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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for not telling my dad that I had cancelled ''our'' hotel reservation after he insisted on taking my step-sister? The number of people siding with the dad in the reddit thread is staggering. Outside of everything else, the fact that the fucker went anyway with his step daughter when OOP decided not to go(on a trip OOP paid for herself) tells all you need to know.
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edgeman83 posted:The number of people siding with the dad in the reddit thread is staggering. Outside of everything else, the fact that the fucker went anyway with his step daughter when OOP decided not to go(on a trip OOP paid for herself) tells all you need to know. The fact that he cheated on his first wife then ran off to raise a new family tells you all you need to know.
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edgeman83 posted:The number of people siding with the dad in the reddit thread is staggering. Outside of everything else, the fact that the fucker went anyway with his step daughter when OOP decided not to go(on a trip OOP paid for herself) tells all you need to know. What is OOP and why is it different to OP
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ilmucche posted:What is OOP and why is it different to OP original OP, as opposed to extra crispy
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pentyne posted:I'm really surprised that both of them are on board with giving her a week to get rid of it. Unless their friend group is literally a queer hipster woke stereotype quite a lot of people would be mad as poo poo that she's writing them having graphic queer sex when they aren't queer. Troublemaker posted:Just writing graphic gay porn about her straight buds who "are both in complete denial of being bisexual!" Talk about living in a fantasy world.
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AITA for leaving a note that says “stop stealing my food” at work because someone keeps stealing my food out of the fridge at work?quote:I usually go out to eat during my breaks at work but I’ve been trying to stop spending so much money on food so I’ve started packing leftovers to eat at work. I leave my food at the shared fridge at work and occasionally I’ll find my food missing. I hate confrontation and didn’t want to ask all my coworkers who was stealing the food, it didn’t happen again for a while but last week I brought food from home again, left it at the fridge and it went missing so the day after I put a sticky note with my name and a note that said “stop stealing my food”. My food wasn’t stolen this time but a few of my coworkers said that leaving a passive aggressive note was inappropriate and that it was creating a toxic work environment lol? I told the coworkers who raised that concern that someone has been occasionally taking my food and I was fed up with it, and they said that I should’ve “just asked” who it was instead of leaving a note like that or that I should’ve just put my name on it without the extra note. Am I the rear end in a top hat for leaving the note telling whoever has been taking my food to stop?
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for leaving a note that says “stop stealing my food” at work because someone keeps stealing my food out of the fridge at work? what in the hell is this? I'd say the person bitching is the thief, but with multiple people I have no idea.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for leaving a note that says “stop stealing my food” at work because someone keeps stealing my food out of the fridge at work? hey if the coworkers love confrontation so much maybe they should find the food thief
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if they're helpless to find the person who's stealing food from the fridge, they'll never figure out who left a dogshit burrito in there
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I've looked in vain for anything from the perspective of a lunch thief that attempts to explain or justify their actions. Why won't somebody speak up for this misunderstood class of workers?
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sephiRoth IRA posted:what in the hell is this? I'd say the person bitching is the thief, but with multiple people I have no idea. the food thief bitched about the note to some other impressionable coworkers
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Halloween Jack posted:I'd be mad if I find out my friend was writing erotic fanfiction about me and my spouse, much less whatever's going on here. it's a weeb thing. i don't get it either. it's sort of the fan fiction version of people really into those gay romance novels that are marketed to straight women (pretty much almost all of them). it sort of has passing similarities but is in fact totally divorced from reality.
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ilmucche posted:What is OOP and why is it different to OP It’s when you develop interpersonal problems by attempting to communicate all your needs in a highly abstract object oriented pattern of self-immolation rather than taking a simple functional approach of ruining your life via direct actions.
