed on almost any other car. Thankfully it's still a fairly reliable car, and they might be able to get through if they don't make any other stupid decisions (lol).

Hutzpah
Nov 6, 2009
Fun Shoe

Nocheez posted:

They would be so much more hosed on almost any other car. Thankfully it's still a fairly reliable car, and they might be able to get through if they don't make any other stupid decisions (lol).

I'm looking forward to him rolling the negative equity into a new 6 year note on a 2018 challenger.

Bird in a Blender
Nov 17, 2005

It's amazing what they can do with computers these days.

Lockback posted:

(edited for readability and bolding)
Upside down on Camry.


I dug a really deep hole for a 2013 Camry. Should I keep digging?

edit: In 2017 the guy bought a 4 year old Camry with 100k miles on it for $25,000, mother of god

I was trying to figure out what he bought it for and then you edited. My god this guy was ripped off. A new Camry right now would cost less than that.

Lockback
Sep 3, 2006

All days are nights to see till I see thee; and nights bright days when dreams do show me thee.

Bird in a Blender posted:

I was trying to figure out what he bought it for and then you edited. My god this guy was ripped off. A new Camry right now would cost less than that.

I did my math wrong.

He said he's had it for ~18 months and he has 51 more months, so I assume it was probably a 72 month loan(!) at $480 a month. That comes out to just short of $35,000 for the car. It's possible the payments are variable, or the length might have been for a weird length but yeah. Holy poo poo this guy got ripped off.

I'm sure there are penalties for paying early too.

Enos Cabell
Nov 3, 2004


Bird in a Blender posted:

I was trying to figure out what he bought it for and then you edited. My god this guy was ripped off. A new Camry right now would cost less than that.

Agree the dude got fleeced, but I priced out a Camry the other day and it was just a hair under $40k with the options I wanted. And no I didn't go BWM and buy it, I just like to spec out models I think will be desirable on the used market in a few years.

Baxate
Feb 1, 2011

What’s the interest rate on that. He says he has 17k remaining in principle but 8500 in interest

It sounds like the price of the car was around 25,000 but he’s got like 15% apr or something ridiculous

Lockback
Sep 3, 2006

All days are nights to see till I see thee; and nights bright days when dreams do show me thee.

Baxate posted:

What’s the interest rate on that. He says he has 17k remaining in principle but 8500 in interest

It sounds like the price of the car was around 25,000 but he’s got like 15% apr or something ridiculous

If the car was 25k, 12% interest would give him a payment of 489 over 72 months. Looking at 2014,2015 Camry's with around that mileage today it seems like a price of 10k-13k would probably be fair.

So he got screwed both on the purchase price and check-cashing-level financing.

DJCobol
May 16, 2003

CALL OF DUTY! :rock:
Grimey Drawer

Enos Cabell posted:

Agree the dude got fleeced, but I priced out a Camry the other day and it was just a hair under $40k with the options I wanted. And no I didn't go BWM and buy it, I just like to spec out models I think will be desirable on the used market in a few years.

You built a new one. This dude has a 5 year old Camry with 1xx,xxx miles on it. Not even close to the same comparison.

KYOON GRIFFEY JR
Apr 12, 2010



Runner-up, TRP Sack Race 2021/22

Enos Cabell posted:

Agree the dude got fleeced, but I priced out a Camry the other day and it was just a hair under $40k with the options I wanted. And no I didn't go BWM and buy it, I just like to spec out models I think will be desirable on the used market in a few years.

yea man this is a five year old camrye:f,b

i notice our friend does not mention the interest rate on the note

the whole point of a BHPH place is you get like a 2002 Ford Escort for like sixty five bucks a week in perpetuity that will last you until you scrape together the cash to buy a more reputable car, drat dude

Enos Cabell
Nov 3, 2004


I was responding to a post that said you can go out and buy a new one for $25k. Which technically is true, I was just surprised that they go all the way up to 40k now. For a Camry.

hailthefish
Oct 24, 2010

There's always been surprisingly high end Camry packages available and if the last time you priced a Camry was in 2000 or so, inflation probably crept up on you.

Moneyball
Jul 11, 2005

It's a problem you think we need to explain ourselves.
But is 40k too much to pay for a car?

Not a Children
Oct 9, 2012

Don't need a holster if you never stop shooting.

What the hell? I got my (admittedly lower-mid trim) 2012 Camry for $23,500 brand spankin' new.

This guy got crazy ripped off.

Enos Cabell
Nov 3, 2004


To atone for my bad Camry post, here is a gem I found from a few months back in the r/relationships thread:

quote:

Boyfriend [23M] mocks me [23F] for not getting a new car that I certainly can't afford.

