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Hughlander posted:CONTENT! Love the progression of this story: He yelled at me and I told him it was dumb, gently caress off Then he got all huffy and packed and I told him it was dumb, gently caress off Then he demanded an apology and I told him no, that's dumb, gently caress off Then he said I should respect him because he's a few years older than me and now I'm wracked with doubt, maybe I've been going about this all wrong...?!
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Dec 20, 2021 19:10
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I feel like if I argue about the safety point, even if i convinced you, I will only accomplish making you feel less safe. I'm gonna drop it because I can't think of a good outcome from wearing your sense of safety down. Not going out at night is like those drink socks if it makes you feel better awesome but it's not as helpful as you think.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:11
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I've witnessed exactly one assault in my life, and it happened in broad daylight, in the middle of a crowded street. Please tell me what street wisdom I've earned by this.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:12
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It’s not really a big deal to accidentally be seen naked. It’s more of an embarrassment thing than a violation of trust thing. But that also assumes the person who saw you is normal and not some revenge porn freak
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Dec 20, 2021 19:14
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Boba Pearl posted:I feel like if I argue about the safety point, even if i convinced you, I will only accomplish making you feel less safe. I'm gonna drop it because I can't think of a good outcome from wearing your sense of safety down. Not going out at night is like those drink socks if it makes you feel better awesome but it's not as helpful as you think. That's fine. I don't really care about being "wrong" about this I just wanted to make sure it was clear I was not and I am not saying the traumas are the same thing. It was a point about personal protection, and even if that point is incorrect, that's the point I was trying to make.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:17
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I mean, I legit got no poo poo attacked a year and a half ago and the guy later admitted he was trying to kill me and I ended up hurting him pretty badly and obviously survived and was completely fine afterwards. Called my wife, told her I would be late and slept like a baby afterwards. So again judging people's trauma is stupid and counter productive. If I had nudes get leaked out that would probably gently caress me up mentally pretty bad and I can picture it being something I would need therapy for.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:17
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Mugging chat is boring as hell, unlike being mugged/doing a mugging, which just gets the blood pumping like nothing else.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:20
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If you prick is, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If we step outside, are we not mugged? If we porn do we not revenge?
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Dec 20, 2021 19:21
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spacetoaster posted:I mug in the nude every day. if I take your picture while being mugged, can I post it on the internet?
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Dec 20, 2021 19:23
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My mugger sent me nudes. How much do I tip the cops when I show them the nudes?
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Dec 20, 2021 19:23
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Dik Hz posted:My mugger sent me nudes. How much do I tip the cops when I show them the nudes? What if your mugger sent you your own nudes before factory resetting the device they mugged from you?
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Dec 20, 2021 19:27
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:I've witnessed exactly one assault in my life, and it happened in broad daylight, in the middle of a crowded street. That Spider hyphen Man really does not exist or he would've fwipped the muggers pee poo gender parts clean off?
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Dec 20, 2021 19:27
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value-brand cereal posted:That Spider hyphen Man really does not exist or he would've fwipped the muggers pee poo gender parts clean off? SpiderHyphenMan got perma'd a while back but he does exist.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:29
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Dik Hz posted:My mugger sent me nudes. How much do I tip the cops when I show them the nudes? If there's a penis, you tip equivalent to the amount of visible foreskin. I'm not sure if there's a similar rule of thumb for other nudes, but broadly I trend towards tipping more based on visible skin, and haven't gotten any complaints.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:30
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e: This is probably not as funny as I think it is.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:30
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AITA For snitching on my (ex) best friend?quote:I (18M) have a been close with my best friend J (18M) for over a decade now and I love him more than anything. And over a year ago, he got a girlfriend (18F) who we’ll call M. M is the sweetest woman i have ever met - she cares for J so much, and I have found a close friend in her. A few months ago J moved into M’s apartment. J doesn’t have a job and M has a well paying one. She is the breadwinner.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:35
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Pondex posted:https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/dec/17/you-be-the-judge-should-my-mum-stop-being-a-christmas-decorations-tyrant Evil Willow posted:AITA for calling out a sexist tradition at my work when everyone thought I was overreacting? olylifter posted:My (22m) brother (16m) stole my gf's (23f) nudes out of my phone while he was using it StrangersInTheNight posted:Blaming the folks who got their pictures stolen without consent that they deserve it is the new 'look how she was dressed'. The rear end in a top hat is always the thief, as they made a conscious choice to take and distribute the photos, not the person who was having a little fun being human and risque.
