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Danaru posted:Found out my (29M) wife (27F) is cheating by reading her texts. Suggest ways in which I can act as if I accidentally stumbled on these texts while having her phone for some valid reason Forget to plug your phone in so the battery dies while you're out and then ask to borrow hers to check reddit. Then post an update and await further instructions while we figure out how you open the text app accidentally.
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Danaru posted:Found out my (29M) wife (27F) is cheating by reading her texts. Suggest ways in which I can act as if I accidentally stumbled on these texts while having her phone for some valid reason He promised he wouldn't snoop, so now he can't use this evidence in the court of relationship law. He's cuckholded forever, I'm afraid.
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Danaru posted:Found out my (29M) wife (27F) is cheating by reading her texts. Suggest ways in which I can act as if I accidentally stumbled on these texts while having her phone for some valid reason It's like those people who think the first amendment means no one is allowed to tell you to shut the gently caress up, but for the fourth amendment.
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AnoHito posted:It's like those people who think the first amendment means no one is allowed to tell you to shut the gently caress up, but for the fourth amendment. every future phone search he does now is fruit of the poisonous tree and he can never break up with her
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Apr 11, 2024 02:45
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Midnight Voyager posted:She's on near full bedrest at 7 months, that's not normal at all. She's probably afraid she's going to die and her husband's leaving overnight to help a guy who has family living with him right now to watch and take care of him. She has an elderly aunt that he sends over to check "sometimes" and nothing else. This whole story is sad top to bottom, including the fact that this is likely terrible health advice that's still traditionally given, hurting women for no documented improved pregnancy or baby outcomes. Lifting restrictions, reduction of active exercise, and potentially reduction in working hours (depending on the job) have very good benefits, but full "bed rest" is harmful. Regardless, even if she can get out of bed, get her own water, etc, this is unquestionably a terrifying time and she needs emotional support, companionship, and yes, someone just there able to help out with the stuff that is a bit more heavy or exhausting or requiring extensive effort. He needs to prioritize her! Anyway, I think this is where I first learned this, years ago: https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/11/26/669229437/rethinking-bed-rest-for-pregnancy And when I was searching for it again, I found the mayo clinic agrees it's inadvisable: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/pregnancy/art-20048007 This poor woman is being let down by literally everyone in her life right now, personally and professionally, during a terrifying period of life.
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Apr 11, 2024 02:47
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Danaru posted:Partner left me put of poker night. I kind of understand why the husband doesn't want OP there. If you have 5 people who are really into poker and one who isn't, it makes for a weird dynamic at the table. Either the newbie is constantly slowing things down with "does a flush beat a straight?" and "How much are the blue chips worth again?" Or they promptly lose all their money and then just sit there awkwardly watching everyone else play. The way to solve it is still not by locking them in the bedroom like a dog though.
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wheatpuppy posted:I kind of understand why the husband doesn't want OP there. If you have 5 people who are really into poker and one who isn't, it makes for a weird dynamic at the table. Either the newbie is constantly slowing things down with "does a flush beat a straight?" and "How much are the blue chips worth again?" Or they promptly lose all their money and then just sit there awkwardly watching everyone else play. The way to solve it is still not by locking them in the bedroom like a dog though. 'You'll be chilling in the bedroom right?' could just as easily mean 'I assumed you didn't want to come for some reason not mentioned in the post'. Hard to know, because she didn't say 'haha what, no, I want to play'
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Apr 11, 2024 03:11
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Am I the only one who grew up in a small town and gets hard to quantify ‘that could have def happened back home’ vibes about once a page
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Apr 11, 2024 03:40
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It happens to me too sometimes, so you aren't alone in it.
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t-.-t posted:My fiancee told her friend group that I am not the greatest at sex, but she is with me for the complete package. Am I wrong for calling off the engagement? Just get better at sex
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Apr 11, 2024 03:51
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Mx. posted:Just get better at sex I wonder if she's tried to gently guide him and he just didn't take the hints, as men are wont to do.
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Apr 11, 2024 03:52
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I think there was a Dan Savage paraphrase itt that said "If you're snooping on your partner's phone, your relationship is over. The only question left is whether it died because of their infidelity or your lack of trust."
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AITAH for walking away after I discovered my fiancé had intercourse with a douchebag?quote:I will keep this as short as possible because I don't want to waste your time but for some context, me (27M) and my ex (27F) have been in a relationship for 7 years soon to be married although that will never happen. Love the implication that if the AP was a decent guy he'd have been okay with it. Also AITAH for not believing half the stories that end up on this sub? quote:I (m25) have been noticing that many of the posts on this sub have been clear as day “NTA” to the point where I’m sure at least some of them are a load of bollocks. I’m sorry, but if your wife cheated on you with your dad and you have to ask Reddit whether or not you’re the arsehole for leaving her then I simply don’t believe you are real.
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Apr 11, 2024 04:21
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Troublemaker posted:AITAH for not believing half the stories that end up on this sub?
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Apr 11, 2024 04:33
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Stories are so over the top at r/AITAH that you get posts calling all of them fake once a week, lol Wife wants me to wear something under my swim trunks and I prefer not to. quote:So a few summers ago my wife (40) told me (45) I need to wear a liner briefs under my swimsuit. I don't think it is necessary as the swim trunks already have a build in liner and when I have the extra layer it stays wet and uncomfortable all day and doesn't dry out. So for context, we hang out at pool parties and go to the beach with friends often and my wife thinks it is gross you can see the outline on my penis through the swim trunks. I personally could care less and don't think it is any different than a woman wearing a bikini and her nipples poking through. Am I wrong for not caring? Compromise and get speedos instead
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DemoneeHo posted:Stories are so over the top at r/AITAH that you get posts calling all of them fake once a week, lol Smh, wife won't let OP just hang dong.
