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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for reading my wife’s journal? I think the only possible solution here is to and continue with the therapy
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 01:21 |
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AITA for dressing like a co-worker for Halloween?code:
quote:So I had been working at a company for about 5 years. I made friends with one guy specifically, let's call him Greg. Greg and I hung out quite a bit outside work, he was on the company softball team with me, we had bbq's together, all that fun stuff. At least op apologized. Idk why you'd do that.... AITA dressing my son with the girls clothes his dad's family brought him code:
quote:English is not my first language and I am in mobile, so please be patient with me
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 01:27 |
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Brawnfire posted:Sometimes people need to drop by for my very important advice and philosophical truisms, which I dispense to any and all comers after I've finished my tantric masturbation sessions in the private chambers. Wait, you WEREN'T showcasing the latest microsong from your grindcore album?
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 01:29 |
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Brawnfire posted:I've always wanted one of those reception rooms that people can come into my house but not into my private rooms. The trick is to never enter this room yourself or interact with anyone that’s been in it.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 01:49 |
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welcome to my Reception Oubliette
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 01:55 |
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AITA for dressing "provocatively" during birthday dinner with my step father?code:
quote:Okay, here it goes. The Comments quote:dragonmjr 433 4m quote:mcthrowaway_anon 195 8h28m The link 404s, but there's other latex dresses and yeah they're fairly kinky. Though from the post history it just seems lie one handed fiction? At least it comes across as someone looking for being humiliated sexually. Eh.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:02 |
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value-brand cereal posted:AITA for dressing like a co-worker for Halloween? Some folks did this at a place I used to work and everyone had a good time. I assume the main difference was in being able to recognize that they actually had friend relationships that would let it obviously go over well, in a way that someone likely to make it into this area of reddit would not.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:03 |
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moonmazed posted:welcome to my Reception Oubliette My favorite level in Quake
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:03 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:Some folks did this at a place I used to work and everyone had a good time. I assume the main difference was in being able to recognize that they actually had friend relationships that would let it obviously go over well, in a way that someone likely to make it into this area of reddit would not. It mostly depends on the person who's being imitated. Some people are going to feel like they're being made fun of and get their feelings hurt no matter what. I've known a couple people who wanted to do this at work and I always tried to talk them out of it.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:17 |
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The safest way of doing this is having two people agree to dress up as each other.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:20 |
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I had a friend show up at a party as me once. Had my facial hair and skin markings and all. It was hilarious but still slightly off-putting despite that, I think it can catch someone off-guard to be treated as a character.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:22 |
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I, cis female, dressed up as a cis male coworker some years ago; since then I've gained some weight so I clearly couldn't look like him unless he's done the same. But I styled my hair like he did his, wore an undershirt the same way he did, even got a similar bracelet he always wore. But the thing is, I told my boss I'd be dressing as JD for Halloween, and JD himself knew and seemed fine with it, but he was not pleased when he saw people mistook me for him. I mean poo poo, I am pretty masculine looking but maybe he took it the other way around. AITA for telling my sister than men are stronger than women on average? quote:Both me[17M] and my sister[18F] were just hanging out the other day since we had nothing to do and we finished our school work and our friends were busy with this dance convention at our school, so we decided to play some one on one basketball to pass the time. My sister is the second leading scorer of the varsity girls team at our school, and while on occasion I play basketball with my friends, I’m not a professional by any means. My sister is also taller than me(she’s 5’9 and I’m 5’7, but maybe I’ll still grow later). Dude's comment makes me suspect he will be freaking out if he doesn't and she remains a few inches taller than him. Also in friendly games, is poo poo like "bullying" to the basket really something non assholes do?
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:42 |
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He deffo took it the other way round. Also bullying to the basket is fine if your friendly matches are agreed upon competitive games at that level, but the people I see most pushing for that are assholes who don't tell anyone else.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 02:59 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:
Can't speak to basketball but in social sports it's definitely normal to push the limits as long as you aren't intentionally trying to hurt anybody. I've been tripped, pushed, held, aggressive slide tackled etc and it's all good. BUT - this assumes everyone is the same sex. It's absolutely not normal or socially acceptable among non-siblings for a man to play super aggressively against a woman in social sports.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:02 |
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AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s?quote:(38M) I am single and childless by choice but am close with my family. Especially my niece and nephew, (18F) Stephanie and (18M) Alexander.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:08 |
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Mx. posted:AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s? quote:They told me I should then give away my emergency savings People always say that 'no' is a complete sentence, but I would like it to be more widely acknowledged that 'lol no' is a more powerful one
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:14 |
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I've thought about going as my boss's boss for Halloween this year but like 80% of it is her loud bubbly attitude and I don't have the energy to commit to the bit for the whole day
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:17 |
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gee i wonder how much the parents are chipping in
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:17 |
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Gimme gimme gimme! I just don’t understand these. Then again I’m lucky enough that my own financial house of cards has yet to crumble. Expecting what should be a still-achievable ‘normal middle-class life’ for yourself and your kids just dissolve must be rough.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:19 |
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Mx. posted:AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s? quote:if Alexander had to leave his dream school while Stephanie could afford hers, it could “cause the family to resent Stephanie” and I should “prevent that rift before their relationships get hurt Sounds a lot like the grandparents are going to be the ones resenting Stephanie. Wonder which is their favorite grandchild?
