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When someone points out that paying for a big ol wedding while knowing he had debt was a bad financial decision and not the kid's fault, she goes full "WELL FINE I GUESS I'LL MAKE SURE NOBODY HAS A LIFE-THREATENING DISEASE NEXT TIME" pissy mode.
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Marriage is a life-threatening disease.
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AITA for sharing the private conversation I had with my friend leading to her losing friends?quote:I’ve (18 F) been friends with Lucy (18 F) and riding the bus with her to school each day for a long time now. For context, I’m South Asian (born in Asia) and she is East Asian (American-born). She’s one of my closest friends but she has had some bad takes on race-related topics on the rare ocassion it comes up in conversation.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:10 |
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Foo Diddley posted:i like how exhaustively OP shoots down each and every solution anyone can possibly come up with. like, why did you even ask, then? what the hell do you want reddit to tell you, here
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:15 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Marriage is a life-threatening disease. No, but life is a sexually transmitted disease with a 100% fatality rate.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:24 |
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If you both survive a marriage it’s a failure
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:26 |
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write down your guess for how much, then see how close you were AITA for telling my brother to shut the gently caress up about his child support? quote:My brother has 50/50 custody with his ex-wife over my nephew (3). My brother makes more money than his ex, so even though they have my nephew the same amount of time, he still has to pay her $100 a month. My brother will not shut the gently caress up about this. He complains about it constantly.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:27 |
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ad090 posted:AITA for trying to get my daughter to switch schools? I particularly like the solution of switching for 2 years, then switching back. The daughter gets all the fun of starting over at a new school, then, right as she settles in, switches back and, if her current school is one of those schools that put a heavy emphasis on academics over all else, winds up academically behind. The worst of both worlds. Plus, 2 years is an eternity to a 12 year old.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:29 |
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American stories with teens having cars to drive to school, or parents having to drive kids to multiple schools/hobbies always rattle me. Like, I just can't imagine such an expensive or hellish existence of kids not being able to walk like 1km tops to their school on safe pleasant streets, or take a city bus or something. Why did you guys engineer such a nightmare civilization where you're utterly dependent on cars for everything?
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:34 |
Lol that framing of hero daddy swooping in is so gnarly. Been playing with the kids as pawns for years and doesn't want to concede ground now.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:35 |
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Baronjutter posted:American stories with teens having cars to drive to school, or parents having to drive kids to multiple schools/hobbies always rattle me. Like, I just can't imagine such an expensive or hellish existence of kids not being able to walk like 1km tops to their school on safe pleasant streets, or take a city bus or something. Why did you guys engineer such a nightmare civilization where you're utterly dependent on cars for everything? well i said it was a bad idea, but they didn't listen to me
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Foo Diddley posted:write down your guess for how much, then see how close you were I got it dead on. Former IV-D director here, though, so I've seen worse.
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Baronjutter posted:American stories with teens having cars to drive to school, or parents having to drive kids to multiple schools/hobbies always rattle me. Like, I just can't imagine such an expensive or hellish existence of kids not being able to walk like 1km tops to their school on safe pleasant streets, or take a city bus or something. Why did you guys engineer such a nightmare civilization where you're utterly dependent on cars for everything? Who Framed Roger Rabbit? was a documentary.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:36 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for sharing the private conversation I had with my friend leading to her losing friends? There’s a point of language here that I’ve noticed changing in the last little while in the US, and I’m not sure how widespread the adoption is yet. I know when I was a kid you would have been called stupid if you referred to an Indian classmate as “Asian”.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:43 |
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they're wrong about that but i think they're right on the money about 6 figgy people being more predisposed to BS because every time we get a story here where money is involved at all at least one person involved apparently makes six figures.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:47 |
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Do money people say figgy a lot because that would make me think of pudding.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 01:50 |
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They do in yospos, I don't know if anyone does outside it
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BIG FLUFFY DOG posted:they're wrong about that but i think they're right on the money about 6 figgy people being more predisposed to BS because every time we get a story here where money is involved at all at least one person involved apparently makes six figures. I was thinking about the UK, as well. Where like it really depends on position but the currency is kind of adjusted so most jobs land somewhere south of 100k (A quick google says 41k for a Physicist). Also all the physicists i know are like. fry cooks right now because for whatever reason the positions dried up (im guessing brexit tbh lol)
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:01 |
