haveblue posted:If you get up at 5AM and it's not for work you are clinically insane sorry I can sort of understand if they wake up at 5am to be ready for work throughout the rest of the week - waking up at the same time every day is good sleep hygiene and will make your life a little easier. When I was waking up and 545am to hit the gym before work I had a ton of trouble sleeping part 630 on my rest days. Deciding that you’re going to bounce between 5 days of waking up at 5am and 2 days of waking at 9am is going to make the first few days of the work week miserable.
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Dramatika posted:Deciding that you’re going to bounce between 5 days of waking up at 5am and 2 days of waking at 9am is going to make the first few days of the work week miserable. i mean,
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Dramatika posted:I can sort of understand if they wake up at 5am to be ready for work throughout the rest of the week - waking up at the same time every day is good sleep hygiene and will make your life a little easier. When I was waking up and 545am to hit the gym before work I had a ton of trouble sleeping part 630 on my rest days. Deciding that you’re going to bounce between 5 days of waking up at 5am and 2 days of waking at 9am is going to make the first few days of the work week miserable. That is literally what jetlag is. I have no idea why people would willingly give themselves jetlag twice a week. In other news, oh no Cinderella don't escape to the castle! AITA for moving in with my half sister just because our dad will pay our rent? quote:My mom raised my brother and I on her own. She told me that my dad had been a drug addict and she wanted to get away from him. My bother's dad was always in his life and he got better things than I ever did. It always sucked, I know his dad had no obligation to help me but my mom would always buy me the cheapest stuff and buy him great things. She would say that it was his dad's money that she was spending on him. for context, once I got a pair of socks as gifts while he got the latest toy. My mom forced me to get a part time job in high school to help with the bills while letting my brother focus on his studies and interest. It really sucked as I was always tired from work and school, I didn't go to college because mom wanted me to help her out.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Like my brother-in-law who honestly thought he could leave his laundry outside the door of his college dorm to be returned washed and folded and was loving shocked when it just disappeared instead. Don't tantalize us like this. Details, please!
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vonnegutt posted:Y'all don't have breakfast casserole where you're from? There's a lot of different kinds but most involve some kind of egg and potato product. There's also strata which is like savory French toast, so egg and bread. Hash brown casserole is pretty basic but you can get really involved adding sausage, peppers, cheese, etc. Yeah, I looked it up: hooray for those cute linguistic differences. For me 'casserole' would be a stew; meat and veg, cooked in the oven and served with huge amounts of mashed potato aaaaaaaand now I'm hungry. A little rich for breakfast though lol.
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mediaphage posted:wanted to post this extremely depressing addition. the guy's really been desperate for help for years Yikes, just divorce
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Funktastic posted:AITA for making breakfast way before my kids wake up? Got a strong 2014 Cadillac ad vibe from this power couple: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNzXze5Yza8 Not their kids tho, but they can deal with cold food imo.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:Don't tantalize us like this. Details, please! Yeah I don't think anyone would mind a multi-paragraph detailed version of this story even if it's not on topic for the thread. e: I want to know specifically how long after it was stolen did he still think his mystery servants were still washing it? Scags McDouglas fucked around with this message at 21:40 on Jan 19, 2022 |
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:Don't tantalize us like this. Details, please! There's not much else to tell. He went to a state school in New York just like his older brother and my spouse, both of whom told him that it just doesn't work like that. He did it anyway and his poo poo went missing. Even a pair of those stupid loving boat shoes he had, and I don't know what the hell he expected the SUNY laundry service to do with them
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uh they're called sperrys, thanks
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Pope Corky the IX posted:There's not much else to tell. He went to a state school in New York just like his older brother and my spouse, both of whom told him that it just doesn't work like that. He did it anyway and his poo poo went missing. Even a pair of those stupid loving boat shoes he had, and I don't know what the hell he expected the SUNY laundry service to do with them Is he diagnosed with being dumb? Edit: "Your son tested positive for dumb. He's what we refer to as medically stupid."
