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olylifter posted:WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to go back to living with them? just enjoy your new cool montanta family imo
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ApplesandOranges posted:I'm (M29) in love with my FWB married friends, (M32) and (M30) and I don't know what to do. Please help. seriously though, is there any realistic chance the married friends haven't realized that the OP is head-over-heels with them yet
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 18:45 |
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Oh, they absolutely know, yeah. Hope he can get on his feet so they can have the badly needed conversation without the whole power imbalance hanging overhead.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 18:57 |
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olylifter posted:WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to go back to living with them? I really hope this gets a positive update.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:04 |
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Beachcomber posted:I really hope this gets a positive update. at worst, OP has to go live with a couple of strangers for a few months until her 18th birthday
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:14 |
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olylifter posted:WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to go back to living with them? Reading the OP's comments about the parents sending a lot of postcards from quote, "Asian countries, Middle-Eastern countries, South-American countries, etc", I'm starting to agree with the Redditors who are thinking that the parents didn't go on a global gallivant, but were waiting for the statute of limitations on something to expire. ? Maybe, but it's kind of making sense to me.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:16 |
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olylifter posted:WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to go back to living with them? For some reason this reads like one of those AITAs that's a thin re-telling of some fictional setting. You know, "my kooky uncle has an heirloom ring from the war" and it's about Bilbo Baggins, or "I kissed a girl who turned out to be my long-lost sister" and it's Star Wars. Anyone got any ideas what would fit this one?
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CommissarMega posted:Reading the OP's comments about the parents sending a lot of postcards from quote, "Asian countries, Middle-Eastern countries, South-American countries, etc", I'm starting to agree with the Redditors who are thinking that the parents didn't go on a global gallivant, but were waiting for the statute of limitations on something to expire. ? Maybe, but it's kind of making sense to me. google returned this result for "crimes with a 7 year statute of limitations illinois": https://www.findlaw.com/state/illinois-law/illinois-criminal-statute-of-limitations-laws.html quote:Theft of property exceeding $100,000 in value: 7 years from the last act committed in furtherance of the crime.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:25 |
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Could be, one of the first hits that comes up for 7 year statute of limitations is "major fraud" - so maybe some kind of financial crime? Not sure exactly how that'd work but if the parents really WERE traveling, it could explain why there was no mention of work/jobs or money trouble. If that's what happened I can't wait for an update on the situation, I hope the legal system fucks them over for both the fraud & child abandonment.
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olylifter posted:WIBTA if I told my parents I don't want to go back to living with them? Word up to Pete and May. They seem awesome.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:27 |
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Nurglings posted:Make eggplant parmesan and tell him it's chicken
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ApplesandOranges posted:I'm (M29) in love with my FWB married friends, (M32) and (M30) and I don't know what to do. Please help. The power dynamic is the real issue but once this dude is in a better position I think this could be really sweet
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Edit got confused
Khanstant fucked around with this message at 19:58 on Jul 17, 2023 |
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:55 |
AITA for ditching my girlfriend at a 5k because I wanted a better time?quote:My girlfriend [31f] and I [36m] have been together for about two years now. We live together.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 19:57 |
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Clocks posted:AITA for ditching my girlfriend at a 5k because I wanted a better time? it appears to me that the relationship *puts sunglasses on* has run it's course *YEAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH*
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 20:06 |
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Fasdar posted:It is fascinating how poverty creates both picky eaters who can only physically tolerate tendies and boxed potatoes as well as people who feel deeply guilty for not eating every single thing ever put in front of them. Or they have legit sensory processing issues, which is both a different situation and also has a survivorship bias that selects for “enough $$$ and opportunity to get diagnosed + treated”
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Captain Hygiene posted:
Pope Corky the IX posted:Temporary guardianship FMguru posted:Hey! She wasn't abandoned, they sent her postcards and stuff from time to time, sometimes even a phone call! RC Cola posted:just enjoy your new cool montanta family imo I checked the comments, and a lot of people are suggesting that the parents may have been waiting out the statute of limitations on something, because they were gone for exactly 7 years, kept bouncing from country to country every couple of weeks, and somehow never went to a single European country during the whole seven years they were gone. Commenters are also pointing out that OP is almost 18, so her bio parents can go kick rocks because no judge is going to change her guardianship at this point.
