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Barudak
May 7, 2007

Had a Chemistry teacher who had to occasionally take a mental health day due to severe, vietnam based ptsd, and he seemed like a good person who got irreversibly hosed up by a horrific pointless thing making the very poor decision to teach spoiled young rich kids who wanted to see if they could trigger him.

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Bruceski
Aug 21, 2007

The tools of a hero mean nothing without a solid core.

Nuebot posted:

Ours was fired for inappropriate conduct after a game of hangman during a teacher's strike (they were showing up to work, just refusing to teach the students) wherein he had a four letter word on the board and gave the clue "Every girl's nightmare but every boy's dream."

Wage? How do I fit 'pockets' into four letters...

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Jun 19, 2021



My band teacher in elementary school "accidentally" slapped one of my friends when he was mouthing off - let's just say he had a free pass for the rest of the year.

Cthulu Carl
Apr 16, 2006

Kurieg posted:

our band teacher once came in to teach hung over and spent the class period in his office with the lights off and told us to not make too much noise.

My history teacher freshman year of high school once screamed "SHUT! UP!" at the whole class when we weren't even talking.

I can't remember if this was before or after he got busted for nursing a can of Coke that was actually filled with whiskey.

Mx.
Dec 16, 2006

I'm a great fan! When I watch TV I'm always saying "That's political correctness gone mad!"
Why thankyew!


AITA for freaking out at MIL for wearing my wedding dress?

quote:

My husband and I had a fairly casual wedding. It wasn't what I wanted, but I was pregnant and we couldn't afford more at the time. I am that girl who always dreamed of a big fancy wedding. MIL made it clear that she wasn't paying because she was mad at us. Now obviously I didn't expect her to pay, but it was like she wanted me to know that she was mad. My dress was a maxi with some beading. It only cost about $300 and was formal without being too bridal.

We are staying with my in laws right now and MIL is having a mega surprise baby as she was told she couldn't have more kids. She is really excited but also being rude about it and acting like it is a do over baby and acting like my husband is irrelevant because she wanted a girl the first time and is now getting one.

MIL asked if she could burrow something because her friends planned a surprise shower and she doesn't have any nicer dresses that fit. I still have a lot of my maternity stuff and said yes, went to work and didn't think about it. After work I checked social media and she was all over my feed wearing my loving wedding dress!!!

I was shocked and immediately felt violated. I began to cry and I called her but she didn't answer. When I got home she was home and out of my dress. I asked what the gently caress she was thinking and she was like huh. I screamed at her that she wore my wedding dress. MIL replied that I said she could burrow something. I said but not my wedding dress are you loving stupid???

MIL told me to stop yelling and started whining that it was a fancy shower and she's too lazy to shop for maternity clothes. I yelled back bitch you don't even have a job. Her husband told us both to calm down and I was like well where is your wedding dress, I want to cut it? MIL claims she doesn't care if I cut it as her wedding is over and said I'm acting like an idiot.

I get this was some stupid fancy shower but it was a loving wedding dress. I cried for a while and I'm still pissed but MIL swears I'm overreacting and crazy.

Megillah Gorilla
Sep 22, 2003

If only all of life's problems could be solved by smoking a professor of ancient evil texts.



Bread Liar

DrManiac posted:

I think the most shocking thing about working at McDonald’s was learning how little it takes to set off the average American. People will absolutely get into red faced screaming matches over a tiny packet of the shittiest bbq sauce on the world. They will treat you forgetting the extra salt packs the same as if you pissed on their mother’s grave.

There was the guy who literally chocked a worker because he had to ask for a straw.

She beat his loving rear end.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZqQ8M7gfBg


As has already been pointed out over the last couple pages, this isn't even unusual. Every person who has ever worked retail has dozens, if not hundreds, of stories like this.

Tobermory
Mar 31, 2011

Mx. posted:

How can I restore sexual attraction toward my girlfriend after she acts childish?

What is this that stands before me?
Figure in black which points at me
Turn 'round quick and start to run
Find out I'm the chosen one
Oh, no

Kurieg
Jul 19, 2012

RIP Lutri: 5/19/20-4/2/20
:blizz::gamefreak:

Brawnfire posted:

Doing a pitch-perfect rendition of "Ode to Joy" after that request would be hilarious

When I told my parents about this encounter my mom's response was something to the effect of "Well he was the one who got a DWI for crashing into the schoolbus." before returning to the newspaper.


Mx. posted:

AITA for freaking out at MIL for wearing my wedding dress?

Estranged parent speedrun: wedding dress%

run on sentience
Mar 22, 2022

Mx. posted:

AITA for freaking out at MIL for wearing my wedding dress?