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Wife should use the money she saves from him not buying two swimsuits on a special big dick toilet.
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Mx. posted:Just get better at sex sorry, once you sex you can never change it. the only answer is to cut all ties, move to another state, and try to sex better with your next fiancee
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Re: r/relationships: I’m sorry, but if your wife cheated on you with your dad and you have to ask Reddit whether or not you’re the arsehole for leaving her then I simply don’t believe you are real. Probably too long for a thread title
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DemoneeHo posted:Wife wants me to wear something under my swim trunks and I prefer not to. YTA for saying "could care less" than claiming you don't care at all
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Troublemaker posted:AITAH for not believing half the stories that end up on this sub? I wonder if this guy also goes around telling people that pro wrestling is fake.
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8one6 posted:I really appreciate how Corky will rain 6ers if someone so much as suggests using the hard C in the thread but is completely silent about posters acting like fat people are subhuman. My apologies, I was very busy with work earlier and I thought Seth had taken care of it by saying the derail is over and handing out a few probations. So no, acting like fat people are subhuman is certainly not okay and it won’t be happening again.
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Kurieg posted:AITAH for being upset that my family kept my sisters pregnancy a secret from me? This happened to my wife and I once upon a time. it ultimately took us eight years to have our twins, including three IVF treatments, and those were some pretty dark years. Multiple friends of ours decided not to tell us that they were expecting, thinking that they’d spare our feelings. What they didn’t understand was that their kids would be coming and very soon we’d find out on our own, you know, because you now have a loving baby. This phenomenon led to whole circles of friends suddenly going dark on us as people hid pregnancies from us. Yes we found out. Yes the resulting conversations were emotional and awkward. Yes some friendships did not recover and we lost lots of friends over this. “Funniest” conversation was a panicked phone call out of the blue from a husband who found out that we’d be coming to a picnic where he and his pregnant wife would be attending. One hour before the picnic was to start. He had to call me so I could tell my wife that his wife was very pregnant and oh yeah that’s why they hadn’t spoken to us in seven months. Just come clean. Jesus Christ. Sure we would have felt feelings of jealousy and bitterness but those feeling would be fleeting and ultimately we would have been happy for you and delighted to participate in your lives. RocketMermaid posted:Too much milk makes people obese and must therefore be banned for the sake of our healthcare dollars, along with all other food. But then what will I drink in bars to piss off all the no-longer-smoking patrons? Agrikk fucked around with this message at 07:21 on Apr 11, 2024 |
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Kurieg posted:AITAH for being upset that my family kept my sisters pregnancy a secret from me? Wait so all I need to do to avoid seeing kids again is to tell our family that we "are struggling with fertility issues"?? Much easier than being Child Free and having to actively be hostile to kids!
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Lots of people apparently do still go Victorian novel levels of crazy over infertility.
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PancakeTransmission posted:Wait so all I need to do to avoid seeing kids again is to tell our family that we "are struggling with fertility issues"?? Much easier than being Child Free and having to actively be hostile to kids! It's all the convenience of never being invited to kids' birthday parties combined with the moral satisfaction of making THEM feel like the rear end in a top hat for asking. A total win-win!
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I (25M) have the chance to date my old HS crush (25F), but I’m engaged to my fiancee (24F). What do I do?quote:I had a crush on this girl Carla since middle school going into HS but she never paid me no mind. update: quote:I broke her heart. I love Sara so much, and I stupidly called off the wedding to be with my old crush a few weeks ago.
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Mx. posted:I (25M) have the chance to date my old HS crush (25F), but I’m engaged to my fiancee (24F). What do I do? I want to believe
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Wow, simmer down with the exclamation marks! You're way too excitable!
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PancakeTransmission posted:I want to believe The Ex-Files was such a good show
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Barudak posted:The Ex-Files was such a good show Ex-Philes - only attracted to the one(s) that got away.
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wheatpuppy posted:Ex-Philes - only attracted to the one(s) that got away. lol drat
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wheatpuppy posted:Ex-Philes - only attracted to the one(s) that got away. 
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PancakeTransmission posted:Wait so all I need to do to avoid seeing kids again is to tell our family that we "are struggling with fertility issues"?? Much easier than being Child Free and having to actively be hostile to kids! You do risk an endless line of relatives and acquaintances trying to sell you this all-natural supplement that totally worked for their cousin's best friend's aunt who thought she was infertile and now she has octuplets
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Cloacamazing! posted:You do risk an endless line of relatives and acquaintances trying to sell you this all-natural supplement that totally worked for their cousin's best friend's aunt who thought she was infertile and now she has octuplets Just say it sounds like witchcraft and there's nothing about it in the Bible.
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Mx. posted:I (25M) have the chance to date my old HS crush (25F), but I’m engaged to my fiancee (24F). What do I do? I wonder what it's like to live while being this loving stupid
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Olanphonia posted:I wonder what it's like to live while being this loving stupid You can enlist too.
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Olanphonia posted:I wonder what it's like to live while being this loving stupid He did the right thing by getting his fiancee free of a relationship with him
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Mx. posted:Just get better at sex genuinely just talk to your almost wife if you share a bed you can share a conversation
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