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Mr. Grapes! posted:Mine? We started going out when we were teenagers, and then decided to open things up in our early 20s. We don't have kids. We're not really Poly though, more swingers I guess? We've had zero problems with it but I think that's because we spent awhile talking about it before trying it, and we absolutely did not have anyone specifically 'in mind' for when we opened up. The only issues we ever really had was in the beginning, where my girlfriend would go overboard on comparing the girls we were hooking up with to herself, and torturing herself over whether she was inferior because New Girl was thinner/longer hair/bigger boobs/smaller boobs whatever. She quickly realised I wasn't going to leave her for any of these women and that the particular body type didn't matter to me at all, I was just happy to be there! We also do not preach - the only people that really know that we're open are our closest friends. I always cringe when I see people posting pro-poly screeds on Facebook or whatever. its a special kind of people that can truly pull it off, more power to them and you.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:00 |
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gently caress that don't be with someone who plays those lovely rear end games.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:04 |
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Agents are GO! posted:What about the sound of an intake of breath to say "Cram it!"? I wish she'd listen to an intake of breath to say "GET OFF THE COUNTER" but nope :/
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:32 |
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He’s angry about what I did while we were broken up.quote:My boyfriend and I broke up (his choice) for a couple months after an argument. This isn’t the first time he decided to breakup because of a fight. He will breakup and then come back in a few days wanting to fix things. The most recent time, I had it. I was sick of being tossed away over a fight. I didn’t want to fix things. We were broken up for 2 months. We have been “back together” for like 3 weeks now. Last week at the gym, there was a guy I was talking to on Facebook while we were broken up who was there. We have never met in real life, but both recognized each other. My boyfriend saw that he was looking at me and shook his head at my boyfriend. I was honest with him right away. I told him I was messaging this person but never exchanged numbers and didn’t know him in real life. My boyfriend is livid. He says I’m sneaky. He says I made a fool of him. I made him look like a clown. I hurt him. I don’t even know what to do or say here but he’s not speaking to me and I feel like once again we are at risk of breaking up. I truly don’t feel like I’m wrong here. I never thought we would end up together again. I never met up with this guy. I was honest with my bf. I’m losing my mind here. Am I as terrible as he is making me feel?? I don’t know what to do to make this right. He’s making me feel extremely guilty. As though I cannot be trusted and I’m just a betrayer. your bf is a clown, and you are a clown for getting back with him
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:41 |
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Mx. posted:He’s angry about what I did while we were broken up. Cant have a circus of one
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:42 |
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Mx. posted:He’s angry about what I did while we were broken up. Seriously, oh woww he's exhibiting the exact same pattern of threats that made me leave him before? Reddit, what do I doooo
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:46 |
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Barudak posted:Here lies a name too long for this gravestone but not long enough to commemorate it never scored
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:47 |
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Blastedhellscape posted:I had no idea until I started reading this thread that there were so many families that exclude people from family gatherings until they 'marry in.' What the hell? In my family whenever we had a dinner party people you were dating or just whatever friends you wanted to invite were always welcome. The more the merrier and all that. In my social circles it's always been like this. If you being em along, they're part of the party. If the host is someone who doesn't want nobody near their kitchen because they have everything going just how they plan it, you keep away, if they recruit folks to help then everyone gets recruited. I've never had "you're not part of the family", worst I've had is "oh no you're the guest" and I have to beg them for something to do rather than just sit there. That said, my mother's a kitchen control freak so while I'm happy to help, I have to be prodded because my assumption is "stay the Hell out of their way until told to do something".
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:49 |
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wizardofloneliness posted:He says he and his family are from the South, so I seriously doubt he's anything other than white. "But his name will be too long!" is just him grasping at straws. Unless they're planning on giving their son five middle names, then no, it won't be too long. His wife comes from a culture that doesn't adopt the husband's name. Many Asian cultures don't and when I think of long names Thai and sri Lankan come to mind first.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 04:56 |
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the holy poopacy posted:Man, with a name like that you have to go out and make a ton of money so that you can donate enough to a hospital to get your name on something. I don't know if I could handle the pressure myself. The Burns-Ward Cancer Clinic
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Batterypowered7 posted:I'm Hispanic, so I've got two last names. I wanted our son to have both of our last names and my wife wanted her last name to come first. I didn't care, so that was a non-issue. What didn't work out was that I wanted him to have two separate last names so that he could just fill out forms with his first one, like I do. Instead, my wife put a damned hyphen in there. I hate the way it looks on paper and now the kid's gotta hope that name forms accommodate sixteen characters, one being a hyphen. Agreed that hyphenated names look cruddy. I did not change my last name when I married, so my spawn will have the pleasure of juggling 2 last names no hyphen. Deal with it, suckers.