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Dec 20, 2021 19:46
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for recording instead of reminding my wife when a bird was eating her toast? Halloween Jack fucked around with this message at 19:54 on Dec 20, 2021 |
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Dec 20, 2021 19:46
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For the "who could possibly care about this" file: AITA for ordering meals for my children when we go out with friends? quote:My husband and I have two children (19 and 17). We go out with our friends (two other couples) every other week and then on the weeks we do not go out with them, we have a date night and then a family dinner out. We always get separate checks, so each couple pays for their own food/drinks, we find it is just easier to do it that way. Halloween Jack fucked around with this message at 20:07 on Dec 20, 2021 |
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Dec 20, 2021 19:53
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Dik Hz posted:My mugger sent me nudes. How much do I tip the cops when I show them the nudes?
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Dec 20, 2021 20:05
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Boba Pearl posted:Like be real how many of you have NOT been mugged robbed or threatened with overwhelming violence. Never. I've had some shady people approach me or call after me on the street, but I just keep walking.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:07
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Boba Pearl posted:I'm saying it getting robbed is a normal part of life and if it's traumatic for you you've probably walked a very sheltered path. Most people will be robbed 2 or 3 times by the time they hit 18. what the gently caress
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Dec 20, 2021 20:08
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i guess i just exude an aura of poverty 'cuz i've wandered around some extremely lovely neighborhoods, at all hours of night, in all kinds of illegal states of mind, and no one ever tried to rob me
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Dec 20, 2021 20:13
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StrangersInTheNight posted:trying to compare traumas in this manner never works out well it's like i'm some sort of fuckin' clairvoyant
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Dec 20, 2021 20:15
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thotsky posted:Never. I've had some shady people approach me or call after me on the street, but I just keep walking. Some people just always get suckered by the GTA/RDR mugging events.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:16
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Dazerbeams posted:You say this like there's not a good chance boomers will salt the earth completely before giving up the ghost. Dewgy posted:I got threatened with a boat oar and a pickaxe at Walmart once but that's about it.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:17
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Sorry but I'm gonna keep well away from strangers in the night regardless of how insightful they may claim to be.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:17
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AITA for taking my daughter shopping when she was supposed to be punished?quote:My 14 year old daughter "Katie" is very talented at maths. She's already the best at it in her school despite not being in the older years. She entered her exams early and scored full marks. She's now studying higher level maths stuff and her teachers have given her university-level material to get her teeth into. It's probably her biggest passion in life.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:17
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Okay, but she had her heart broken because she apparently stalked a dude and threatened her classmates to the point of expulsion from extracurriculars so that should be taken into consideration probs
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Dec 20, 2021 20:23
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This can't be her first big problem like this right? I doubt people go nuts like that overnight. Mom needs to nip that poo poo in the bud right now.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:25
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My insane stalker daughter is already sad enough that she'll never be with her victim, why do anything else about this dangerous and unhinged new behavior?
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Dec 20, 2021 20:26
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Halloween Jack posted:For the "who could possibly care about this" file: is this some wanna be class thing? The only way I can see this as YTA is if they literally waited till the bill was on the table and then ordered. Otherwise not the rear end in a top hat for ordering food to go from a restaurant while at the restaurant
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Dec 20, 2021 20:27
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Hughlander posted:AITA for taking my daughter shopping when she was supposed to be punished? huh, so that's how theyre made
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Dec 20, 2021 20:28
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I wonder if the mother has a history of rationalizing away her daughter's previous displays of an absolute lack of regard for boundaries or otherwise alarming behavior. (I do not actually wonder)
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Dec 20, 2021 20:30
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You take the money you were gonna spend on shopping and put it into therapy.sugar free jazz posted:huh, so that's how theyre made This is my initial reaction as well.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:37
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Hughlander posted:AITA for taking my daughter shopping when she was supposed to be punished? Should I help my daughter learn that actions have consequences? That stalking and harassing and threatening people is unacceptable, and she's getting off easy compared to what she'll get later in life if she continues this kind of behavior? Or should I take her shopping to cheer her up? Help me reddit 5 years later: Am I am rear end in a top hat for telling the judge my daughter wasn't really at fault with her DUI?
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Dec 20, 2021 20:39
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Hughlander posted:AITA for taking my daughter shopping when she was supposed to be punished?
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Dec 20, 2021 20:42
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My son is bad at maths but good at Englishes.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:46
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Somewhat related: My friend Saul lived out in the country with two good-size dogs that liked to roam, despite Saul's efforts to keep them contained. One day Saul's neighbor came over and related that the two dogs were threatening his cattle and informed Saul if the dogs came near his animals again, he would shoot them. Saul's response? He thanked the rancher for giving him the warning and last chance to restrain the dogs. The rancher could have just shot them outright. Instead he went out of his way to locate their owner and warn Saul. Saul then completely changed his strategy to restrain the dogs, knowing that if they got loose again that would probably be it for them. Moral: be grateful for warnings. That OP has an extremely narrow window to try and keep her daughter out of legal trouble, she should be grateful to have the chance before the cops and courts get involved.
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Dec 20, 2021 20:52
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