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Funktastic posted:our highly-paid, overworked junior staff keep leaving just as we get them fully trained offer your junior staff more benefits or better hours you stupid rear end in a top hat
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:I can’t understand who this person actually works for because “manager” and “boss” are the same thing as far as i know. In lovely jobs you may have a "manager" who sets schedules and directs day to day things, but since they are also an underpaid idiot they do not have hiring/firing authority, don't do employee reviews/promotions/comp changes, etc. Think of this like an IK on SA. They can sixer you, but somebody else has to approve any real consequences, and you technically report to a boss/mod.
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Oct 27, 2021 00:15
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:If he gave like 5 bitcoins to a friend as a “gift” then ok maybe but you gotta pay federal taxes on gifts over some limit like $12k/year (might be higher now but not 5 bitcoins high) so enjoy your ex wife reporting you to the irs. Neither the gifter or the recipient pays a tax on gifts. The gifter is supposed to file their taxes stating they gave over the $15,000 yearly exclusion limit (per individual they gave gifts to) but that only reduces the tax-free portion of their estate at death. The exclusion is up to about $11.5 million. So it doesn't really affect anyone who isn't already in the upper part of the top 1%. If anyone ever complains to you about the death tax tell them you wish you had their problems while making a big exaggerated crying face and rubbing your eyes. Edit: Doing this prior to a divorce will absolutely get the judge to come down hard on you though since you are very obviously trying to reduce your total assets. cumshitter fucked around with this message at 00:18 on Oct 27, 2021 |
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Oct 27, 2021 00:15
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DoctorWhat posted:My co-op in NYC doesn't allow dishwashers to be installed even if you can make the space for one. What about a human live-in dish bitch, like a guy in a latex gimp suit on a leash who is tied up next to a big wash tub and immediately washes any dishes you physically throw at him while talking about how worthless he is? *someone* in NYC will do that for free EIDE Van Hagar fucked around with this message at 00:28 on Oct 27, 2021 |
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Oct 27, 2021 00:25
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:*someone* in NYC will do that for free "For free"? You just said they got to live there with no rent! Deal!
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Oct 27, 2021 00:50
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I seriously wonder what the dudes in those religions are taught. Nothing at all, I am sure, about being a ripped up piece of garbage paper the more people you kiss. Nothing at all about purity. Maybe encouragement to wait until marriage, and then game loving on? I remember reading something from Orthodox Jewish couples, and the biggest thing the husbands complained/were unhappy with was their sex life. How their wives were never into it, or submitted but clearly found it painful. Some of them wanted their wives to actually enjoy sex, but, amazingly, being told all your life how you are gutter trash if you lose your virginity makes for some hosed up mentality. AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child quote:This happened a few months ago and nobody in my family is speaking to me because of this. Im19f and my sister is 35f. Basically, I got pregnant at 16 and had a kid the next year. Our parents are super conservative and didn't teach us a lot about bodies so I honestly didn't know that would happen, in hindsight, I realize what I did was dumb but I love my daughter so I don't regret anything.
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Oct 27, 2021 02:01
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QuarkJets posted:offer your junior staff more benefits or better hours you stupid rear end in a top hat lmao good luck, most people who "did their time" as entry level investment banking analysts look at it as a kind of "finishing school" and genuinely don't think it should change
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Oct 27, 2021 02:15
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QuarkJets posted:offer your junior staff more benefits or better hours you stupid rear end in a top hat Everybody at AAM is saying "This business is doomed, you can't keep doing exactly what you're doing and hoping for a different result. Save yourself." She says "But they owe me money" (always a sign of a great business) and "But my clients depend on me!" to which everybody is pointing out that if she died, they'd have a moment or two of regret and then get on just fine. Small business that can't compete with the titans on either salary or quality of life (one of the majors is offering one regular guaranteed day off), insisting that things have to be exactly the way they were 40 years ago when the partners were young. OP can't look away from her sunk costs.
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Oct 27, 2021 02:16
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child Your boyfriend's family is your family now. Congratulations.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child JEEEEEEEEEEEEEESUS, that family  Shoutout to the boyfriend's mom for being not a piece of trash. Arsenic Lupin posted:to which everybody is pointing out that if she died, they'd have a moment or two of regret and then get on just fine. I had a very close colleague (we were basically partners on almost every project we worked on) who just left us for a better opportunity for himself. He was clearly miserable working himself to death dealing with the one project we weren't on together, and I said exactly that, if you died, they'd have a zoom meeting party to talk about you and then move on, so don't feel like you ever have to stay here. I told him "if you left, it'd suck, but I wouldn't be mad at you, i'd just miss working with you. But you have to do what's best for you, and I will never hold that against you". He got like a 40% raise on another offer and dipped out like 6 weeks later. I'm super glad for him, because he seems so much happier and less stressed when we play games or chat after work now. If your job sucks, the absolute best thing you can do is find a better one and leave them high and dry. gently caress em. spouse fucked around with this message at 02:35 on Oct 27, 2021 |
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Oct 27, 2021 02:26
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my sister i hope she never has a child There is a surprising number of people on reddit saying ESH on that post. Why? Because she was rude to her sister.  poisoning at its finest. 