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Bruceski posted:The Burns-Ward Cancer Clinic poo poo maybe i should make a bequeathment in their name for their wedding gift
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 05:05 |
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In laws threaten to boycott our wedding because we won't invite my BIL's gfquote:My (28f) fiancé (29m) used to have a female friend who is what we'd stereotypically the "chill girl". From day one she hated my guts and tried to sabotage our relationship, she always begged for my fiancé's attention,she felt entitled to be invited to our romantic dates, she was always very touchy with my fiancé to the point she would make him feel uncomfortable as well and what broke the camel's back was when she tried to get my fiancé to cheat on me with her which ended up with my fiancé going nc with her and blocking her everywhere. My fiancé always tried to establish boundaries with her and she wouldn't care. All of that happened in a short amount of time, the first 6 months of our relationship, then she was out of our lives.
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the holy poopacy posted:Man, with a name like that you have to go out and make a ton of money so that you can donate enough to a hospital to get your name on something. I don't know if I could handle the pressure myself. Reminds me of a story my mum told me of a big donation by a "mr hore" to a hospital near here. All the other donators got places named in the format name-house. His did not. Nettle Soup fucked around with this message at 05:31 on Dec 9, 2021 |
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 05:29 |
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Dont care of this is fake My (24F) Boyfriend (27M) will not stop calling his cum "Greggnog" During Christmas time quote:First off: I am not joking. I wish I was joking.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 05:31 |
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Closet dude is back at it! I (22m) accidentally left an AirTag in a box of my girlfriends (22f) stuff. She is accusing me of stalking her when it was an accident. How do I explain this to her without seeming more guilty? quote:My girlfriend broke up with me right before thanksgiving because I did a really dumb thing. She disappeared off the face of the earth but last week she contacted me asking if she could come get some baby pictures that I had of hers that I was going to transfer to digital.
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Evil Willow posted:Closet dude is back at it! lol
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 05:41 |
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cumshitter posted:
This whole post is awful and stress inducing but the part I just can't get over is that its thanksgiving dinner he's pulling this on, turkeys take literal hours to cook and they're done when they're at temp, how exactly is anyone supposed to hurry that up? You could bake at a higher temp I guess but that's just going to make it dry. P much the second the bird goes in the oven you have your time on when the food is going to be ready and the only way to move that time up is a time machine where you started cooking the bird earlier.
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WoodrowSkillson posted:its a special kind of people that can truly pull it off, more power to them and you. Yeah I'd say the biggest advantage is that jealousy/control type of nonsense is a complete non-issue. Just about every couple I know has some weird bullshit where they get at least slightly upset or suspicious of their SO for completely minor things, but for us the problem doesn't really exist. If we meet someone we want to bang, we just straight out tell each other and it's usually a high-five and 'go for it!'. We each have an official no-contest veto, which has only been deployed twice (by her), both times I quickly came around to agree with it and lost interest. One of them was a girl who clearly in retrospect had wayyyyyy too much of a crush on me and was doing the kind of dagger-staring at my girlfriend, and the other one was a Bad Dog Owner, and bad dog owners should not get laid.