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Tsaedje posted:Getting up at 5am on a weekend in order to have more time to do self imposed chores, and one of those is making breakfast for people who aren't up so it can be passive aggressively left cold for them because they're not up as early as she thinks they should be. She could easily just not make breakfast for them. This a little tough for me because if mom and dad wake up at 5 having them wait til 9 for breakfast is way too long and it's nice to have an occasional meal without kids but I do really like nice sit down family meals too. I think a good compromise would be mom and dad do their fancy early breakfast together on Saturdays and then a nice family brunch on Sundays.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:There's not much else to tell. He went to a state school in New York just like his older brother and my spouse, both of whom told him that it just doesn't work like that. He did it anyway and his poo poo went missing. Even a pair of those stupid loving boat shoes he had, and I don't know what the hell he expected the SUNY laundry service to do with them Is there anywhere that works like this? Extra fancy hotels? Boarding schools?
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Beachcomber posted:Is there anywhere that works like this? Extra fancy hotels? Boarding schools? Yeah it's called Mommy's House
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Beachcomber posted:Is there anywhere that works like this? Extra fancy hotels? Boarding schools? Hotel doesn't even have to be that fancy. Every one I've ever worked at has had laundry and dry cleaning pick up be a thing night audit does while dropping off receipts under the doors.
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Jaxts posted:Hotel doesn't even have to be that fancy. Every one I've ever worked at has had laundry and dry cleaning pick up be a thing night audit does while dropping off receipts under the doors. Don't you at least have to tell the front desk you'd like the laundry to be done, not just leave the bag out in the hall and forget about it?
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Did that lady mention anywhere that weekend mornings are the only time they had for family meals together? Some people might have special memories of Saturday breakfast with mom and dad but not every family is the same. It sounds like the parents are giving them the option of doing their own thing, if they want to. The kids know if they want breakfast served hot they can get up early, and if they want to sleep in they can have leftovers. They're old enough to set the alarms on their cell phones and to learn that life is full of little compromises like this.
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haveblue posted:Don't you at least have to tell the front desk you'd like the laundry to be done, not just leave the bag out in the hall and forget about it? We provided special bags labled as laundry and inside was a form to fill out to confirm what they were leaving for us and what they wanted done to it. Sometimes people called ahead or dropped it off at the desk, but most of my regulars just popped it outside before going to bed and I picked it up at 3am when doing my rounds. I've only ever worked extended stay hotels though, so I'm not sure how other kinds go about it
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Pope Corky the IX posted:There's not much else to tell. He went to a state school in New York just like his older brother and my spouse, both of whom told him that it just doesn't work like that. He did it anyway and his poo poo went missing. Even a pair of those stupid loving boat shoes he had, and I don't know what the hell he expected the SUNY laundry service to do with them Damien goes around each morning and picks those up, I thought. But only in Dutch Quad.
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haveblue posted:If you get up at 5AM and it's not for work you are clinically insane sorry holy poo poo
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vonnegutt posted:
I had a similar upbringing, though the milestone of "You should make dinner once a week" was probably age 14. I made a lot of spaghetti bolognese and chili. When my closest sister got older, she often went for stir fry on her nights.
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RoboRodent posted:I had a similar upbringing, though the milestone of "You should make dinner once a week" was probably age 14. I made a lot of spaghetti bolognese and chili. When my closest sister got older, she often went for stir fry on her nights. The enchiladas I made were basically ground beef + enchilada sauce. I also made a spaghetti sauce: ground beef + jarred marinara. I'm sensing a theme here.
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cold pancakes are tasty
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Arsenic Lupin posted:How the hell do you spend $20K on a lab-grown diamond? Just gonna make my daughter's intrusive thoughts she wrote down in private come true! Nothing bad could happen here.
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AITA for making a scene in public?quote:My boyfriend & I were vacuuming the car at the gas station. He asked to see his phone, and when I handed it to him a few seconds later HE PUTS THE VACUUM LITERALLY ON MY FACE. Literally right next to my lips. Not even a full inch away from my lips. I freak out and try and smack his phone out of his hand and scream what the gently caress. quote:Yeah he always says something completely awful is a joke but I’m never laughing
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poisonpill posted:How did this work for you growing up? Did you resent it? Do you feel like it made you more confident and able to actually feed yourself as an adult?
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Mx. posted:AITA for making a scene in public? I was about to post this. Anyways she should make a tik tok setting all his stuff on fire and dumping him.
