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Piell posted:AITA for not letting my son be in a photo that my daughter was not allowed in? quote:My BIL posted on FB that he was happy to see everyone but he wishes he could’ve gotten a family picture. you got one, dipshit really telling on himself here
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carry on then posted:It’s also why men being virgins past their early 20s (excluding physical/health, queerness, or religious reasons) is a huge red flag because it means they missed out on some extremely crucial growth and experience that they really should have at that age. As someone who's just really unlucky in love, I think you're full of it.
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Nov 19, 2021 18:48
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carry on then posted:It’s a legit concern, lots of stories of women who go down on a virgin dude only for him to instantly become clingy and codependent due to his lack of experience. It’s absolutely valid to want to avoid this and women should feel more comfortable requiring experience in their partners. yeah everyone knows that once you have sex in your teens you automatically become a competent sex-haver and never develop or show any weird social behaviors around sex
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Nov 19, 2021 19:03
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carry on then posted:It’s a legit concern, lots of stories of women who go down on a virgin dude only for him to instantly become clingy and codependent due to his lack of experience. It’s absolutely valid to want to avoid this and women should feel more comfortable requiring experience in their partners. I think this is a pretty good example of this thread often being far up its own rear end. Can't stop reading it tho.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:05
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pentyne posted:yeah everyone knows that once you have sex in your teens you automatically become a competent sex-haver and never develop or show any weird social behaviors around sex It's a necessary but not sufficient condition of proving you are safe to get intimate with, which becomes very very important later in life. Remember that the worst a man has to worry about is rejection, the worst a woman has to worry about is being abused, violated, or killed. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Nov 19, 2021 19:05
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Ever sneeze so hard your arms hurt?
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Nov 19, 2021 19:07
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Reminder that people should not take carry on then seriously and falling for bait is a failure in internet literacy on your part.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:09
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Ever sneeze so hard your arms hurt? My mom popped a rib head out of place doing that once. Sneezes are dangerous, yo. ETA: I treated a guy with traumatic brain injury who sneezed so hard he pitched forward, slammed his head on the table and knocked himself cold. Sneeze carefully.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:09
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Remember men, if you haven't had sex before your mid 20s not only are you broken but also women will decide its not safe to be around you, because only sexual predators wait until they are ready to be intimate. Happy International Men's Day!
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Nov 19, 2021 19:10
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Malachite_Dragon posted:No, see, they want him to already not be a virgin. Someone else can go through the awkwardness of the first time and teach him what goes where and how to find the little man in the boat, they don't want to. All of the fun, none of the effort. Sounds like my ex. Before I was with her I had only had sex twice and it was many years ago. I was for all intents and purposes a virgin. I was understandably nervous and would ask her for advice or guidance but she refused to give it. Usually with an excuse "Having sex is primal knowledge everyone just knows. You think lions need to be told how to have sex?" She would then get frustrated when I didn't know what I was doing. The worst was shen she wanted me to go down on her, which I was absolutely all for, but I couldn't see what I was doing because it was dark and I was trying to apply what I've seen in porn since she refused to give me advice or guide me. It didn't go well and she stopped me after a minute or two. carry on then posted:It’s a legit concern, lots of stories of women who go down on a virgin dude only for him to instantly become clingy and codependent due to his lack of experience. It’s absolutely valid to want to avoid this and women should feel more comfortable requiring experience in their partners. Its been long enough since I've had sex I've lost what little knowledge I had and am essentially a virgin at 35. Good to know that means I've lost my chance at sex and am an unfuckable loser.
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the holy poopacy posted:you got one, dipshit If this was going on in my family, I'd point that poo poo out in the comments every single time the subject came up on his feed. Let all his FB friends know that he gets plenty of pics of the whole family but always wants to show off his nephews and exclude his nieces for some mysterious reason. It won't stop the guy from being a sexist poo poo, but it might make him think twice about being so goddamn open about it. Or he might just block me. It'd be a win/win either way though. deety fucked around with this message at 19:14 on Nov 19, 2021 |
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Nov 19, 2021 19:11
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limp_cheese posted:
You had to find out sometime...