ESH with OP the slightly greater rear end in a top hat because that reaction is completely unhinged.

therobit
Aug 19, 2008

I've been tryin' to speak with you for a long time

AreWeDrunkYet posted:

From what I've seen the teacher is usually the first line of reporting on excused vs unexcused. The OP said they weren't concerned because the unexcused absence could be overturned on escalation, so there's some sort of administrative oversight.

The weird part is grilling the parent. If the parent says the absence is excused it's excused, there's no need to get details even if some parents share them freely. Especially if there's no pattern of a problem.

That’s really strange to me. Here you always call or email the school secretary who relays it to the attendance clerk or other person responsible for keeping track of attendance. Teachers can look and see if it’s excused or not, and that can impact due dates at schools or in classes where late work is not accepted or is discounted to half points or something, but they don’t control whether or not it’s excused.

Regardless, that teacher should have lost his job the first time the office found out he knocked a desk over because he got mad at a student.

HIJK
Nov 25, 2012
in the room where you sleep
When I was in high school both the choir director and the assistant choir director left in the middle of the year because they found better jobs elsewhere. I did not have strong feelings towards either of them so I was like "eh." We got a new director and assistant director.

Choir director spent most the second half of the fall semester hung over in her office with half the lights in the choir room turned off. It slowly came out that she was grooming (she was a predator) some of the senior December graduates and then had her favorite come in and play act at being a conductor with the super elite chorale group. Apparently she drove to work still drunk once. None of this got her fired though. What did get her fired was when we went to a high school fine arts competition and we got bad marks on it.

Her being a drunkard didn't get her fired, her being a pedo didn't get her fired, her leaving her husband for one of her victims didn't get her fired,
but loving with the state competition? That got her fired.

ChickenDoodle
Oct 22, 2020

The drama teacher I was working under in my final year of high school decided that I wasn’t putting in enough effort into class and that she “might have to fail me”. I was being taken to the ER every 1-2 days because a surgeon hosed up my gallbladder removal, but she didn’t believe me. I went straight to the admin and they didn’t give a poo poo. Two months later she had a mental breakdown and left for the rest of the year, just in time for me to get diagnosed and treated so I was finally healthy. gently caress her, I hope she is still miserable.

DorkusMalorkus
Aug 4, 2009

"That's not Latin!"
My school district had one guy who taught orchestra both at the middle school I went to and the high school my older siblings attended. I played violin and had him as my teacher in 7th and 8th grades. Everyone knew he was a creep; he would sit really close to the girls and put his hands on our knees and shoulders. It was really hosed up because EVERYONE knew about it because it happened to EVERYONE, but nobody said anything about it. It happened to me and I didn't know I could say anything about it at the time! By the time I moved into high school, he was gone, I assume he got fired but who knows. It seemed like it went on for years.

Also his name was Mr. Kidd, which was fairly creepy in retrospect.

content:

Yadoppsi
May 10, 2009

Megillah Gorilla posted:

There was the guy who literally chocked a worker because he had to ask for a straw.

She beat his loving rear end.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZqQ8M7gfBg


As has already been pointed out over the last couple pages, this isn't even unusual. Every person who has ever worked retail has dozens, if not hundreds, of stories like this.

This is the true face of Western Civilization. All that Jerusalem to Athens crap is propaganda for rubes.

Uncle Enzo
Apr 28, 2008

I always wanted to be a Wizard

Cowslips Warren posted:


AITA for continuing to resent my dad for how he reacted when I got my first period?

Do boys ever get this poo poo or do we solely blame girls for growing up?

Don't answer, I already know.

Yes. Teenage boys get plenty of poo poo for

-Voice cracking and squeaking
-Smelling bad
-Awkward boners at inopportune times
-Peach fuzz or wispy facial hair

If we want to argue who has it worse, or how harmful and permanent the effects are (girls have it worse) go ahead. But the answer to "do we mock boys for going through puberty" is most definitely yes.

As usual, the patriarchy hurts everyone, although not equally. Young and low status men get poo poo on plenty also.

Bruceski
Aug 21, 2007

The tools of a hero mean nothing without a solid core.

My history teacher who went on rants, threw chairs (not at students) and tipped one kid's desk over stayed in the job somehow. Had a once-good and much loved bio teacher who was going senile and nobody listened to us kids until the ones who dropped the class scored better on the AP test than the ones who stayed in, she "decided to retire" after that year. Only teacher I know who got fired was a choir teacher, I don't think we ever found out why though there were plenty of rumors. Whatever he did and whoever he did it to, he was suddenly gone overnight.

