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McSpergin posted:Family court words The ice addict story is unfortunate and I have heard similar issues in other areas about having to give back kids to unfit adults. That is more a failure of our mental health care system and drug habilitation programs though. As for court bias this article seems to indicate otherwise with even more horrifying results.
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Feb 20, 2020 02:31
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Mate if ice was so bad why is it so good, ya know??
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Feb 20, 2020 02:35
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McSpergin posted:In so much as domestic violence and estrangement of partners etc is a massive problem in Australia, I believe there is an aspect of the way that the divorce and Family Courts in Australia work that is directly contributing to it. Not that it's in any way entirely responsible, but I see it as being a definite driver in some aspects. There's obviously a lot of nuances and specificity to each situation of course. i have in my career come across countless cases where it's totally unfair both ways. without casting judgement men are more avoidant to mental health which in turn leads to them being more violent on average so the ones who aren't get unfairly cast in the same light. it's a whole range of things failing people across the board all combining into the current mess of a situation we're in.
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Feb 20, 2020 03:00
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Family court's come up with some hosed rulings. Some poor bastard I work with had his ex drain the joint bank account and scarper overseas with their kid. Two years of legal battles just to get her to bring him back, then the court gave her primary custody. He gets the kid 3 nights a fortnight, except for the times she ignores the court orders and doesn't let him have the kid and makes false allegations of him abusing his son. It's kinda hosed that people can't put aside their poo poo to do what's best for the kid in a lot of cases. Another family I know the parents have a vicious hatred of each other so they're always talking down the other parent to the kids, every parenting choice they make seems to be based more on pissing off their ex rather than doing the right thing for their kids.
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Feb 20, 2020 03:04
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Yeah this is all v true My cousin has a 5yo kid to her ex partner. She's schizophrenic and so has all sorts of issues, and quite often will just go off her meds for no reason. Which is why her partner left her. He's married to someone now, and with her schizophrenic mindset continues to waste her mum's money on chasing pointless bullshit. She was convinced that the ex's new partner was just there to molest her kid, and spent somewhere around $10k to try and have it proven by a PI, she's wasted tens of thousands in court trying to gently caress with his custody, but it's all backfired on her for being a massive oval office so now the court has ruled that because she's basically insane, she can't have custody of her kid without an adult of sound mind being with her aka her own mother (my uncle passed away about 5y ago from skin cancer). So now my aunt has shacked up with a new bloke and sold her mansion in the forbidden coast, but has had to buy a second house nearby for her daughter to live in with a room for herself so she can be there when my cousin has the young fella. Topping it all off is that she spoke to him like he was still a baby and it slowed his speech development for years. Thankfully he's at school and talking normally now, but the first few months were hard for him. He's a loving smart kid, I can see it now and it's just a shame his mum is who she is. Thankfully his grandmother is incredibly intelligent as well and used to be a teacher at one of those alternative learning schools so he's benefiting massively from that but man, I'm glad that magistrate or judge was across all these issues
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Feb 20, 2020 04:21
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naeka posted:without casting judgement men are more avoidant to mental health which in turn leads to them being more violent on average so the ones who aren't get unfairly cast in the same light. This is one of the biggest issues. It's so heavily stigmatised in Australian culture (probably due to the British background, keep calm and carry on attitude) but it doesn't loving work. I had a borderline mental breakdown at my last job working with several toxic colleagues and being lumped with tons of responsibility and it took me 6 months after that to sack up and see a psych and it's been the best thing for me
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Feb 20, 2020 04:23
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McSpergin posted:This is one of the biggest issues. It's so heavily stigmatised in Australian culture (probably due to the British background, keep calm and carry on attitude) but it doesn't loving work. I had a borderline mental breakdown at my last job working with several toxic colleagues and being lumped with tons of responsibility and it took me 6 months after that to sack up and see a psych and it's been the best thing for me Aye it's a real oval office of a thing to manage. It doesn't even need to actually be stigmatised to have that effect, your mates and family can be supportive as buggery but the depressed you knows, just knows, that it's only lip service and actually you're a weak piece of poo poo who can't fucken hack it. We're so adept at stigmatising ourselves we don't even need an outside influence to help and can quite easily keep it up even in the face of all evidence to the contrary.
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Feb 20, 2020 04:31
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It's taken me 10 years of on and off therapy but I'm finally in a position where I am in charge of my emotions and I can't really stress enough to all my friends both guys and girls to see a shrink on the reg even if you think you're normal. I'm happier than ever. Sometimes even just simply talking about a problem makes it less difficult to actually deal with. Literally getting it out of your head and into the ether.
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Feb 20, 2020 04:41
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Laserface posted:It's taken me 10 years of on and off therapy but I'm finally in a position where I am in charge of my emotions and I can't really stress enough to all my friends both guys and girls to see a shrink on the reg even if you think you're normal. I'm happier than ever.
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Feb 20, 2020 04:48
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huh... my mate's episode of The Chase is on tv again. I didn't know they repeated them. I feel like he should be getting a residual cheque.
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Feb 20, 2020 07:55
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Laserface posted:It's taken me 10 years of on and off therapy but I'm finally in a position where I am in charge of my emotions and I can't really stress enough to all my friends both guys and girls to see a shrink on the reg even if you think you're normal. I'm happier than ever. I'm mostly happy. Wtf. This is a first for this millenium?
