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Shiroc posted:Lol girl shes super into you.
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Shiroc posted:Lol girl shes super into you. gently caress, and i even toned down a lot of the details this could be good, i really like her, it's just unexpected? she's a cool urban lesbian Xena-loving stoner and i'm a clocky older trans woman who does farm stuff and also stoner
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May 27, 2023 07:26
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how do i not gently caress this up
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May 27, 2023 07:27
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Gravid Topiary posted:how do i not gently caress this up be honest, direct about your needs, wants and desires, and trust her to be interested in making it work the same as you and sacrifice a goat to satan before every time you hang out
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May 27, 2023 07:40
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Gravid Topiary posted:how do i not gently caress this up she likes you so you can just keep doing what you're doing and say things like "wanna hold hands?" or "can I kiss you" if you want to do those things and see where it goes. It might not work and that's fine but congratulations A Girl Likes You and you can carry that forward with her and others in the future
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May 27, 2023 07:47
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Gravid Topiary posted:how do i not gently caress this up she likes you. be yourself. talk to her and express yourself.
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May 27, 2023 08:08
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tokin opposition posted:be honest, direct about your needs, wants and desires, and trust her to be interested in making it work the same as you and sacrifice a goat to satan before every time you hang out Shiroc posted:she likes you so you can just keep doing what you're doing and say things like "wanna hold hands?" or "can I kiss you" if you want to do those things and see where it goes. It might not work and that's fine but congratulations A Girl Likes You and you can carry that forward with her and others in the future  okay that's a great way to frame iti might ask her if she wants to watch Xena with me when i'm at her place, she's wildly into xena and goes to xena lesbian retreats and stuff. would that be too much? i've never seen much of the show also i texted her yesterday and she never replied so i'm assuming the worst, because i am a chump
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Gravid Topiary posted:i might ask her if she wants to watch Xena with me when i'm at her place, she's wildly into xena and goes to xena lesbian retreats and stuff. would that be too much? i've never seen much of the show Watching Xena with her would be excellent because it would an opportunity for her to share something she's passionate about with you. Again, just be honest that you haven't seen much of it. And be honest if you aren't into it either, just not in a dickish way. Lying about being into it just to make her happy would be a bad foundation to the relationship. And if she starts feeling you up, loving take that for the signal it is.
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May 27, 2023 08:36
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Gravid Topiary posted:also i texted her yesterday and she never replied so i'm assuming the worst, because i am a chump poo poo happens, so don't but also hurry up with the goat. black hood, obsidian knife
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May 27, 2023 14:12
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Gravid Topiary posted:she gave me her phone # after we were hanging around the campfire until 2am talking buffy vs angel and i kind of forgot about it until two days later when she contacted me by getting my # through my cousin, and she texted me to remind me again that i had an open invitation to crash at her place any time, and after txting back and forth about our feelings vis-a-vis the best spice girl (Mel C) she texted that i was the most amazing person she'd ever met, and i'm not used to people saying things like that about me (as i am a goon) this is heartwarming but i regret to inform you that buffy was better if u watched it in highschool and angel was better if u watched it after graduating & before getting your poo poo together
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Gravid Topiary posted:she gave me her phone # after we were hanging around the campfire until 2am talking buffy vs angel and i kind of forgot about it until two days later when she contacted me by getting my # through my cousin, and she texted me to remind me again that i had an open invitation to crash at her place any time, and after txting back and forth about our feelings vis-a-vis the best spice girl (Mel C) she texted that i was the most amazing person she'd ever met, and i'm not used to people saying things like that about me (as i am a goon) this sounds like romantic interest great job
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lobster shirt posted:this sounds like romantic interest great job this
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blatman posted:just watch to see how much their pupils dilate when u make eye contact like a normal person Do normies actually do this??
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War and Pieces posted:Do normies actually do this?? no i stole it from 7of9 when she was trying to bone down with perma ensign harry kim
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May 27, 2023 14:44
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"captain can i get a promotion so my career isn't permanently hosed once we get back to the alpha quadrant?" "no and also i'm going to treat u like a literal child and officially reprimand u if you get any alien strange during this voyage"
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May 27, 2023 14:46
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tokin opposition posted:How did you realize you were a part of the community I saw my friend with his shirt off and it made me feel a way. But in a good way. Idk. I'm pansexual but in a very hetero cis presenting relationship. It feels like cheating. And I feel like I'm invading queer spaces when I show up with my wife.
