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Cowslips Warren posted:AITAH for telling my fiancé’s mother why she can’t come on our honeymoon Yes, but have you considered that therapy animals can be expensive?
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITAH for telling my fiancé’s mother why she can’t come on our honeymoon These "in-laws want to tag along on the honeymoon" stories always blow my mind. Does an OP ever ask the MIL if her parents tagged along for her honeymoon? Or do Redditors ask that in the comments? I'd love to hear the responses. Edit: like good on OP for this one being "we're going to gently caress 24/7" but that didn't work. Just ask MIL if she had her MIL along for her honeymoon and if not, then why? JacquelineDempsey fucked around with this message at 20:19 on Dec 8, 2023 |
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Dec 8, 2023 20:15
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At the very least the son is trying to go low contact but at this point I think you just want to go no contact. AITA for not punishing my kid after he ruined another kid’s life? quote:Sorry for a long read. TLDR: my son outed a trans person to their unsupportive family. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Dec 8, 2023 20:20
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Cowslips Warren posted:At the very least the son is trying to go low contact but at this point I think you just want to go no contact. OP, both of your kids loving suck.
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Dec 8, 2023 20:25
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Cowslips Warren posted:At the very least the son is trying to go low contact but at this point I think you just want to go no contact. this is probably bait but holy poo poo what a bunch of assholes
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Dec 8, 2023 20:25
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JacquelineDempsey posted:These "in-laws want to tag along on the honeymoon" stories always blow my mind. MIL wants a foursome 
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Dec 8, 2023 20:26
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Cythereal posted:Don't marry a former sex worker if you're embarrassed to be married to a former sex worker. And she's a case where literally she was stripping to pay for college, through which she now has a different job that she's worked at for years. If someone recognizes her from that job, that means they went to the strip club she worked at.
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Dec 8, 2023 20:32
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my graveyard shift employees that they need to come in 6 hours early on Christmas eve or use PTO? Isn't closing early and being paid for it like the main plot of act1 of A Christmas Carol? He literally is Scrooge.
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Dec 8, 2023 20:34
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:The discussion we are having is how she should’ve managed his feelings prior to the ew moment. Thanks for joining us. A woman doesn't owe a man anything. A man doesn't owe a woman anything. I owe it to my inseparable best friend to proactively build an offramp from the cliff I'm aware they're slowing climbing.
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Dec 8, 2023 20:34
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CannonFodder posted:And she's a case where literally she was stripping to pay for college, through which she now has a different job that she's worked at for years. Yeah but see a man has needs and those needs often include staring at women without their clothes on. So it's okay for a man to see it but it's bad for a woman to do it.
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Dec 8, 2023 20:35
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:A woman doesn't owe a man anything. A man doesn't owe a woman anything. I owe it to my inseparable best friend to proactively build an offramp from the cliff I'm aware they're slowing climbing. men owe it to women to not make them responsible for their emotional well being when they randomly decide to be more than friends
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Dec 8, 2023 20:39
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Cowslips Warren posted:That's why I spoiler that part. I'm just wondering how early they check for fertility issues?
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Dec 8, 2023 20:46
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Need some help with my characters backstory, more specifically Kraken sexquote:Odd title but a quick explanation is my character is the child of a kraken and they’re gonna go adventuring to get stronger yada yada. My dm doesn’t really have a problem with this which is cool but they want me to explain one key detail. How did a man have sex with a kraken since the kraken is my characters mother. And I mean, I didn’t really think that was an important part of my backstory but I guess it is. Can y’all help me by pitching some ideas on how?
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Dec 8, 2023 20:51
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You jack off into the ocean ONE TIME
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Dec 8, 2023 20:52
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Halloween Jack posted:Need some help with my characters backstory, more specifically Kraken sex Maybe dont let Mako Tsunami be your dm?
