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sugar free jazz
Mar 5, 2008

Bust Rodd posted:


It’s not that different from someone going as Darth Vader, IMO


lol

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Bust Rodd
Oct 21, 2008

by VideoGames

He murders a temple full of children and commits multiple race-related hate crimes on screen, although to be fair he wasn’t really “Darth Vader” yet.

Hitler is also not a fantasy character, it would be weird to see someone dressed as Hitler at Comic-Con, I don’t think it would be weird to see the biggest villain of the biggest new TV show.

Baron von Eevl
Jan 24, 2005

WHITE NOISE
GENERATOR

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I'm not familiar with the character or show but if her name is stormfront that's a little different from star wars unless there's a sithlord I don't know about named Darth Meinkampf.

ChunTheUnavoidable
Sep 27, 2021

I would get so mad if you wore the costume in real life. I would call your job and explain the plot of the boys on Amazon prime video to them over the phone, first season one and then season two, and they would hopefully fire you. After that I would probably try to get your parents to disown you

Arven
Sep 23, 2007
If you have to explain why your Halloween costume isn't problematic you probably shouldn't wear the costume.

ChunTheUnavoidable
Sep 27, 2021

darth hitler lol

Azza Bamboo
Apr 7, 2018


THUNDERDOME LOSER 2021
If they didn't want people dressing up as bad guys then why do they always have the cool clothes?

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

That would be a fine costume, dressing up as fictional characters isn't an implicit endorsement of all their actions or motivations

you could also dress up as the lady from Orange is the New Black who looks kind of like her, if it were like six years ago anyway

Rupert Buttermilk
Apr 15, 2007

🚣RowboatMan: ❄️Freezing time🕰️ is an old P.I. 🥧trick...

loquacius posted:

That would be a fine costume, dressing up as fictional characters isn't an implicit endorsement of all their actions or motivations

you could also dress up as the lady from Orange is the New Black who looks kind of like her, if it were like six years ago anyway

Are you referring to Joe Lo Truglio's wife? Because I had the same thought.

Butter Activities
May 4, 2018

Rupert Buttermilk posted:

The nazi is bad, but homelander, noted child murderer, is also bad. I wonder if dressing up as him would elicit the same kind of thoughts.

Well homelander is also as a racist elitist jingoistic rear end in a top hat basically just a Nazi but not willing to fully admit that to himself, that’s one of the themes of the show.

Also if someone was dressed as homelander or stormfront I’d assume they more likely have the opposite views as the entire show is about how the nature of power and structural social issues and mocking how the typical superhero genre celebrates the military, police and powerful as inherently good. Or they just don’t care about the themes of the show and like the humor.

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Rupert Buttermilk posted:

Are you referring to Joe Lo Truglio's wife? Because I had the same thought.

one wikipedia search later: no, but that works too and also Joe Lo Truglio did really well for himself, drat

another wikipedia search later: I meant Morello, played by Yael Stone, which actually works less well than the character you meant

burial
Sep 13, 2002

actually, that won't be necessary.

quote:

This isn't my first anon confession here, but I guess it's my first positive one.

I've stopped prostitution for a year now. My boyfriend has been supportive and it feels good to be clean, in a way. I enjoyed my job, especially the social aspect during the quarantine, but I'm in my 30s now and it was taxing my body and... I guess, it feels like I'm finally moving on. I'm still unemployed outside of that, but I had enough saved to stay afloat for a bit, and goons gave me a lot of donations and helped, and I'm happy.

I managed to clear my rap sheet from things I did in self-defense against rape, many many years ago. It took me forever to do that. Looking at my criminal record and seeing nothing is, honestly, one of the best feelings for me. I had a cop friend who looked over my shoulder while I escorted and she helped me make the proper case.

I still have some light background depression but I have a great partner who understands me. He's a mil. vet and unlike my last partner he doesn't wallow over the things he did in the war, and in a way that made easier for me to accept myself as well. I feel like I have one less ghost haunting me.

I feel ready to move on.

This is pretty excellent! but I guess my memory isn't as good as I thought. If there's been another confession about being an escort, it isn't leaping immediately to mind.

Lucky there are tons of people looking at these words who have lovely, normal brains.

barbecue at the folks
Jul 20, 2007


Good luck, goon, you've earned your piece of happiness! :)

burial
Sep 13, 2002

actually, that won't be necessary.
This fesh is so fresh it's happening almost-live. It popped in six minutes ago!

quote:

I’m in a really bad headspace lately regarding Covid. I wanted to try online dating but freaked out at the idea of meeting in public.I am fully vaccinated but I know that most people are not and that the vaccine is way way way less useful then they’re telling us.

