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wheatpuppy posted:My (35M) gf (35F) tells her coworkers that we are cousins lol! Edit: lmao!
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 01:32 |
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wheatpuppy posted:My (35M) gf (35F) tells her coworkers that we are cousins I got the genders mixed up the other way for once mostly because I wanted to make a Sailor Moon joke.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 01:32 |
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Call Your Grandma posted:Yeah I think the best approach is to just let people do their thing and zap em when they act inappropriately. you're two days late, we celebrated the resurrection of our lord and savior on Sunday
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 01:49 |
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Nothin' in the rule book that says you can't commemorate Big John on a Tuesday
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 01:51 |
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AITA for telling anyone who asks why I don’t bake for our hall anymore?quote:Edit: I really appreciate the reassurance yall:) I’m currently working and a lot of comments to get through! I don’t hold anything against the kid. I’ll talk to the landlord to give a heads up as many of you have recommended
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:06 |
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wheatpuppy posted:My (35M) gf (35F) tells her coworkers that we are cousins Like, I could see 6 months pretty easily, but in 6 years she never said "this is my boyfriend [person other than OP]" in the presence of the OP? She never told the OP "[boyfriend] proposed to me"? She never said "I had a date with [boyfriend]"? I can imagine that since the OP had decided that they were going out, he was willing to ignore a bunch of times when the not-girlfriend said things that seemed to not quite make sense, but you still think that in 6 years there would be at least one time when there was something so clear it couldn't be ignored. mystes fucked around with this message at 02:15 on Apr 3, 2024 |
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wheatpuppy posted:My (35M) gf (35F) tells her coworkers that we are cousins There are probably physicists interested in this story, because the op is denser than dark matter.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:14 |
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I like to imagine that there were six full years worth of them both coincidentally wording things with just enough ambiguity to keep the whole charade going, and I refuse to let anyone take that magic from me.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:17 |
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One other thing is, the OP had no issue presumably not being introduced as her boyfriend for six years. But then as soon as she introduced him as he cousin, he was immediately concerned. So was she introducing him to other people as her "friend" for six years and he thought she just didn't feel like specifying boyfriend because it was none of their business? But now now that she was engaged she felt like it was better to say "cousin" than "friend" in case people might misunderstand and think they were going out?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:24 |
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Troublemaker posted:AITA for telling anyone who asks why I don’t bake for our hall anymore? I kind of wish this person would stop apologizing so much,
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:24 |
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mystes posted:One other thing is, the OP had no issue presumably not being introduced as her boyfriend for six years. But then as soon as she introduced him as he cousin, he was immediately concerned. Well cousin implies they’re not together and she’s trying to cheat on him!
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:27 |
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Hughlander posted:Well cousin implies they’re not together and she’s trying to cheat on him!
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:27 |
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Troublemaker posted:AITA for telling anyone who asks why I don’t bake for our hall anymore?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:28 |
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She's just trying to hint she'd like to roleplay.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:28 |
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I will say I want to believe it's real and also regardless of whether it's real or not I really like the misinterpretation of the double date. (Conversely, if it's fake that is actually quite an ingenious idea to come up with.)
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:31 |
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mystes posted:One other thing is, the OP had no issue presumably not being introduced as her boyfriend for six years. But then as soon as she introduced him as he cousin, he was immediately concerned. What about in the flipside of this situation? Does OP not have any friends or family he could have introduced his not-gf as his girlfriend? Or a facebook page saying he's in a relationship?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:32 |
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DemoneeHo posted:What about in the flipside of this situation? Does OP not have any friends or family he could have introduced his not-gf as his girlfriend? Or a facebook page saying he's in a relationship?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:35 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:Ex-friend 34F asked me 35M about our relationship over 10 years ago. How to respond? This dude should not respond and in fact should probably just not talk to the ex's family at all, because she was, and they are continuing to, treat him as the backup plan. I know because I was in a very similar situation; my ex would go months, sometimes years without saying a word to me, and then suddenly come swanning in as if nothing had ever happened, stir things back up, get my hopes up (after making sure I was still single, of course). And then off they would gently caress again once the rough patch had passed, and I was left alone again. No one deserves to be strung along as someone else's Plan B, because you will never be Plan A.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:35 |
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Grey Cat posted:Depends on your state, I didn't even have to talk to a judge, just 145 bucks and briught the papers to the courthouse and left. i want to change my name for trans reasons but although my county puts a PDF of "fill in the blank" paperwork to fill out, none of the blanks are labeled, i have no idea what information they want, and i can't afford a lawyer to tell me what to write on these dozen blank lines so im stuck :/
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InediblePenguin posted:i want to change my name for trans reasons but although my county puts a PDF of "fill in the blank" paperwork to fill out, none of the blanks are labeled, i have no idea what information they want, and i can't afford a lawyer to tell me what to write on these dozen blank lines so im stuck :/
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:37 |
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mystes posted:Maybe if your kids have food allergies you should tell them not to loving eat random food people leave out if they don't know what's in them. OP posted:I scribble down the ingredients on whatever sticky note I post onto the food. MagusofStars fucked around with this message at 02:50 on Apr 3, 2024 |
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Troublemaker posted:AITA for telling anyone who asks why I don’t bake for our hall anymore?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:48 |
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I told my girlfriend I used an AI dating bot to chat with her. She blocked me. Next steps?quote:I'm a 27-year-old tech nerd living in the Bay Area, and dating here is challenging, especially for someone like me who struggles with talking to women.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:50 |
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mystes posted:I will say I want to believe it's real and also regardless of whether it's real or not I really like the misinterpretation of the double date. (Conversely, if it's fake that is actually quite an ingenious idea to come up with.) Also makes me wonder how the logistics of that worked. Did she show up and leave with the OP and not the BF? Was there no hand-holding or other show of affection at all? What the hell kind of conversation did they have where no personal situations came up at all, like, "Oh, BF and I saw that movie ..." or whatever?
