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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for wanting my partner to help pay for birth control I like these posts where the subject just comes off as more and more terrible with each new sentence. I keep thinking that James can't get any worse, and then he tops himself.
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AITA for not telling my partner that I was seeing other people?quote:nsfw Most women are more monogamous = BIO TRUTHS I AM A MAN I need multiple women! LOL that the dude having multiple sexual partners is mad he needs to get tested.
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 20:36 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for telling my boyfriend he should use soap? Dude run, you'll never be happy with a SOAPSCOLD
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 20:38 |
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DAD LOST MY IPOD posted:Everyone in every story is 50% uglier and 30% larger than you’re picturing them. This is not exactly true. I didn't write EVERY story here....
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 20:38 |
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AITA for not postponing my wedding ceremony a few minutes so MIL could see?quote:We decided to have a phone free wedding reception, mostly because my mom and a couple people on my side are social media addicts and I did not want anyone live posting from the wedding, or blocking my expensive photographer to get a lovely cellphone picture. After reading about the concept online I decided to do an unplugged ceremony and have everyone put their phone in a basket before they were seated.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for not postponing my wedding ceremony a few minutes so MIL could see? wow a stupid rule resulted in a stupid situation
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:Body positivity is when I tell you what you’re allowed to wear
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hawowanlawow posted:wow a stupid rule resulted in a stupid situation It seems pretty reasonable to me tbh, especially the part about the wedding photographer
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 20:58 |
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Yeah it’s not uncommon to tell people to leave things to the professional at weddings MIL was probably trying to deliberately delay the ceremony as a power move and it blew up in her face
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Hughlander posted:AITA for not postponing my wedding ceremony a few minutes so MIL could see? quote:so while it made him sad, he is ok with me putting her in her place as needed lol, get wrecked mom
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 21:02 |
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they're making adults put their phones in a basket, he married his mom lol
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for not telling my partner that I was seeing other people? I'll never understand how people this dumb somehow convince other people to gently caress them.
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therattle posted:You’re the clear rear end in a top hat for reposting a story which was posted here not very long ago and which generated a fair amount of discussion! seriously i swear to god i searched this thread for keywords like raisin and thanksgiving god drat it
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 21:23 |
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Forums search doesn’t seem to look inside quote tags, which makes it very bad at searching this thread in particular
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 21:26 |
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Mustang posted:I'll never understand how people this dumb somehow convince other people to gently caress them. But replace 'fish' with 'idiot'
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haveblue posted:Forums search doesn’t seem to look inside quote tags, which makes it very bad at searching this thread in particular boo in recompense, unless i somehow missed this one, too a coworker who I referred to a job is demanding I share my referral bonus with him aam posted:A couple of months ago, I bumped into a former coworker, Fergus, from my previous company. We chatted for a few minutes and he mentioned he’d recently started a job search because he felt he was underpaid in his current role. He volunteered his salary, which was shockingly low. I did not comment on his salary, but when he asked how I liked my current employer (which is a big name in our field), I told him honestly that I really enjoyed the work and culture. Because I had nothing but good experiences working with him, I told him that I’d be happy to submit his resume through our internal referral program if he found a position that piqued his interest. thanks for the job, now give me your bonus
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mediaphage posted:a coworker who I referred to a job is demanding I share my referral bonus with him classic case of "I saw some money and decided it's mine"
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 21:50 |
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How the hell do you not understand how a referral bonus works? He REFERED you and now he gets a bonus for it. It's in the name.
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:What the hell does a 39 year old and a 19 year old even talk about? She seems to have the mentality of a 17 year old so a lot probably
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Does he think it's like a bank/pay service referral where each person gets a payment in their account?
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mediaphage posted:a coworker who I referred to a job is demanding I share my referral bonus with him How dare he think he gets the whole referral bonus when he did nothing for it! It isn't like he told me about the job and then put in my application for me while vouching for my skills. The greed of some people....
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 22:08 |
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I'll take the new hire out to lunch and pay for it out of the bonus (if I like them) but drat if I'm doing anything else.
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 22:53 |
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If I knew the friend was hurting for money and we were close I'd probably split it with them but that conversation would have happened long before I got the money.
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deety posted:AITA for still not wanting to associate with my terminally ill sister because of a poor (and life-lasting) prank?
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deety posted:AITA for still not wanting to associate with my terminally ill sister because of a poor (and life-lasting) prank? I'm not gonna lie. I was expecting one of the twins to have a condition and the sister taking the name tags off made it so the baby couldn't get the necessary care in time. If the OP is that worried, they can just lop off one of the kids' arms and count the rings or some poo poo to figure out which one is older, right?
