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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for refusing to remove my Prostheticfor my Boyfriend? This dude obviously has an amputee fetish. The big question though is it only a sex thing or would he get off on her not being able to move well without so he can control her. The first one might be what she needs if other men have left her because her injury but the second one is a scary red flag. Either way dating with a serious and obvious injury adds extra levels to the horror that is dating.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA For calling my brother pathetic and comparing him to our own deadbeat father? YTA
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limp_cheese posted:This dude obviously has an amputee fetish. The big question though is it only a sex thing or would he get off on her not being able to move well without so he can control her. I knew a lady who was blind, and the stories she would tell about various creepers who really enjoyed the fact she couldn't see what they were doing, let alone the dudes who offered to help her when they saw her walking around and would cop a feel, as a whole new horror to being sightless.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for refusing to remove my Prosthetic for my Boyfriend? Dude is obviously an amputee fetishist and she should kick him to the curb with whichever foot will do more damage.
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Oct 20, 2022 16:00
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it remains very very strange to me what counts as "obvious" to longterm readers of this thread
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AITA for air drying potsquote:AITA for air drying pots/pans? Posting mainly because I had no idea there were people with strong negative opinions about air drying dishes, but based on the thread's past discussions about dishwashers vs hand washing it's possible I will immediately be proven wrong.
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Oct 20, 2022 16:15
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limp_cheese posted:This dude obviously has an amputee fetish. The big question though is it only a sex thing or would he get off on her not being able to move well without so he can control her. I think she would be happier with a normal guy and not an amputee fetish-haver at all.
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Oct 20, 2022 16:16
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What is the point of a dish rack if not to air dry dishes???
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Oct 20, 2022 16:17
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The dishwasher washes the dishes. They stay on the rack until they are air-dry (unless it's winter and cold enough to justify using the heat dryer). Then they go into the cabinets.
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Oct 20, 2022 16:19
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I don't like a bunch of poo poo laying around either
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:AITA for air drying pots I think there are some people who feel like having a dish strainer or drying pots around is too cluttery or it offends their sense of order. I think they are wrong as long as the pots get put away once they are dry and there is room in the strainer, but I think having them out on the countertop is a little much and I’d worry about the water dripping on the countertop instead of the drip pan on the strainer or into the sink. I have always felt air drying gets them dryer than a towel.
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Cowslips Warren posted:
laughing, imagining a similar scenario of someone trying to get their partner to stop wearing their glasses or to remove their cochlear implant with the same limp requests like "oh you'll feel so much more comfortable without being able to see" and "if you don't take out your ability to hear, then you plain dont trust me babe"
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Oct 20, 2022 16:25
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Yeah I suppose if she's putting them behind the sink with no drainage they could cause some minor water damage, that would potentially annoy me, although not to the point of throwing a pan in the yard. Just get a dish rack though, they're like $20. Mine slopes a little so the extra water drains into the sink, it rules.
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Oct 20, 2022 16:27
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Air drying uncoated steel pans is a bad idea because it makes them rust faster. But glass/ceramic pots are fine. That said, yes it's clutter.
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I guess, but it's such a temporary/clean clutter that I find it hard to be offended by. Pretty much like having clothes out on the line.
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Oct 20, 2022 17:26
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It depends how much space you've got, if you're air drying stuff in a small kitchen without a ton of counter space then you're an rear end in a top hat, if it's a big space then it's not a big deal.
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Oct 20, 2022 17:31
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:AITA for air drying pots AITA for using a portable battery-powered fan pointed at the rack to dry my dishes Yes, I really do this. It gets them dry quickest and with least effort. I also sometimes point a fan at my clothes drying rack.
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For some reason her description led me to believe she was propping up the pots and pans so that the interior faced the sink, something I absolutely hate when someone is going to continue using the sink normally while they're there. Splatter happens and then it isn't clean anymore! But if they're facedown in a dish rack or on a towel then the only problem I can see is if counter space is at a premium.
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Inexplicable Humblebrag posted:it remains very very strange to me what counts as "obvious" to longterm readers of this thread I had a good friend in college who was born missing part of her arm. Poor girl spent her life getting creeped on by amputee fetishists, starting well before she graduated high school. Behavior in that post tracks with some of her stories.
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Oct 20, 2022 17:45
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Better than when I was a kid, all washed dishes were piled up unrinsed in the second sink and left to dry indefinitely. Sometimes they got put away, but very often we had to dig.
