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 if you take both his hands off with one axe swing50 if you bisect him
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Kuato posted:Enjoy being single. I've been down a similar path. Divorced out of a massively abusive relationship. Burned my old account because the forums were okay with personal attacks on abuse victims so long as they were men. The hypocrisy was neck-deep at the time, and I was not in shape to deal with it. Work out, get healthy, enjoy your hobbies. The rest will take care of itself. Trying to do it the other way around is a bad path. Protip: Absolutely nothing anybody tells you about the dating scene has anything to do with reality, especially if they've been out of it for a few years. It's all anecdotes and personal beliefs. The current dating scene is miserable no matter where you go. If you self-improve, trust me everything will work itself out. I was to the point that my dates were complaining that I wasn't trying to have sex with them like men are "supposed" to do. Happily married for a year now. Wake up every day totally content with my life and everything that's led to this point.
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revwinnebago posted:I've been down a similar path. Divorced out of a massively abusive relationship. Burned my old account because the forums were okay with personal attacks on abuse victims so long as they were men. The hypocrisy was neck-deep at the time, and I was not in shape to deal with it. nice gamergate meltdown in your rap sheet lol
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revwinnebago posted:
I just want to stress, repeatedly, if needed, in multiple threads and posts, over and over again as often as I possibly can: definitely same here
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May 20, 2019 18:49
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I mean that. Just constant complaints from dates that I wasn't trying to have sex with them like I was supposed to. Just...new and completely unexpected from the norm sex, not the kind they were expecting from their normal dates or with any concern with how I was "supposed" to be doing it.
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May 20, 2019 18:50
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Big Beef City posted:I mean that. Sounds like my gf. I just want to play Blackout, and she wants me to hang out with her and do stuff with her. V hosed up imo
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May 20, 2019 18:52
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Same, but during sex
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May 20, 2019 18:52
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Drunk Nerds posted:Same, but during sex It's like God flipped on a sexual light switch. "What if sex isn't SUPPOSED to be like this". Boom. A real game changer and really freed up my mind to whole new worlds of what SHOULD be expected from sex and what I COULD be expecting from it and now? Wow. Let me tell you brothers and sisters. It's something. And it's very real.
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May 20, 2019 18:56
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Go outside often, get a dog, get in shape
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May 20, 2019 19:09
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No Rise above carnal needs Join an abbey
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May 20, 2019 19:16
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Have you heard of the red pill op?
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May 20, 2019 19:26
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If you cut off your own dick you never need to worry about it again! Could get a cool name lik white wurm too, it's all positives as far as I can tell.
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May 20, 2019 19:37
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Is that Lena Dunham?
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May 20, 2019 19:41
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WatermelonGun posted:in case anyone is wondering he got banned from twitter for saying the slave trade was good because it brought jesus to Africa. I figure offsite is okay in this case because op cannot stop talking about twitter, even when his life is falling apart. How did defending the slave trade result in a twitter ban? The company is famously run by nazis
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May 20, 2019 19:45
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lol you could totally slay all these loose , thirsty women ??? no wonder your wife left you.
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May 20, 2019 20:06
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Other people? No thanks.
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May 20, 2019 20:17
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Now might be a good time to try the gay stuff OP
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Icochet posted:Now might be a good time to try the gay stuff OP *smelling a dick like a fine cigar* ahh, that's the gay stuff
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May 20, 2019 20:36
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You seem extremely hateful, OP, as do most of the posters ITT who are offering their support, so you should probably adjust your entire worldview
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May 20, 2019 20:58
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cnut posted:Dude should have been practicing some push-ups, imo. I like how you can see that his right arm is a little bigger than his left one (which is emaciated af), so you know that's the one he unblocks his flesh chain with.