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Sticking with the theme: WIBTA for calling HR over my coworker using my special dish brush? quote:I am one of few women in a company that is male-dominated. I also happen to be a nursing mother and pump at work. UPDATE: WIBTA for calling HR over my coworker using my special dish brush? quote:tl;dr: I quit
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for leaving a note that says “stop stealing my food” at work because someone keeps stealing my food out of the fridge at work? Update the note to “stop stealing my food?”
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Soylent Pudding posted:Sticking with the theme: should've embarrassed the dude in the meeting first and then quit
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erosion posted:I've looked in vain for anything from the perspective of a lunch thief that attempts to explain or justify their actions. Why won't somebody speak up for this misunderstood class of workers? Apparently before I started on this team there was a dude notorious for A) stealing food from break rooms, meetings, desks, etc. and B) Squirreling the stolen food away in stashes all over the building. Like, the dude would apparently disappear for a few hours each day to patrol the building, collect food, then set up caches in cabinets or something
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AITA for letting my niece send "banned" to my house?quote:A little backstory before the issue: I 36F and my niece 16F are extremely close my younger sister had her when she was 18 and I helped raise her while my sister went to university the dad isn't in the picture. My sister married her current husband J a year ago, ill admit I'm not the guy's biggest fan he's extremely conservative and our opinions tend to clash a bit but my sister is happy so I don't typically say anything. My niece is not his biggest fan and has been spending a lot more time with me.
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for letting my niece send "banned" to my house? lol gently caress those two i swear to god. conservatives are the loving worst
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for letting my niece send "banned" to my house? gently caress the parents but that was a rookie mistake there
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Foo Diddley posted:husband: "hey baby why don't you do a lil spin and show my friends what a smokin' hot piece of rear end i got for myself" If Vashti was on Reddit things would have turned out rather differently.
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pentyne posted:She definitely left it out on purpose to gauge the reaction hoping it would make him realize he's in love with the other dude and then he and her could set up rube goldberg-esque plan to make the other guy realize the same. Geek social fallacies are merely one of the many masks decorum poisoning wears. It's hard to successfully kick a creep out of your friend group even if everyone is on board. Evil Willow posted:AITA for telling my mother she is too old to talk about sex? Lol at "too old to talk about sex," but it's still creepy to talk about loving in front of your child, regardless of any of the characters' ages. Like, why would you even want to do that? tired gay and dead posted:Is there a pattern of dudes turning into human garbage as soon as their wife is pregnant or are these people doormats in the first place and only reaching the breaking point (of posting on AITA) once they have to put up with bring pregnant and exhausted in addition to putting up with ridiculous manchildren? Both of these things are true and are in no way mutually exclusive. Pregnant people are at the highest risk of domestic abuse during this time because they're at their most vulnerable. This is exacerbated if they're somewhere without good access to abortion, because their lovely manchild husbands know they are trapped, so the husbands can take their masks off and stop pretending to be functional human beings since they know their partners are helpless to escape them. Business Gorillas posted:I'm just wondering how the I Love My Wife guy is gonna take "I don't like wearing my wedding ring" He'll draw up blueprints for a cuck shack. sephiRoth IRA posted:what in the hell is this? I'd say the person bitching is the thief, but with multiple people I have no idea. There can be more than one thief in an office. Time for OP to buy some eye drops. erosion posted:I've looked in vain for anything from the perspective of a lunch thief that attempts to explain or justify their actions. Why won't somebody speak up for this misunderstood class of workers? "I want food. I don't want to pay for it." There, that's their perspective. Office lunch thieves aren't Jean Valjean stealing to survive: they by definition have jobs so could get their own food; they are just evil people. Larry Parrish posted:it's a weeb thing. i don't get it either. it's sort of the fan fiction version of people really into those gay romance novels that are marketed to straight women (pretty much almost all of them). it sort of has passing similarities but is in fact totally divorced from reality. While this is common amongst weebs, it's not exclusive to them. Many women who are not interested in anime can still fetishize non-fictional men they find attractive, like to think about them having gay sex with each other, and insist despite their protests that they are in fact gay, like the "supernatural" fandom with the actors on that show.