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Soylent Pudding posted:I had a good friend in college who was born missing part of her arm. Poor girl spent her life getting creeped on by amputee fetishists, starting well before she graduated high school. Behavior in that post tracks with some of her stories. I'll never not believe when a woman has some kind of physical or visible 'issue' there isn't a dedicated community of creepy weirdos that have been chatting them up over it their entire lives. Like female little people, aside from a whole host of issues in general must get some truly loving bizarre dudes hitting on them.
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pentyne posted:I'll never not believe when a woman has some kind of physical or visible 'issue' there isn't a dedicated community of creepy weirdos that have been chatting them up over it their entire lives. I’m fat and it’s literally anything that deviates from generic white girl turns into weird fetishizing communities that know little of social tact. Hell, even loving redheads get it! Starting to think we look at sexuality and desire all hosed as humans! Better shame and repress it down
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Born to gently caress, world is a gently caress
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Soylent Pudding posted:I had a good friend in college who was born missing part of her arm. Poor girl spent her life getting creeped on by amputee fetishists, starting well before she graduated high school. Behavior in that post tracks with some of her stories. My wife has an ostomy now due to cancer and there is a shocking amount of super creepy posts on the ostomy support forum on Reddit. It's very gross
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B-Rock452 posted:My wife has an ostomy now due to cancer and there is a shocking amount of super creepy posts on the ostomy support forum on Reddit. It's very gross I’m not surprised by this, but I am horrified.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for refusing to remove my Prostheticfor my Boyfriend? What's a prostheticfor?
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Nebrilos posted:What's a prostheticfor? missinglimbs
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Nebrilos posted:What's a prostheticfor? Not much, what's prostheticfor with you?
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Nebrilos posted:What's a prostheticfor? hiding the goods, apparently
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therobit posted:How often do you think the stepdad wants to look into man child’s room, and how often do you think man child’s waifu gets washed? Because I am willing to bet that “very rarely” is the answer to both. And it is always OK to throw out weird gross anime sex poo poo. Automatic moral high ground. Stepdad is probably just mad he had to thwack the pillowcase against the washing machine a few times before it broke up enough to fit in the washing machine.
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RocketMermaid posted:Stepdad is probably just mad he had to thwack the pillowcase against the washing machine a few times before it broke up enough to fit in the washing machine. and being so worn down and used it probably would make a great rag.i know ive always got my eyes peeled for worn and damaged garments. its also a way to give the fabric its confidence back. "hey, youre a lousy shirt, but trust me, youll make a great rag!" i notice them perk up immediately after a pep talk.
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I think someone else might have noticed this, but there's no dish rack, OP is presumably washing dishes and setting them next to the sink to 'dry'. Everywhere I've lived, that's where dirty dishes go. So people who live with them are getting rightfully pissed that they can't be sure what's clean or dirty. Also if you wash something that can't properly drain, it ain't gonna dry very quickly, because you've got a ton more water sitting in there. Verdict: Death by guillotine.
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Don’t a lot of people put pots and pans on the stove to dry? Big flat surface. Better be clean.
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Hughlander posted:Don’t a lot of people put pots and pans on the stove to dry? Big flat surface. Better be clean. I usually clean the stovetop first just so I can put big pots on it to dry
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Cowslips Warren posted:
He wants to imagine her in an rear end-kicking contest
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erosion posted:I think someone else might have noticed this, but there's no dish rack, OP is presumably washing dishes and setting them next to the sink to 'dry'. Everywhere I've lived, that's where dirty dishes go. So people who live with them are getting rightfully pissed that they can't be sure what's clean or dirty. Also if you wash something that can't properly drain, it ain't gonna dry very quickly, because you've got a ton more water sitting in there. get some loving order in your life my cousin. if it's on the left side of the sink it's dirty if it's on the right side of the sink it's clean voila fuckin presto
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erosion posted:I think someone else might have noticed this, but there's no dish rack, OP is presumably washing dishes and setting them next to the sink to 'dry'. Everywhere I've lived, that's where dirty dishes go. So people who live with them are getting rightfully pissed that they can't be sure what's clean or dirty. Also if you wash something that can't properly drain, it ain't gonna dry very quickly, because you've got a ton more water sitting in there. Guillotine for someone too poor to buy a dish rack? Is that not a little anti-revolutionary?
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I'm beginning to think tea towels are an Australian thing from all the air drying dishes in this thread. Or are you legally restricted to one per household in other countries, and you're trying to maintain minimal dampness?
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Elissimpark posted:I'm beginning to think tea towels are an Australian thing from all the air drying dishes in this thread. Nah, dish towels are plenty common as far as I know. The towel + dish drainer combo seems like the best option for handwashing, I don't know why everyone's silent on this.
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seems like the towel would get soaked p quick 'cuz my hands are all wet too. idk, the rack seems to do fine on its own 
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