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olylifter posted:AITA for refusing to let my husband pull 14k out of my account without signing a contract? quote:NTA, but I've got to know before I start spinning salacious suspicions of drug addiction, gambling problems, mafia involvement, fake job, secret second (or would it be fourth?) family and get accused of jumping to conclusions: OP posted:Hello! The reason for his divorce was due to infidelity. the second one ended due to several reasons including finances, age gap, dating period. He has 4 kids with his first wife and 2 with his second. We don't have any kids. quote:infidelity on his side? or his exes side? OP posted:Both. It's a long story. Basically he cheated on his first wife with his second wife. They got married in a hurry, had 2 kids then got separated. I met him when he was 38. Real loving winner there, OP. I can see why you just had to put a ring on that.
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# ? May 28, 2024 09:51 |
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Well fortunately the third time's the charm, as they say
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 02:59 |
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AITA for refusing to let my parents meet my baby?quote:Throw away. it was all in your head that we didn't show up to your wedding
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AITA for thinking it's fair that I get a larger portion of food than my sister?quote:My sister and I recently had an argument that got very heated about whether or not I deserve a larger serving size when we have dinner. *gasp* They can learn?!
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:10 |
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Acinonyx posted:I don't believe I have any friends that wouldn't have made fun of me needing a ride for a vasectomy, and that would have been fine/great depending on the quality of the jokes because I'm not a self-serious goober. Not every man is you. Some of us got to experience terrible childhood trauma, so I'm not going to poo poo on someone who's having ~~feelings~~ about their genitals being under the knife when and their partner fucks off after promising to be there. And yeah, I'm scheduled for a vasectomy next month - my doc prescribed Valium to take beforehand and I MUST have someone responsible to drive me home. Not optional.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:18 |
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The surgery isn't the point, the anasthetic is. You're supposed to have someone trustworthy drive you home after any anasthetic surgery, it doesn't matter what type it is. Most offices won't let you leave with an Uber or whatever.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:22 |
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Of the ten guys I’m close to that got vasectomies, I know one whose wife divorced him and his second wife wants a baby so he’s had an operation to get it reversed and is hoping it worked, one who got a surgical site infection that made his sack swell up to the size of a grapefruit, and one whose surgeon hosed up and left him impotent. I know the actual stats indicate a way lower rate of complications but I can’t fault anyone for being apprehensive about getting the surgery even if it is outpatient.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:27 |
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AITA for not wanting to sleep in bed with my fiancé who is an ironworker and hasn’t showered for two (or more) days?quote:So my fiancé is an ironworker, he gets very dirty. Often covered in dirt, oil, metal shavings, he sweats all day, his clothes are disgusting, his feet smell rancid. He works a lot of hours, so he will skip showers a lot. Tonight after work he went straight to his friends house for a few hours and just got home. When he got home I asked him if he was going to shower because it’s been at least two days. He got mad at me for asking this and insisted he will take one tomorrow. I say okay that’s fine, I’m going to sleep in my step daughters bed then. I’m not mad at him, I just don’t want to sleep next to him like that. Well, he is so mad and won’t talk to me directly but is muttering under his breath about me. Like sorry but I think if you can go hang out with your friends you can also take a shower? I'm gonna go out on a limb and say it's fine to be mad at oily metal shavings guy, perhaps something you should even consider doing
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:47 |
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well thank god he's not a sewer worker huh
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 04:56 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for not wanting to sleep in bed with my fiancé who is an ironworker and hasn’t showered for two (or more) days? There has to be some kind of OSHA regulation about loving showering every X hours when doing the kind of work that covers you with loving metal shavings.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 05:00 |
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i'd love to have that guy over for a couple hours just opening all the windows and calling the county to dispose of the couch after he leaves
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therobit posted:Of the ten guys I’m close to that got vasectomies, I know one whose wife divorced him and his second wife wants a baby so he’s had an operation to get it reversed and is hoping it worked, one who got a surgical site infection that made his sack swell up to the size of a grapefruit, and one whose surgeon hosed up and left him impotent. I know the actual stats indicate a way lower rate of complications but I can’t fault anyone for being apprehensive about getting the surgery even if it is outpatient. Either you're close to a lot of people or a weirdly disproportionate number of people you are close to are males who have had vasectomies
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 05:13 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for comforting my ex There's stepping on a rake. Then there's walking out to the shed, finding the rake, dragging it out from the back where it's been collecting dust, going into the yard, getting a really good wind-up and intentionally belting yourself with it hard enough to concuss
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Vim Fuego posted:There's stepping on a rake. Then there's walking out to the shed, finding the rake, dragging it out from the back where it's been collecting dust, going into the yard, getting a really good wind-up and intentionally belting yourself with it hard enough to concuss Ah I see you too have been reading QCS
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AITA for not eating his beans?quote:My boyfriend made tacos for dinner and I was very excited to eat them together since I had been working all day. He then presents the taco to me and says “I put my blood, sweat, and tears into this. Literally.” And then laughed. I said “blood?” And he showed me a cut on his finger he said he got while chopping onions. “A few drops of blood got into the beans,” he said “but it’s okay. The beans were very hot so I know no bacteria survived.”