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she specifically says bi and not gay so I wonder if there's a story in which she gets railed by both of em
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Bruceski posted:If Vashti was on Reddit things would have turned out rather differently. nice call, big Ahasuerus vibes here
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Halloween Jack posted:I'd be mad if I find out my friend was writing erotic fanfiction about me and my spouse, much less whatever's going on here. Reminds me of that forum post from years and years ago by an anime fanfic writer fantasizing about having a gay son. She went on and on about how much she'd squeal with excitement when he came out, taking him shopping for sex toys and sparkly dresses, and teaching him and his boyfriends how to have sex (using fanfic of course). Anyone know what I'm talking about?
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Invisible Clergy posted:While this is common amongst weebs, it's not exclusive to them. Many women who are not interested in anime can still fetishize non-fictional men they find attractive, like to think about them having gay sex with each other, and insist despite their protests that they are in fact gay, like the "supernatural" fandom with the actors on that show. Doesn't she specifically use a bunch of gross weeb yaoi fangirl terminology or something similar? There's a lot of overlap and cross-pollination with the Superwholock mess.
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Serephina posted:A person with what seems, after all the rest of this thread, to be a very first-world problem: And not too long after Purim, too. e: Bruceski posted:If Vashti was on Reddit things would have turned out rather differently. TengenNewsEditor posted:nice call, big Ahasuerus vibes here fb
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erosion posted:I've looked in vain for anything from the perspective of a lunch thief that attempts to explain or justify their actions. Why won't somebody speak up for this misunderstood class of workers? I’ve accidentally eaten some hummus that wasn’t mine, but it was one of those start-up kinda offices where they provide free fridge food, and the other employee hadn’t marked the container in any way until they noticed I’d taken some.
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ScienceSeagull posted:Reminds me of that forum post from years and years ago by an anime fanfic writer fantasizing about having a gay son. She went on and on about how much she'd squeal with excitement when he came out, taking him shopping for sex toys and sparkly dresses, and teaching him and his boyfriends how to have sex (using fanfic of course). Anyone know what I'm talking about? I do remember that brand of crazy, and apparently this blast from the past webcomic had a copy of the original post. (I should reread it sometime, see if the comic still holds up) Multi-pass quote:I own and work from my condo right in the heart of the city. If I need to leave the city, I take the train or rent a car, though I do have two parking spaces assigned in my building. quote:Kate’s chaotic energy is distressing to me. I’m impressed by how much leeway you gave her. I get it but wow, what a mess she’s made. You probably will hear about this for a while, possibly even the rest of your natural life. My suspicion is that if it wasn’t this, it would be something else, because Kate was very quick to take advantage of your kindness. So it may be for the best that you got this out of the way.
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Thank you, I had not had my fill of psychological violence for the day.
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I worked with a food thief at two different companies. The first place he was let go for multiple reasons (including food theft) and I was hired at the second place when he had already been there for a while. I found out he was working there when on my first day they spent a good 15 minutes going over the incredibly specific rules for keeping food in break room fridge. poo poo like "anything on the second shelf of the left fridge is not to be touched on Mondays and Tuesdays, the 4th shelf is for personal lunches but is communal on Fridays." I guess he was a bit better at covering his tracks at this new place because no one actually knew who was taking things at the time, but eventually he was found out when he was caught with someone else's entire lunch at his desk. All special rules for the fridges have since been removed and forgotten ever since they let the food thief go, and no one's had a problem since. Both of these companies were less than 30 people total companies... I don't understand how you'd think you could get away with stealing from coworkers so blatantly for so long. It was dumb, both places would regularly give us free food and always had free snacks available.