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I split a referral bonus once. But that was mostly because my friends came to me and said that he was applying for a role in my place, would it be okay to put my name down as a referrer. I was done with it and did nothing else at all in relation to his application. Almost seemed rude not to give him half after that.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:You don't know how you'll feel till it happens, but my gut is "Oh, well, you're Suzette now, whoever you used to be." It used to be pretty common for hospitals to tattoo a dot on the heel or something. I'm a near-identical twin and some people have been oddly obsessed with the idea that we were mixed up at birth. There's no divine anchor between a name and its true owner, if I was supposed to be Rollo but get called Smedley, "me" stays the same. It's my name now. It's right up there with people who have sincerely asked "do you ever get confused about which one you are". As if looking similar to someone means I have no concept of self.
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Bruceski posted:I'm a near-identical twin and some people have been oddly obsessed with the idea that we were mixed up at birth. There's no divine anchor between a name and its true owner, if I was supposed to be Rollo but get called Smedley, "me" stays the same. It's my name now. It would confer you a certain level of protection from spells, hexes, and curses as the caster would not know your True Name.
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Yeah I mean at this point just pick one and say they're the oldest and if you're wrong oh well cause it's literally unknowable.
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Batterypowered7 posted:It would confer you a certain level of protection from spells, hexes, and curses as the caster would not know your True Name. I'm Jewish, so that's already the case. My "real name" is only used when called to the Torah.
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# ? Apr 27, 2022 23:36 |
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If you were switched at birth that means you have a double hidden name and even more protection.
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Bruceski posted:I'm a near-identical twin and some people have been oddly obsessed with the idea that we were mixed up at birth. There's no divine anchor between a name and its true owner, if I was supposed to be Rollo but get called Smedley, "me" stays the same. It's my name now. Ok but what if you were in that other twin story and born as Annabella but had to make it through middle/high school saddled with the name Annalia? Not that either of those poor girls deserves that, but it might sting a little more if it wasn't supposed to be you.
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Well yea the name anxiety is rooted in something hosed up like how they are obsessed with who the first child was and the actual real world implications they believe exist because of this.
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First is worst!
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Second is best
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Halloween Jack posted:Yeah, it's funny that Dad has a problem with Annabella and not Annalia. Our second kid's given names have the same initial, because we thought it would be cool to go by the initials. Her names are space themed - the first one is pretty unusual but the second is a 'normal' name if she ever decides she doesn't like the first one. Naturally, we mostly call her by a nonsense word nickname that was accidently made up in her first week of life and just stuck. I could probably count the number of times I've used her actual name with her on two hands.
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Much like cats, babies don't give a poo poo what you call them but respond to your tone of voice. Feel free to change the name if you get bored and as long as they aren't talking yet you're probably good.
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Elissimpark posted:Naturally, we mostly call her by a nonsense word nickname that was accidently made up in her first week of life and just stuck. I could probably count the number of times I've used her actual name with her on two hands. My social group's nickname for a friend's kid is Raptor completely based on a joke before she was born. She's in high school now, I have no clue how she feels about it or if anyone still calls her that within earshot.
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Bruceski posted:My social group's nickname for a friend's kid is Raptor completely based on a joke before she was born. She's in high school now, I have no clue how she feels about it or if anyone still calls her that within earshot. That's kind of the same story as why one of my friends' kids is nicknamed "Zardoz"
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Dang It Bhabhi! posted:Well yea the name anxiety is rooted in something hosed up like how they are obsessed with who the first child was and the actual real world implications they believe exist because of this. There are real world consequences for some cultures. Your name, your role in the family, in society, rituals you're supposed to complete, all based on birth order. I'm most familiar with this in African societies, but it wouldn't surprise me if it's known elsewhere. Just an example: "The Power of a Name posted:Twins are so important in West African societies — for good or ill — that they interrupt this ordinal naming scheme when they come into a family. Most ethnic groups have special predefined names for each twin, as well as special names for the children born after the twins. Answer to whether it matters if one twin dies: quote:In traditional Yoruba culture, the deceased Kehinde is still considered to be “alive” in a way, or at least have a strong presence in the family: he is cared for just like his live twin (fed, washed, carried, put to bed) through an ere ibeji — a sculpted figurine acting as a surrogate body for the twin’s soul. (See our post on twins.)
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