Now I’m wondering if I’ll ever leave my apartment again. The Covid thread in cspam basically confirmed that Covid is never going to end, and I’m not going to rejoin a world that will eventually kill me or destroy my organs. I have left my apartment 8 times since April of 2020 and 4 of those times were to get vaccinated.

How do you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything again?

...how did you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything before?

I know that sounds glib, but I really don't mean it to be. I wasn't very functional before I started treating my anxiety so I can't imagine how things might've been for me if I didn't sneak that in riiiiight before all this covid stuff began.

I'd love to hear some actual advice from somebody on this one. I know a couple of other people that could use it.

Question Time
Sep 12, 2010



burial posted:

This fesh is so fresh it's happening almost-live. It popped in six minutes ago!

...how did you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything before?

I know that sounds glib, but I really don't mean it to be. I wasn't very functional before I started treating my anxiety so I can't imagine how things might've been for me if I didn't sneak that in riiiiight before all this covid stuff began.

I'd love to hear some actual advice from somebody on this one. I know a couple of other people that could use it.

I was under the impression that if you’ve been vaccinated or boosted in the last 6 months, and you wear an N95, your trips to the grocery store and parks are 99.9% safe. Maybe just avoid restaurants, especially if you’re immunocompromised and have a valid reason for the fear? If you’re in a less vaccinated and mask compliant area, start saving to move.

The other big thing you need to do for your overall health, which includes mental health, is unbookmark the covid and other doomer threads. Avoid social media as much as you can - it is clearly doing you more harm than good. Find some hobby to fill the time - it doesn’t matter what it is, as long as it’s not one of the many suicide cult echo chambers or propaganda programming stations that are increasingly filling the internet.

Incoherence
May 22, 2004

POYO AND TEAR

burial posted:

...how did you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything before?
Yeah, safety is a relative term here. Every time you did anything, you took some amount of risk. At some point you decided those risks were worthwhile. Now the balance has changed: there's more risk involved in going out. Getting the shots mitigates this new risk and helps mitigate it for others as well, but there are too many assholes around who aren't willing to do that. But by not leaving your apartment, you take on different risks. You recognize this: you can see their effects on your mindset.

Certainly a lot of people have been struggling on some level with how they reenter the world. (If you're not struggling with this at least a little bit, you're probably one of the assholes who've been living their lives the last 18 months as if nothing at all had happened.) What would be your personal criteria for when things are safe enough? It can't be "when COVID is eradicated", because it's clear at this point that it will never be eradicated any more than the common cold or influenza. Case rates? Vaccination rates? Vaccination mandates to enter buildings? Improved treatments so that getting it becomes that much less likely to "destroy your organs"? (That said, if you're immunocompromised, then I'm not really sure what to tell you other than "I'm sorry".)

You just have to make a "reopening" plan for yourself. You probably want to take it slow at first: go on a walk around the neighborhood (masked, staying away from people), or get takeout from a restaurant, or something like that. Give it a few days or a week or whatever so you can convince yourself you haven't suddenly started carrying it. (Some drugstores sell testing kits for home use.) Maybe you're not willing to be inside a building without a vaccine requirement, or at all, while you build confidence. Online dating is an interesting problem, since it involves meeting up with someone who you don't know well: maybe you want to do a video call before you meet up with someone on a date because you want to trust that they're not one of the assholes. Consider it the same kind of trust-building exercise as going on any date from an online dating site: you need to convince yourself that you won't get axe murdered AND you won't get COVID.

barbecue at the folks
Jul 20, 2007


Yeah, you think you're already taking care of yourself but you're missing the most important step which is taking care of your mental health. Quit reading CSPAM and listening to self-appointed prophets of doom, they get off on filling people's heads with a doomer mindset that is taking your anxiety to whole new levels and making it impossible for you to see what the real risks are and making rational decisions based on those risks.

Rad-daddio
Apr 25, 2017

barbecue at the folks posted:

Yeah, you think you're already taking care of yourself but you're missing the most important step which is taking care of your mental health. Quit reading CSPAM and listening to self-appointed prophets of doom, they get off on filling people's heads with a doomer mindset that is taking your anxiety to whole new levels and making it impossible for you to see what the real risks are and making rational decisions based on those risks.

I came here to post almost this exact thing.