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poo poo I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS FOREVER I LOVE THIS WEBSITE
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Tristesse posted:I worked with a food thief at two different companies. The first place he was let go for multiple reasons (including food theft) and I was hired at the second place when he had already been there for a while. I found out he was working there when on my first day they spent a good 15 minutes going over the incredibly specific rules for keeping food in break room fridge. poo poo like "anything on the second shelf of the left fridge is not to be touched on Mondays and Tuesdays, the 4th shelf is for personal lunches but is communal on Fridays." I guess he was a bit better at covering his tracks at this new place because no one actually knew who was taking things at the time, but eventually he was found out when he was caught with someone else's entire lunch at his desk. All special rules for the fridges have since been removed and forgotten ever since they let the food thief go, and no one's had a problem since. Both of these companies were less than 30 people total companies... I don't understand how you'd think you could get away with stealing from coworkers so blatantly for so long. It was dumb, both places would regularly give us free food and always had free snacks available. Has come up itt before but some people just don't think about their actions or five seconds into the future and drift through life on pure impulse like jellyfish.
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A 'fun' fact is that because of the circles I hang in, I mostly hear about gay-fetishizing fujoshis in the context of transphobes dogwhistling and misgendering trans men. So now even a conversation that's actually about cis women being loving weird gets my dander up out of habit!
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AITA for yelling at my husband's mother for announcing my pregnancy using my husband's facebook account?quote:I f23 found out that I was pregnant very recently, It was not planned and my husband and I are trying to make a decision regarding going through with the pregnancy.
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DemoneeHo posted:I do remember that brand of crazy, and apparently this blast from the past webcomic had a copy of the original post. (I should reread it sometime, see if the comic still holds up) My wife and I used to be friends with a lesbian couple who decided they were going to make their child gay no matter what. Dressed him in dresses all the time, didn't let him cut his hair. We cut ties with them because holy poo poo they were toxic people and last I saw the kid he was a super super spoiled brat so good work guys.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my husband's mother for announcing my pregnancy using my husband's facebook account? Where's that guy who used to spam that Stranger Things Abort! image macro in this thread when you need him?
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AITA for telling my brother that he is being a terrible husband to his pregnant wife?quote:My(25 M) brother(27) and his wife (26) are having their first ever baby. I am excited because I am going to be an uncle; however my sister in law, let's call her Gigi is basically going through this pregnancy without my brother(we will call him Aaron). Gigi is currently in her 3rd trimester and at first my brother was doing all that he was supposed to, going to doctors visits, making sure Gigi and the baby were healthy, just everything a dad and a husband was supposed to do. But in the past few months, that all changes when my brother would choose staying late at work and hanging out with his friends over taking care of his responsibilities. He hasn't been to any recent doctor visits with Gigi, and often times leave her at home for days at a time, and when he does come home, he basically ignores Gigi. Of course this has hurt Gigi. The sort of icing on the cake for me was about 3 days ago, Gigi was rushed to the hospital by mom for excessive bleeding (thankfully the baby and her are okay) and my entire family shows up to the hospital to check on the baby and Gigi, except my brother. Everyone is calling him profusely, and he doesn't answer. I end up tracking him down at a bar with his friends and tell him what has happened, and he doesn't even seem to care. I then go on to ask him why he is being a lovely husband and father, this leads us into an argument and he accuses me of sleeping with Gigi. In no way is that accusation true, my brother and Gigi have been together since they were 17 and 16. Gigi is just as much family to me as my brother, I used to look up to their relationship and hoped that I would find my perfect match because they were just so good together. After that argument in the bar, my brother left and has not checked on his wife or baby in 3 days. quote:Update: I want to start this off by saying Gigi does have knowledge of this post. For those of you who Saif that he was cheating, you guys were right. I won't get into it too much but I'll just say that my brother is gonna be a dad of 2 and Gigi isn't having twins
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GI_Clutch posted:Where's that guy who used to spam that Stranger Things Abort! image macro in this thread when you need him? I got a 24h probe for it, so I don't do it any more, but I'm still here.
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