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AITA for refusing to scam the government with my roommate?quote:So a couple of weeks ago my roommate told me she applied for a rental assistance program and that she put down that I live with her and the entire amount of the rent in the application (so both her and my portion). She also failed to report my income. She ended up getting approved and told me that the program would be directly paying the apartment so she would not see a cent of that money. How dare you take advantage of me by not giving me free money!!
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for refusing to scam the government with my roommate? This is so easily solved by a simple phone call. As long as she's good with burning that (terrible, bad, poorly made) bridge forever.
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Jul 1, 2022 21:45
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Captain Hygiene posted:How about a different kind of leftovers drama Dude ate her leftover pizza and is now doubling down on tossing it so as not to admit he ate her food.
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Jul 1, 2022 22:01
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Biplane posted:This is so easily solved by a simple phone call. As long as she's good with burning that (terrible, bad, poorly made) bridge forever. I mean if she doesn't then if they're jointly liable for the rent and she knows about this fraud that she is benefiting from because it's paying half the rent bill then she can easily be swept up in the inevitable fraud charge.
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Jul 1, 2022 22:15
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Alchenar posted:I mean if she doesn't then if they're jointly liable for the rent and she knows about this fraud that she is benefiting from because it's paying half the rent bill then she can easily be swept up in the inevitable fraud charge. Yeah that's what I figure, instant nope the moment they're trying something that could blow back on me. The extra greediness gambit was just a fun extra lol on the side.
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Jul 1, 2022 22:19
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value-brand cereal posted:Here. Actually have some content. NTA. I had parents who did this sort of poo poo ALL THE loving TIME. My father would always favour my brother in all circumstances. When he said he'd teach me and my brother how to ride a bicycle, my brother, being older and more athletic, was able to get it much quicker than I could. Me, being about 5 or 6, was struggling, so he hit me and told me to "gently caress off." When I got a bunch of presents for my birthday, he just grabbed a bunch of them and gave them to my brother, and told me I had to learn to share. Of course my brother didn't have to "share" his presents with me. Funny that. After my parents split, and we had our court-ordered visits with that piece of poo poo, it was always "hey, older sibling, where do you want to go." He bought both of us football shirts (Liverpool FC for my bro, Bayern Munich for me), but made sure to tell me that I looked like poo poo in that shirt. You know, that sort of thing. Imagine that happening all. the. loving. time. Every act of kindness is always accompanied by a remark meant to cut me down and make me feel like poo poo. I have gone complete non-contact with him, and the last thing I said to him was to tell him that I hated his loving guts, and that if I ever run into him, I will gently caress him up. Would you be surprised to learn that he also regularly beat my mother? Which leads me to: value-brand cereal posted:,,AITA for running away when my fiancee got in touch with my mother? MOTHERFUCK PEOPLE LIKE THIS. Don't loving tell people who've gone non-contact with family members that we have an obligation to forgive them just because we're related. That poo poo happens for a reason, you loving turd. gently caress you, gently caress off, go gently caress yourself. Captain Hygiene posted:How about a different kind of leftovers drama One of my best friends has coeliac disease, so I have a good idea of how much of a loving pain it is for someone having to live with that condition. gently caress this loving guy, I hope his wife leaves him. What a loving tosser. edogawa rando fucked around with this message at 23:21 on Jul 1, 2022 |
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Jul 1, 2022 23:04
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for refusing to scam the government with my roommate? On the other hand, lol at putting up with a con and then dropping your monocle in shock when she tries to con you next.
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Jul 1, 2022 23:24
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I don't see what leverage the roommate has to collect with
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Jul 1, 2022 23:30
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Mr. Lobe posted:I don't see what leverage the roommate has to collect with "I'll take you down with me for not reporting this as soon as you found out."
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Jul 1, 2022 23:41
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Mr. Lobe posted:I don't see what leverage the roommate has to collect with She has nothing except a willingness to get in op's face about it. Which is enough to win probably 80% of the time, per the entries in this thread.
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Jul 1, 2022 23:42
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The other side of these momma's boys: [24/m] My mom (44/f) is gonna spend my birthday with her boyfriend and i'm gonna be by myself, which is upsetting for me. Is there anything i can do? quote:Keep in mind, i don't really have any friends, it's mostly just me, her and my grandmother. I really want the family to be together but unfortunately, she's spending the day with her boyfriend. WHy? Because he gets 2 days off a week and unfortunately my bday has to be on one of those days. She goes over to his house every week on the same day since he lives so far away, way before i even wake up (6-7 am). So i won't even see her. She won't be here.
