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Ideally you not just break off contact but convince the other person that you never existed in the first place.
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There is no having an amicable separation with manipulators. E: And while it is in fact possible to remain friends with your exes after the breakup, this is not one of those times. This is one of those times you disappear in a cartoon cloud of smoke. Malachite_Dragon fucked around with this message at 04:27 on Jan 17, 2022 |
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Blastedhellscape posted:It is kind of weird and offputing when someone immediately breaks up with a person, cuts all contact, and goes scorched earth on them all in one move when the breakup wasn't over anything that seems worthy of that. quote:Anyways he decided I had cheated on him and proceeded to flip out at me from 4 am till my exam which was at 9 am. Once I’d gotten him out of my house, he spent the next few days berating me and attacking me over text and phone call. This is enough to go scorched earth. You don't flip out and accuse someone of cheating for hours on end over a nothing-burger. That's psycho poo poo and someone who should be severed from immediately.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:26 |
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AITA for uninviting my mom from my wedding when she kept insisting on my “step” son not being there?quote:It’s a stupid thing to ask I know. But my mom’s been an important person in my life and I’m not sure if perhaps I overreacted. I (26m) met my soon to be wife Amy (25f) 7 years ago. Her son Jason was 11 months old and she broke up with his dad already. I love Jason as my own son and that’s how I see him.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:26 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for uninviting my mom from my wedding when she kept insisting on my “step” son not being there? quote:Now she keeps calling crying that I’m her only son and it would be heartless keeping her from being part of this huge milestone in her life bitch you're being kept from this huge milestone in "your" life because you're heartless
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:29 |
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Discus-throw this woman into an acid vat
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:31 |
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It's not really "your" acid so it's not actually burning!
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:35 |
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Kenshin posted:lmao I'm trying to figure out how her son being married is a milestone in her life.
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Seth Pecksniff posted:R/relationships: My dad caught me doing a meat cyclone with my junk
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:46 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:I'm trying to figure out how her son being married is a milestone in her life. I mean to have your kid get married is a big deal, presumably though this is because you love them and nice big deal things happening in their lives are exciting, and not because you're checking off a Lifetime channel list of achievements you can brag about to friends.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:47 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:I'm trying to figure out how her son being married is a milestone in her life. she's a narcissist everything is about her
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Nooner posted:whats the point of maintaining contact after you break up? like what, you going to keep hanging out? maybe buy a house together? paint all the rooms a different shade of purple?? if I don't have ex's to validate my raw sexuality and send memes to on instagram then what's all this been for??
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 04:59 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:I'm trying to figure out how her son being married is a milestone in her life. These people usually suffer from untreated Personality Disorders.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:00 |
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Now that’s a good soon-to-be-stepdad
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:04 |
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I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth, reading this. AITA for "ruining" a coffee table quote:I could use some help in this situation since it's currently creating a small rift in our family.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:08 |
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Lot of people ITT don’t know what ghosting is. Telling someone you have been seeing “this isn’t working out I’m breaking up with you” and then deleting them off social medial and blocking their number isn’t ghosting. Deleting them off social media and blocking them without telling them “I’m breaking up with you” is ghosting.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:10 |
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Evil Willow posted:I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth, reading this. I dropped comp sci in undergrad because one of the other students in my project group left an actual human shaped grease stain on the futon and insisted I was the rear end in a top hat for insisting "everyone must shower within 24 hours of coming over". That's all this reminds me of. As for the blocking everyone after a breakup, for a while I feel like every relationship advice columnist I read advocated at least temporarily blocking your ex and their friends after a breakup to ensure a clean break and avoid dragging things out with second thoughts.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:14 |
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Evil Willow posted:I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth, reading this. quote:Surprised by some of these comments. I would have hoped at least some people would have knowledge about how important natural body oils are. Wood is natural and would just absorb the oil over the time. These oils are beneficial. quote:Yes I’m a licensed esthetician and literally have never heard this AND I WORKED AT A DERMATOLOGY OFFICE FOR 6 YEARS quote:That's because dermatology clinics don't want people to know the healing effects of natural body oils. Because you can't sell or market them. They would lose money. That's a fact. You really should do some research before you comment. i just... i just... gently caress it, i'm gonna go take a shower
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:21 |
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Do comments say whether the table was painted / clearcoated? Guessing not, as OP assumed that her foot oil marks that she saw would go away by absorption, instead of just wiping them off.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:25 |