HerStuddMuffin
Aug 10, 2014

YOSPOS
If the confessor is immunocompromised or otherwise at high risk for hospitalization they are right to be worried about getting in contact with people. If they’re healthy (for a goon) their risk of having serious complications from covid are likely smaller than they are imagining.
From what I’ve read, cutting your dick off helps with anxiety, you might want to try that.

timp
Sep 19, 2007

Everything is in my control
Lipstick Apathy
For longer than I'd like to admit I was highly susceptible to letting the goon hivemind steer my own thinking. I mean sure, goons have always had low credibility in some areas (hygiene, social skills, etc), but as a community, SA has always been populated by intelligent and articulate people. On top of that (especially in the 00's) they were also incredibly smug and arrogant about how correct they were, and my respect for their intelligence coupled with how savagely they would tear down someone who disagreed with them made me feel like I had to toe whatever moral, ethical, political, or any other kind of line was drawn in the sand by them.

I eventually had to pump the brakes on reading the lol at Trump thread because it was making me actively hate anyone who leaned right of center politically. In the South, you simply cannot live that way without being mean, bitter, and joyless to 75% of the people you meet.

So I guess I have two pieces of advice nobody asked for. 1. If you can't stop thinking about what goons would think of a certain thing, you need to read less SA, and 2. Read SA all you want, but don't let them tell you how to live your life.

EDIT: My therapist has also told me I have issues with "all or nothing thinking" so that definitely played a part too

timp
Sep 19, 2007

Everything is in my control
Lipstick Apathy
Double post

TheBizzness
Oct 5, 2004

Reign on me.
The cool thing about online dating is that you get to ask them questions like “are you vaccinated?” Before you get close enough for them to breathe on you.

Lazyhound
Mar 1, 2004

A squid eating dough in a polyethylene bag is fast and bulbous—got me?

burial posted:

This fesh is so fresh it's happening almost-live. It popped in six minutes ago!

Buy a reusable respirator + goggles.

blight rhino
Feb 11, 2014

EXQUISITE LURKER RHINO


Nap Ghost

burial posted:

quote:
I’m in a really bad headspace lately regarding Covid. I wanted to try online dating but freaked out at the idea of meeting in public.I am fully vaccinated but I know that most people are not and that the vaccine is way way way less useful then they’re telling us.

Now I’m wondering if I’ll ever leave my apartment again. The Covid thread in cspam basically confirmed that Covid is never going to end, and I’m not going to rejoin a world that will eventually kill me or destroy my organs. I have left my apartment 8 times since April of 2020 and 4 of those times were to get vaccinated.

How do you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything again?

Good on you for at least having the will to get back out there. You will, if you want to. Like many said there are definitely precautions to take. But you can take it slow and keep things online for as long as you want. If the other person isn't down. Then they're not worth it.

Will things ever return to normal/NORMAL? Who knows. But, it's good you've got the will.

Do you're best, friend.

Elentor
Dec 14, 2004

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
I went to a halloween party that actually looked like a party and being in a place after 2 years where everyone is vaxxed and I could finally dance again and have fun was such a loving magical experience, I missed that poo poo so drat much, it was 2 years locked with just the internet as an outlet to have fun, no one deserves that.

Cached Money
Apr 11, 2010

burial posted:

This fesh is so fresh it's happening almost-live. It popped in six minutes ago!

...how did you live with the knowledge that we can never safely do anything before?

I know that sounds glib, but I really don't mean it to be. I wasn't very functional before I started treating my anxiety so I can't imagine how things might've been for me if I didn't sneak that in riiiiight before all this covid stuff began.

I'd love to hear some actual advice from somebody on this one. I know a couple of other people that could use it.

Stop reading c-spam, it's very bad for your brain, get therapy

Atlas Hugged
Mar 12, 2007


Put your arms around me,
fiddly digits, itchy britches
I love you all
Is everyone else just ignoring that this dude claims to have been vaccinated four times?

Incoherence
May 22, 2004

POYO AND TEAR

Atlas Hugged posted:

Is everyone else just ignoring that this dude claims to have been vaccinated four times?
They claimed to have left the house four times to get vaccinated; the fourth could be a flu shot or them trying to get vaccinated and getting turned away for whatever reason.

Slugworth
Feb 18, 2001

If two grown men can't make a pervert happy for a few minutes in order to watch a film about zombies, then maybe we should all just move to Iran!

Atlas Hugged posted:

Is everyone else just ignoring that this dude claims to have been vaccinated four times?
They're taking all the vaccines!!

loquacius
Oct 21, 2008

Cached Money posted:

Stop reading c-spam, it's very bad for your brain, get therapy

I am a C-SPAM IK and I agree with this take

The COVID thread is very bad for the kind of person who would read it

wesleywillis
Dec 30, 2016

SUCK A MALE CAMEL'S DICK WITH MIRACLE WHIP!!

Cached Money posted:

Stop reading c-spam, it's very bad for your brain, get therapy

But don't gently caress your therapist.

Flowers for QAnon
May 20, 2019

Atlas Hugged posted:

Is everyone else just ignoring that this dude claims to have been vaccinated four times?

