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AITA for singing a song to my wife at our wedding and making her angry?quote:I just got married last week (my wife and I are both in our thirties). I am Mexican, she is American, but we both grew up in the US and both our families know both languages. My wife planned every bit of the wedding and was a very controlling and nervous bride, but alright, I get that she was stressed.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:15
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lmao congrats on your coming divorce
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Jun 23, 2022 14:24
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Don't blame her, weddings are all about the bride, not the groom.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:27
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Well, at least he knows now. And not when she'd almost certainly bitch about him "enforcing ethnicity" with any children.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:28
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I was so confused reading the song’s lyrics and wondering what the problem is and then I reread and saw that she’s American and now I understand. Yeah divorce her.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:29
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quote:to enforce my ethnicity Oh, for sure, I mean singing a Spanish language song at his wedding is basically like forcibly converting everyone there to Mexicanism.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:32
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Imagine the meltdown when he starts teaching their kids Spanish
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Jun 23, 2022 14:37
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"Your ethnicity was fun and exotic when we were dating but now we're married I'm going to need you to white it up" is an exciting new twist on racism
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Jun 23, 2022 14:39
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NO gently caress YOU DAD posted:"Your ethnicity was fun and exotic when we were dating but now we're married I'm going to need you to white it up" is an exciting new twist on racism Oh, it's super common towards multiracial people.
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Jun 23, 2022 14:44
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Justin Godscock posted:All I'm going to say is I remember staying at a hotel that was hosting a major cheerleading competition for high schoolers (very long story but our first hotel lost the final day of our reservation so this was the only last-minute option). I demand details. 
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Jun 23, 2022 14:48
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NO gently caress YOU DAD posted:"Your ethnicity was fun and exotic when we were dating but now we're married I'm going to need you to white it up" is an exciting new twist on racism
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Jun 23, 2022 14:48
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Maybe dude couldnt carry a note in a bucket? Bridezilla has every detail planned and here's her hubby singing like a rhino in pain.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:03
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Sloth Life posted:Maybe dude couldnt carry a note in a bucket? Bridezilla has every detail planned and here's her hubby singing like a rhino in pain. She specifically complained about his ethnicity, not his singing voice, when confronted.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:04
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The Bramble posted:She specifically complained about his ethnicity, not his singing voice, when confronted. well, he did make at least one of the other patrons cry
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Jun 23, 2022 15:10
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ATTENTION CITIZENS: THIS IS NOW A MANDATORY MEXICAN WEDDING. VIOLATORS WILL BE PROSECUTED.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:12
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WoodrowSkillson posted:lmao congrats on your coming divorce
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Jun 23, 2022 15:15
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the holy poopacy posted:ATTENTION CITIZENS: THIS IS NOW A MANDATORY MEXICAN WEDDING. VIOLATORS WILL BE PROSECUTED. *I grimly nod, down an offered shot of tequila and prepare to get another taco*
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Jun 23, 2022 15:17
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the holy poopacy posted:ATTENTION CITIZENS: THIS IS NOW A MANDATORY MEXICAN WEDDING. VIOLATORS WILL BE PROSECUTED. little did the Spain-spanish speakers know that they, too, would be shot by the Mexican Enforcement Droid
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Jun 23, 2022 15:20
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The weirdest part is he said that both families can speak both Spanish and English, so it's not even like he's marrying into a family of chuds. She just decided to go full on racist out of nowhere.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:21
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Turns out he was Mexican, she was Mexican't. You hate to see it
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Jun 23, 2022 15:24
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If you track down the comment he made she would have preferred the band sing the song in English as well.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:24
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AITA for refusing to help my brother and telling him he should’ve expected to lose his children?quote:My brother is going through a nasty custody battle and it looks like he’s going to lose his children. This all started because my brother decided to have an affair, continued seeing the other woman (his now fiancée) after his wife found out and moved with his two children once his wife had a mental breakdown. My sister-in-law didn’t want her family to get involved until he took the kids but now my brother is realising he hosed up as my sister-in-law’s dad and brother are using their money and connections to (unfairly) destroy him in court.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:26
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He was Mexican, she was racist Could I make it any more obvious
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Jun 23, 2022 15:26
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Enos Cabell posted:The weirdest part is he said that both families can speak both Spanish and English, so it's not even like he's marrying into a family of chuds. She just decided to go full on racist out of nowhere. He says she's American but I'm wondering if she's got a Hispanic grandparent or great-grandparent that she's secretly ashamed of. If they split up and he tells her family why it might torch a few relationships with her family too.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:28
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r/relationships: to (unfairly) destroy him in court
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Jun 23, 2022 15:33
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White Americans have the most boring rear end weddings. I wonder what they imagine a Mexican wedding is like. At least ten times cooler. Mariachi instead of the Chicken Dance. Tacos and empanadas instead of tiny sandwiches with pickle relish and salmon. AITA for not dogsitting for my brother? quote:I (F 23) have dogsat for my brother (M 32) a few times and it has never been a good experience. I work two jobs and i am stretched pretty thin as-is. Last Oct. I dogsat for him and he didnt leave me and dog food, so i had to buy it, also the remote for the tv was lost, he didnt pull out the sofa bed for me (which im not picky about where i sleep but im doing him a favor so it wouldve been a nice gesture) so i slept on the couch, and his garage flooded so i had to fix his water pressure tank. he has two dogs and lives farther from my two jobs than i do at home. he also doesnt pay me, which im not asking for a lot of money but maybe just gas money or money for food (or leave me some food in the house). It has just been a bad experience overall and i told him i wouldnt do it again…. I dogsit for free for a friend because it's literally a few blocks from my house, but the other friends where I have to drive 15 miles one way, and spend the night? Yeah they pay me. But they also have enough money to go on at least 1-2 vacations a year. AITA for telling my ex , he had his chance to be a father to my kids quote:Ok some of you may remember my ex H (25) who left me after I gave birth to our sons 3 years ago . Please move back to my city and let me be a dad (and maybe I won't abandon you or my replacement wife and kids). Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 15:43 on Jun 23, 2022 |
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Jun 23, 2022 15:38
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Arsenic Lupin posted:r/relationships: to (unfairly) destroy him in court Yeah, I don't see what's so unfair about it. He hosed around, and now he's finding out.
