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Viginti, I hate this for you. You deserve better. I've been through similar stuff, many times, and let me tell you, even if poo poo doesn't get better, you can still get better at coping and accepting and handling. I know how it feels to have help not come. One thing I'm learning is that sometimes people need to be given explicit instructions on how to help. Figuring out what to ask for can help others to help you. I'm working my courage up to ask family for money for private health care. Money is not the kind of help I want, but I know it's something they'll understand how to give. I hope you get some respite from the crap you're going through. Take a break, gather your energy, and when you're ready keep fighting. You deserve better. |
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today the weather report says "partly sunny" and that is also an accurate description of my mood
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I finally bit the danged bullet and bought tickets to go back to the US in April. Wasn't cheap but I have the money and it'll have been four years. Prices are nuts. Like 4 of the six options for flights from Osaka involved arriving in Haneda and transferring to Narita, which is nearly two hours by train. No cheaper though. I'm comin', baby! |
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Escape From Noise posted:I finally bit the danged bullet and bought tickets to go back to the US in April. Wasn't cheap but I have the money and it'll have been four years. Prices are nuts. Like 4 of the six options for flights from Osaka involved arriving in Haneda and transferring to Narita, which is nearly two hours by train. No cheaper though. OKAY SO WHEN DO I SHOW UP WITH SANDWICHES AND WEED
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Escape From Noise posted:I finally bit the danged bullet and bought tickets to go back to the US in April. Wasn't cheap but I have the money and it'll have been four years. Prices are nuts. Like 4 of the six options for flights from Osaka involved arriving in Haneda and transferring to Narita, which is nearly two hours by train. No cheaper though. where are you gonna be?
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so i am trying to make my house ready to sell and part of that is taking all the things i own that are too indicative of the human who lives there, trying to provide a blank slate to the people viewing the place. ANYWAYS i have two (2) coonskin caps. like real fur ones. why do i have two of them? one fits slightly better so it is possible i bought the first and found it a bit tight and got a larger one but what the hell i have no memory of this whatsoever. two?
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Heather Papps posted:ANYWAYS i have two (2) coonskin caps. like real fur ones. why do i have two of them? one fits slightly better so it is possible i bought the first and found it a bit tight and got a larger one but what the hell i have no memory of this whatsoever. Sounds like one of them would be a gift you were nice enough not to refuse or to give it away at the time.
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Two heads are better than one, and you are prepared for best case scenario. If someone shows up wearing a coonskin hat, there's a distinct chance of divilment, but two people in coonskin hats?! That's when you know you've got rascals on your hands. |
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would also work if there's someone with enormous balls that are suffering from the cold. just stick a hat on each, and bam, snug balls
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Mods can you goldmine this , tia
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This feels like the longest week ever honestly. I just want it to be the weekend and its freakign Thursday am ;_;
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Chewbecca posted:This feels like the longest week ever honestly. I just want it to be the weekend and its freakign Thursday am ;_; it's 4:20 on a wednesday here
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Dr. Honked posted:it's 4:20 on a wednesday here At least 4.20 is the  number 
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i keep forgetting people in other timezones exist. it's 2:32 on a wednesday here. "What I wouldn't give to return to those halcyon days." |
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Dec 7, 2022 21:32
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barclayed posted:i keep forgetting people in other timezones exist. ..........lol
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Chewbecca posted:loling, but grimly 'grimly' just makes me think of like, an evil disney villain laughing as their once-dormant plans come to fruition. are you a disney villain chewbecca "What I wouldn't give to return to those halcyon days." |
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barclayed posted:'grimly' just makes me think of like, an evil disney villain laughing as their once-dormant plans come to fruition. are you a disney villain chewbecca i can not wait to hear the song about being ceo of the dumb bitch factory
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Heather Papps posted:i can not wait to hear the song about being ceo of the dumb bitch factory is this a reference to the lorax because if so there is a deleted song from that movie called Biggering that they cut because it was too scathing (was supposed to be in place of How Bad Can I Be?) anyways i swear i'm normal barclayed fucked around with this message at 21:46 on Dec 7, 2022 "What I wouldn't give to return to those halcyon days." |
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Dec 7, 2022 21:41
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... yes. no it is a referance to chewbs job or hobby i'm not really sure. it's a self claimed title i would never deign to insult a yobber so. also if you are normal it's "byob normal" which in all honesty is very abnormal.
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barclayed posted:anyways i swear i'm normal Inscribe these words on my grave.
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Saoshyant posted:Inscribe these words on my grave. o7 will do "What I wouldn't give to return to those halcyon days." |
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rear end-penny posted:barclayed, when should I write you back? you can go ahead and start sending stuff, new address is on the list won't be able to reply until i get moved in late next week |
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remember friends, normal does not exist it is a lie to make us feel bad
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we need to throw off the shackles of Big Normal
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rear end-penny posted:in tangently related news, a local comrade just sent me some stickies i need the women sticker to put up on every advertisement i see
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barclayed posted:'grimly' just makes me think of like, an evil disney villain laughing as their once-dormant plans come to fruition. are you a disney villain chewbecca I can be ur angle or ur devil 
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Heather Papps posted:i need the women sticker to put up on every advertisement i see for real. also how does the word number get abbreviated "no."? There isn't even an o in it. |
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Is there such a thing as imposter syndrome for parents? Because my son turns 14 next week and I still have no clue what I'm doing. |
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hello friends sudden change is coming towards me once again and it's going to be a wild ride maybe I dunno but trashed crew here I come
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Grinches are Glowing posted:hello friends sudden change is coming towards me once again and it's going to be a wild ride maybe I dunno but trashed crew here I come gonna think real hard about stable things while pointed to germany. rocks. my dad. concrete. etc. Walla posted:Is there such a thing as imposter syndrome for parents? Because my son turns 14 next week and I still have no clue what I'm doing. the neat thing about imposter syndrome is it means you care enough to want to do a good job.
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i just ate an apple fritter and hot dang it was delicious
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Heather Papps posted:gonna think real hard about stable things while pointed to germany. rocks. my dad. concrete. etc. There is that. |
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Walla posted:Is there such a thing as imposter syndrome for parents? Because my son turns 14 next week and I still have no clue what I'm doing. As a kid we saw adults mostly having their poo poo together and seemingly knowing what they are doing at every turn. As adults we learn the actual truth: none of us know the hell we are doing and just wing it through life. If a kid thinks otherwise is because a parent worked hard to create an illusion of stability and safety. So, yeah, worrying about that means you are likely trying to do the right thing most if not all the time. That's good! Carry on.
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also there are some grandparents in the yob there may be advice? i do not have offspring but i have lots of opinions about how to raise kids that can be discarded as useless. try more... spices?
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