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Where the hell are you where $100 is loving child support, the 1950's? AITAH for telling the person who I bought my dog off that he has no say in what I do with her? quote:(Sorry for any spelling/grammar mistakes English isn’t my first language) I worked with a cat rescue who hooked up with an exotic cat breeder: think Bengals, American short hairs, etc. Whenever he had kittens or retired queens he didn't want, he'd give them to the rescue on the condition they had to be fixed, on the rescue's dime. And the rescue did this, every single time. I remember one of the American Short Hairs, a silver boy, we ended up with, Janos Audron. Beautiful little poo poo, and one day he was at the rescue vet's for his shots, and the breeder happened to see him. He was so insanely pissed to find we had already gotten him fixed. Janos had been worthless as a kitten but apparently had grown into whatever facial issues made him worthless, and now he looked a prize stud. The breeder was upset he couldn't get the kitten back intact. AITA for intentionally making my homophobic cousin uncomfortable? quote:Hi there! I'm a 22(m) dude with a problem. My younger cousin, Paul(21m) is a total poo poo head that the family is mostly in denial about. He leeches off his family and makes them spend money that they really shouldn't be spending on luxury items to fit in better with his rich friends. He's an alcoholic and has shown up shitfaced to basically every family gathering since he was 17. And ever since we were young, I've basically been his punching bag. Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 02:04 on Jul 20, 2023 |
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Baronjutter posted:American stories with teens having cars to drive to school, or parents having to drive kids to multiple schools/hobbies always rattle me. Like, I just can't imagine such an expensive or hellish existence of kids not being able to walk like 1km tops to their school on safe pleasant streets, or take a city bus or something. Why did you guys engineer such a nightmare civilization where you're utterly dependent on cars for everything? The secondary reason is that decades of media hype/panic about abducted children makes a lot of suburbanites super paranoid about having their kids walk anywhere, envisioning hordes of kidnappers in vans just driving around the streets ready to snatch any kid walking alone to school.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:07 |
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Foo Diddley posted:write down your guess for how much, then see how close you were
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AITA for not donating my babies old clothes to my sister in law?quote:So I saw a hack online where you turn your babies old onesies into a T-shirt & bib when they outgrow them by cutting them at the bottom. I (26F) thought it was genius so I did exactly that with my babies onesies that they recently outgrew… fast forward a few days later & my pregnant sister in law (35F) messages me on Instagram (I posted a story showing & informing others of the hack) … I’ll copy & paste her message “Hi there and also wtf!?? Why would you mutilate your babies old clothes instead of going to the store & buying new ones like a normal person? I know you didn’t grow up with family but traditionally someone with a baby with hand down the old clothes to the next family member in need??? You know I’m due in 6 weeks so how could you be so inconsiderate & just disregard me?? Forget about coming to the christening!!” …she’s right, I didn’t grow up with family, so maybe I’m in the wrong & this is an unspoken rule… but I don’t understand why she never mentioned this to me. I donated his earlier outgrown things to a second hand shop… her & her husband are very boujee so it never occurred to me they would want/need my sons hand me downs. Her husband even got a new car recently so I know they’re not struggling financially. I feel guilty but also a bit annoyed because I think she’s overreacting not wanting me at the christening. AITA???
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:10 |
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MagusofStars posted:The primary reason kids don't walk anywhere is that every suburban house needs a fenced yard. So you can generally assume that the distance between any two points (e.g., home and school) is at least double what it should be, typically requiring you to go a fair bit out of your way to actually get to main roads (which themselves might link together in awkward ways).
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Arsenic Lupin posted:HOAs often forbid fenced yards, and a lot of suburban houses are in HOAs. In any case, the much bigger problem is how many suburbs don't have sidewalks at all, and then feed into major roads that also don't have sidewalks and/or aren't safe to cross. Suburban neighborhoods are designed to drive into, not to walk out from.
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Extra Large Marge posted:The true winner of Monopoly is whoever gets to play as the racecar gently caress the race car. We had an "Australian themed" Monopoly and you could be a Koala. And all the streets were streets from the Capital cities. It was cool. (Until my brother ate the Koala, and we were all stuck being the Thimble, or the Top Hat or some other bullshit thing.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:24 |
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As you get further and further out into the burbs you reach a point where getting out of the housing development requires crossing a 6 lane road, at which point you likely have to walk alongside the road with no sidewalk for a mile or so to get anywhere.
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MagusofStars posted:The primary reason kids don't walk anywhere is that every suburban house needs a fenced yard. So you can generally assume that the distance between any two points (e.g., home and school) is at least double what it should be, typically requiring you to go a fair bit out of your way to actually get to main roads (which themselves might link together in awkward ways). I lived a half hour drive away from my school and there's no sidewalks in any direction. Nobody is going to walk to school from where I am no matter the paranoia/fencing.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:25 |
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20 years ago kids all walked to the bus stop through the exact same neighborhoods that parents drive their kids to the bus stop today. The walkability of the neighborhoods didn't change, the cultural attitude around whether it's ok to let your kid be unattended for five minutes did.
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BrigadierSensible posted:gently caress the race car. Sounds like the perfect time to use the race car.
