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Kitfox88 posted:For a lot of expensive stuff (especially things like ~designer~ fashion items like clothes and accessories) this is the point. This is why a big part of what makes buying expensive fashion second-hand fun is the thrill of looking like you spent 3k while knowing you spent 50 bucks And if you think rich people aren't weird and gross about this kinda thing, I have recently learned there's special tags on certain luxury purses that make them look bad while you're wearing it, but if you try to return the bag without they won't accept it, bc so many fancy ladies were taking bags out for single events then returning them lol EDIT: hahaha here's a website that makes the tags bc it's such a Thing for people to game return policies for luxury items, I guess it's called wardrobing https://www.360idtag.com/blogs/news/dresses-target-for-wardrobing-return-fraud StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 18:50 on Apr 25, 2024 |
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Admiral Joeslop posted:AITAH for telling my parents to keep all the money they stole from me while I was in university and shove it up their rear end. How much in ‘rent’ were they ‘charging’ you and were there no other jobs you could work to make it?
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DreamingofRoses posted:How much in ‘rent’ were they ‘charging’ you and were there no other jobs you could work to make it? According to OP, it was $750 CAD a month which sounds excessive for a full time uni student during the pandemic years Maybe the parents were using the money to supplement food bills. But since they were able to pay it back and aren't forcing OP's sister to work or pay rent, i don't think they needed the money. Baronjutter posted:Man, the snobby girlfriend who took back a compliment towards a designer bag when she found out it was thrifted. That's just an insane mentality, where designer clothing isn't intrinsically fancy or nice because the item itself is, but instead because of the full retail cost being class signifier. LMAO get bent lady
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AITA for taking a work call on a Monday afternoon?quote:My (42F) girlfriend Mary (41F) and I have been dating for 3 years. At first Mary seemed really fun and spontaneous and we would just laugh and have the best time when we hung out and went on dates. My family was really happy for me since I hadn't really dated anyone in a while. Solid laugh when I went back up to check the ages after skimming over them at first
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DemoneeHo posted:According to OP, it was $750 CAD a month which sounds excessive for a full time uni student during the pandemic years That is pretty expensive. If they wanted to treat it like a savings thing they should have told him that was the point instead of saying it’s rent.
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God we've had so many parents-charing-their-kid-rent stories that so often go like: Child, you're an adult now and if you're going to keep living with us we're going to charge you market rent! But you won't have any tenant rights and we'll still treat you like a child and make you do unpaid chores. Take it or leave it!! What?! You're moving out?!?! We can't afford the mortgage without your rent!!!!! How dare you.
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DreamingofRoses posted:That is pretty expensive. If they wanted to treat it like a savings thing they should have told him that was the point instead of saying it’s rent. The check was for over 40k to continue that thought.
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StrangersInTheNight posted:jokes on her, plumber is about the only job I can think of that can't be currently outsourced to AI and my understanding is plumbers tend to do very well for themselves But the shame of telling her girlfriends that she was dating an (ugh) plumber instead of an I-banker was too great, I guess. Her loss. FMguru fucked around with this message at 21:39 on Apr 25, 2024 |
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DreamingofRoses posted:That is pretty expensive. If they wanted to treat it like a savings thing they should have told him that was the point instead of saying it’s rent.
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Every time I accomplished something else that would help me move out of my parents' house my father would raise the rent again. I was up to $700 a month for a room by 2005.
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There are a lot of parents out there that are really lovely to their successful kids and I don't understand it. Wouldn't you want them to have a not only good, but fun, start to adult life? Sucking the fun out of college is awful. A lot of parents don't seem to really like their kids. Pope Corky the IX posted:Every time I accomplished something else that would help me move out of my parents' house my father would raise the rent again. I was up to $700 a month for a room by 2005. Jesus. My first mortgage cost less than that in like 2005. Wtf is wrong with people, it's not like your parents were making up for not being able to rent your room to someone else or something. I'm sorry.
