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Posting this because I'm hoping someone can inform me whether the boyfriend is stupid or this is a legitimate career pursuit. How do I support my boyfriend when he is disappointed? (F25,M24) quote:I (F25) have been with my boyfriend (M24) for a little over a year and a half. From the beginning, he has made it very clear that he has big aspirations for himself to be self-employed as a professional fisherman/angler. He is a big dreamer and he has a big heart, which is a lot of why I am drawn to him. However, he doesn't deal with failure well, and I am not sure how to support him during those moments.
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quote:and the season hasn't even gone into full swing yet. Perhaps there's a reason these things are "seasonal" in the first place...
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:30 |
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Was it bees or wasps that had made a hive on some swings and some goon decided to set it ablaze?
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:32 |
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quote:Farmer's Almanac - Solitary Bee Habitats I actually have one of those in my garden! Five years or so now, and it's never been used. My yard is 3 acres with fruit trees, flowerbeds, tons of flowering plants, and a small vegetable patch, so I'd think I have enough to attract them, but all I ever get are paper wasps in the trees and the eaves of the house, carpenter bees in my deck and barn, and some kind of horrific little things that live underground around my pond. These dig a new home each year so it's always a surprise every spring when I stumble across their new nest and have to run like hell. I do often see honeybees and bumble bees in my plants, so they must nest somewhere nearby; they just don't seem to be attracted to my bee hotel. Troublemaker fucked around with this message at 04:38 on May 5, 2024 |
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Cythereal posted:My [33 M] fiance is drowning in overdue child support, and I [31F] am thinking of leaving him. How is a stay-at-home kind of guy so good at socializing that he can pick up a bartender at her job and marry her two weeks later?
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:36 |
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carrionman posted:I've got 3 hives in my garden, have done for years. Honestly curious, what happens if you don't harvest honey from beehives, what do the bees do with it
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S40CheckingAccount posted:How is a stay-at-home kind of guy so good at socializing that he can pick up a bartender at her job and marry her two weeks later? Alternatively, how psycho is the bartender that gets picked up by some random sofa surfer and marries him two weeks later?
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:39 |
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Batterypowered7 posted:Was it bees or wasps that had made a hive on some swings and some goon decided to set it ablaze? it was bees.
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:42 |
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Roobanguy posted:it was bees. The gently caress it was! It was wasps and you know it!
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:43 |
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Troublemaker posted:I actually have one of those in my garden! Five years or so now, and it's never been used. My yard is 3 acres with fruit trees, flowerbeds, tons of flowering plants, and a small vegetable patch, so I'd think I have enough to attract them, but all I ever get are paper wasps in the trees and the eaves of the house, carpenter bees in my deck and barn, and some kind of horrific little things that live underground around my pond. These dig a new home each year so it's always a surprise every spring when I stumble across their new nest and have to run like hell. it's because the maid service is poo poo, I've seen the reviews
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:46 |
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The key to a successful bee hotel is building buzz
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:48 |
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redshirt posted:The gently caress it was! It was wasps and you know it! i'm sorry.... https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=2243176
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# ? May 5, 2024 04:51 |
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once again a discussion about bees swerves back to anti-wasp propaganda
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S40CheckingAccount posted:How is a stay-at-home kind of guy so good at socializing that he can pick up a bartender at her job and marry her two weeks later? Runcible Cat posted:Alternatively, how psycho is the bartender that gets picked up by some random sofa surfer and marries him two weeks later? Probably a mix of psychotic break manic energy and asking literally anything that looks female until he finds someone also willing to make terrible decisions. That or he's a musician.
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# ? May 5, 2024 05:08 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:Honestly curious, what happens if you don't harvest honey from beehives, what do the bees do with it Feed it to their larva. Responsible beekeepers don’t take all the honey when they harvest
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# ? May 5, 2024 05:19 |
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Some people just can't bee respectful of our furry flying friends https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jnecnhS-Z4
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YggiDee posted:once again a discussion about bees swerves back to anti-wasp propaganda Tbh a wasp has never stung me, maybe everyone else just has bad vibes. Wasps are cool.
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# ? May 5, 2024 05:52 |
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Ive only ever been stung by honeybees, once immediately following an adult saying "they dont sting for no reason!" Take your stinging animal propaganda and rub it all over your face to get more youthful skin!!!
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Barudak posted:Ive only ever been stung by honeybees, once immediately following an adult saying "they dont sting for no reason!" They're not wrong
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Barudak posted:Ive only ever been stung by honeybees, once immediately following an adult saying "they dont sting for no reason!"