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Dec 8, 2023 20:55
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The follow up to The Dream of the Fisherman's Wife, The Bored, Drunken Bet of the Fisherman
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Dec 8, 2023 20:59
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Benagain posted:You jack off into the ocean ONE TIME ♫ I swim but I wish I never learned The water's full of kraken moms & sperm ♫
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Dec 8, 2023 20:59
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Halloween Jack posted:Need some help with my characters backstory, more specifically Kraken sex The dad was Fantasy John McAfee, bing bang boom problem solved
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Dec 8, 2023 21:02
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AITA for not keeping my ex-wife stuff for over 2 years while she "figured it out"quote:So me and my ex-wife were married for a little over year when she came home from a girls trip and decided she didn't want to be married anymore. Wouldn't really give me a reason for this, didn't want to discuss it unless it was with a therapist, which I didn't want to do unless she told me first because I didn't want to be blindsided by something with a stranger present. Long story short, I could have been a better husband, she could have been a better wife. But we separated, divorced, and that was fall of '21. AITA for saying NO to a puppy gift quote:I (24) grew up in a house where we had a family pet, a dog. I don't not like dogs (not hate), but I realized that they are a big responsibility. Not just financially, but also the caring they require. My parents gave me a puppy as a surprise birthday gift. I was thankful, but I told them I can't have the dog because 1. I live in an apartment 2. I don't have the time. Their reaction is "Well, now you'll need to move to a real house. We did when we started having you and your brothers. Suck it up." I still said thank you, but no can't take the dog. They laughed and went "bye you got this." What I did was to grab the basket (with the dog in it and walk them to their car. I put the basket in the backseat when they were saying their final goodbyes from the car window and about to drive off. They were surprised but couldn't do anything and they drove off. I could see the looks on their faces.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:06
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also come on. a wizard and/or god was involved. End of story. this isn't rocket science people.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:07
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r/relationships: how did a man have sex with a Kraken
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Dec 8, 2023 21:12
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CannonFodder posted:And she's a case where literally she was stripping to pay for college, through which she now has a different job that she's worked at for years. This is where I'm at, except she hasn't been a stripper in almost a decade. Any guy at work who actually recognizes her is a bigger problem, imo
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Dec 8, 2023 21:13
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Kurieg posted:AITA for not keeping my ex-wife stuff for over 2 years while she "figured it out" I like that double the time that they were married has elapsed and she expects not only everything to still be in storage but to walk off with things in active use.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:17
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Kurieg posted:AITA for saying NO to a puppy gift I want to grab both of these parents and slap them continuously while shouting "ANMIALS ARE NOT GIFTS! YOU'RE JUST SAYING 'SURPRISE! HERE'S YEARS OF RESPONSIBILITY!' YOU PIECIES OF poo poo!" God drat do those kinds of people make me angry.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:22
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AITA for not wanting to take care of my sister’s kids if something happens to her.quote:My mom died in a car crash about 5 months ago. When the inheritance was settled I got what was in her bank account approximately $250. My sister and her 4 kids got my mom’s house and everything in it. Her remaining 401k went to her also. quote:NTA. Are you 100% sure that she wants your SSN and other info for "beneficiary" paperwork?
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Dec 8, 2023 21:25
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AITA for not being more sympathetic to my husband about his “dying” grandfather?quote:Okay my husband’s grandad lives in Central Africa and is in his early 70s. He’s got a couple of underlying health conditions which he does not take care of and routinely misses doses of medication for and engages in behaviour he knows will make him worse. quote:It’s a flexible fare but he would absolutely not have been financially impacted at all by changing the ticket even if it was non refundable
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Dec 8, 2023 21:28
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Hughlander posted:I like that double the time that they were married has elapsed and she expects not only everything to still be in storage but to walk off with things in active use. I would think that divorce papers would have some "finalized means finalized" language or a fixed time window for disputing ownership of belongings, precisely so that you don't end up with one party coming back years later and demanding random stuff from a house that isn't theirs anymore.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:30
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The_Franz posted:I would think that divorce papers would have some "finalized means finalized" language or a fixed time window for disputing ownership of belongings, precisely so that you don't end up with one party coming back years later and demanding random stuff from a house that isn't theirs anymore. OP says in the comments that she didn't dispute anything and didn't even hire a lawyer just had his lawyer draft up the papers and signed them.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:32
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:A woman doesn't owe a man anything. A man doesn't owe a woman anything. I owe it to my inseparable best friend to proactively build an offramp from the cliff I'm aware they're slowing climbing. I've had every goddamn good male friend I've had confess they wanted to date me because I have been single this entire time. Should I have had to do this for every one? I already dread getting close to any male friend because I just know I'm gonna have another awkward talk in the future. Should I really have to go "Hey PS: I know we're just hanging out right now but I DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU. Thanks," to every guy I meet? this is not bragging, I am an awkward nerd and they are also awkward nerds. It's awkward nerd hell. There is literally no good time to take someone aside and say "I will not date you." The only time that isn't awful is when they ask and you're turning them down. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 21:41 on Dec 8, 2023 |
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Dec 8, 2023 21:33
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Kurieg posted:OP says in the comments that she didn't dispute anything and didn't even hire a lawyer just had his lawyer draft up the papers and signed them. So "I don't care, you can have everything, I just want to walk away". He's already done more than was required of him and is perfectly in the right telling her "No, you can't take my grill and table. Get lost".
