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Quackles posted:That can't be sanitary. He rinsed out the pickle jar before filling it with cum, what more do you want?
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DrBouvenstein posted:Strap in, it's a doozy: this reads like the slug boyfriend story. just
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 20:54 |
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Cacator posted:r/relationships: This is the cum jar now! That's a good title.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 20:56 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA flipping out on my fiance for cancelling all the vegan food options from our wedding food menu behind my back? UPDATE quote:UPDATE: So his mom messaged me earlier to try to get me to listen to what she had to say after I kept ignoring her phonecalls. She spent long walls of text just to "address" what I did at her son's workplace, calling it all kinds of stuff from immature to unhinged. She then went to explain how she's noticed that me and my family kept "acting dismissive" of her son's input and "contributations" to the wedding. She said that she noticed my behavior towards him and her entire family and wanted to speak up earlier but didn't and tried to keep the peace. She then went on to address the food menu issue and denied her involvement in the cancellation of the vegan option but that didn't mean she doesn't support her son's decision. moreover, she thought it was soooo responsible of him to make that move because of my continual refusal to see how this stuff is waste of money. she also pointed out how I kept saying "I paid for it" and said that technically this isn't just my money, it's mine and his because we're getting married she suggested I wisen up and get rid of "my money, I paid for it" mentality. She finally mentioned how "bad" this whole situation is making me look, and said that she and her son had already offered a number of compromises that I chose to brush off and decided to make it my "weird" hill to die on. She said that not only her son is upset but she and "the family" are as well after hearing about it and suggested I just agrre on their compromise and be done with it. This pissed me off beyond belief I responded by letting her know that I'm still standing my ground on this even if I'll have to call the whole wedding off because of it because honestly? this is just ridiculous, it is!!! my mom and dad....they don't even know what to say anymore. Apparently, my fiance saw my response to her (he's with her) and is now trying to call me but right now I'm waiting on him to get home and see if he's still insisting on the stance he took. Why the hell is she even talking to that family still.
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Hughlander posted:UPDATE Excuse me, I need to go buy a stepladder to get my eyebrows off the ceiling.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 21:03 |
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Reading over Mommy’s shoulder while she tells my fiancee how mean she is for letting vegans eat at MY WEDDING.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 21:11 |
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DrBouvenstein posted:Strap in, it's a doozy: Call the husband Jarthe Vader
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 21:13 |
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DrBouvenstein posted:Strap in, it's a doozy: I almost posted this for the cum jar line but held off because of the sexual assault. The good news is the reddit commenters dug into the account history and the odds are good it's a fake. Still quote:r/relationships: This is the cum jar now!
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 21:15 |
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jar hacked, all my cum gone
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 21:29 |
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AITA for saying my GF cannot climb the mountain with us?quote:My girlfriend’s friend, Rosie, and I turn out to both love mountaineering! We’ve become such great friends from our common interest. We have the goal of doing Denali together by the end of next year and have been training by doing Rainier (along with general conditioning, etc.) and we will do a Denali prep course together probably in Feb-Apr 2023. "I think it's important to a relationship to keep some separate interests. That's why I'm excluding you from my time spent with another woman, who I also plan to travel with on my own"
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for saying my GF cannot climb the mountain with us? The rare horizontal AND vertical long-distance relationship.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for saying my GF cannot climb the mountain with us? first thing I can find when checking for Denali is this quote:Climbing Denali is difficult and requires adequate physical and technical training. Keep in mind that not only will you have to deal with altitude, but also with extreme weather and pulling sleds with food, gear and more. So, yes, OP is 100% correct that his gf should not expect to go as a matter of course, and she needs to get active in the hobby if she wants to join. It sounds like these aren't good trips for "learn as you go" and she should make an effort to learn the knowledge on much lower risk trips. He's right that separate interests are okay, and if she's worried that he's going to cheat on her then she needs to just say it out loud. If she is cool with him going mountaineering with guy friends then the only issue is jealousy.
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pentyne posted:first thing I can find when checking for Denali is this I don't know enough about the technical side to know what amount of training is necessary for either trips, it's just the whole vibe I get of not wanting to actually help her move forward so he can keep having trips with the friend.
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I understand how it's important and good to have separate interests that you can enjoy without your partner. However, I think it's a good idea to re-evaluate that if you're having to DEFEND that activity from your partner if they want to participate in that thing (or vice versa, something you wish to share). Just think hard and have a conversation about it, why this thing should be separate/shared. Or, like this knob, generate feelings of isolation, rejection, and jealousy. Dude, she said she wants to learn and you're not teaching her. Talk about failing the voight-kampff test e: lots of training. From gear familiarity, specific skills and mountaineering techniques, area knowledge, and just raw physical conditioning to take on a massively challenging adventure. Denali is no joke, that mountain kills people just like any other peak of its height.
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Cacator posted:r/relationships: This is the cum jar now! Also yeah it's fine and good to have separate interests but you don't get to gatekeep a shared interest. Obviously the solution is for girlfriend to seek hot mountaineering partners to go with her. Chef Boyardeez Nuts fucked around with this message at 22:16 on Aug 5, 2022 |
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It kinda sounds like he's way more into mountaineering than she would want to be if she's only come along a couple times. You have to be pretty hugely dedicated if you want to do the real poo poo like Denali or whatever, it's not really fair to tell the guy he can't go without her when there's not really any way to get that much experience in something she doesn't really share his passion for anyways. Could just be unreliable narrator trying to justify his side piece though.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for saying my GF cannot climb the mountain with us? Friend of mine just did this exact thing, Ranier into Denali, and has trained for several years on this. It's the highest peak in North America at 20,194 feet.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for saying my GF cannot climb the mountain with us? tell me you dont know anything about mountains without telling me you don't know anything about mountains
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Yeah, you don't learn by way of Denali prep. That's already assuming you know what the gently caress you're doing (hopefully). It'd be like taking a beginning biker to do the Tour de France.
