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Harold Fjord posted:Lol what? "loving too loud is child abuse" ? loving too loud where you know children will hear and know what you’re doing is considered sexual abuse, yes. Even if they’re your own kids.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:03
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Something about how the letter writer describes sex sounds as "yelping and yawping" makes me want to projectile vomit
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Nov 19, 2021 16:05
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r/relationships: Her face went blank. When angry. When spitfull.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:07
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Brawnfire posted:Send 'em off to sex boot camp. Booty Camp
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Nov 19, 2021 16:17
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AITA for leaving my sex boots out where my kids could see them?
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Nov 19, 2021 16:18
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Depends on whether you were having sex in the boots at the time
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Nov 19, 2021 16:19
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Loling at this picture in my head now. 7 people total in a loving movie theater and instead of moving to not be distracted by a sleeper, we're gonna put our hands on them and wake them up. Yes you're both assholes. Just move.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:19
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Pope Corky the IX posted:AITA for leaving my sex boots out where my kids could see them?
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Nov 19, 2021 16:20
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My "knocking boots"Pookah posted:Booty Camp Sign me tf up
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Nov 19, 2021 16:22
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Can I wear my sex boots with my dom jeans?
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Nov 19, 2021 16:22
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Only if you cuck the cuffs in
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Nov 19, 2021 16:24
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teen witch posted:Heads up on this one, some redditors deep dived into the OP’s previous posts and he’s unequivocally a terrible father of the “well I don’t hit them therefore I’m not abusive” type. The teen has been bullying and acting out and no one seems to know how this behavior came about!!!! Yeah this makes a lot of sense. elise the great posted:loving too loud where you know children will hear and know what you’re doing is considered sexual abuse, yes. Even if they’re your own kids. This does not. Maybe some modifiers are being assumed. I can still see how it could cross lines, but not as written. Harold Fjord fucked around with this message at 16:28 on Nov 19, 2021 |
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Nov 19, 2021 16:25
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darkwasthenight posted:Buddy, this is barely an issue nevermind one that requires reddit weighing in. Have the conversation and if he is waiting till marriage then say "you're great, but I'm gagging for cock already so we're just not compatible" and politely move on; if he isn't waiting for marriage then he will shortly no longer be a virgin. Where's the dilemma?? I’m laughing at the thought that this lady is starved for sex but hasn’t once made a move during their two-hour cuddle sessions
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Nov 19, 2021 16:27
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elise the great posted:Depends on whether you were having sex in the boots at the time so having sex with the boots is in the clear? asking for a friend
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Nov 19, 2021 16:29
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the holy poopacy posted:so having sex with the boots is in the clear? asking for a friend Only if they are ridin' boots
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Nov 19, 2021 16:30
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The Maroon Hawk posted:I’m laughing at the thought that this lady is starved for sex but hasn’t once made a move during their two-hour cuddle sessions I get incel creative writing exercise vibes just because this is literally how they see the world, where women have diametrically opposed views to what men are 'supposed' to have where sex is like job history on a resume, and if you don't have experience you don't get the entry-level position.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:30
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Boyfriend (22M) doesn’t like the fact that I (20F) call my dad “daddy”. So he pulled a humiliating ‘prank’ to embarrass mequote:So my bf and I have been together for 2 years and he’s always had an issue with me calling my dad “daddy”. He doesn’t really explain why he just says that it’s weird. In the past he has told me to stop using that word when talking about my dad and I refused. For the record - I’m not into the whole “Daddy” bedroom thing so it’s never something I say in a sexual context. What the entire gently caress. Just let your parents murder this man jesus loving christ why would anyone think this is okay in any particular sense.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:43
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Nov 19, 2021 16:44
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That's one of those stories where (if true) you wonder what the real reason he wants to break up is, that he decided this would be better
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Nov 19, 2021 16:49
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Harold Fjord posted:Lol what? "loving too loud is child abuse" ? It may surprise you to learn that given certain contextual factors, saying words is child abuse.
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Nov 19, 2021 16:50
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:It may surprise you to learn that given certain contextual factors, saying words is child abuse. It would not. In fact in my most recent reply I noted that some contextual factors (and additional modifying words that represent them) seem to be lacking. A pretty good analogy though. I'd also contest that it is not automatically abusive to say bad words knowing a child will hear and understand them. Harold Fjord fucked around with this message at 16:59 on Nov 19, 2021 |
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Nov 19, 2021 16:55
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muscles like this! posted:Mentioning that they got fries and nuggets makes it sound like they ordered stuff off of the value menu because they have a deal where you get a burger, fries, nuggets and a drink. The sandwiches in that are on the smaller side. Still doesn't justify not sharing though. Yeah, really cool of the wife to not bother asking her partner for food when she's the one who got impatient/mad & decided not to go back. I really hate this "you need to read my mind & meet all my frivolous expectations I choose not to voice" bullshit, plus she already had food to eat. She must be a real treat to be around 24/7.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:05
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Context is everything. Having sex and making noise in the next room isn't necessarily child abuse but for some children it can be traumatic regardless of intent. Doing it as loud and often as possible to in order spur your children to say things to bolster your pride is more than likely abusive.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:08
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greazeball posted:That's one of those stories where (if true) you wonder what the real reason he wants to break up is, that he decided this would be better I feel like its like how fyad and sa used to be a breeding ground for comedy writers to practice their trade, now they just all do it on r/relationships
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Nov 19, 2021 17:10
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when i have sex with the missus i make loud sustained grunts like i'm searching walls in an old fps for secrets so the kids just think dad's playing doom wads again
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Nov 19, 2021 17:26
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also periodically mutter "where is it"
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Nov 19, 2021 17:27
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haveblue posted:also periodically mutter "where is it" Duke Nukem?