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Evil Willow posted:Closet dude is back at it! Pretty cool how they’ve been broken up for weeks but he still calls her “my girlfriend”
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the holy poopacy posted:good news In the movie version, Liam Neeson plays the FIL who says "I'll fix this" and disappears until their joint funds mysteriously reappear.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 06:31 |
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Evil Willow posted:Closet dude is back at it! He 'accidentally' put a tracking device in his ex-girlfriend's stuff. Yeah. Right.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 06:33 |
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mllaneza posted:In the movie version, Liam Neeson plays the FIL who says "I'll fix this" and disappears until their joint funds mysteriously reappear. Liam Neeson in a tweed jacket sitting behind a mahogany desk, saying he has a particular set of skills while the camera lingers on his framed accredations for financial investigation.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 06:34 |
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Blastedhellscape posted:He 'accidentally' put a tracking device in his ex-girlfriend's stuff. Yeah. Right. Also lol he "thinks" he knows where she's staying.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 06:46 |
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Pleads posted:Also lol he "thinks" he knows where she's staying. Hey its got a 2-3 meter margin of error
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ArbitraryC posted:This whole post is awful and stress inducing but the part I just can't get over is that its thanksgiving dinner he's pulling this on, turkeys take literal hours to cook and they're done when they're at temp, how exactly is anyone supposed to hurry that up? You could bake at a higher temp I guess but that's just going to make it dry. P much the second the bird goes in the oven you have your time on when the food is going to be ready and the only way to move that time up is a time machine where you started cooking the bird earlier. You say that like the husband cares to know that or anything more than 'Scream at people to make them go faster'. I'm guessing he's poo poo at his job, too. The family seems pretty shocked but then she does think they'll all take his side, and if no one even questioned that she's unfortunately probably right.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 07:10 |
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In the comments, Closet Guy says that going to her parents' house wouldn't count as stalking her because he only thinks that she's staying there, he doesn't know for sure. (Which completely ignores the fact that he drat well does know thanks to the airtag.) Also, apparently his therapist is also telling him to leave this girl alone, but it's a new therapist and OP hasn't really had a chance to fully explain the whole backstory of why he should be allowed to stalk her.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 07:14 |
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deety posted:In the comments, Closet Guy says that going to her parents' house wouldn't count as stalking her because he only thinks that she's staying there, he doesn't know for sure. (Which completely ignores the fact that he drat well does know thanks to the airtag.) Is that verified the same "hid in the closet and then proceeded to escalate to "as weird as humanly possible" guy? I propose and support a federal program to create an Endowment for WTF, wherein the government pays for trained personnel to sit people like this down on a reasonably comfortable loveseat and shout "YO WHAT THE gently caress" in these people's faces until they acquire the smallest amount of introspection and empathy. They will not be allowed to leave the loveseat, but meals and sanitary facilities will be provided in place, and they aren't allowed to sleep for more than four hours at a time.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 07:52 |
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WoodrowSkillson posted:My (24F) Boyfriend (27M) will not stop calling his cum "Greggnog" During Christmas time I'm loving dying over here.
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Silly Newbie posted:Is that verified the same "hid in the closet and then proceeded to escalate to "as weird as humanly possible" guy? he's admitting it in the comments unless its a gimmick it's all playing out like the prelude to a murder-suicide.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 08:33 |
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I (26M) ran into my ex in a bar, while standing next to my wife (24F) and immediately puked.quote:My ex and I were together for 6 years from middle school until freshmen in college and then we went our separate ways. I met my wife a year and a half later, a year after that we got married and now have two children together. I’ve just about accepted that I’ll never not have love in my heart for my ex, but I haven’t seen or spoken to her in about 4 years.
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MarcusSA posted:I (26M) ran into my ex in a bar, while standing next to my wife (24F) and immediately puked.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 09:31 |
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https://twitter.com/AtomAtkinson/status/1468799076242182144 also he's a nazi
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welcome to hell posted:https://twitter.com/AtomAtkinson/status/1468799076242182144 big "where is your chin" energy if true
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Brawnfire posted:Yeah, that's stupid. My parents used to get all high and mighty about it like "taste it before you decide it needs salt/soy sauce" and I'm like it always does, everybody's food is bland as gently caress, I know what I like Maybe people give you bland food because you keep putting salt on everything?
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 09:50 |
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Only rear end in a top hat wannabe-chefs get mad at people seasoning their food to taste. What matters most is that the person eating it enjoys the experience, not to stroke the ego of the chef for having perfected the art of seasoning.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 09:53 |
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I can’t speak for anyone else, but personally I cook for people in order for them to have an enjoyable meal. If they require a pound of salt or bottle of sriracha or whatever to do it, that’s their business. I get it wounding your pride or feeling like an insult; I used to feel that way, but at some point I realized that cooking for friends/family isn’t some kind of competition you’re trying to win. What matters is people having a good meal. E: yeah, that
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 09:58 |
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welcome to hell posted:https://twitter.com/AtomAtkinson/status/1468799076242182144 It's not often r/relationships posts get a trailer.
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:I can’t speak for anyone else, but personally I cook for people in order for them to have an enjoyable meal. If they require a pound of salt or bottle of sriracha or whatever to do it, that’s their business. I get it wounding your pride or feeling like an insult; I used to feel that way, but at some point I realized that cooking for friends/family isn’t some kind of competition you’re trying to win. What matters is people having a good meal. I don't mind people having preferences, but seasoning food you have not tasted is just dumb and lazy. It increases the chances of them having a bad meal.
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