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This is new and exciting information.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 20:15 |
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AmiYumi posted:Maybe , but that’s because it doesn’t? Children without the means to pout until they get tendies grow out of it, it’s only the ones whose parents have the time and money to cater to a Little Hitler that grow up to be awful adult babies.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Wait, isn't there an anime thing where women with gargantuan breasts shoot blood out of their nipples when they get excited? Sort of like how a nosebleed means they're horny? It's milk, they milkgasm, I have been inflicted with too many images of this nonsense.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 20:23 |
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InediblePenguin posted:No, a thing that definitely happens is, like, working parents. Dinner growing up is almost always tendies and fries thrown into the oven when Mom gets home from work, because that can cook while Mom is in the shower and the kids will definitely eat it. Lack of exposure to other foods plus the knowledge that if you try something and don't like it you'll have to eat it already or you're wasting the food and the money it represents = ordering tendies and fries (or, in my dad's case, a grilled cheese sandwich) everywhere due to a fear so deep you're not consciously aware of it This was one of my cousins. Growing up, it was always frozen/instant stuff or restaurant food for him. He would come over on holidays where we had a small mountain of delicious, homemade food and basically just pick at some potatoes.
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Midnight Voyager posted:It's milk, they milkgasm, I have been inflicted with too many images of this nonsense. I think by now I know the difference between milk and blood.
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Clocks posted:AITA for ditching my girlfriend at a 5k because I wanted a better time? It sounds like he wanted a better time in more ways than one, tbh.
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wait, is that what strawberry milk is??
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hallo spacedog posted:This is the most "furries, probably" thing I've read in this thread in a while and now you're reminding me of the "yiff the otter" fiasco.
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Midnight Voyager posted:and now you're reminding me of the "yiff the otter" fiasco. okay, i'm gonna regret asking, but what "yiff the otter" fiasco
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Well this is going to be a fun afternoon.
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i hate that song
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Midnight Voyager posted:and now you're reminding me of the "yiff the otter" fiasco. is that better or worse than the cuckies thing from earlier, to throw more fuel on the dumpster fire
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InediblePenguin posted:Lack of exposure to other foods plus the knowledge that if you try something and don't like it you'll have to eat it already or you're wasting the food and the money it represents But it doesn’t create the more extreme variant of The_Franz posted:This was one of my cousins. Growing up, it was always frozen/instant stuff or restaurant food for him. He would come over on holidays where we had a small mountain of delicious, homemade food and basically just pick at some potatoes. Or maybe it’s all generational, it’s been over a decade since I studied any of this poo poo and the research was probably 5-10 years old when I did.
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Foo Diddley posted:okay, i'm gonna regret asking, but what "yiff the otter" fiasco Oh, that's an old classic wtf internet story. There's a reading on the F Plus about it, it's just peak nerd social fallacy with a poly situation and a houseguest. There are three hundred points in this story where everyone involved should have kicked this guy out for being a total creep. TW: weirdo unhinged harassment to the point that he receives a pity handjob because that's easier than kicking a guy out of your own house when there's 2-3 of you, I guess. https://thefpl.us/episode/100a https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3742845 Here's an old post that has the whole thing in text. From listening to the F Plus try to read just parts of it, it sounds very hard to read. The furry terminology use is AGGRESSIVE To be clear: the story you guys had is much nicer, but if I hear poly + furry, my brain screams Yiff The Otter at me, that is my curse. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 21:22 on Jul 17, 2023 |
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oh christ I consider myself to be fairly reasonable but my tolerance would have snapped at that convenience store in Monterey, before they even got back to the house
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Midnight Voyager posted:yiff.txt okay yeah, that sure was a story. would have been about 500 lines shorter if anyone involved had a fuckin spine, tho
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AmiYumi posted:But it doesn’t create the more extreme variant of You're flat out wrong here. Only eating bland processed food is the root of the vast majority of picky eater situations, and by far the most common reason for that is two-income families needing to find something cheap and easy to make that they can shove into the kids in the couple of hours between getting home from work and sending the kids to bed.
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 22:06 |
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I’m sure this time we’ll come to an agreement about picky eaters.
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Foo Diddley posted:okay yeah, that sure was a story. would have been about 500 lines shorter if anyone involved had a fuckin spine, tho "I told him I wanted him out of my house and I was going to give him $600 for the inconvenience" my loving sides
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AmiYumi posted:I think we’re talking past each other a bit -:
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# ? Jul 17, 2023 22:16 |
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If the picky eater will at least sniff and/or try a bite then I’ll respect the desire not to eat something. But then I’m picky myself so I’m happy to be accommodating. I’ve refused food based on the smell, and welp.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I’m sure this time we’ll come to an agreement about picky eaters. Oh thank GOD
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Disagreements over what is good to eat kept us on the move for millions of years, picky eaters may have been the main thing keeping us from creating bizarre world, but eventually everyone settled in a river valley with tendies and fries that pretty much everyone was cool with and did civilization about it.
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