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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:R/Relationships: The Three Vibrator Problem Mx. posted:AITA I fed my son curry rice Neito posted:This... This is abuse, right? quote:UPDATE: As some commenters suggested, I called home a locksmith. He managed to open it and I found the documents.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:40
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BabyFur Denny posted:It's a small collar so yes you're overly vanilla. Oh shut up, there's a loving dog cage next to the dinner table. Live your life but you don't get to look down on people who find that stuff weird and offputting.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:42
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Right, and OP is 0% responsible for the kids encountering the dog crate because they just showed up unannounced.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:43
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Neito posted:I'm gonna say ESH to some extent. Maybe I'm just overly vanilla, but "wearing a fetish item 24/7" strikes me as opening you up to some weird situations, but mom and the family were clearly trying to start some poo poo forcing their way into the house they knew had a non-zero chance of significant fetish items being out in the open. A small collar isn't exactly a blatant fetish item, especially these days when collars, chokers, leather harnesses, and other fetishy accoutrements are in fashion. Also as a lawyer when you take a case you really only have what your client says when you agree to be hired. There are definitely times you take a case and it's only when opposing counsel fires back that you realize your client has their head so far up their rear end their perception of the situation is completely orthogonal to reality. At that point you now have and unreasonable client with a losing case and it's your job to try and talk them down while they insisted on full steam ahead.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:44
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AITA for ruining my roommate's bday and getting her parents kicked out of the apt in the middle of the night?quote:I f22 live in a 2bdr apt with my f22 roommate Helen, Helen's birthday was days ago and she had plans to invite her parents to celebrate in the apt.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:49
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Halloween Jack posted:Right, and OP is 0% responsible for the kids encountering the dog crate because they just showed up unannounced. I'm not disputing that, gently caress that lovely family for using their kids to try and bring them to jesus or whatever. But someone being like 'i find the idea of 24/7 hardcore bdsm kinda weird' doesn't make them 'overly vanilla'. They like different poo poo, its rude as gently caress to try and shame someone for not being as kinky as someone else like the guy I quoted did. edit: lmao what the gently caress is up with that roomie and her family. Just showing your parents to your roommates fuckin bed 
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Feb 9, 2022 16:50
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If you're not familiar with this, most people who wear a collar 24/7 wear a "vanilla collar" that's just a necklace. OP probably gets asked about it because he's a man wearing a necklace Anyway why would you care if someone whose username is BabyFur Denny thinks you're too vanilla Halloween Jack fucked around with this message at 16:58 on Feb 9, 2022 |
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Feb 9, 2022 16:54
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for ruining my roommate's bday and getting her parents kicked out of the apt in the middle of the night? Give
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Consenting adults, in the privacy of their own home. It's really fuckin simple. The family chose to invade that privacy. They're the ones who deliberately exposed their kids to a BDSM home; if anything, the parents are the perverts here.
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Feb 9, 2022 16:56
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ShootaBoy posted:I'm not disputing that, gently caress that lovely family for using their kids to try and bring them to jesus or whatever. The post that I replied to explicitly referred to wearing a collar (an inconspicuous one at that) 24/7 as a reason why they think the OP is an rear end in a top hat and yeah I find that point of view overly vanilla, sorry.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:01
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metachronos posted:Even if my immediate family just showed up at my house uninvited I wouldn't let them in unless they had a really good reason. Who the hell does that in this day and age? A lot of people still do, but the ones you would want to let in will respect it if you say it’s not a good time. Still, people who make a lifestyle out of their fetish are complete trash to begin with.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:03
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ShootaBoy posted:Oh shut up, there's a loving dog cage next to the dinner table. Live your life but you don't get to look down on people who find that stuff weird and offputting. You do when they show up to your house uninvited
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Feb 9, 2022 17:03
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ShootaBoy posted:I'm not disputing that, gently caress that lovely family for using their kids to try and bring them to jesus or whatever. It's more that folks are projecting that he somehow deserved to have his private residence intruded upon because he wears a collar, which isn't sound logic. It's coming from that same 'ew gross' place. 'He must be somehow being flagrant with it and deserves it/needs to be stopped so they staged an intervention' is a reaction coming from biases and stereotypes. We have no idea how this guy acts in public or how the collar even looks.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:04
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collars would be a lot less off-putting if they were all bright blue like Scooby's
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Invisible Clergy posted:I know, but the concept is still ridiculous and they are worthy of scorn and derision. My first reaction from just the title was "well it sucks that the blended family you created didn't go to plan, but they clearly do not see each other as brothers as they didn't grow up in a family together." But then i read the full thing and she isn't even married to this guy and their kids were fuckin long before op and her bf started dating. THEY ARE NOT EVEN BROTHERS, LADY. Also, i wonder why nate didn't tell his mom about being gay, or what those missing reasons were that started that argument.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:09
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Also the collars as accessories trend being big now is funny but not surprising bc everything early 00s is back. I remember wearing a red velvet collar with an O-ring back then and I was a loving kid. Once I learned what they meant in BDSM I got weirded out what I may have been accidentally messaging, I put it away and was a little horrified they had been so popular as fashion accessories. You could get them shits in Claire's!