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Dec 8, 2023 21:41
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Midnight Voyager posted:I've had every goddamn good male friend I've had confess they wanted to date me because I have been single this entire time. Should I have had to do this for every one? I already dread getting close to any male friend because I just know I'm gonna have another awkward talk in the future. Should I really have to go "Hey PS: I know we're just hanging out right now but I DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU. Thanks," to every guy I meet? Men can have woman friends, but women can't have male friends, just a collection of people who have her stashed away for when they're feeling lonely and are largely incapable of differentiating between kinds of relationships But for real, I've been on the opposite end of that before and it was a very sharp and sudden realization that what I was doing was its own lovely betrayal, no matter how important I felt that it was to do. I can't imagine how it feels to live in constant awareness of that possibility in friendships.
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This week I've been getting a third-hand relationships or AITA post from a co-worker because he's a blabbermouth and has to tell everyone about how his buddy's wife found a nude picture on his buddy's computer of his college girlfriend from 8 years ago, saw that it was last accessed last year, and is now wanting a divorce. My co-worker didn't like that I laughed about it.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:42
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Midnight Voyager posted:I've had every goddamn good male friend I've had confess they wanted to date me because I have been single this entire time. Should I have had to do this for every one? I already dread getting close to any male friend because I just know I'm gonna have another awkward talk in the future. Should I really have to go "Hey PS: I know we're just hanging out right now but I DO NOT WANT TO DATE YOU. Thanks," to every guy I meet? Seriously this is why the suggestion that she should’ve done something before he confessed is so loving absurd
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Also imagine if she had been reading the situation wrong, and now she's said "I do not want to date you" to someone who did not want to date her in the first place. Now she's been massively weird out of nowhere!Big Mac posted:Men can have woman friends, but women can't have male friends, just a collection of people who have her stashed away for when they're feeling lonely and are largely incapable of differentiating between kinds of relationships By the way, it's pretty much fine when it happens and you both move on and continue to be friends. That's just a normal relationship thing. That's fine. But when you turn someone down and they drop you like a hot rock, that stings. That makes you feel like you never had a real friendship. Midnight Voyager fucked around with this message at 21:56 on Dec 8, 2023 |
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Dec 8, 2023 21:52
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A guy who wants to confess will not let himself be deterred by anything. I had this friend who I'd always say was like my little brother, he'd say I was like his big sis. It did not stop him, nor did it stop him from never speaking to me again after being assured that I did actually think of him as a friend and brother.
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Dec 8, 2023 21:57
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITAH for telling my fiancé’s mother why she can’t come on our honeymoon 
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Kurieg posted:AITA for not being more sympathetic to my husband about his “dying” grandfather? Why did she marry this guy
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Dec 8, 2023 22:03
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Midnight Voyager posted:Also imagine if she had been reading the situation wrong, and now she's said "I do not want to date you" to someone who did not want to date her in the first place. Now she's been massively weird out of nowhere! There's also a version of the situation where she's not reading it wrong and does try to specify that she only wants to be friends and then she gets a response along the lines of "wow you're so stuck up, I didn't even think of you like that, you're not even attractive" which is sadly a common way for lovely guys to try to save face in my experience.
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Dec 8, 2023 22:16
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITAH for telling my fiancé’s mother why she can’t come on our honeymoon Is there a name for the Oedipal Complex, except it's the mum wanting to gently caress the son?
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITAH for telling my fiancé’s mother why she can’t come on our honeymoon She doesn't know it yet but her MIL is coming on that trip whether her and her fiance invite her or not. For gods sake I hope they book a ticket somewhere else without telling her.
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