Smirking_Serpent
Aug 27, 2009

AITA for Asking the Waitress what She Liked at the Restaurant?

quote:

This past Thursday, my friend David (27M) and I (26M) met up for the first time in a long time, literal years, and decided to go out to grab a meal together. We went to a diner neither of us had ever been to.

At the restaurant, we were having a great time catching up. David asked me what I wanted to order, and I said that I was going to ask the waitress what she recommended. He thought I was joking at first, and then got weirdly serious. Told me that we were at a diner, not a fine dining place, and that I'd just be putting the waitress in a weird situation. That she probably hasn't eaten most of the food here, and that you don't do that at a place like this.

Knowing that it was perfectly fine, I ignored his advice, and asked the waitress what she recommended. She told me to try this one burger, so I did, and it was pretty good.

Even after we had ordered, though, David kept pushing the issue, telling me that it was a jerk move, even though the waitress seemed perfectly fine with it. The rest of the meal went okay, but I can't help but feel that me doing so turned the situation kind of unpleasant. He just wouldn't drop it.

I've been thinking it over these past few days, and just today, David texted me asking if I wanted to hang out again, but included in the text, "we better not go to a fast food place, you'll hold up the line asking the teenager what they recommend". I feel like I'm engaged in this weird debate with him when all I wanted to do was catch up with an old friend. Was this really some big social taboo that I've committed?

tl;dr my friend is telling me I was an rear end in a top hat for asking a waitress for her recommendation at a diner.

MarcusSA
Sep 23, 2007

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for Asking the Waitress what She Liked at the Restaurant?

David is a moron.

ChickenDoodle
Oct 22, 2020

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for Asking the Waitress what She Liked at the Restaurant?

I feel like I’m playing Saints Row 4 and I have the options of “Punch a Dickhead” and “Punch a Dick in the Head”

Do both, OP.

Brawnfire
Jul 13, 2004

🎧Listen to Cylindricule!🎵
https://linktr.ee/Cylindricule

He's actively devaluing these workers' agency while acting like it's for their sakes.

"wtf does some wage slave/teenager know" about someone who probably eats a shift lunch there and knows all the menu items and substitutions and regular orders

Brawnfire
Jul 13, 2004

🎧Listen to Cylindricule!🎵
https://linktr.ee/Cylindricule

"They just bring us plates they don't know anything about the company they represent, daaaamn"

Captain Hygiene
Sep 17, 2007

You mess with the crabbo...



Well, the good thing is that you and he are both used to not seeing each other for long stretches of time, so there's no reason for that not to continue.

Brawnfire
Jul 13, 2004

🎧Listen to Cylindricule!🎵
https://linktr.ee/Cylindricule

"Say, what are the specials today?"
"Really? Dude, REALLY?!?"

AreWeDrunkYet
Jul 8, 2006

Guessing that asking for a recommendation will often just get you the dishes that give the restaurant the most margin, management can ask wait staff to promote certain items.

But how is anyone possibly going to be offended by that interaction :confused:

therobit
Aug 19, 2008

I've been tryin' to speak with you for a long time

AreWeDrunkYet posted:

Guessing that asking for a recommendation will often just get you the dishes that give the restaurant the most margin, management can ask wait staff to promote certain items.

But how is anyone possibly going to be offended by that interaction :confused:

Waitresses don’t care about company margins. They care about tips. Knowing the menus and giving people a good experience makes them more tips than suggesting something you won’t like.

Larry Parrish
Jul 9, 2012

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
I just tell people what's popular when they ask me what I like. Which is what they're asking.

Dr. Stab
Sep 12, 2010
👨🏻‍⚕️🩺🔪🙀😱🙀
I ask for recommendations all the time and it's mostly so I don't waste time being indecisive. Like if I'm at a subway-style fast food restaurant that I've never been to before. I feel like that's a step below a diner with wait staff.

I think the instruction to push towards or away from certain items is more a thing in high end restaurants and it's governed by not wanting to run out of something early in the night.

Larry Parrish
Jul 9, 2012

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
The only reason I could see someone doing it based on margins is if they're the owner and if the owner is pulling tables they've already severely hosed up let alone having such wildly different margins on entrees that it's worth telling people to get the burger instead of the salmon or whatever

Literally A Person
Jan 1, 1970

Smugworth Wuz Here
When I go to the diner I fight the biggest meanest looking mother fucker there to assert my dominance. Then I usually order a grilled cheese.

therobit
Aug 19, 2008

I've been tryin' to speak with you for a long time

Literally A Person posted:

When I go to the diner I fight the biggest meanest looking mother fucker there to assert my dominance. Then I usually order a grilled cheese.