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Cerekk posted:20 years ago kids all walked to the bus stop through the exact same neighborhoods that parents drive their kids to the bus stop today. The walkability of the neighborhoods didn't change, the cultural attitude around whether it's ok to let your kid be unattended for five minutes did. You're not wrong, but they did also make a bunch of newer, more remote, less walkable neighborhoods too. Which in some areas are disproportionately where child-rearing families are concentrated (this may contribute to parent paranoia in older neighborhoods, since they're not as full of kids anymore.)
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Yup, guessed right. That's what, ten bananas? A bunch of organic fair trade bananas is like £2.50 at most. Where the hell do u live lmao holy poo poo
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AITA for getting mad cause my BIL won’t stop peeing in my yard?quote:Me (48 y/o f) and husband have been married for over 25 years. The last few years we’ve been living on my FIL property. Almost every time my brother in law comes over he feels the need to not only piss in my yard but seems to go out of his way to whip it out in front of me. I think he gets some joy out of my discomfort. I also think he feels entitled since it’s technically HIS father’s property. Although thinking back on it he did this at our old home too. This has become an ongoing (now serious) fight between my husband and I. As it clearly , in my view, shows a complete lack of respect for me and my space. Although I have clearly stated to my husband and his brother that I find this act to be not only disgusting but completely rude, he refuses to respect my feelings and stop. My husband tells me there’s nothing he can do if his brother won’t listen and my brother in law insists, “it’s a guy thing”. Am I over reacting? Is it really just “a guy” thing and I should get used to the piss puddles? Help! 😩 If I have learned anything from AITA, it is that many cis straight dudes are terrified of period products. OP should start leaving used pads or tampons out. Or, in a power move, remove her uterine cup in front of BIL and pour the contents out in front of him on the lawn.
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alexandriao posted:A bunch of organic fair trade bananas is like £2.50 at most. Where the hell do u live lmao holy poo poo
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alexandriao posted:A bunch of organic fair trade bananas is like £2.50 at most. Where the hell do u live lmao holy poo poo "It's a banana, what could it cost? $10?" is a tv show quote
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^^^^ poo poo lol i remember now the holy poopacy posted:You're not wrong, but they did also make a bunch of newer, more remote, less walkable neighborhoods too. Which in some areas are disproportionately where child-rearing families are concentrated (this may contribute to parent paranoia in older neighborhoods, since they're not as full of kids anymore.) This + the fact that drivers attitudes and vehicles changed. Like, in the 90s you didn't get people driving SUVs with bonnets so high a ten year old could hide under it while standing at full height, or SUVs that if you accidentally swerve you can go on and off the curb as if it's nothing. I don't drive and I'd be loving terrified of being a pedestrian in America. Over here it's entirely normal to just (do a calculated) walk out in front of cars in the city and expect them to stop, the concept of "jaywalking" doesn't exist, and while the Highway Code no longer explicitly gives pedestrians the Right Of Way at all times, it implicitly gives them the right of way through the fact that a soft squishy human being pulped by tonnes of fast moving steel is a manslaughter or murder charge. alexandriao fucked around with this message at 02:35 on Jul 20, 2023 |
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alexandriao posted:This + the fact that drivers attitudes and vehicles changed. Yeah, see also: multiple stories ITT about people hitting landscaping objects a couple feet into someone's yard and then getting mad at the homeowner for having the audacity to put them there
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alexandriao posted:^^^^ Unless they're protesting.
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FMguru posted:LOL, good one OP. It's not that you are so boring that you obsess over one thing and make it your identity. We all know nerds like this. This woman is pregnant, the name and gender of her baby is obviously important to her. For me, it's that you go and cry afterwards because you get called out on it, and someone says something sassy to you. Even if it was really mean and spiteful, surely you go "Ouch, that was a bit harsh." and speak to them afterwards about how that was uncalled for and hurt your feelings. Especially if it was your sister who you love and know that she loves you. At least in this story she didn't call all the relatives to get them to scold OP, like in other stories of this type.
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# ? Jul 20, 2023 02:39 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:Where the hell are you where $100 is loving child support, the 1950's? Our statutory minimum is $50 per child, and most people that are ordered to provide that amount don’t pay it, usually due to unemployment.
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Midnight Voyager posted:I lived a half hour drive away from my school and there's no sidewalks in any direction. Nobody is going to walk to school from where I am no matter the paranoia/fencing. When I was in junior high school some people, who objected to having to pay for school busses that they considered unnecessary and who were possibly from the 1890s, were briefly able to cut school bus pickup for about a quarter mile around the school with the argument that those students could just walk. The school was directly next to a very busy turnpike and a very busy arterial. So, y'know, it worked out great.* Pope Corky the IX posted:Who Framed Roger Rabbit? was a documentary. Fun fact, https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/eem5u4/til_that_the_1974_noir_film_chinatown_was/ *In that no one got hit by a car before enraged parents forced bus pickup to start again.
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