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Jul 2, 2022 00:57
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That one's just sad, this guy seems like he's got real social anxiety problems.
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Jul 2, 2022 01:38
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reignonyourparade posted:Insurance is just gonna sell it for scrap if you really want it they've got no problem deducting the estimated scrap value out of the payout they're giving you. Yeah this is what the guy says in the comments, he kept the title as a salvage vehicle. e: whoops that was four pages ago
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Jul 2, 2022 01:53
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for going being upset my wife's boss called her an angel Good thing you're infertile since you'd be a terrible father
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Jul 2, 2022 02:11
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Serephina posted:The other side of these momma's boys:  Hope this guy finds some friends, made me sad.
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Jul 2, 2022 02:15
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AITA for using a squirt bottle for cats on my nephew?quote:My nephew, Michael, just finished his sophomore year and is fifteen years old. Due to circumstances that I would rather not discuss on Reddit, I am Michael's legal guardian at the moment. And he posted cat tax 
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Jul 2, 2022 02:40
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Absurd Alhazred posted:"I'll take you down with me for not reporting this as soon as you found out." I'm pretty sure that's the leverage the roommate that is attempting to be fleeced has. All she has to say is no I don't like that I'll call them and tell them I didn't know you didn't put my income down.
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Jul 2, 2022 04:46
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Absurd Alhazred posted:"I'll take you down with me for not reporting this as soon as you found out." “I’ve been giving her the rent money in cash every month. I had no idea what she was doing”
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Jul 2, 2022 04:53
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AITA for threatening to fire my fiancéequote:I (35M) and my fiancé (25F) work at the same bar together. That’s actually how we met was when she started working there 4 years ago. I asked her on a date not long after and we’ve been together ever since. Hmmm, she's 25, started working 4 years ago... 10 year age difference and her boss.... 
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for using a squirt bottle for cats on my nephew? A Good Uncle/Foster Dad imo
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Hughlander posted:AITA for threatening to fire my fiancée Wow OP posted:
 Reddit's verdict is not enough information
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AITA for telling my brother that he should marry his buddies?quote:My brother Kyle married Mia a week ago. Me and Mia are very close to each other and I was very happy to be a family. Mia was very excited and spent a lot of time planning their wedding. The problem is my brother who, despite his age (33), still behaves like a small child, especially if his buddies are nearby. Mia knew about this, so she asked him to act more seriously for just this one day. And I do not mean that they have a straight face all the time, just so that they do not throw food (something like that happened on Mia's birthday). Kyle promised nothing like this would happen. However, of course, he did not keep his promise. During their first dance, Kyle would either shout at his buddies or make silly faces while ignoring Mia all the time. When the cake rolled into the room, he and his friends took a handful of cake and threw it at her, destroying her dress and makeup. Already then I saw that she was close to crying. I wanted to yell at my brother, but Mia stopped me and said that if I wanted to do something for her, I could help her fix her makeup and hair. It is worth mentioning that Mia has practically no contact with her family because most of them are toxic and controlling, so she still needs the help of a psychologist. So he is a very submissive person who is afraid to oppose others and I knew my brother was taking advantage of it. When me and Mia returned to the room, we noticed that my brother and his friends were gone. So I asked my mother if she knew where they were, she said that they went to the beach because they were bored. Then I couldn't stand it anymore. I went outside and called my brother. We started arguing and under the influence of emotions I told him not to waste Mia's time and just to marry his buddies. At that point he disconnected and did not speak to me for the next 5 hours. His friend said I overdid it and I should apologize to him. Good family, poo poo brother.
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Jul 2, 2022 07:31
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AngryRobotsInc posted:A child who is specifically conceived through IVF, using genetic compatibility testing, to provide organ or cell transplants for their sibling. It is extremely hosed up. I can kind of understand how parents would go for that if it meant saving their child's life. What I don't understand is how it's possible to not love this donor child at least as much as the first one. I guess it's the difference between seeing the second child as a second child that helped save her brother's life, and seeing her as a means to saving the older child who now has to be taken care of for 18 years? Second one just seems really sociopathic to me.
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Cloacamazing! posted:I can kind of understand how parents would go for that if it meant saving their child's life. What I don't understand is how it's possible to not love this donor child at least as much as the first one. I guess it's the difference between seeing the second child as a second child that helped save her brother's life, and seeing her as a means to saving the older child who now has to be taken care of for 18 years? Second one just seems really sociopathic to me. Unfortunately the attitude can be very much 'we need an accessory to maintain our precious doll'. You've been reading this thread long enough to know how many parents consider their children to be property.