How many times have you been stabbed by the sous chef?

pentyne
Nov 7, 2012

Literally A Person posted:

When I go to the diner I fight the biggest meanest looking mother fucker there to assert my dominance. Then I usually order a grilled cheese.

Tell me you've never been to a Waffle House without telling me you've never been to a Waffle House.

greazeball
Feb 4, 2003



ChickenDoodle posted:

The drama teacher I was working under in my final year of high school decided that I wasn’t putting in enough effort into class and that she “might have to fail me”. I was being taken to the ER every 1-2 days because a surgeon hosed up my gallbladder removal, but she didn’t believe me. I went straight to the admin and they didn’t give a poo poo. Two months later she had a mental breakdown and left for the rest of the year, just in time for me to get diagnosed and treated so I was finally healthy. gently caress her, I hope she is still miserable.

Sounds like you learned a lot about drama though

Charity Porno
Aug 2, 2021

by Hand Knit

FiendishThingy posted:

My middle school band teacher would routinely throw sheet music stands when he got mad.

He really didn't have the right temperament to be teaching 12 year olds how to play instruments.

Should've played his tempo

Butter Activities
May 4, 2018

pentyne posted:

Tell me you've never been to a Waffle House without telling me you've never been to a Waffle House.

Waffle House is like the major leagues of restaurant fighting you gotta put in work at the Wendys first

Doc Hawkins
Jun 15, 2010

Dashing? But I'm not even moving!


FiendishThingy posted:

My middle school band teacher would routinely throw sheet music stands when he got mad.

He really didn't have the right temperament to be teaching 12 year olds how to play instruments.

the ill-tempered teachier

erosion
Dec 21, 2002

It's true and I'm tired of pretending it isn't

Shithouse Dave posted:

Maybe this is an American thing going on here, or maybe I’m just a “bad with money” person, but I much prefer to keep my expenses as even as possible each pay. It makes it easier to save, and I’m less likely to forget and bone myself over suddenly having large amounts go out infrequently.

That's pretty universal imo, its basically the idea behind the science of 'accounting'.

Mx.
Dec 16, 2006

I'm a great fan! When I watch TV I'm always saying "That's political correctness gone mad!"
Why thankyew!


AITA for telling my husband to stop trying to parent my kids through their dead dad?

quote:

I (f36) lost my late husband years ago, I'm now married to my husband of 2 years "Jason". He loves his stepkids (9-6) and does a lot of things with them. However, he started doing something lately that I find weird and acceptable. Whenever one or both kids do something wrong, instead of giving out proper punishement (that we both agreed upon) he'd grab a photo of my late husband and start addressing it complaining about the kids behaviors while the kids stand and listen, he then proceeds to tell them their dad is mad at them and is disappointed they did this or that. I'm aware of the psychological impact this type of "discipline" can have on them. The kids would sometimes feel so guilty they"d start crying then ask if dad is really disappointed in them cause their stepdad told them he told him that. I told him to knock it off several.times and last night I blew up on him after I found out he told my daughter that her dad "said" he'd disown her if she did x thing again. I told him he was going too far and is causing huge damage to the kids and tainting their memory of their deceased father. He was like "this way they'll learn, and if they really love their dad, then they'll behave" I said "listen! The kids love and will always love their dad and what you're doing is causing damage to their love and remembarance for their dad". He said I was overreacting but I argued that I already warned him. He said something about him being a parent too and that I have to respect his parenting and stop trying to act like the cool parent and step up instead. He then went outside and stayed gone for hours.

My sister said I'm being unfair to my husband and that he cleary cares about the kids otherwise he wouldn't care about them correcting and never repeatig their mistakes.

Aita for my reaction?.

kill your husband, and your sister

Invisible Clergy
Sep 25, 2015

"Behold, I will corrupt your seed, and spread dung upon your faces"

Malachi 2:3

Mx. posted:

AITA for telling my husband to stop trying to parent my kids through their dead dad?

kill your husband, and your sister


r/relationships: he started doing something lately that I find weird and acceptable

Cloacamazing!
Apr 18, 2018

Too cute to be evil

Mx. posted:

AITA for telling my husband to stop trying to parent my kids through their dead dad?

kill your husband, and your sister

Why did that guy get to do this a second time?

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Midnight Voyager
Jul 2, 2008

Lipstick Apathy
I didn't know teachers v desks was a thing. We had two teachers immediately fired after they threw a desk in anger. It was fifteen+ years apart and entirely different teachers, but it was weird it happened twice, or so I thought. Like a whole-rear end desk, what the hell. Throw a book or something, they're much easier!

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