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:51 |
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DemoneeHo posted:I told my girlfriend I used an AI dating bot to chat with her. She blocked me. Next steps? Date the bot, I guess
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DemoneeHo posted:I told my girlfriend I used an AI dating bot to chat with her. She blocked me. Next steps? Edit: Captain Hygiene posted:Date the bot, I guess
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MagusofStars posted:Agreed, but per the comments, it's even more than that: No, it's anyone and everyone else's fault if my kid encounters an allergen! Certainly not mine or my child's for not paying the gently caress attention to what they were ham-fisting into their gob. What do you mean, I should parent my kid?!
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:53 |
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mystes posted:One other thing is, the OP had no issue presumably not being introduced as her boyfriend for six years. But then as soon as she introduced him as he cousin, he was immediately concerned. Well you see, his primary hobby is cooking Polynesian cuisine, so she had been constantly introducing him as her "poi friend" all along
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:56 |
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I think the ai dating bot must be something like this: https://www.yourmove.ai/ I'm not surprised OP's girlfriend immediately dumped him when she found out because it means that the initial conversation she had where she felt like they had some sort of connection was actually with a bot
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 02:56 |
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I'm a little curious about the training data for an AI dating chatbot. 10 years of horny texts? Romance novels? Somebody get seduced by predictive text and report back plz.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:03 |
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Most specialized AI bots are instances of a generic AI bot like ChatGPT, given hidden instructions (usually in plain English like any other prompt) to essentially role-play as the sort of chatbot it’s supposed to be. It’s usually not that hard to get a bot to reveal these instructions ChatGPT itself was trained on hundreds of gigabytes of text documents- fiction, classics, references, technical documentation, ccopyrighted news articles without permission, everything they could get their hands on. There was probably enough romance in there that it can act as a suitor if you ask nicely
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:09 |
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mystes posted:I think the ai dating bot must be something like this: She dumped him for the bot.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:12 |
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I'm still a bit hung up on 'having to give clear, concise requests for everyday tasks to my partner is emotional abuse to me'. Maybe because I'm reminded of my upbringing where being asked to do a chore often is about 1 part trying to actually do the chore to 4 parts standing there getting yelled at, especially for any attempt to actually do the chore
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:21 |
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My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this?quote:Hey guys, I’m gonna have to anonymize some details but I’ll try and keep this as close to what did happen as possible. Me (34F) and my husband (30M) have been together for almost a decade (dating 6 years, married 3). We’re both rational, generally risk averse people, and we love(d) each other madly. Countdown to follow-up, "My husband has been sued for child support by 47 families for his off the book children."
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:32 |
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woo new thread. rip big john
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 03:43 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:I'm still a bit hung up on 'having to give clear, concise requests for everyday tasks to my partner is emotional abuse to me'. Maybe because I'm reminded of my upbringing where being asked to do a chore often is about 1 part trying to actually do the chore to 4 parts standing there getting yelled at, especially for any attempt to actually do the chore It was for stuff like “take me on a date”. It kind of sucks that he can’t be bothered to listen about her feelings and needs her to do the work of making a bulleted list because he can’t be assed to listen.
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Slo-Tek posted:I'm a little curious about the training data for an AI dating chatbot. 10 years of horny texts? Romance novels? I don't think it's that hard to get some people who you start chatting with interested enough to go on a date a date if you are not concerned with showing your real personality, don't mind lying, and study up on stuff that probably works. I'd also like to know what they use for training data, but it doesn't surprise me that an AI who has no real personality, no problem with lying, and a database of fairly flirty stuff that worked on some people can generate a few lines of text that pique someone's interest. I think most women on dating sites who will go on a date in a reasonable timeframe (as opposed to endlessly chatting or looking to collect messages for an ego boost) are really looking for 'sounds not boring and not red-flagged, I'll figure out the rest in person', so what an AI is good at generating should be good for that.
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Hughlander posted:My (34F) husband (30M) has been secretly donating sperm on Facebook. Is there any way back from this? Are they doing literal turkey baster at-home insemination? Thus just seems like a terrible idea for so many, many reasons.
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# ? Apr 3, 2024 04:50 |
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Yeah, what happens on Thanksgiving?
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Yeah, what happens on Thanksgiving? That's how you make country gravy.
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