My boyfriend and I recently found new jobs and we're making about the same. We've been together for 2 years. But I think it's now clear we have very different financial habits. I grew up frugally and I don't like to be in debt at all. He says debt is cool.

My plan is to pay back my student loans (I have about $10K, he has about $25K) as soon as possible so that I pay less in interest and I can free up my income sooner. He thinks his student loans are too much so he wants to drag it along for as long as he can by paying the minimum.

He recently bought got a new car (Honda Accord) and it's a lease and he says he's only paying about $300 a month and he says I should do the same but when I did the math I realized that I would be paying about $12000 in 3 years and I won't even get the car at the end of the lease. This is something I can't afford. I have $3000 in savings for car and my parents and siblings gave me another $2000 so I'm just going to get a $5000 car. Once I'm paid up with the student loans and I have more savings I can sell this and get a better car.

My boyfriend has been mocking me for my decisions and tells me that I'm being crazy frugal and I won't ever enjoy my life with this mindset, he went as far as saying what I'm doing is unhealthy and if I keep this up for a few years it can be borderline mental illness.

How can I get him to stop and respect my financial decisions?

tldr: Boyfriend and I have different spending/saving habits. I live frugally and don't like debt, he's fine with debt. He's mocking me for not leasing a car. How do I get him to respect my financial decisions?

Barry
Aug 1, 2003

Hardened Criminal

quote:

He says debt is cool.

DEMAG
Aug 14, 2003

You're it.

quote:

He says debt is cool.

Now that's a thread title.

KYOON GRIFFEY JR
Apr 12, 2010



Runner-up, TRP Sack Race 2021/22

Moneyball posted:

But is 40k too much to pay for a car?

it's the right amount to lease a Nissan Altima

Hoodwinker
Nov 7, 2005

*puts on sunglasses and lights a cigarette*
remember kids, debt is cool
*blows a smoke ring and skateboards off a cliff into the ocean*

Nocheez
Sep 5, 2000

Can you spare a little cheddar?
Nap Ghost

Enos Cabell posted:

I was responding to a post that said you can go out and buy a new one for $25k. Which technically is true, I was just surprised that they go all the way up to 40k now. For a Camry.

The hybrid model gets 50mpg. It's crazy.

Krispy Wafer
Jul 26, 2002

I shouted out "Free the exposed 67"
But they stood on my hair and told me I was fat

Grimey Drawer
Chicks dig plastic...and scars from past financial mistakes.

Vox Nihili
May 28, 2008

This is maybe 30% BWM and 70% BWL but it's crazy enough that I'm posting it anyway:

https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/9hakgy/the_house_i_live_in_is_a_biohazard_if_i_tell_my/?sort=top

The house I live in is a biohazard, if I tell my doctor could it be condemned? Will my family be homeless?

I live in Delaware, USA. So, 2 years ago my family moved into a grand old Victorian house. We were specifically told it was bat free. As soon as we moved in, I started hearing a tremendous commotion in the walls and ceiling of the room I was sleeping in. My parents refused to believe me because they were told by the previous owners it was ‘supposed to be bat free’. They kept up this denial for ages even when they saw a bat literally fly out of the wall. More and more evidence mounted until it became undeniable- there is guano all throughout the walls and on the floor in some rooms, in other rooms it absolutely reeks of guano in the summertime. Over a decade’s worth of guano has been filling this house. One time a pipe froze and burst the ceiling open, and masses of guano came falling out. Every morning it’s like a bat roulette- during the active season chances are you’ll wake up to a bat flying around your room. They’re coming out of the walls on every floor, getting trapped and dying in our closets, baby bats are crawling out of our fireplace, they’re even in the basement for some reason even though bats prefer to live in high up places. In the attic there was evidence of a house fire no doubt exacerbated by their heaps of highly flammable poo poo. Considering how poorly the electric was done here, I am in constant fear of this whole place blowing up like dynamite. Man alive, there are so many bats. So many bats. You can see them leave our roof in droves every evening. This house is a living nightmare of bats and bat poo poo.

My parents tried three separate times to remediate the bats- no such luck, it was a huge waste of money. The house is so old, decrepit, huge and its design is so convoluted and inaccessible that with every hole you seal, the bats discover a dozen more. They can fit through holes as small as 1/4th of an inch. And it’s illegal to exterminate them, and my mom refuses to let us try because she ‘likes them’.