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Oct 27, 2021 02:28
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Arsenic Lupin posted:"But my clients depend on me!" to which everybody is pointing out that if she died, they'd have a moment or two of regret and then get on just fine. It's investment banking - with corporations or ultra-wealthy individuals; the kind of people who see junior staffers making an hourly rate commensurate with $275k annually and don't blink. Nobody's depending on you to save their life here.
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Oct 27, 2021 03:04
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mind the walrus posted:God it sucks being a kid with half a brain in a family that actively, maliciously handicaps your life at every turn. No poo poo. I was thinking YTA right through the bit about the sister being infertile / unable to adopt, but that turned around really loving quickly at the idea that OP's kid should be handed over to the golden child.
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poor kid should've been way meaner to her sister, if anything gently caress her entire extended family "how could u be so mean to your sister, who tried to steal your child and intentionally stole the money for your future u_u" good thing her boyfriend's family is good
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Oct 27, 2021 03:17
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snergle posted:the such sex wow story was also a dude doing it im like 80% sure nah it was definitely a girl, unless there's been multiple doge meme sex partners which, well, edit; found it: My [23M] Girlfriend's [21F] Inappropriate Behavior, year long relationship, she has an obsession with an internet fad quote:Hi, been a lurker on this subreddit and didn't really have the courage to post, but I'm at my wits end with my girlfriend (let's call her Chris) and her immature behavior.
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Oct 27, 2021 03:41
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Cowslips Warren posted:I seriously wonder what the dudes in those religions are taught. Nothing at all, I am sure, about being a ripped up piece of garbage paper the more people you kiss. Nothing at all about purity. Maybe encouragement to wait until marriage, and then game loving on? The common thread in most of these stories is that the baby demanders have repeatedly been turned down by professional agencies that place children. There's definitely a reason for that.
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Oct 27, 2021 03:42
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Small business that can't compete with the titans on either salary or quality of life (one of the majors is offering one regular guaranteed day off) This is one reason I couldn't fault someone for working at a Chick-fil-A. They are working practically the only job in that labor category with a hard and fast day off. I can 100% see the appeal- you can plan on it months, years in advance. Make plans with family, go to your kids soccer games, go on dates in perfect confidence that your shithead boss will not, cannot call you in because they're shorthanded or whatever. You'd hope "a weekend" wouldn't be a novel recruitment offering but I totally see it. Job #1 Work 14+ hours a day, every day, for the next 2 years, salary 250k Job #2 Work the same brutal hours but get every single Tuesday off guaranteed, it's written in the contract with penalties and poo poo. salary 275k Hmmmmmmm
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IOwnCalculus posted:No poo poo. I was thinking YTA right through the bit about the sister being infertile / unable to adopt, but that turned around really loving quickly at the idea that OP's kid should be handed over to the golden child. "Give me your firstborn" is literally some fairy tale #$#%.
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Quackles posted:"Give me your firstborn" is literally some fairy tale #$#%. With the age difference and lack of sex ed, I was expecting the twist to be that older sister is actually her mom. If she was a teen mom who gave up her kid for her parents to raise it would seem normal to her to expect said kid to do the same.
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Is it just an Irish thing or is it weird that all these people's actions are instantly relayed to extended family who in turns calls, texts, and sends telegrams re feedback? Like, in my house any sort of goings on, like a money or legal or health or argument thing was treated as house business and you didn't discuss it with people outside the house.
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webmeister posted:nah it was definitely a girl, unless there's been multiple doge meme sex partners which, well, This story is infinitely funnier if it's from the last three years as opposed to, like, 2012.
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kntfkr posted:Is it just an Irish thing or is it weird that all these people's actions are instantly relayed to extended family who in turns calls, texts, and sends telegrams re feedback? Like, in my house any sort of goings on, like a money or legal or health or argument thing was treated as house business and you didn't discuss it with people outside the house. Did you miss last thread when an Irishman complained about a Karen they dealt with at work and another poster immediately identified the specific individual? The entire country’s one small town.
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Halloween Jack posted:Yes, she is, she just realized it and it's why she wants to break up 
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AITA for giving my sister-in-law baby formula?quote:I'm going to start my post by saying that I don't have kids and I have no experience with babies or motherhood or children. I'm 18 and beyond being around them in group settings where at least one of the parents and a ton of other people are around that's it. Just for some context to my post. Listen you, it is super important that breastfeeding happens, even if mom and baby can't do it, it's all that matters! This poor SIL. A lady I nannied for could not get her second child to latch on; turns out he was tongue-tied, and a snip later, and he was fine. But formula was always an option, and any rear end in a top hat who whines about it, especially if they aren't gonna feed the kid, needs to GTFO.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for giving my sister-in-law baby formula? I was raised entirely on formula because mom preferred it, and I turned out completely fi...hmm.