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Edit: lol that was paaaages ago. Honestly I'm bad at this. Something about bees now. moist banana bread fucked around with this message at 06:26 on May 5, 2024 |
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yesterday i watched my dad's cat gently batting a bug for like, five minutes. i wandered over to see what it was, it was a bee. i took him away from the bee before he could eat it
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# ? May 5, 2024 06:27 |
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Bees rule, cats drool (after trying to eat a bee)
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Oh I am livid with this bitch, that one has to be made up.quote:Deep down I still love her but she also can't understand why I'm so upset. What should I do? Uh because you married a psychopath???? moist banana bread fucked around with this message at 06:40 on May 5, 2024 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:Honestly curious, what happens if you don't harvest honey from beehives, what do the bees do with it European honeybees have basically been bred to need harvesting like sheep need shearing, if you leave the honey in there they run out of room, then they can maybe decide to swarm and find a home with more room. A swarming hive will not make you friends with your neighbors. Imagine 50-100k bees all deciding to make a tornado of insects usually at about 10am, then all buggering off. Or they can get honeybound, where basically every available space is packed with honey, including where the queen should be laying her eggs, which means fewer bees, potentially so few that when winter hits they don't have the mass to keep warm and they all freeze to death. Of course if you take too much honey then they starve in the cold, because that's their winter supplies, and a strong hive can eat a good kilo of honey a day if the weather is bad. I'll normally leave around 10kg for them for a winter.
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AITAH for not telling my parents that my adopted son was my biological son until there was a financial reason to do so?quote:My parents have never liked my oldest son Nathaniel. He was my godson and the child of my best friend and her wife. If you guessed he was the only male grandchild... YOU'RE RIGHT!
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Eat poo poo, grandparents. Speaking of poo poo family, it was brought up in another thread, does anyone have that post of an OP sussing out which friend/family member was feeding info to their lovely parents by giving fake info to various family members and seeing what filtered to them, and one of the people they gave fake info to got all pissy because they were lied to? I'd search for it myself but I'm phone posting
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S40CheckingAccount posted:How is a stay-at-home kind of guy so good at socializing that he can pick up a bartender at her job and marry her two weeks later? Perhaps because he has 0 standards. I can recall a few friends who were extremely successful at picking up women because they had this going on + being conventionally pretty attractive.
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S40CheckingAccount posted:How is a stay-at-home kind of guy so good at socializing that he can pick up a bartender at her job and marry her two weeks later? Booze. Maybe booze and drugs. He sounds so awful he maybe has some sort of personality disorder too. That's being unfair to the average borderline person though, he is in a totally different league. All this bee chat reminds me of when I got stung on the balls, three times, by a hornet that flew up my 1970s flares (I assume) I hurt so bad, I thought I'd been struck by some sort of invisible lightning or something, at least until I found a dying hornet in underpants. I had to walk like some sort of bow legged mini-cowboy for a week after the pain stayed so long. Aye, gimme bees any days, wasps even, but gently caress those horny hornet bastards. YerDa Zabam fucked around with this message at 11:32 on May 5, 2024 |
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Barudak posted:Ive only ever been stung by honeybees, once immediately following an adult saying "they dont sting for no reason!" have you ever considered the honeybees thought you had bad vibes
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dervival posted:have you ever considered the honeybees thought you had bad vibes Cats also inexplicably hate me so Ive long ago decided that
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Shanghaied posted:Another one from the OP lol: I need to know how this exam went. What was asked and what did he answer
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Troublemaker posted:Bees rule, cats drool (after trying to eat a bee) drat right
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Why is a 2:2 grade at university, generally seen as poor?quote:I am just about to graduate. I honestly did not understand grades etc at university and I mostly only went cause I did not want to miss out on the potential friends, parties, relationships that could have occurred. Currently on track for a 2:2.
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you know what they say, P's make degrees
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Xun posted:Why is a 2:2 grade at university, generally seen as poor?
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mystes posted:Can someone translate this into American? It's a little hard to directly compare to an American GPA but it's a C grade degree, so probably a little under a 3.0? It's still a passing degree but it's not a great one.
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mystes posted:Can someone translate this into American? Grade wise they're in the bottom 20% of graduating students basically
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S40CheckingAccount posted:Some awfully notable walking back and worsening in the latter half of this one The kids are the assholes, they should eat their stomachs full during the free lunch that is arranged by the school and kindergarten
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Serene Dragon posted:It's a little hard to directly compare to an American GPA but it's a C grade degree, so probably a little under a 3.0? It's still a passing degree but it's not a great one. A C is typically 70%, no? An E or pass is 60% in the US and elsewhere, although some countries and programmes have 50% for Es. IIRC in the British system a 2:2 is 50 - 59%, so basically barely-passing-to-fail in other systems.
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