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my wish for the new year is the end of "pranking my girlfriend" videos
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Remember when guys had to hide how awful they were so girls wouldn’t dump them? The collapse of standards in dating partners is exactly matching the rise of prank TikTok’s, so the equilibrium is being maintained
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Mx. posted:AITA for making a scene in public? Hey if he's old enough this guy can swap places with the sad man married to the zero-sum lady.
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Beachcomber posted:Is there anywhere that works like this? Extra fancy hotels? Boarding schools? Some colleges do this. It costs extra, of course, and you need to like, set up an account with the laundry service, so he's still an idiot. AITA for drinking to much juice? quote:I know this sounds petty but she is really upset. Would you be upset if your significant other drank a majority of the juice if you only had one cup? I bought Apple juice when I went grocery shopping last week. We just opened it yesterday and my girlfriend (24f) had only had one cup of it so far while I have had multiple. (25f) She decided yesterday to give up soda so in her defense her options are now limited she says. In the fridge we only had the apple juice, soda options and Arizona juice and bottled water. She said the Arizona juice she couldn’t drink no more because she saw stuff floating in it which is understandable. I will be going to the store tomorrow to get more juice and other things she will be able to drink. We was supposed to go today but she didn’t feel well so she said let’s just do it the next day. I understand I’m wrong but is this as big of a deal as she thinks it is or AITA? Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 01:53 on Jan 20, 2022 |
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AITA for pressuring my bf about a situation in my bathroom?quote:My bf and I are quarantining in my apartment at the moment. The other day, I went into the bathroom and found a couple of half-wet, brownish stained clumps of toilet paper (2-3 sheets) stuck to the tiles on the wall opposite the toilet. I was confused about what they were but didn't mention it the first time I saw them, thinking he'd get rid of them next time he went to the toilet. They were still there a few hours later, so at some point I asked what it was and if he could clean it up. He said he didn't know but quickly went and threw them into the toilet. I was confused but didn't mention it again. A few days later, another clump appeared on the wall. The stains could've been poo poo, or maybe blood, or (unlikely as probably would have looked different) soil from plants, so I wanted to know what it was so I could determine if I'd be ok to clean it up. We have a semi-long distance relationship and regularly spend several days up to a couple weeks together at either of our places and I've never seen this before at his or my place.
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Mx. posted:Yeah he always says something
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Hughlander posted:AITA for pressuring my bf about a situation in my bathroom? UGH you can't just ASK ME why I stuck lovely toilet paper to the wall!! You're so HURTFUL
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My ‘there’s nothing abnormal about using my poo poo to stick toilet paper to the wall’ poster is causing a lot of questions already answered by my ‘there’s nothing abnormal about using my poo poo to stick toilet paper to the wall’ poster
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Haven't checked r/relationships thread in a minute,, wonder if goons are still having long pointless derails over the stupidest loving things? *2 minutes later, smIling wistfully* God's in his heaven, all's right with the world
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for drinking to much juice? 24 years old and you have to go to the internet to resolve a conflict as minor as this?
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Invisible Clergy posted:Some colleges do this. It costs extra, of course, and you need to like, set up an account with the laundry service, so he's still an idiot. Honestly though if gf is giving up soda, juice isn't much better.
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PancakeTransmission posted:We all had to cook once a week as teens. It's annoying but so is being an adult and cooking (yeah I cook now but still don't particularly enjoy it). It's no surprise how many stories come out of failchildren in their 20s+ that can't do simple things, if their parents never asked them to learn how to do basic chores before leaving home. I wish I had had more life lessons as a teen. The ones I got were "once you learn to iron your dad's clothes perfectly, you will be taught to drive" and how to pack my dad's lunch. I mean, I knew basic chores like vacuuming and dusting, and picked up laundry, but overall the lessons were how to do all the bitch work that my dad didn't feel a real man had to do. That included all of his laundry. AITA for throwing my fiance's dirty laundry down the stairs quote:I (26F) have been living with my boyfriend (29M) for about 4 years now. He has always left his dirty laundry on the bedroom floor and I have always been the only one to do the laundry. I have asked him countless times to put his laundry in the hamper. We have a laundry chute in the hall, but I even bought a hamper for our bedroom so he could just toss it in there, yet he doesn't. I got very frustrated and threw his dirty laundry downstairs (laundry room is down there) and told him he could bring it to the laundry room himself if he wants it cleaned.
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