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:19 |
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I would place good money that it's one of two things. Either a "This child will carry on the family name" thing, or "Girls only go to college to find a husband and then drop out" thing. Or maybe even both at once.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:23 |
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"If alexander doesn't get to go to his dream school but his sister does it will cause a rift in the family. Forcing his sister to pay for him won't cause a rift because...."
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:25 |
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AITA/Cross Country Moving Feesquote:AITA? My friend asked me a couple months ago to help them move across the country. I agreed knowing it's be the last time I see them for a considerable amount of time. They never said I would have to pay for anything but they also never said they would pay for anything. Was not expecting to find such an audacious new grift on a lazy Sunday evening
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:25 |
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Mx. posted:AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s? The hand, so delicious, nomnomnom WIBTA for continuing to cook bacon if my pregnant wife doesn’t like the smell? quote:Every morning I make myself a breakfast of bacon and fried eggs. It’s been my routine for years and I don’t want to change it. I hope it's not too late for her to get rid of at least one baby.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:29 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:
It sounds like the sister was fine with that style of play, she's just mostly confused and smarting from her younger, shorter, non-varsity athlete brother cleaning her clock like that. It can be a real shock for a lot of women to learn how much stronger the average post-pubescent man is.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:31 |
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I don't even understand why you would give those kids a choice. That is a resentment generator system, capable of outputting family drama for decades.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:31 |
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AITA for selling everything I had bought for my ex-wife?quote:I (47M) divorced my ex-wife (32F) 2 weeks ago, and I am currently in the process of selling everything I had bought for her in the past, such as jewelry, a poodle, and her car.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:56 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for selling everything I had bought for my ex-wife? Sorry took a look at that age gap and lost focus on everything else, what was the question?
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 03:57 |
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Mx. posted:AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s? Well for starters I'd recommend you stop saying "I heavily contributed to my niece's college fund but not my nephew's" when you mean "I paid my nephew and niece equally for their work and she saved her money."
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 04:07 |
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value-brand cereal posted:AITA dressing my son with the girls clothes his dad's family brought him Girl baby rabies is a wonderful term.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 04:54 |
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Boomer entitlement is amazing enough when it comes to expectations of people, but flat out ignoring reality is something else. I suppose it's a narcissist thing again.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:02 |
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My boyfriend got married for money should I leave him?quote:My boyfriend (29) recently confess to me that he got married to some lady 3 months ago so she could get her green card. he said she's a older lady in her late 30's and she has a boyfriend he got married to her a month before we moved in together. he claims he has to spend the night at her house 3 times a week because someone comes to her house to make sure there really married and he goes to her kids events to take pictures. I feel betrayed and I'm disgusted with him we talked about having kids and getting married in the future. He also brung up proposing to me in December and i went through his phone often and I didn't find anything but he was still living a double life he told me he just want to be friends for 2 months (I guess that's when they'll get a divorce) and then get back into a relationship
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:08 |
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Evil Willow posted:My boyfriend got married for money should I leave him? I say go with it, just keep us posted with your ongoing journey through relationships/aita/legaladvice
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:24 |
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Baron von Eevl posted:Well for starters I'd recommend you stop saying "I heavily contributed to my niece's college fund but not my nephew's" when you mean "I paid my nephew and niece equally for their work and she saved her money." yeah lol, if he takes from niece's college fund it's wage theft pure and simple.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:35 |
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lol, reminds me of a guy I know who had 3 kids. He was a developer and gave his kids part time jobs to help at construction sites, real basic stuff like cleaning up after everyone's gone home. All earned the exact same wage. The oldest kid really really wanted a car so worked with this goal in mind for the year and ended up saving up and buying it. The other 2 kids didn't put in as many hours and spent all their money nearly as soon as they got it. The dad then got in poo poo from his ex wife for "favouring" the oldest kid by paying for his car but refusing to buy a car for the other 2.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:46 |
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Evil Willow posted:My boyfriend got married for money should I leave him? Has this person never once wondered why people refer to her as blind despite her vision test scores?
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:55 |
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sullat posted:yeah lol, if he takes from niece's college fund it's wage theft pure and simple. I don't understand how he could not issue her a paycheck. besides being illegal, no taxes or social security taken out so her amount is also going to be more than her brother's.
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# ? Jul 11, 2022 05:57 |
As described, it is probably just direct deposit of the paycheck into a college fund instead of a normal bank account. Nothing in the story suggests that the proper deductions weren't being made. Depending on the when and where, it is also possible that there's special education provisions for under-18s.
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AITA for asking for a new engagement ring?quote:My (25f) boyfriend/fiance (27m) proposed to me the other day. We have talked about getting married before this happened, and I have told him exactly what kind of ring I wanted, down to the shape and band. When he proposed to me, the ring wasn't anything close to what we have previously talked about. I accepted the proposal, of course, but last night he brought up that his mother actually picked out the ring. He asked me what I thought about it, so I told him honestly what I thought and asked if we could get a different one. He got upset and told me I was being ungrateful and that I should be happy that he even got me a ring. He said that his mom was the one to pick it out so I should just wear it. Today, his mom called me basically telling me that I have no taste in jewelry and that I should just go with what she says. girl you're the other woman
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AITA for suggesting my recently engaged friend should "tone down the theatrics"?quote:My friend has recently got engaged to his boyfriend. I'm honestly and truly happy for him, they seem to have a lovely relationship. However, he's being very over-the-top about it which is what I commented on.
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