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StrangersInTheNight posted:Also the collars as accessories trend being big now is funny but not surprising bc everything early 00s is back. I remember wearing a red velvet collar with an O-ring back then and I was a loving kid. Once I learned what they meant in BDSM I got weirded out that I'd maybe been sending some messages to the wrong folks or something, put it away and was a little horrified they had been so popular as fashion accessories. You could get them shits in Claire's! And the pants with the straps... *wistful sigh*
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Feb 9, 2022 17:11
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Like I already said, the family are definitely TA here, I just take a dim view on kink people, not the story couple, who did nothing wrong, that toss shade at people for not being as kinky. I had an ex that was like that and I'm a bit touchy with the subject of 'oh you're too vanilla' after having it thrown at me because I didn't want to make her bleed in bed.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:12
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The other day I saw some sicko wearing a BDSM collar around his neck. It had a man nailed to a diagonal X and was attached to what seemed to be a series of anal beads. I hear some people give these accessories to their kids.
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Feb 9, 2022 17:14
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StrangersInTheNight posted:It's more that folks are projecting that he somehow deserved to have his private residence intruded upon because he wears a collar, which isn't sound logic. It's coming from that same 'ew gross' place. 'He must be somehow being flagrant with it and deserves it/needs to be stopped so they staged an intervention' is a reaction coming from biases and stereotypes. We have no idea how this guy acts in public or how the collar even looks. Yeah it's a private residence and even if you think the bdsm is weird it still doesn't matter at all since it is in their own home. We have some old timey medical textbook drawings hanging up as art and yeah people might think they are weird or gross but if someone was to come into our house uninvited and then demand they get taken down they would be a huge rear end in a top hat
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ShootaBoy posted:Like I already said, the family are definitely TA here, I just take a dim view on kink people, not the story couple, who did nothing wrong, that toss shade at people for not being as kinky. I had an ex that was like that and I'm a bit touchy with the subject of 'oh you're too vanilla' after having it thrown at me because I didn't want to make her bleed in bed. Please read more carefully, I don't care how kinky or not someone is, I just don't think it's ok to kink-shame someone for wearing a small collar.
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StrangersInTheNight posted:It's more that folks are projecting that he somehow deserved to have his private residence intruded upon because he wears a collar, which isn't sound logic. It's coming from that same 'ew gross' place. 'He must be somehow being flagrant with it and deserves it/needs to be stopped so they staged an intervention' is a reaction coming from biases and stereotypes. We have no idea how this guy acts in public or how the collar even looks. Yeah, we really don't know what the collar looks like, except for that it can be passed off as a necklace. I assume it is one of those stainless steel necklaces and not a 2-inch wide spiked leather collar with multiple d-rings for attachments. I will say that fashionable neck accessories for men shouldn't be seen as conspicuous. But a lot of people might side-eye anything on men that isn't a jesus necklace or puka shell necklace. Not even in a "ew kink" kind of way, but like, "bro thats gay to wear" kind of way. Brawnfire posted:And the pants with the straps... *wistful sigh* Now i'm remembering that time our openly gay substitute teacher wore those pants to class one day
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StrangersInTheNight posted:My gut instinct is she started courting the dad in order to pull this exact stunt and keep them apart. She seems kinda obsessed with their relationship, with the 'teasing' (shaming her son for showing same-sex affection) and outsized reaction to being told he is gay and wasn't out to her.
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Be smart about this kink derail or it’s the St. Andrew’s for the lot of you
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Well I've always had a deep respect And I mean that most sincere The thread is just fantastic That is really what I think Oh by the way, which one's Kink?
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Don't threaten me with a good time
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teen witch posted:Be smart about this kink derail or it’s the St. Andrew’s for the lot of you If we didn't have a masochism fetish we wouldn't post here, or read reddit. Plz don't kinkshame.
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BabyFur Denny posted:Please read more carefully, I don't care how kinky or not someone is, I just don't think it's ok to kink-shame someone for wearing a small collar. baby fur denny comin in hot
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my name is piss gulper sam and honestly I find this conversation just a little too vanilla as well, tbh
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Rescue Toaster posted:My town has a bunch of neighborhoods with those loving awful narrow streets 'Oh so cars slow down'. Instead it makes a loving obstacle course where you're nearly knocking mirrors off constantly with a regular-width vehicle let alone a truck, or little kids jumping out of nowhere with no gap between you and the parked cars. And you have to wait turns for opposing traffic like a loving vaudeville act. Good. Cars are death machines and anything that reduces their speed and makes drivers feel less of the false confidence and invincibility that leads to traffic death is good.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for ruining my roommate's bday and getting her parents kicked out of the apt in the middle of the night? That's a cool as hell landlord for swinging by at midnight to fix the situation on a single phone call though. Pity OP almost certainly needs to move out.
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teen witch posted:Be smart about this kink derail or it’s the St. Andrew’s for the lot of you
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What pants with the straps? What are those? I am very confused
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Xun posted:What pants with the straps? What are those? I am very confused they're called suspenders
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Xun posted:What pants with the straps? What are those? I am very confused "bondage pants", it was 2000s emo goth poo poo in my experience
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Xun posted:What pants with the straps? What are those? I am very confused Tripp pants, of which I owned many
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teen witch posted:If you don’t share a recipe, you’re getting a sixer. OK this is from ages ago now but wow, this thread is hard to keep up with... Get chicken breats, slice thinly or bash down, mix breadcrumbs with curry powders, coriander and cumin powder, cayenne if you want heat, garlic powder then coat chicken with flour, then egg then breadcrumb mix. Shallow fry on both sides for golden spicy chicken! Also English/American teacher woman is a twat, why does it even matter if the kid isn't English? It's not hurting anyone!
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You also had pants that came with chains already attached, whether they be metal or neon green plastic. Buncha zippers, too.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:a gleaming model XQJ-37 nuclear-powered Pan-Sexual Roto-Plooker named SY BORG Wooed women at every base, But once ladies glanced at His special enhancement They vanished with nary a trace.
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