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May 27, 2023 15:58
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Zurtilik posted:I saw my friend with his shirt off and it made me feel a way. But in a good way. as a bisexual i feel like im invading queer spaces when i show up with or without my wife
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May 27, 2023 16:02
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As a straight-passing, muscular cis white male gay, I feel welcomed and accepted everywhere!
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thank u all for the advice everyone, this is a wildly new world to me and i'm still recalibrating my mentals. she replied back today and we're chattin' so  1stGear posted:Watching Xena with her would be excellent because it would an opportunity for her to share something she's passionate about with you. Again, just be honest that you haven't seen much of it. And be honest if you aren't into it either, just not in a dickish way. Lying about being into it just to make her happy would be a bad foundation to the relationship.
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Gravid Topiary posted:thank u all for the advice everyone, this is a wildly new world to me and i'm still recalibrating my mentals. she replied back today and we're chattin' so Yeah the recalibration is a lot. Things get easier in a lot of ways because you can start breaking those blocks of feeling like you can't or shouldn't engage with certain things because your brain is telling you something is off. Thanks to tactless friends, I also know that people will start interpreting things you do differently. Ways that come off as really odd for a 'cishet guy' to act will suddenly make sense in their mental models so they're more at ease with you.
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yea im a straight cis guy and ive got one long term male friend, dont really enjoy hanging out with men, and have always had a bunch of women friends so what
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Wheeee posted:yea im a straight cis guy and ive got one long term male friend, dont really enjoy hanging out with men, and have always had a bunch of women friends so what T-minus 3 days to transition
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Gravid Topiary posted:i wanna watch Xena! its dumb but back in the day i would get the vibe that "this show is for lesbians only" and i got all neurotic that i shouldn't be watching it because people would think i was watching it for pervy cis dude purposes :/ xena had a lot of young girls and boys thinking "I hope this is the episode where they kiss" it's an extremely formative show for millennial sexuality
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May 28, 2023 03:34
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Hell yeah Xena is camp as poo poo and it owns
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They nearly did another season of Xena a few years back and according to Lucy Lawless it was going to be gay as all hell and I'm sorry that it didn't get picked up.
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Hercules also had a lot of young girls and boys hoping this was the episode where they kiss, but unlike Xena it's now tainted by its lead being a chud.
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1stGear posted:Hercules also had a lot of young girls and boys hoping this was the episode where they kiss, but unlike Xena it's now tainted by its lead being a chud. Sorbo wasn't as bad before he got brain damage.
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Shiroc posted:Ways that come off as really odd for a 'cishet guy' to act will suddenly make sense in their mental models so they're more at ease with you.  1stGear posted:xena had a lot of young girls and boys thinking "I hope this is the episode where they kiss" it's an extremely formative show for millennial sexuality 
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Gravid Topiary posted:today i started suavely texting her and talking about gardening and fanfics, and i talked about me not knowing anything about Xena and needing some education, and hoorah she's excited to watch them with me! Smoother than Lando Calrissian in a ruffled silk shirt.
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as a bisexual i will be celebrating pride month the only way i know how: by being annoying and having obnoxious fashion sense
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Happy pride month, to the C-SPAM LGBTQQIP2SAA thread.
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Feels Villeneuve posted:Happy pride month, to the C-SPAM LGBTQQIP2SAA thread.
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[deep sigh, pulling the ON lever on the "kink at pride discourse" machine]
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actually with all the hosed up laws this year does this mean kink at pride is illegal in like tennessee and florida
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Al! posted:actually with all the hosed up laws this year does this mean kink at pride is illegal in like tennessee and florida I guess we will see!
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Al! posted:actually with all the hosed up laws this year does this mean kink at pride is illegal in like tennessee and florida Unless you're the Tennessee Lt. Gov. Then ogling hot twinks is fine but nothing else.
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I don't think it's that important for people to be able to buy stupid looking twee rainbow poo poo at Target. That is my opinion as a gay with some fashion sense.
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