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May 20, 2019 21:08
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DarkSoulsTantrum posted:Go outside often, get a dog, get in shape p sure this is the most concise route to happiness possible
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May 20, 2019 21:10
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gary oldmans diary posted:op being separated and out of practice puts you in overlapping territory of 2 distinct warring groups so you gotta be aware that the Ex-sex-havers are the ones having sex with their ex and the ex-sex-havers are the ones not having any sex. note the capital letter not op but this was SUPER helpful thank u
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May 20, 2019 21:15
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Eugene V. Deadlift posted:Hey, real talk. That sucks, man. Hang in there
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May 20, 2019 21:52
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Big Beef City posted:It's like God flipped on a sexual light switch. Dang. Being honest here because I don't care what anyone thinks What? What are you guys talking about?
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guestimate posted:Dang. it is the moment of sexual apotheosis when you realize what you want from a sexual encounter rather than what (select influence here) tells you to want the answer is different for every person, as is the influences involved, but many, many dudes tend to realize that the sexual conquest sort of poo poo that men are 'supposed' to want from the meme that they 'only want one thing' is incredibly loving boring and time consuming. for every purpose aside from bragging to your bros, your hand or a fleshlight will do as good a job (if not better) than your stereotypical barfly. with that revelation in mind you can say stuff like "yeah hookups are great but have you tried passionate sex with someone you have a mental and emotional connection with?  "
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May 20, 2019 22:14
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guestimate posted:Dang. Buttstuff
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May 20, 2019 22:26
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which c-spam poster is your exwife
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Coolguye posted:it is the moment of sexual apotheosis when you realize what you want from a sexual encounter rather than what (select influence here) tells you to want Thank you. Due to physiology, women learn this sooner (way easier to come when you love the guy) [Usually, for most women, incontrovertibly.] Sex is so much better with love. Those who don't know this are genuinely and sadly missing out.
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Commie NedFlanders posted:After some therapy work, I recognize that I had been struggling with a terrible personality curse and untreated PTSD for years, and using unhealthy coping mechanisms such as self medication. At times this would cause me to do stupid poo poo like post giant threads about the decaying state of our culture or when I was really out of it I would just bitch about c-spam and well she was a great woman and dutiful wife but everyone has their limits and when twitter banned me the writing was on the wall 
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OP you should talk to a therapist or psych or w/e and maybe find a support group for recent divorce, consider meds, it will put you in a better, healthier place to get back out there. E: You already are! I say this so often that it's surprising to see someone already doing it. Good job and good luck.
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Coolguye posted:it is the moment of sexual apotheosis when you realize what you want from a sexual encounter rather than what (select influence here) tells you to want Sounds like someone needs to try pegging
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Commie NedFlanders posted:After some therapy work, I recognize that I had been struggling with a terrible personality curse and untreated PTSD for years, and using unhealthy coping mechanisms such as self medication. At times this would cause me to do stupid poo poo like post giant threads about the decaying state of our culture or when I was really out of it I would just bitch about c-spam and well she was a great woman and dutiful wife but everyone has their limits and when twitter banned me the writing was on the wall Coming from a similar situation minus Twitter ban, I understand what it's like. It's wild, new, and totally blows, but you're gonna get through it. The big thing for me that completely changed my life was getting Ketamine therapy. I went from struggling with untreated PTSD, not sleeping for long stretches cause of nightmares, and getting hosed up every day to having a functional life and career. Whatever you do, it starts with getting help. Companionship is always wonderful, but be wary of codependent tendencies, and ultimately starting all of it again with another person. Be safe, and be good.
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May 20, 2019 22:39
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Jose posted:Sounds like someone needs to try opening up their relationship/polyamory
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May 20, 2019 22:39
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Every time I date someone they want me to have sex with them it's hosed up Anyway good luck OP
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Things didn't work out for the last open relationship goon, but he did have lots of sex
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Jose posted:Sounds like someone needs to try pegging hey man sometimes the answer is pegging
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sabbathi posted:Coming from a similar situation minus Twitter ban, I understand what it's like. It's wild, new, and totally blows, but you're gonna get through it.
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Have u tried devoting yourself fully, body mind & soul, to our lord and savior?
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