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keep punching joe posted:AITA for not liking Indian food? Dipshittiness aside, how do you stay in a relationship with someone who (a) likes to cook (b) food you don't like? That should be a dealbreaker from both sides!
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for refusing to go to any family event with my parents and sister even tho she just got out of rehab? quote:Yeah my parents where somewhat like that. My sister was very sick because she has anorexia. She came to almost death a few times and had at least 2 cardiac incidents. My parents decided that, it would be best to focus on Jamie only. I was ignored from the sweet age of 11 on.
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Das Boo posted:Still a ways back, but this thread has taught me I have the idea of love language rear end-backwards. I always thought it was how you express affection, not how you demand it. It's bullshit for multiple reasons; the one you list, and also that like MBTI, star signs, Hogwarts houses, or "Which Brooklyn 99 Detective are you" quizzes, humans don't fit into 16, 12, 4, or 8 neat little boxes. The base idea of "people express and expect affection in different ways" is fine, the problem is that the popular version of it is "People expect affection in exactly five ways, with no cross-over or anything", which is absolute horseshit.
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Neito posted:It's bullshit for multiple reasons; the one you list, and also that like MBTI, star signs, Hogwarts houses, or "Which Brooklyn 99 Detective are you" quizzes, humans don't fit into 16, 12, 4, or 8 neat little boxes. The base idea of "people express and expect affection in different ways" is fine, the problem is that the popular version of it is "People expect affection in exactly five ways, with no cross-over or anything", which is absolute horseshit. motherfucking Plato ruined everything.
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Furious George posted:20 Spices? Some of those must be doubles! Pap-Ri-Ka.. WTF is that poo poo I hope this exotic spice didn't cost 100 dollars cumin CUMIN??? That's gotta be a joke right that's not real spices. card-a-Mom.. I do that at the grocery store to give women a boost in confidence.
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if you think spiderman is real then you've got a big problem, kid.
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PancakeTransmission posted:A rare non-throwaway post, OP has a little more info on a different thread: Yeah, that initial post annoyed me because they just said "My sister attacked me and I was sent away" which seemed really vague. 'Attacked' could just mean they yelled at each other a lot or something, and the way it was phrased their ages were kind of unclear. "My sister tried to murder me with a knife when I was 13" is a lot more clear
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sootikins posted:does the bedroom door not close? What in the actual gently caress Some cats, like mine, are assholes and will meow at the door if you lock them out, and a spray bottle only goes so far in deterring them Of course, I’m of the opinion that if you have a cat, you need to just get used to them being in your bed at night
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do not spray a cat with water, the only thing they will learn is that you hate them
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water is for interrupting a bad behavior and also making them run away from an area they're not supposed to be in closing the door and putting up with a few minutes of meowing is what you want to do at bedtime
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Pomme de Terror posted:RUN god, cops are such fuckin scum
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moonmazed posted:do not spray a cat with water, the only thing they will learn is that you hate them Mine turned dodging the spray bottle into part of the game. And in the summer months he'd claw at stuff and then sit there purring waiting for the mist.
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there are good people who become cops because they still buy into the mythology or want to make a change from within the system or whatever universally, within five years they will either stop being cops or stop being good people
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I use an electric dust blower because the only place I really give a poo poo about my cat getting into is the cables behind the stereo or computers, and I can't use water there Simply picking her up and tossing her off the counter every time I catch her seems to keep her off of them, but I just assume she's up there all night to spite me, so I wipe them down before making food on them anyway
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My cat is dumb as gently caress and literally will just stand there staring at you if you spray bottle him He is ungovernable
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CannonFodder posted:He said he doesn't like the smell while it's cooking. He hasn't even tasted it and he says he doesn't like it. He's dumb for not even wanting her to cook it at all but he does say that he's eaten Indian food before and it gives him an upset stomach.
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Jan 20, 2022 23:53
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AITA for pretending like my eyes were burning when my brother rolled down my window in the carwash?quote:I (14f) went with my brother (16m) to the carwash. He's been watching prank videos lately and I've seen a few get really popular where the driver winds down the passenger's window in the carwash and gets them soaked. I had a feeling he was going to do this. It's not funny! You pranked me when I pranked you!
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Jan 21, 2022 00:00
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muscles like this! posted:He's dumb for not even wanting her to cook it at all but he does say that he's eaten Indian food before and it gives him an upset stomach. A less racist person might note which meal that was and use it to narrow down the offending ingredient, rather than, uh, telling his Indian partner she is only allowed to cook white food in her own dang home.
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Jan 21, 2022 00:01
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How is it funny to gently caress up your own car's interior like that?