So ever since we moved here, unsurprisingly everyone has been feeling run down and having chronic respiratory issues. My mom has athsma and she has become so weak and frail it’s frankly distressing, but she refuses to see a doctor. She thinks this house is perfect and gets angry when anyone disagrees. We have a lot of cats and one doesn’t get along with the rest so he has his own private room, unfortunately the only room they could keep him in has a very distinct guano smell and is a bat hotspot. Now part of his lung has collapsed and he struggles to breathe, and I can only imagine it has something to do with the bats. I have pleaded with my parents to rehome him so he doesn’t have to suffer like this, but no avail. Some nights I just wish I could grab him and run away from home. Every time I sleep in that room, I wake up with a low grade fever and pain in my ears, sinuses and neck for days.

So I’ve been struggling with chronically feeling ill and then on top of that I developed an extremely rare medication reaction (1 in 20,000 chance) that put me in a specialized hospital for burn victims for a week. Afterwards I was on a high dose of steroids for about a month, and from what I understand this compromises the immune system. I went up to the third floor one day to find something, but the bats are so bad up there there is literally guano spilling out of the electrical sockets. There are dead bats and guano everywhere, covering all of my childhood memories which my parents dumped up there. Anyway. Not long after I start feeling run down, but think nothing of it. Later I nearly collapse at work and have to be sent home- I have a fever, pain all over, shaking, the works. My symptoms have progressed to coughing up yellow bloody crap and stuff oozing out of my eyes, my ears feel like they’re going to explode. I am really sick and not getting much better. I know it’s fully possible I just have a regular bug, but my symptoms also match up histoplasmosis, a disease contracted from a fungus that grows on bat guano. Unlike a regular bug, it can kill you. What makes me consider it especially is how I’ve been chronically sick leading up to getting a lot sicker just after my immune system was compromised.

Thanks for reading all that backstory. It’s probably more exposition than necessary, but I have no one else in the world to tell this to. Now here is my actual question- I’ll never know if this is serious or not unless I ask a doctor, in which case I have to explain how I was in constant contact with bats and guano. My mom insists that if I let this information out, they will condemn our house or at least try to force us to remediate the bats, which we can’t afford to do. Can they really do that? I don’t want to risk my whole family becoming homeless over what could be just a normal flu. Please help shed some light on this for me. I’m very isolated and my family is so dysfunctional they can convince me of some pretty crazy stuff.

Ghostnuke
Sep 21, 2005

Throw this in a pot, add some broth, a potato? Baby you got a stew going!


have less bats

no

Krispy Wafer
Jul 26, 2002

I shouted out "Free the exposed 67"
But they stood on my hair and told me I was fat

Grimey Drawer
I never said it was bat free. I distinctly wrote 'bat, free' as in you will receive free bats.

Trustworthy
Dec 28, 2004

with catte-like thread
upon our prey we steal
I like the part where they're cat hoarders, but since everything else is so insane you could read the story without even noticing

Ashcans
Jan 2, 2006

Let's do the space-time warp again!

Vox Nihili posted:

Bats in the Walls, literally

Fittingly, Lovecraft was also BWM and only survived on the remnants of his inheritance.

Sirotan
Oct 17, 2006

Sirotan is a seal.


He and the rest of his family (and pets) are literally dying in this house filled with bats and bat poo poo, jesus gently caress maybe someone can internet detective who this guy is from his Reddit account and save him from himself.

metallicaeg
Nov 28, 2005

Evil Red Wings Owner Wario Lemieux Steals Stanley Cup

This lead me to learning more about rabies than I ever knew before, which pretty much consisted of that episode of The Office

BMan
Oct 31, 2015

KNIIIIIIFE
EEEEEYYYYE
ATTAAAACK


It sure sounds like being homeless would be a significant upgrade

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Ashcans
Jan 2, 2006

Let's do the space-time warp again!

Man there is a lot going on with that poster if you start to look. :stare:

quote:


I am desperate to leave as soon as I can, but most of my money has gone to medical bills and helping my boyfriend move into a halfway house.

my boyfriend who is a recovering alcoholic who suffered a similar duration of isolation and stagnation due to a 10 year probation/prison sentence

I dropped out a couple weeks into 9th grade at age 14, before that all I knew was a few years of public elementary school, homeschooling and two very unconventional private schools. I was left to my own devices after that and for my teenagehood into my early 20s I essentially lived inside my head

Honestly pretty depressing because there isn't a lot of ways up without even finishing high school and if her boyfriend did 10 years he's not going to have a heap of great opportunities either. It sounds like both their families a total mess as well.

But she needs to get the hell out of the bat house or she's going to be dead.

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