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 05:50 |
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Mr. Lobe posted:Either you're close to a lot of people or a weirdly disproportionate number of people you are close to are males who have had vasectomies I can think of 3 friends who've had one off the top of my head and that's with me never having once asked about it. I think its just an old person thing
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for not eating his beans? The fool jeopardized the beans
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Captain Hygiene posted:Ah I see you too have been reading QCS Looks like those clowns at QCS did it again! What a bunch of clowns.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Looks like those clowns at QCS did it again! What a bunch of clowns. They don't call'em "Quality Clown Services" for nothing!
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for trying to make my kids nanny less fun? Mary Poppins remake sad af
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for telling my friend his sons aren’t good enough quote:So, here’s where I may be the AH. Towards the end of the party, he said (in front of 2 of my girls and 2 of his sons), good thing you made my boys a bunch of girls, maybe they’ll get married someday and carry on the [John’s last name] name! My response was less than stellar: well, your sons aren’t really good enough for my girls (I’ve since looked up comebacks online and wish I went with something better, like if I wanted to hear from an AH, I’d fart). I said it straight face, and he just said guess your sensitive like your girls and walked away. This is from a ways back, but that just slayed me. I love the guy apparently found a transcribed copy of "Clever Comebacks for Cool Cats", circa 1968. He was even willing to go all the way by picking one from the "Delightfully Dirty" chapter. He should totally engineer the same situation happening again, ala George and the idiot store comeback, so he can deliver this bon mot of the ages and totally destroy his friend. For real though, maybe delivering the original comeback was a bit weird to do in front of the sons, even if it did correctly put the dad in his place.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 08:33 |
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lol I missed where he said it in front of the guy's sons, that's some high-grade collateral ownage
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 09:34 |
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With any luck it will help his kids realize their dad is a chode and they shouldn't listen to his sexist bullshit.
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AITA for leaving after I found out my SIL was lying about her food allergy?quote:I, (F18), turned 18 in early August.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for not wanting to sleep in bed with my fiancé who is an ironworker and hasn’t showered for two (or more) days? Enough time to drive to someone's house and spend several hours drinking, but not enough time to shower. For two days. Not just an rear end in a top hat, he's a stinky rear end in a top hat.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 10:53 |
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What's wrong with these loving idiots who refuse to clean themselves and act all hurt and offended when called on it?? Just take a shower!!!
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 11:51 |
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Biplane posted:What's wrong with these loving idiots who refuse to clean themselves and act all hurt and offended when called on it?? Just take a shower!!! Its cheaper than buying cologne
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 11:54 |
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I wouldn't let that man in my house at all. Grossteen witch posted:It came from r/legaladvice Processing a return... at a convenience store? What?