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Mx. posted:My cat is dumb as gently caress and literally will just stand there staring at you if you spray bottle him We tried the spray bottle to keep Olivia from stealing our food. Pretty much ended like this. He'll grab food right off our plates while we're hosing him down. He's soaked, doesn't give a gently caress, he got food
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My babies understand that if the spray is out, it’s “you done hosed up” time. Thankfully it’s rarer as they age.
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The Maroon Hawk posted:Some cats, like mine, are assholes and will meow at the door if you lock them out, and a spray bottle only goes so far in deterring them true, true ours like to get into squabbles at gently caress off o'clock so we have a collection of the mini squishmallows to toss in the direction of growling/hissing
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Jan 21, 2022 00:26
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AITA for kicking my sister's husband out of my house because of what he did?quote:I (f34) lost my husband 8 weeks ago, he had cancer and it got treated then it came back. It was and still is so devastating, I'm trying to stay collected and welcoming to all the supportive family members who come to offer help despite my constant change in mood due to grief.
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Jan 21, 2022 00:33
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"hey I know your husband's now rotting in the grave and you'll never see him again but here's the number to a guy I think you'll love to hook up with. You're done grieving, right? I mean at 8 weeks it's marginal"
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Jan 21, 2022 00:35
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Nah gently caress em and never talk to them ever again. Nothing of value will be lost.
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dog nougat posted:Nah gently caress em and never talk to them ever again. Nothing of value will be lost. Yeah hey thanks for doing dishes for a couple weeks. Whats that? I should blow your coworker? Yeah its been a fortnight since i watched my husband die, lets party
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Nah I mean gently caress your sister and bil in the proverbial sense. Not like go gently caress the dude's coworker.
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You guys are amateur cat owners. All I need to do is say "NO" in my super serious voice while standing up and they stop. Of course they're doing what they shouldn't be doing when I'm not there to stop them, but only a fool would believe otherwise.
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PancakeTransmission posted:A rare non-throwaway post, OP has a little more info on a different thread: OP was 13 and sis was 18 when the knife attack took place. Blastedhellscape posted:Yeah, that initial post annoyed me because they just said "My sister attacked me and I was sent away" which seemed really vague. 'Attacked' could just mean they yelled at each other a lot or something, and the way it was phrased their ages were kind of unclear. Yeah, it's weird. Maybe "don't write posts about directs acts of violence" is one of those bullshit rules AITA has.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for pretending like my eyes were burning when my brother rolled down my window in the carwash? She really should have feigned blindness to seal the deal here
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Brawnfire posted:To be fair she was under a lot of pressure, she just needed you to shower some extra affection. 
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AITA for buying two of the same small car instead of a more practical car? My boyfriend is frustrated I didn't consider his needs.quote:For a few years, I've had a newer Miata as my only car. I find it practical for myself, I've even traveled cross country in it twice.
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The Maroon Hawk posted:Some cats, like mine, are assholes and will meow at the door if you lock them out, and a spray bottle only goes so far in deterring them When I lived with a cat, it was in an apartment with handles on the doors instead of knobs, so he learned he could jump up, grab the handle to turn it, and slam himself into the door to either push it open or cause it to rebound off the frame and open. He was an inventive little bastard.
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Mx. posted:My cat is dumb as gently caress and literally will just stand there staring at you if you spray bottle him Cats suck chickens rule
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for buying two of the same small car instead of a more practical car? My boyfriend is frustrated I didn't consider his needs. Why doesn't boyfriend buy a car that will fit his kids, not her job.
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Sisal Two-Step posted:Yeah, it's weird. Maybe "don't write posts about directs acts of violence" is one of those bullshit rules AITA has. And "don't post stories about abuse" has been brought up multiple times in fits and starts here but somehow this is okay. To be clear: I'm not one of the people who has a problem with it when there is a redeeming factor. Because 20% of these stories here involve abuse in some way and the bulk of the rest of them could be extrapolated into abuse by a poster who is determined to do so.
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Seth Pecksniff posted:"hey I know your husband's now rotting in the grave and you'll never see him again but here's the number to a guy I think you'll love to hook up with. You're done grieving, right? I mean at 8 weeks it's marginal" "Let me be the first to welcome you back to the dating pool. Here's a guy who'll help you dog-paddle around."
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Sisal Two-Step posted:Yeah, it's weird. Maybe "don't write posts about directs acts of violence" is one of those bullshit rules AITA has. Yes, that's the reason: r/aita posted:5.
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for buying two of the same small car instead of a more practical car? My boyfriend is frustrated I didn't consider his needs. Dude has kids. If he wants to dive something he can fit them in he should probably buy his own car. Like, I know the used car market is inflated by roughly 30% right now, but he should still be able to find something that starts, runs, and stops for between $1000 and $2500.
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PancakeTransmission posted:A rare non-throwaway post, OP has a little more info on a different thread: She has a scar on her FACE from the knife, jfc
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