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carry on then posted:It’s a legit concern, lots of stories of women who go down on a virgin dude only for him to instantly become clingy and codependent due to his lack of experience. It’s absolutely valid to want to avoid this and women should feel more comfortable requiring experience in their partners. I’m a woman and surprisingly ran into the gender flipped version of this (didn’t have sex til 22 or 23). In college when people heard I was a virgin they’d either get WAY too excited or would immediately back off (one person said they “didn’t want to ruin me”). When I got intimate with my first and told him I was inexperienced he had a similar reaction (didn’t want to “ruin” me, that obviously I’d get super clingy, that he didn’t want to waste time) and I had to loving argue with him about it. And then was surprised that I wasn’t TOTALLY clueless. I’ve hosed myself before dude, calm down. In retrospect early 20s is a totally normal time and everyone else was just being weird and lovely. I have a lot of empathy for people who’ve just been unlucky.
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You ever try to construct a scenario from reading the title to see how the consensus wound up someway and completely fail? This is such a case. AITA For not letting my boyfriend use my dishes? quote:So a little back story. My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) usually have dinners every weeknight together. I struggle with making food for myself but when it’s with him it’s easier and slightly fun. Lately I’ve been struggling to keep up with my dishes and they would sit in the sink ranging from days to weeks on end because I just can’t get the mental energy to deal with them. I’m in college and graduating this year and my classes are beating my rear end and so is my depression, so I came up with a solution to not have as many dishes in the sink. I only kept out 2 of everything like 2 plates, forks, spoons, bowls, and then only a few kitchen utensils like a spatula and a big spoon. I even bought styrofoam plates and plastic forks so if I’m not feeling like doing the dishes, I can use those.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:15
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ranbo das posted:Remember men, if you haven't had sex before your mid 20s not only are you broken but also women will decide its not safe to be around you, because only sexual predators wait until they are ready to be intimate. This is incredibly dismissive of women's very valid trepidation at getting intimate with someone due to the very real risk of serious harm.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:15
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limp_cheese posted:Its been long enough since I've had sex I've lost what little knowledge I had and am essentially a virgin at 35. Good to know that means I've lost my chance at sex and am an unfuckable loser. Not just that, you’re also apparently prone to be a violent predator and/or murderer!!! Better just not try ever again, really
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Nov 19, 2021 19:15
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carry on then posted:Remember that the worst a man has to worry about is rejection, the worst a woman has to worry about is being abused, violated, or killed. As a male who's been sexually assaulted by a woman who felt she was too attractive for my "no" to be legitimate and sincere, why don't you gently caress all the way off.
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extremely um *flips through twitter catchphrase glossary* colonialist of you to not understand that male virgins are virgins because they're rapists. Nice gaslighting, narcissist
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Nov 19, 2021 19:17
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If you think this is a double standard, congratulations on feeling one one trillionth of a percent of what women feel in patriarchical society. Work towards justice for women if you want the state of affairs to change.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:19
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This feels like a weird thing considering you can be a virgin and just like lie. If your going to sexually assault someone a small lie seems pretty easy. L It’s not like you can confirm it either way
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Nov 19, 2021 19:21
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somewhere out there there's an exact doppelganger of this dude with a goatee who calls everything he sees cucked and degenerate, and I hope someday they meet and kiss
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carry on then posted:
I really want to call this part out, despite the risk of mockery. My first time was late (turns out dating is really difficult when you're on the autism spectrum). I fully believed this, and the older I got, the more my mental health suffered, as I was worried that I had missed my chance and was going to be alone forever. Then I managed to connect with someone through a dating app and had a brief fling. I "caught up" rather quickly, continued dating, and ended up meeting someone a few months later that led to a healthy relationship that continues to this day. So while it's valid if some people prefer more experienced partners, it shouldn't mean reinforcing the toxic beliefs that fuel incels.
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"Saying men who haven't had enough sex are inherently defective in no way reinforces toxic masculinity and objectifies women. It actually fights the patriarchy. I am very smart."