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Nov 19, 2021 17:29
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Nov 19, 2021 17:29
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for not throwing away a dress Happy update! quote:UPDATE: I took some advice and messaged her saying the only way I’d adhere to her absurd request is if she bought the dress off me. $220 + the $70 it cost me for alterations. She wrote back saying “I had such a great wedding and you guys made that possible. how could you do this to me? Why would you go against one thing I want? You wouldn’t wear the same outfit again you wore to a funeral right? So why would you after a wedding? If you don’t do as I say I don’t want your toxicity in my life anymore”
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Nov 19, 2021 17:31
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the stories about one partner interfering with the other one’s remote work all remind me of that one about the wife who was deliberately sabotaging her husband’s remote teaching sessions, who was also clearly in the middle of a post-partum mental breakdown. I often wonder how that story came out and I worry for them.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:32
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My spouse and I have been working from home in the same room since last March. I've been sharing those stories with her and we agreed that it would lead to a murder-suicide if either of us ever tried that poo poo with the other.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:39
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA? I ruin movies we are barely watching by sharing my thoughts. OP is an annoying dumbass but also he's wrong about the Family Guy reference. Shows like Family Guy have enough episodes to be syndicated and shown on your local affiliates every day for the next 50 years like reruns of I Love Lucy or The Munsters. "Tivoing" it is the more dated reference here. Your grandkids will be watching American Dad and Bob's Burgers episodes after school when you're in your 70's.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:43
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Disposable funeral suits, the only way to really keep the dead guy cooties off
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Nov 19, 2021 17:44
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Ghost Leviathan posted:I get incel creative writing exercise vibes just because this is literally how they see the world, where women have diametrically opposed views to what men are 'supposed' to have where sex is like job history on a resume, and if you don't have experience you don't get the entry-level position. It’s a legit concern, lots of stories of women who go down on a virgin dude only for him to instantly become clingy and codependent due to his lack of experience. It’s absolutely valid to want to avoid this and women should feel more comfortable requiring experience in their partners. It’s also why men being virgins past their early 20s (excluding physical/health, queerness, or religious reasons) is a huge red flag because it means they missed out on some extremely crucial growth and experience that they really should have at that age.
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Nov 19, 2021 17:52
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Uncle ShortyB posted:Boyfriend (22M) doesn’t like the fact that I (20F) call my dad “daddy”. So he pulled a humiliating ‘prank’ to embarrass me I hope there was an update to this where she chaos dunks her hopefully ex boyfriend into the nearest dumpster
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Nov 19, 2021 17:58
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Who the hell conflates sex positive with "cool with seeing a naked picture of my daughter"?
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Nov 19, 2021 18:07
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You sure you want to ask that question on the internet?
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Nov 19, 2021 18:19
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I think part of the problem is that there were two "banging loud enough the kids hear" stories back to back. loving loud enough that you are making your underage kids uncomfortable and then punishing them for expressing their discomfort I would say is definitely crossing a line. The other story sounds like it's getting sketchy but isn't necessarily over the line with the details provided. However given that the author always wants to sound good I bet in reality it was either written one handed or the parents are massively lovely.
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Nov 19, 2021 18:32
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Pope Corky the IX posted:AITA for leaving my sex boots out where my kids could see them? Yes because you should only be wearing one sex boot at a time because otherwise they cross and cancel.
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AITA for not letting my son be in a photo that my daughter was not allowed in?quote:I have two kids, a 16-year-old daughter and a 14-year-old son. My daughter is one of the few girls on my husband’s side of the family. He has 4 brothers, out of them only one of them has daughters. The rest of his brothers had sons. One of my husband’s brothers “Jim” in the past has made a big deal of taking a picture of just the guys at family parties. He’ll also take a big family group shot but then insists on a photo with just them and that’s often the one he hangs up in the house and shares all over social media. My daughter didn’t care when she was younger but two years ago said she felt left out and found the whole thing kind of dumb. I asked my Jim if we could stop doing the guys group shot and he agreed.
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