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"You see, my lack of hygiene and cleaning is in fact good because-" Shut the gently caress up, get in the acid vat.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:27 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:As for the blocking everyone after a breakup, for a while I feel like every relationship advice columnist I read advocated at least temporarily blocking your ex and their friends after a breakup to ensure a clean break and avoid dragging things out with second thoughts. A complete was the advice for literally every breakup or rejection according to the old E/N dating threads. Maybe it still is, but I prefer to get my relationship drama fix from non-goon sources these days.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:28 |
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Malachite_Dragon posted:"You see, my lack of hygiene and cleaning is in fact good because-" LOL the last post I saw by you mentioned an acid vat too. I don’t know which idea I like more: you have a very finite set of tools which you apply to every problem, or that you just have an acid pit lying around and you’re trying to get your money’s worth.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:29 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:I dropped comp sci in undergrad because one of the other students in my project group left an actual human shaped grease stain on the futon and insisted I was the rear end in a top hat for insisting "everyone must shower within 24 hours of coming over". That's all this reminds me of. Goddamn, who are these people? I had a person in my design class who would walk around and little cheese-smelling air biscuits would pop out of the waistband of his pants like a cartoon steamboat
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:30 |
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AITA for showing everyone how little my brother knows about his kids after he's constantly claimed his ex is a terrible mother for "not knowing anything about the kids"?quote:This happened at new year's but I'm still getting poo poo for it so here we are. quote:They have 50/50 custody quote:He forgot one allergy. It was the life threatening one.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:31 |
On the weekends I like laying in bed for a while and being lazy but eventually I get up and shower. On workdays the second thing I do is shower (after feeding my cats). I cannot go for many hours being awake and not showering. It triggers something in me. I feel gross and unhygienic and all around disgusting until I finally get that sweet sweet water flowing all over my body and that soap coating me. I can't imagine willingly going a month without showering. I couldn't do it. It's disgusting and these people need to be shunned from society until they get with it
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Tenkaris posted:LOL the last post I saw by you mentioned an acid vat too. I don’t know which idea I like more: you have a very finite set of tools which you apply to every problem, or that you just have an acid pit lying around and you’re trying to get your money’s worth. Acid is a very versatile tool, what can I say
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:38 |
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kimbo305 posted:Do comments say whether the table was painted / clearcoated? Guessing not, as OP assumed that her foot oil marks that she saw would go away by absorption, instead of just wiping them off. Even if the wood does end up absorbing the oil, won't it be in just those footprint-shaped spots? It's not going to swallow it or circulate it around the dead wood or anything. It just becomes a permanent stain.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:55 |
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Troublemaker posted:Even if the wood does end up absorbing the oil, won't it be in just those footprint-shaped spots? It's not going to swallow it or circulate it around the dead wood or anything. It just becomes a permanent stain. gonna have to invite hygiene lass over to foot up the rest of the table
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 05:57 |
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A cat’s skin produces oil the same way ours does. Unlike furred cats, hairless cats don’t have a thick coat to wick it away, which leads to an oily buildup on their skin. If your cat isn’t bathed frequently, they may leave an oily residue behind on your furniture and bedding.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 06:01 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for "ruining" a coffee table Now I'm curious as to what subtle hint to shower she is looking out for, because we know it's not a hideous stench. Maggots?
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Foo Diddley posted:gonna have to invite hygiene lass over to foot up the rest of the table It's free furniture polish!
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 06:03 |
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dermatologist's got a pretty good racket going. convince people to stop showering, charge them to fix whatever skin problems develop.
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Troublemaker posted:Even if the wood does end up absorbing the oil, won't it be in just those footprint-shaped spots? It's not going to swallow it or circulate it around the dead wood or anything. It just becomes a permanent stain. Nah, the body oils = natural, and wood = natural, so the capillaries of the wood will naturally wick the natural oils into the thirsty, body-oil deficient areas of the natural wood and fortify itself with it
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Seth Pecksniff posted:On the weekends I like laying in bed for a while and being lazy but eventually I get up and shower. On workdays the second thing I do is shower (after feeding my cats). Who would get into bed after making GBS threads without a shower in between. That's at least one a day.
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The nice thing about not showering is that your bedsheets are naturally healed by your body's oils and thus require no cleaning. The rich mélange of bodily excretions will keep you young and spry for the rest of your days.
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Tarkus posted:The nice thing about not showering is that your bedsheets are naturally healed by your body's oils and thus require no cleaning. The rich mélange of bodily excretions will keep you young and spry for the rest of your days. It's like if raw denim were a symbiotic life-form we dwelt alongside
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Tarkus posted:The nice thing about not showering is that your bedsheets are naturally healed by your body's oils and thus require no cleaning. The rich mélange of bodily excretions will keep you young and spry for the rest of your days. You know it's working when your sheets are stiffer than plywood.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 06:17 |
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For me it's that distinctive rainbow shimmer.
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# ? Jan 17, 2022 06:18 |
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My body is very intuitive and it tells me that it's great to shower *every loving day!*
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