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Credulous Skeptic posted:Not every man is you. Some of us got to experience terrible childhood trauma, so I'm not going to poo poo on someone who's having ~~feelings~~ about their genitals being under the knife when and their partner fucks off after promising to be there. You're not wrong about being allowed strong feelings about a procedure like this. But she didn't promise to be there or even offer to be there. He scheduled a date that suited him and assumed she would be moving heaven and earth to drive him. Apparently she didn't even respond or refer later to his text about the time or date. They both seem very self centered.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 12:55 |
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rekko posted:I wouldn't let that man in my house at all. Gross This person provides an extremely muddled account of a confusing thing, so I'm sure it'll turn out when they say convenience store they mean any store that is convenient for them, personally, to access.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 12:57 |
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olylifter posted:AITA for refusing to let my husband pull 14k out of my account without signing a contract? quote:"*UPDATE Hi. So we've talked after he got home and when I tried pressing him to tell me what he needs the money for, he gave the same attitude and said "I don't have to worry about it". I still stood by the condition I made and he called me "loving useless" then stormed off to spend the night with/at God knows who!." There's a fair amount more in the comments, he's really a garbage dumpster fire. edit: beaten like a Victorian chimney sweep Pigsfeet on Rye fucked around with this message at 13:29 on Sep 10, 2022 |
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Biplane posted:What's wrong with these loving idiots who refuse to clean themselves and act all hurt and offended when called on it?? Just take a shower!!! I never understand people with an aversion to showering. I'll take a shower when I'm clean but just feeling a bit down, because a nice hot shower feel great.
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quote:I am concerned. However, when I bring up my concerns he'd tell me to stay out of it as long as it doesn't affect ne. This was his default answer before he asked for the money I think giving him 14 thousand dollars affects you. And, staying out of it would mean not giving him money.
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torgo posted:This is from a ways back, but that just slayed me. I love the guy apparently found a transcribed copy of "Clever Comebacks for Cool Cats", circa 1968. He was even willing to go all the way by picking one from the "Delightfully Dirty" chapter. He should totally engineer the same situation happening again, ala George and the idiot store comeback, so he can deliver this bon mot of the ages and totally destroy his friend. I don't understand hanging out with this guy at all, LET ALONE bringing your daughter squad over to hang with with him. Like there's garden variety sexist, which is bad enough, but this guy is on another level. Might as well bring your mixed race children over to your old friend, the Grand Wizard's place.
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 13:58 |
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Spalec posted:I never understand people with an aversion to showering. I'll take a shower when I'm clean but just feeling a bit down, because a nice hot shower feel great. It's loving stupid and I really fuckin wish my apartment owners would stop loving doing it.
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Spalec posted:I never understand people with an aversion to showering. I don't like being hit by things, even water droplets. Baths embrace you, showers assault you.
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olylifter posted:AITA for refusing to let my husband pull 14k out of my account without signing a contract? Almost certainly crypto, could maybe be stripper/sugar baby, charitably someone's sick and he's trying to protect their privacy. But it's crypto.
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Not an option everywhere. Say, for example, apartments where every buildings water usage is pooled together and then split evenly between all the residents to pay each month, so Frederick Four-Showers A Day better have a drat better reason for driving everyone's bill up than "I was feeling a little blue". What the gently caress
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# ? Sep 10, 2022 14:33 |
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gently caress I know I reek after I work so I need a shower when I get home, and sometimes I take another before bed if I get nasty cleaning the house or animal stuff. But quick showers, under 5 minutes. Anyone else remember the AITA poster who took like 3 hour showers? HOW? What the gently caress do you do for more than 20 minutes without getting bored as fuckall? AITA for donating college merchandise to homeless people? quote:I go to a quite prestigious international school, one of the best ranked schools in the entire world. Its so prestigious that every year we have a university fair were about 150 universities from around the world fly representatives to have booths to advertise their universities at our school, it lasts from thursday to sunday. The 3 universities I want to go to don't have their reps here. I went around, so did my friends and we collected all the free shirts, hoodies and other stuff. We altogether gathered around 30 shirts and hoodies. Got 4 backpacks as well.
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They started it right in the middle of the goddamn summer, too! Sure hope you can handle being sweaty because cold showers to beat the heat just got put on the "expensive treat" list!
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