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Feb 20, 2020 08:16
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i had a brainfart and instead of putting a lil ciggy in my mix i shook a few drops of frank's red hot in there incoming hotcones, incoming chillibongs
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Feb 20, 2020 08:51
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Zazi posted:huh... my mate's episode of The Chase is on tv again. I didn't know they repeated them. I feel like he should be getting a residual cheque. Was that the dude who can now buy a hairbrush with his share of the winnings?
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Feb 20, 2020 09:27
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Caesar Saladin posted:i had a brainfart and instead of putting a lil ciggy in my mix i shook a few drops of frank's red hot in there trip report plz
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Feb 20, 2020 09:28
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Caesar Saladin posted:i had a brainfart and instead of putting a lil ciggy in my mix i shook a few drops of frank's red hot in there Sounds interesting, but how did you get smokes and red hot confused? Do you keep your baccy in a bottle, or your sauce in a pouch?
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Feb 20, 2020 09:50
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red hot is a shameful hot sauce
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Feb 20, 2020 09:51
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ili posted:Sounds interesting, but how did you get smokes and red hot confused? Do you keep your baccy in a bottle, or your sauce in a pouch? I don't know how it happened, i am just used to throwing down some red hot on everything and muscle memory took over. The cones tasted okay. I'm gonna need to add more to see if it really makes a difference. Tokamak posted:red hot is a shameful hot sauce fair enough but I've bitten my tongue so much i have trouble with anything too hot. Also I like the vinegariness on my eggs.
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Feb 20, 2020 10:31
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F posted:Was that the dude who can now buy a hairbrush with his share of the winnings? it was recorded in like 2016 and first broadcast in 2018 so I think he's got one by now. Would have thought the studio would do it though, cheap bastards.
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Feb 20, 2020 10:38
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Tokamak posted:red hot is a shameful hot sauce is what a cursed person would say
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Feb 20, 2020 10:39
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Tokamak posted:red hot is a shameful hot sauce Wrong, it's the basis of a good buffalo wings sauce
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Feb 20, 2020 10:44
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redhot is real good on eggs of all kinds
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Feb 20, 2020 10:57
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I've been enjoy Tuk Meric on all kinds of meats. Thanks Cambodia. Thambodia.
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Feb 20, 2020 11:06
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redhot is good for everything it's just spicy vinegar
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Feb 20, 2020 11:07
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Zazi posted:redhot is good for everything
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Feb 20, 2020 11:13
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Im a big fan of cholula myself, but franks is also good
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Feb 20, 2020 11:14
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Zazi posted:redhot is good for everything This. Like tobasco but better.
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Feb 20, 2020 11:23
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I like to put tabasco on my pizza
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Feb 20, 2020 11:28
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-TBLISq1gE
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Feb 20, 2020 11:44
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Visible Stink posted:Im a big fan of cholula myself, but franks is also good  Cholula is an S tier sauce tbh Whenever I make tacos I use it on them, alternative option is Yucateco chipotle
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Feb 20, 2020 11:49
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Just lol if you don't make your own
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Feb 20, 2020 13:10
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Midnight mcmuffins at grafton, fat jesus tailgating me all the way from tyndale, had to breakcheck the prick when he high beamed me for only going 5 over the limit What a loving week
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Feb 20, 2020 13:43
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I call all trucks fat jesus these days
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Feb 20, 2020 13:44
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Zazi posted:it was recorded in like 2016 and first broadcast in 2018 so I think he's got one by now. Would have thought the studio would do it though, cheap bastards. Yeah i thought the makeup department would've had them both looking spiffy.
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Feb 20, 2020 13:54
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tardwrangler posted:I call all trucks fat jesus these days i've been doing this a lot as well, although its only for trucks that require HC or MC licenses
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Feb 20, 2020 23:40
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There is a facebook page called 'Trucks I can see from my (sic) Belcony' and its basically purestrain australian culture
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Feb 21, 2020 00:27
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Laserface posted:There is a facebook page called 'Trucks I can see from my (sic) Belcony' and its basically purestrain australian culture quote:So it turns out we in the mighty west have been blessed with a day of no labourin to celebrate labourin which aint all great fake news cause as we learned from that classic 90s hit never been kissed when ol drew bazzamore cops a choccy milk all over her duds ya cant wear white anymore but thats bedside table the point as we now have extra time to do the things we love like sit up the belc nd monitor the chit which is extra spicy today courtesy of the boys in blue conductin random brake tests just to the left of screen very pleasin to see old mate kleenheat toss the anchor out nd pull her up in record time this is probably one of my favourite posts completely independent of the truck picture accompanying it
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Feb 21, 2020 00:31
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If youre out there FJ stop being a sook and post.
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Feb 21, 2020 00:38
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Jestery posted:Just lol if you don't make your own I have been doing some fermented chilli sauces lately, and being able to control the heat levels is a game changer
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Feb 21, 2020 00:47
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Sad to think that kids won't get to participate in the new car ceremony where Dad would present you with a club lock and a refidex
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Jestery posted:Just lol if you don't make your own I'm looking at some mason jars with ferment lids specifically to do pickles and sauces at the new place  I used to do some with chilli's I grew but I'll have to start a new crop when I move into the new joint. I made some knock off tabasco with my own tabasco peppers and it was P good
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