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Jun 23, 2022 15:51
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Cloacamazing! posted:What the actual gently caress, Prudie? Yeah. This whole thing on "getting closure" is just dumb. Just move on. "Oh yeah I remember you... you NERD!" *slams down phone*
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Jun 23, 2022 15:55
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Runcible Cat posted:Yeah, I don't see what's so unfair about it. He hosed around, and now he's finding out. Is it normal for affair marriage breakdowns to decide custody 100% one way?
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Jun 23, 2022 15:57
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Electric Wrigglies posted:Is it normal for affair marriage breakdowns to decide custody 100% one way? Soylent Pudding posted:This all started because my brother decided to have an affair, continued seeing the other woman (his now fiancée) after his wife found out and moved with his two children once his wife had a mental breakdown.
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Jun 23, 2022 16:01
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I mean if his ex's family is using power and connections that is pretty literally unfair, the question is whether you really care about that or not
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Jun 23, 2022 16:04
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Runcible Cat posted:Yeah, I don't see what's so unfair about it. He hosed around, and now he's finding out.  Should've kept his dick in his pants 
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Jun 23, 2022 16:04
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That sounds like the guy moved on without divorcing. Her having a mental breakdown because her relationship broke down does not support her retaining full custody. The way it is written kind of implies he took the kids without a court order though. That would get him in hot water.
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Jun 23, 2022 16:07
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Invisible Clergy posted:As an American who's big into beer, I've never even heard of Alexander Keith's so I can't comment, but what may be surprising to you is that Stella is a fancy import beer in America despite being what soccer hooligans drink in England. What always amused me over there was that Sam Adams counts as an 'import'. Dude was literally part of your revolution guys!
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Jun 23, 2022 16:10
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Electric Wrigglies posted:The way it is written kind of implies he took the kids without a court order though. That would get him in hot water. It sounds very much like he broke her heart and mind with an affair and then moved out and took the kids with him once she was fully destabilized. gently caress this guy and I hope the powerful connected family destroys him
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Jun 23, 2022 16:10
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Splicer posted:I'm going to guess it's something to do with the cause of this extremely passive voiced mental breakdown. Not to mention the equally vague "moved". Moved where? Down the street? Across the country? Across the world? If he unilaterally took off with the kids it's no wonder the mother's family are pissed off and vengeful. Sounds like he's made a whole string of bad decisions (and is dead set on making more if the family are trying to make OP play Mata Hari).
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Jun 23, 2022 16:24
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AITA for not letting my coworker drive my new car?quote:In my job , I go out of town a lot , lots of hotels , and camp work. Sometimes I drive my own vehicle if I’m at a hotel , gives me more freedom after shift, not having to wait for a crew truck. My last job I was going on , I was taking my car , my coworkertegie was going to travel with me. However he told my supervisor that he has anxiety when he’s a passenger in vehicle , and needs to drive. My boss told me that Trevor was going to drive. I said no , it’s my truck , and only I drive it. He argued and threatened to write me up for insubordination, I pretty much laughed at that , because he can’t write me up for not letting someone else use my personal property. The company doesn’t pay for my fuel, mileage or upkeep. It turned into a screaming match and so I said screw it , I’m not driving anyone else but me. I said either I drive my truck or it doesn’t go at all. I was then told to either let Trevor drive or go home, so I chose to go home. I told Trevor to take all his gear from my truck, and my supervisor said” no , you are going home , we are still using the truck” What the gently caress did I just read. How loving insane is that shop?
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Jun 23, 2022 16:25
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Hughlander posted:AITA for not letting my coworker drive my new car? The only way that could make any sense at all is if by "his" truck, it is actually the company truck assigned to him and therefore he considered it "his". Some guys do take it that far but I think in this case the Supervisor is just tapped in the head and is confused over who owns the vehicle.
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Jun 23, 2022 16:29
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Hughlander posted:AITA for not letting my coworker drive my new car? What  That "company" has gotta just be a shop with like five people, right? I can't imagine any sort of structured business just being like "go home. Also leave your vehicle, we're using it now"
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"coworkertegie"?
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