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Halloween Jack posted:His parents are dumbfucks if they thought that the monetary value of a college student's savings is worth more than the purely monetary value of having a social life in college beyond going to class and getting the degree. His classmates were gaining career opportunities while he was loading a truck. Well, if the rent hadn’t been that high he probably could’ve afforded to have a different job that wasn’t loading trucks (or fewer hours) and still had the college experience.
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DreamingofRoses posted:That is pretty expensive. If they wanted to treat it like a savings thing they should have told him that was the point instead of saying it’s rent.
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My mom started charging me rent when I was 13, and not as a lesson or anything, she just needed drinking money. I feel pretty strongly about this, and I would go without food if it came down to it rather than charge my own child rent to live at home. Insane behavior. MAYBE it's okay if the kid is like, 24, and everyone is open and fair about the arrangement, and what rights and responsibilities everyone has. But doing it purely as a lesson, or character building, or for fuckin pocket money, is supremely hosed up.
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Even charging him rent at all to live in the family house during the early years of covid seems like a really loving terrible thing to inflict upon their child. They made OP pay a high rent and did jack poo poo with the money. They didn't even invest it so it could grow into something larger down the line. OP only received an extra $4300 after four years. The meager gesture was the final nail in the coffin for OP
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Baronjutter posted:Said he was misrepresenting himself and used language like she was accusing him of being a predator and trying to gaslight women into thinking he's rich when he isn't. that's not what gaslighting means AAAAAAAAAAAAA
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DemoneeHo posted:Even charging him rent at all to live in the family house during the early years of covid seems like a really loving terrible thing to inflict upon their child. I'm glad grandad understood that, at least.
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the whole issue is really underscored by the interest payment: the parents thought they were teaching him fiscal responsibility while he obviously already knew far, far more about financial issues than they did
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The Maroon Hawk posted:that's not what gaslighting means AAAAAAAAAAAAA
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The Maroon Hawk posted:that's not what gaslighting means AAAAAAAAAAAAA Yes it is. That’s what gaslighting has always meant.
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I was honestly shocked they handed him a check at all. It rarely goes that way.
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The Maroon Hawk posted:that's not what gaslighting means AAAAAAAAAAAAA That's what gaslighting has always meant though? E: gently caress
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my boss wants us to meet with a spiritualist to fix the negative energy in our buildingquote:A reader writes: "Am I to blame for a toxic and overbearing work environment? No, it's the building that is wrong." Also, "this man" was a reference to an older question: my boss thinks he is a mayan shaman quote:A reader writes: Update: My boss thinks he’s a mayan shaman quote:His shamanistic tendencies were really getting to me, and I tried going through the board but that didn’t work. We couldn’t do much because, well, basically people are worried that he would dissolve the whole charity.
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I feel like the "shaman" title has been greatly devalued over the last few years.
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God I want to hear the stories that intern could tell
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I was honestly shocked they handed him a check at all. It rarely goes that way. It's definitely a thing, but usually people who are just trying to teach a lesson about good fiscal habits only charge a nominal amount. Charging your kids market rent is usually pure greed or desperation (usually caused by greed.)
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I feel like the "shaman" title has been greatly devalued over the last few years. WoW players have always complained about Shaman being bad, this is nothing new. AITAH for throwing out my SIL and her family. quote:My husband has two brothers and one sister. His sister and her husband are not my favorite people in the world.
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the holy poopacy posted:It's definitely a thing, but usually people who are just trying to teach a lesson about good fiscal habits only charge a nominal amount. Charging your kids market rent is usually pure greed or desperation (usually caused by greed.) I swear I saw a post from the parents' perspective sometime last year on AITA. It was something along the lines of, "we charged our oldest kid rent but now our younger kid is simply refusing to get a job so it seems kinda unfair." And some of the commenters suggested giving the money back with a "ta-da, we were just holding on to it to prepare you for the horrible grind that is adulthood." So now I wonder if any of it was real, or just one creative writing exercise responding to another.
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quote:AITAH for throwing out my SIL and her family. Nope, gently caress that. NTA.
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Admiral Joeslop posted:AITAH for throwing out my SIL and her family. Hell yeah. Good for having a loving backbone.