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It's a hobby that involves him spending weeks and eventually months away from his partner. That could end a lot of relationships. The fact that she does seem interested in taking part and he's pushing her away makes me think that this relationship isn't going to survive even up to Denali, much less through it.
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This is like complaining when your partner with an aviation license doesn’t let you fly the plane too.
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house of the dad posted:This is like complaining when your partner with an aviation license doesn’t let you fly the plane too. He already admits that she'd climbed a few mountains with him and he just feels strong about separating his hobby from her, so it's more like complaining when your partner with a ILS license won't let you join a long trip because you only have a visible license because they've been actively refusing to let you join the ILS qualifiers with them.
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AngryRobotsInc posted:Yeah, you don't learn by way of Denali prep. That's already assuming you know what the gently caress you're doing (hopefully). It'd be like taking a beginning biker to do the Tour de France. Hmmmmm, yeah, “walk up” sounds hard to learn.
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Rescue Toaster posted:She says "I do have a decent amount of savings which I use to contribute to our household." which gave me the impression she was still contributing at the same rate she was before quitting. ie if she was paying 25-30% before, she still was while she wasn't working. I think old mate feels a moocher settling in and wants to nip that poo poo in the bud.
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Hmmmmm, yeah, “walk up” sounds hard to learn. Denali is the tallest mountain in North America and three people have already died this year trying to climb it.
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AITA for having an operation in the same week as my work colleague wedding causing my manager to cancel her time off?quote:I'm in my late 20s and work in a large retail chain. I have a work colleague "Candice" (22-23f) who is planning to get married later this month. Originally she was planning the wedding for 2020 however due to lockdowns etc it had to be postponed to 2022. She has booked 2 weeks off for her wedding and for her honeymoon nearly 2 years in advance and everything is paid for. Me and Candice work in the same store section (white goods).
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Acebuckeye13 posted:Denali is the tallest mountain in North America and three people have already died this year trying to climb it. Because they tried to "climb up" instead of "walk up", clearly.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:He already admits that she'd climbed a few mountains with him and he just feels strong about separating his hobby from her, so it's more like complaining when your partner with a ILS license won't let you join a long trip because you only have a visible license because they've been actively refusing to let you join the ILS qualifiers with them. Mt. Adams is one of the easiest mountains of its height to summit and can be done in a day. Denali is almost twice as high as Mt. Adams and climbing it is a three week expedition.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 23:41 |
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Yeah, if this was a different hobby I'd be like 'haha cheating cheaterson' but mountain climbing is legit super risky even for the trained and prepared a lot of the time. If climberdude and climbergal are already like, prepping and practicing for Denali then they don't really have the time to bring potentialclimbergirlfriend up to speed because it takes A Lot. Otherwise she ends up like that lady who just photoshopped herself in front of a mountain then went for Everest.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 23:44 |
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denali more like denial
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I know it was only a suggestion but I feel uncomfortable if the thread title was a joke / reference to sexual assault. So like. Count this as a vote again it, just throwing it out there.
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value-brand cereal posted:I know it was only a suggestion but I feel uncomfortable if the thread title was a joke / reference to sexual assault.
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Kitfox88 posted:Yeah, if this was a different hobby I'd be like 'haha cheating cheaterson' but mountain climbing is legit super risky even for the trained and prepared a lot of the time. If climberdude and climbergal are already like, prepping and practicing for Denali then they don't really have the time to bring potentialclimbergirlfriend up to speed because it takes A Lot. Otherwise she ends up like that lady who just photoshopped herself in front of a mountain then went for Everest. On the one hand this, on the other hand if your hobby is something that makes you burn most of your annual leave on being away from your partner then that relationship isn't credibly going to survive.
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value-brand cereal posted:I know it was only a suggestion but I feel uncomfortable if the thread title was a joke / reference to sexual assault. Agreed tbh
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Hughlander posted:AITA for having an operation in the same week as my work colleague wedding causing my manager to cancel her time off? Sounds like a job for working class solidarity, too bad none of these people have any idea what that is and are content to blame their lovely conditions on each other rather than their lovely bosses.
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 23:56 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for having an operation in the same week as my work colleague wedding causing my manager to cancel her time off?
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Cacator posted:r/relationships: This is the cum jar now!
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# ? Aug 5, 2022 23:58 |
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Acebuckeye13 posted:Denali is the tallest mountain in North America and three people have already died this year trying to climb it. Seems weird that people would be so bad at walking upwards. Should maybe have thought about another hobby.
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gay frog chemicals posted:Sounds like a job for working class solidarity, too bad none of these people have any idea what that is and are content to blame their lovely conditions on each other rather than their lovely bosses. Yeah it's funny no one ever talks poo poo to the actual person who cancelled their vacation.
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DrBouvenstein posted:Strap in, it's a doozy: As horrific as this story is, I couldn't help but laugh at quote:"This is the cum jar now!" I just know these words are going to randomly pop into my head at the most inopportune time as well.
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