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Jul 2, 2022 08:27
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Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my brother that he should marry his buddies? Weird as gently caress pronoun use though.
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Runcible Cat posted:Weird as gently caress pronoun use though. "after reading your answers, he talked to Mia and asked if he still wanted to be with my brother. She said she doesn't really know herself but is afraid of being left alone. I assured her that both me and the rest of the family would support her. Everyone loves me very much." Usually I can muddle my way through the typo-ridden poor writing and figure out what someone was trying to say, but this is approaching pure gibberish.
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Jul 2, 2022 09:46
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Castaign posted:"after reading your answers, [w]e talked to Mia and asked if [s]he still wanted to be with my brother. She said she doesn't really know herself but is afraid of being left alone. I assured her that both me and the rest of the family would support her. Everyone loves m[ia] very much." Definitely bizarre, maybe they were using voice texting? I like reading this thread because it reminds me that at least I'm not some of these gently caress ups, but it also makes me wonder how half of them manage to find partners/get married. I guess at least I have standards?
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Jul 2, 2022 10:12
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I did audibly laugh when I originally read "Everybody loves me very much"
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My (M36) influencer GF (F35) is locked in the bathroom and won't leave until I apologize, I don't know what she wants me to apologize for. She is sharing the situation with her audience.quote:We were eating lunch in our living room. I (M36) told her(F35) me and some buddies(M38 & M32) were gonna drive(Ford Fiesta stick shift) down to the beach to paddle board. Her facial expressions suddenly changed, told me I was being very hurtful and non inclusive. Side note, she is a bit to the heavy side(BMI of 37) which I don't mind at all. We then got into an argument where she got more and more upset, talking about how I am insensitive to her anxiety. I then got mad because I have been dealing with social anxiety and depression for the last couple of years, and I feel like I am very aware of people's mental health.
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Jul 2, 2022 13:45
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it sounds like he knows why she's locked in the bathroom, but taking at face value, lol if the concept of moving under muscle power triggers you because... you're aware of being overweight but not even that badly by American standards? or being upset that your boyfriend has friends and is telling you his plans, which is kind of even funnier but also sadder if we take her... Instagram stream preaching or whatever at face value also
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took me twice to read that she felt they weren't being inclusive because of the paddle boarding and not because she was too fat to fit in a ford fiesta. edit: wait I'm not even sure that's it Whorelord fucked around with this message at 14:00 on Jul 2, 2022 |
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Jul 2, 2022 13:57
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Goddamn between "everyone loves me very much" and "I should apologize, partly because I really need to go to the bathroom" we got done good thread titles this morning.
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That reminds me- when abusive people use (self-) therapy as a tool or justification for their abusive behaviour, is that still weaponised therapy or is that term only ever used for when an abuser manipulates their therapist into it? What do you call it when someone incorporates the language and justification of therapy/self-help into their abuse
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Jul 2, 2022 14:10
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I'm pretty sure 11k followers means she's not even wealthy, what other possible reason would you stay with someone who openly gaslights you for their Instagram account? Jesus Christ.
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Whorelord posted:took me twice to read that she felt they weren't being inclusive because of the paddle boarding and not because she was too fat to fit in a ford fiesta. i really can't tell if she's supposed to be mad for, but the only reason I can think of that's not really stupid is not bothering to invite her, although... telling a good friend about my plans, especially a girlfriend, is pretty much an implicit invitation unless it's some kind of close family function. and even then it probably still is.
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:I did audibly laugh when I originally read "Everybody loves me very much" yeah it's definitely meant to be "everyone loves Mia very much", along with the muddled pronouns voice-to-text could be the answer. Also I LOVE stories where a family gets to trade a toxic fail-child for a lovely ex-spouse-of-fail-child, cutting the former out of their life when they mistreat the latter.
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The Bramble posted:My (M36) influencer GF (F35) is locked in the bathroom and won't leave until I apologize, I don't know what she wants me to apologize for. She is sharing the situation with her audience. Didn't give the age of the Fiesta, reported to mods.
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I can buy 11,000 followers for like 20 bucks in an afternoon, and so help me if it gets somebody out of the toilet I need to use I'll spend double
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Do you think he says (Ford Fiesta stick shift) every time he mentions his car in real life too?
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