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I have a weird amount of respect for the guy back in this thread somewhere who induced lactation in himself so their baby could be breastfed after his wife couldn't do it. I would have gone with formula, but I can't say he didn't put his money where his mouth is.
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My friends don’t respect my relationship and keep encouraging me to cheat. I don’t know how to make them stopquote:Me (27M) and my girlfriend (26F) have been together for 5 years. I have known my closest group of friends since we were 5 years old or so. Some of them are single, some of them are dating or married, and none of them is faithful to their partners. At first they were supportive of my relationship, but then things got serious, and now they keep constantly encouraging me to cheat. They’re always trying to set me up with girls they know, putting me in embarrassing situations, and I just don’t want to do it. I’ve never cheated on anyone, and cheating on my girlfriend would be just a very stupid decision. What I have with her I’ve never had with anyone else, and I really don’t wanna lose her. Uh why are you friends with these scumbags?
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BIG FLUFFY DOG posted:Did you miss last thread when an Irishman complained about a Karen they dealt with at work and another poster immediately identified the specific individual? The entire country’s one small town. Do you have links to this? Because it sounds magical. "That sounds like Cousin Helen. Hold on a sec let me go yell at her for being a dipshit."
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for giving my sister-in-law baby formula? Thank God for young people. I'm sure OP is stupid in other ways, but her fresh outside perspective and sticking to her guns really came through here. I'm inclined to back her view on how bad her SIL looked, too. I had a downstairs neighbor that was one of the women for whom "morning sickness" was actually "overpowering nausea and vomiting 24/7 for the duration of the pregnancy". I didn't see her for a while at the start and when I did see her she looked awful. Sunken, dark rings around her eyes, deathly pale saggy skin, she was visibly drawn-out and losing weight and she was a thin girl to start with. She said she'd been sick and I was like oh no that sucks! Ummm hey do they know what it is? Are they sure? Never know these days haha when was the last time you saw the doctor? Are you receiving treatment, drugs or therapy or something? Yes, I was nosy. That woman was sick as hell and we were pretty close for neighbors. Her doctor gave her 100% carte blanche on eating- if she could keep down donuts, she should eat as many donuts or milkshakes or bacon strips as she could keep down. That didn't really help but the nausea died down some in her third trimester and she started gaining back some of the weight she'd lost. Apparently actually having the kid was a relief since she could finally eat normally.
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AITA for doing a chargeback on my photographer after the session?quote:So I was due with my second baby in December but due to complications, am going to be induced this Monday. I had maternity photos scheduled for the end of November and when I tried to reschedule, the photographer didn’t have any availability. I was scrambling to find another photographer and I found one and I LOVE her work. OP just doesn't understand how life works apparently! OP posted:I didn’t get any photos! I saw proofs that had a big ugly watermark all over them but she hadn’t finalized anything yet. Now I can’t even see them on the internet site she sent me to look at them at and I asked where it went and she said she would deliver the photos when she was paid so I didn’t get any photos OP posted:How can you LEGALLY not give me photos of ME
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RatHat posted:My friends don’t respect my relationship and keep encouraging me to cheat. I don’t know how to make them stop This reads like it was written as proof of an alibi.
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:This reads like it was written as proof of an alibi. AITA For Denying that At 6:23 PM, on August 28th 2021, when I was at a local convenience store buying a pack of gum (receipt attached) I was the Someone Who Stole the Cookies from the Cookie Jar?
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for doing a chargeback on my photographer after the session? I mean...Mary didn't send the policy packet, sounds like it's her gently caress up and a hard lesson to learn in running a legitimate business. It's not the client's burden to figure out the nitty gritty of the place the person they're paying for picked. Better luck next time when professionally contracting out a location to a client. Editing to say op should have walked and disputed or not paid from the get go. Hard lesson for everyone involved kazr fucked around with this message at 06:56 on Oct 27, 2021 |
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kazr posted:I mean...Mary didn't send the policy packet, sounds like it's her gently caress up and a hard lesson to learn in running a legitimate business. It's not the client's burden to figure out the nitty gritty of the place the person they're paying for picked. Better luck next time when professionally contracting out a location to a client. quote:Mary said she did email me the policies but since I never mentioned having an older kid, let alone one that would be coming with me, she didn’t see a reason to specify since I said it would just be me.
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E, fb OP was the rear end in a top hat through and through.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for giving my sister-in-law baby formula? idk maybe tell your dad that you're just looking out for his new grandchild and his daughter in law and that if your cousin has something to say about that then she can go eat a butt? Why the gently caress should Rachel's wishes trump the health of your SIL and your niece?
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