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you have it better than most and then you come and post on here
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:17 |
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# ? Jun 9, 2024 15:44 |
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the self hatred runs deep
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:21 |
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well tough titties mate because now you're my role model and mentor
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:26 |
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more like fat roll model
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:32 |
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im not fat
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:37 |
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just wait until you have a serious family crisis and you can live the -NRY part
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# ? May 12, 2021 07:41 |
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echinopsis posted:well tough titties mate because now you're my role model and mentor don’t forget to take echi to little league this weekend. oh, and he has a book report due next tuesday.
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# ? May 12, 2021 11:41 |
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my henry offense is buying and renovating an abandoned rowhome in a gentrifying neighborhood
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# ? May 12, 2021 13:06 |
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my apartment, car and student loans are payed off, mostly from selling the house I grew up in. I'd rather have alive parents
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# ? May 12, 2021 13:20 |
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i honestly don't know if i have HENRY offenses. i'm definitely better off than many people, but life is hardly peachy. coming from poverty sucks and bootstraps is a lie.
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# ? May 12, 2021 13:51 |
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Cold on a Cob posted:bootstraps is a lie. 100% yeah, i worked hard in school and poo poo to improve life for me and my family, but that would’ve been pretty much impossible had my wife not already graduated with an education paid for by her parents, allowing me to not work and focus on college at the time. everyone who “gets ahead” does so with the help of others. it’s always there somewhere.
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# ? May 12, 2021 13:55 |
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President Beep posted:everyone who “gets ahead” does so with the help of others. it’s always there somewhere.
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# ? May 12, 2021 13:59 |
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President Beep posted:everyone who “gets ahead” does so with the help of others. it’s always there somewhere. absolutely. while i think a lack of guidance and structure when i was a kid hurt me, when you look at what i achieved i definitely had help, both from public education (we had a good computer lab at my high school for example) and from a few good mentors and teachers along the way
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# ? May 12, 2021 14:16 |
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President Beep posted:everyone who “gets ahead” does so with the help of others. it’s always there somewhere. also, luck is insanely important -- one good/bad event can cascade all over the place
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# ? May 12, 2021 14:26 |
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Gentle Autist posted:more like fat roll model dinner roll model
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# ? May 12, 2021 14:27 |
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prefect posted:also, luck is insanely important -- one good/bad event can cascade all over the place very true that's another thing rich people don't loving get - the price of failure when you're poor is a lot higher. this is a key aspect of what i call "poverty brain" - you're often afraid to take any risks at all, even after your life changes enough that got a decent safety net
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# ? May 12, 2021 14:45 |
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President Beep posted:100% not me. im an island.
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# ? May 12, 2021 15:02 |
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fart simpson posted:not me. im an island. excuse me but i think you'll find that Jesus Christ was there carrying you the entire time
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# ? May 12, 2021 15:05 |
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President Beep posted:100% Our down payment on our first house was a loan for like $5k from my wife's grandparents, which we were able to pay back over time. When we sold the house, we pocketed $30k. Generational wealth, man.
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:07 |
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I don't need math. when I grow up, I'll be... a caveman! yeah!
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:11 |
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I developed a bit of a complex when my friends started buying houses in the bay area but eventually I learned that every single one of them got help from their parents, even the mba/lawyer couple
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:13 |
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Gentle Autist posted:
havin' a chortle at someone thinking 40 years old is an old house
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:18 |
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40 year young house with great hair
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:21 |
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qirex posted:I developed a bit of a complex when my friends started buying houses in the bay area but eventually I learned that every single one of them got help from their parents, even the mba/lawyer couple
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:25 |
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fart simpson posted:not me. im an island.
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:29 |
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:Yeah we know
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# ? May 12, 2021 16:44 |
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shoeberto posted:Our down payment on our first house was a loan for like $5k from my wife's grandparents, which we were able to pay back over time. When we sold the house, we pocketed $30k. Generational wealth, man. are you a baby boomer
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:21 |
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Kenny Logins posted:A HONDA ACCORD yes, yes. we know! trust me!
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:29 |
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you bastard. i bet it has keyless entry.
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:30 |
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President Beep posted:you bastard. i bet it has keyless entry.
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:32 |
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:havin' a chortle at someone thinking 40 years old is an old house it's before nz had discovered insulation, meanwhile moisture barriers are a new and innovative technology so even new builds often have problems with mold a mid-2000s city library with the character of beige corporate offices is designated a "heritage building" of course it's closed now since its also at risk of collapsing in an earthquake
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:39 |
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ive stopped buying things. just groceries and consumables now. my covid pandemic retail therapy is over i'm actively opposed to buying new thing now. i bought so many toys and poo poo that i could switch up hobbies every 3 months and stay entertained for the rest of my life. the only thing left that i would ever want to buy is a house, and that will never happen. so i guess i'm done. live as ronin that does not have to worry about money but still can never enter Real Society. it's a low obligation life at least!
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# ? May 12, 2021 17:40 |
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Pittsburgh Fentanyl Cloud posted:havin' a chortle at someone thinking 40 years old is an old house i don’t think that
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# ? May 12, 2021 19:53 |
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when we bought our first place (in london) we’d been saving for like 6 years or something and we still needed to borrow 20k or some such number off my dad. we paid it back within a year but we were high income. it’s loving tough without help
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# ? May 12, 2021 19:57 |
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Kenny Logins posted:yes, but i've really come to enjoy the walk-away autolock. oh god loving drat you.
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# ? May 12, 2021 19:59 |
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are you making GBS threads me???
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# ? May 12, 2021 19:59 |
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Fatty Crabcakes posted:Yeah we know
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# ? May 12, 2021 20:04 |
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President Beep posted:are you making GBS threads me???
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# ? May 12, 2021 20:05 |
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ugh, here i am, mashing away at a button on my key fob like some kind of bog person. good lord.
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# ? May 12, 2021 20:09 |
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# ? Jun 9, 2024 15:44 |
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Possibly this
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