I got four vaccines on the same day the other week, lol

barbecue at the folks
Jul 20, 2007


wesleywillis posted:

But don't gently caress your therapist.

Maybe cut your dick off, just to be sure.

wesleywillis
Dec 30, 2016

SUCK A MALE CAMEL'S DICK WITH MIRACLE WHIP!!

barbecue at the folks posted:

Maybe cut your dick off, just to be sure.

:hmmyes:

Good point there. Gotta be 100% sure.

Atlas Hugged
Mar 12, 2007


Put your arms around me,
fiddly digits, itchy britches
I love you all
I'm aware that there's more than one vaccine a person can be taking, but I felt in the context of the fesh they specifically meant four covid vaccines, or at least attempts as was also suggested.

It was because they said the vaccines just aren't all that good that I saw it as a red flag. The vaccines actually are pretty good. Issues with them seem to be just not enough people taking them and new variants.

ChunTheUnavoidable
Sep 27, 2021

Getting 100 Covid vaccines and telling myself I’m going to go outside after each one but chickening out each time until I die of a catastrophic autoimmune reaction

sure okay
Apr 7, 2006





TheBizzness posted:

The cool thing about online dating is that you get to ask them questions like “are you vaccinated?” Before you get close enough for them to breathe on you.

Careful with this one, as they might take up the Aaron Rodgers tactic of calling themselves "immunized"

The Mighty Moltres
Dec 21, 2012

Come! We must fly!


Everyone stop reading the Something Awful forums except for this post, and maybe some more.

quote:

This isn't my first anon confession here, but I guess it's my first positive one.

I've stopped prostitution for a year now. My boyfriend has been supportive and it feels good to be clean, in a way. I enjoyed my job, especially the social aspect during the quarantine, but I'm in my 30s now and it was taxing my body and... I guess, it feels like I'm finally moving on. I'm still unemployed outside of that, but I had enough saved to stay afloat for a bit, and goons gave me a lot of donations and helped, and I'm happy.

I managed to clear my rap sheet from things I did in self-defense against rape, many many years ago. It took me forever to do that. Looking at my criminal record and seeing nothing is, honestly, one of the best feelings for me. I had a cop friend who looked over my shoulder while I escorted and she helped me make the proper case.

I still have some light background depression but I have a great partner who understands me. He's a mil. vet and unlike my last partner he doesn't wallow over the things he did in the war, and in a way that made easier for me to accept myself as well. I feel like I have one less ghost haunting me.

I feel ready to move on.

I am very happy things are going well for you, and I can only wish and pray that everything will be uphill from here on out.
Not needing to be anonymous for this, I hope that prostitution will one day be completely legal and necessarily regulated. There is no reason to have people in danger just because they are participating in the world's oldest profession.

a podcast for cats
Jun 22, 2005

Dogs reading from an artifact buried in the ruins of our civilization, "We were assholes- " and writing solemnly, "They were assholes."
Soiled Meat

timp posted:

For longer than I'd like to admit I was highly susceptible to letting the goon hivemind steer my own thinking. I mean sure, goons have always had low credibility in some areas (hygiene, social skills, etc), but as a community, SA has always been populated by intelligent and articulate people. On top of that (especially in the 00's) they were also incredibly smug and arrogant about how correct they were, and my respect for their intelligence coupled with how savagely they would tear down someone who disagreed with them made me feel like I had to toe whatever moral, ethical, political, or any other kind of line was drawn in the sand by them.

I eventually had to pump the brakes on reading the lol at Trump thread because it was making me actively hate anyone who leaned right of center politically. In the South, you simply cannot live that way without being mean, bitter, and joyless to 75% of the people you meet.

So I guess I have two pieces of advice nobody asked for. 1. If you can't stop thinking about what goons would think of a certain thing, you need to read less SA, and 2. Read SA all you want, but don't let them tell you how to live your life.

EDIT: My therapist has also told me I have issues with "all or nothing thinking" so that definitely played a part too

I skimmed over this post a couple of days back and it stuck with me a bit. I can kind of confess to similarly using the "goon consensus" as a frame of reference for things I didn't really have my own knowledge or experience to fall on in the past.

I think what helps to get over that is that the forums in general are not as funny or unexpectedly insightful as they seemed to be in the past.

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ninjoatse.cx
Apr 9, 2005

Fun Shoe

a podcast for cats posted:

I think what helps to get over that is that the forums in general are not as funny or unexpectedly insightful as they seemed to be in the past.

I think most of the goons of that era have moved on. Either to the newer social media platforms or just started families/jobs that are much more rewarding/demanding than posting.

Coming from a single guy turning 40 who has insomnia at 4:30 goddamn AM.

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