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:somewhere out there there's an exact doppelganger of this dude with a goatee who calls everything he sees cucked and degenerate, and I hope someday they meet and kiss "Actually, you must hate women, as proven by this person I made up in my head" is a hell of an accusation.
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if anyone does not understand by now that carry on then's whole entire gimmick over like three iterations of the relationships thread is posting like zombie Valerie Solanas feel free to take a look at their rap sheet
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Nameless Pete posted:All I know is that you never attend a party thrown by swingers, even if they promise you beforehand it's not that kind of party. Because they will invite all their swinger friends who can no longer appreciate the distinction. Can confirm. My partner lived with swingers for a bit. They threw a party when they moved into their new house, and mixed the family, kids, and grandkids with the swingers. According to their daughter, it was awkward as hell and the next day,   the hot tub had a film of ejaculate on the top.
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Tiny Bug Child posted:if anyone does not understand by now that carry on then's whole entire gimmick over like three iterations of the relationships thread is posting like zombie Valerie Solanas feel free to take a look at their rap sheet can't blame em much, responding to literally whatever with "wow, problematic much" over and over clearly is enough to keep an entire thread going on GBS
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Nov 19, 2021 19:30
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Come on guys, you're ruining National Carbonated Beverage with Caffeine Day.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:31
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y'know how there's that thing where the irish/scottish/welsh/english all accuse each other of loving the sheep those are the vibes I'm getting off this poly/swinger finger pointing.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:31
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Viriginity is the language of abusers
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Nov 19, 2021 19:33
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gently caress it, content: AITA for telling my sister that if it wasn't for me her kid would be sick or dead. quote:A bit of context, I(18) am a cleaner in a hospital, it's a good paying job but the work is physically exhausting. As a result I have a nice bank balance. This is because I have been working 10+ hour days for 12 days straight. As I said physically exhausting. But I don't mind I adore my work and I get along well with most of my coworkers and the HCA's.
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Nov 19, 2021 19:47
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Dazerbeams posted:Reminder that people should not take carry on then seriously and falling for bait is a failure in internet literacy on your part. Nah, I assume everyone is sincere on the Internet.  But only once.
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Soylent Pudding posted:gently caress it, content: r/relationships: it has come to my attention that I'm not very good at spelling
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ranbo das posted:Remember men, if you haven't had sex before your mid 20s not only are you broken but also women will decide its not safe to be around you, because only sexual predators wait until they are ready to be intimate. I only know it's "sometime in november"
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Nov 19, 2021 20:24
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ponzicar posted:So while it's valid if some people prefer more experienced partners, it shouldn't mean reinforcing the toxic beliefs that fuel incels. When confronted with the realization that most cishet women prefer experienced partners, the healthy response is "I'll demonstrate I'm safe and not clingy in other ways" not "I'm a sad broken individual doomed to be an incel."
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Nov 19, 2021 20:24
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Virginity in an adult, like an Ayn Rand book on the shelf, is a big red flag. It’s not a dealbreaker. Context is critical: do they have the book because they’re a student of economic ethics who studies the ills of capitalist society and the fallacies that draw people into libertarian individualism? Are they a virgin at 25 because they escaped a terrible family and spent years focusing on therapy and building their own life? Or are they a neurotic, entitled, codependent beartrap that will close on your labia and/or wallet?
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AITA for giving my mom the money for cancer treatment, without telling my wife? (self.AmItheAsshole)quote:Breast Cancer treatment is expensive, and my parents don’t have the money to pay for it. I didn’t ask my wife beforehand because she doesn’t like my parents. And I didn’t want to cause any problems since there was no way I wasn’t gonna pay for it. I gave them 50k to cover all the eventual costs (hopefully, and yes, I know about gift tax) but if they need more then all they have to do is ask. my wife probably won't notice this missing fifty thousand dollars for at least a week or two!
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Like I think we can all agree that virginity isn’t nearly as bad as being a goon lmfao
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Without net worth info there's really no way to call this. Is this all their savings or just 5%
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