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Husband destroyed our toilet and refuses to stop using it and fix itquote:Sorry if this is TMI, but me (34f) and my husband (37m) have been together 6 years. Let’s just say he’s very tolerant of messes and has no limits to how gross something is.
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Mordiceius posted:Hell yeah. Good for having a loving backbone. It's really odd that they only misbehave at OP's house, and in such a specific way. I would LOL if it turns out the OP has a dog that likes to dig sanitary napkins out of the trash and leave them laying around. Also kinda want to know if the tampon forgotten next to the sink was used or not. If it was unused, still in the wrapper, OP kinda sucks for freaking out about it. If it was used, that's hella weird. Skutter posted:Husband destroyed our toilet and refuses to stop using it and fix it Has she considered taking a picture of the gross toilet and sending it to his boyfriend? wheatpuppy fucked around with this message at 20:58 on Apr 25, 2024 |
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Skutter posted:Husband destroyed our toilet and refuses to stop using it and fix it your husband is the toilet monster
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artsy fartsy posted:TIFU by not telling my doctor how many Tic-Tacs I eat per day https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vaAF_GAc3Mk
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artsy fartsy posted:TIFU by not telling my doctor how many Tic-Tacs I eat per day This is basically the plot of that Seinfeld episode with the "non-fat" frozen yogurt, but with Tic-Tac candies.
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artsy fartsy posted:TIFU by not telling my doctor how many Tic-Tacs I eat per day
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Story is long, and abuse-adjacent, so I won't be posting the whole thing but I did want to highlight this one line. The story so far: Daughter who has been poo poo on by her mother for her whole life is now expected to provide for her in her old age (guess who didn't bother saving for retirement, assuming her kids would take care of her?). Daughter laughs and tells mother, well, exactly what is in the title. AITAH for telling my mother I'd put her into a bad retirement home during my father's wake? quote:I eventually went home early because I was so sick of being berated by my whole family and told that I have duties towards my mother, that I'm the only one she can rely on financially, blah blah blah. To the end I held strong that no, I would not spend one single coin to keep mom in her house, and that if they counted on me to pay for anything, I would ONLY pay for the cheapest retirement house in the country and not one extra cent. After I left, my older brother tried to call me and get me to apologize, saying that mom needed our help now more than anything since her husband just died, and that he understands that I was abused growing up but "mom is old now, we cannot hold onto that grudge forever" to which I said that I'm not holding on to it forever, only as long as mom's alive but she won't be for very long. Brother started screaming insults at me so I hung up and blocked his number. This morning, I woke up to two texts from my other brothers basically saying the same, saying mom is deeply distressed, that she hasn't stopped crying in hours, to please call her and apologize/promise I'll subsidize her lifestyle. I didn't reply to either text.
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AITAH for not wanting my fiancé going on a golf trip 2 weeks before our due date?quote:Me and my fiancé are pregnant with our first baby. I’m 24 weeks pregnant, due beginning of August. He brought up going on a golf trip with his friends for a weekend, 2 weeks before my due date (didn’t ask, just basically told me he was doing that). He said it’s only a 2.5 hour drive away and labor lasts a long time so it will be ok. I told him I’ve never been in labor before and would like him to be there for me, drive me to the hospital etc. It’s a nerve-racking and possibly a once in a lifetime situation for me. He said his mom would be happy to drive me. I told him I don’t want anyone else to drive me or be there for me. I’d rather be alone or with him. I asked him why he can’t go maybe a month before the due date because that may be a bit safer, albeit you just never know. He says he doesn’t think that timing works for his friends. We have not been able to compromise. He’s convinced it’s not a big deal and my feelings don’t matter and I’m convinced he cares more about having fun with his friends than being there for me. Am I in the wrong?
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DreamingofRoses posted:AITAH for not wanting my fiancé going on a golf trip 2 weeks before our due date? Doesn't she realize this pregnancy has been really hard on him? He's probably dying for some me time.
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Okay, while I'm siding with the lady against Pooman and his hairballs, I really want to know how she keeps falling off a slanted toilet and hitting her head. That sounds... dramatic.
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