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Wicked Them Beats posted:The "our racism was entirely the result of a wicked third party playing evil mind tricks on us!" claim is a load of horseshit, but if they're going to keep their dumb opinions to themselves and Yang is satisfied with the state of things then it's about as good an outcome as you're going to get. Yeah... Similar thoughts were percolating in my brain, too. I hope it is as good as they are representing it, but... Yeah.
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Here's one with a nice lil update AITA for wearing white to a wedding? quote:I (27F) have a friend (25F) that just got married last Saturday. My friend is South Asian (not Indian) and she decided to wear a red traditional dress for her wedding. I asked what the dress code were, and she said that she genuinely just wanted her guests to look at their best. She also said that there isn’t a forbidden/frowned upon colour to wear as in Christian wedding in Europe. So I decided to go with a white cream dress (see in the link). AITA for wearing white to a wedding?- UPDATE quote:UPDATE
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Keep the son, set fire to the husband and MiL. yes, once they are cooked you can eat them, solving several problems at once
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Cool Dad posted:She misheard, they were calling her Tony Pizza That would make her even more angry. She hates being Tony Pizza. Chewbecca posted:Both MIL and husband can get hosed. How are they not even accounting for wife/DIL in the equation when eating? Where did they think the food came from? Of course they are accounting for OP in the equation when eating. There's no way that both of them would simply forget that she would need to eat too. This is probably their way of "helping her lose the pregnancy weight". Honestly, she should get a divorce. Nebrilos fucked around with this message at 09:20 on May 8, 2024 |
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Nebrilos posted:That would make her even more angry. She hates being Tony Pizza. it's a real marinara flag
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# ? May 8, 2024 09:21 |
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Troublemaker posted:Here's one with a nice lil update I know for Sri Lankan weddings one doesn't go for white since it's a funeral colour
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Technocrat posted:I know for Sri Lankan weddings one doesn't go for white since it's a funeral colour I will wear white to a Sri Lankan wedding and sing My Way in a karaoke bar in the Philippines.
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# ? May 8, 2024 09:34 |
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'Mound out of a molehill' made me lol
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# ? May 8, 2024 09:40 |
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Hughlander posted:Urge To Kill...Rising... They ate FOUR pizzas?? Grandma glutton
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# ? May 8, 2024 11:42 |
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MagusofStars posted:OP apparently operates under the rules of mythical creatures, where she will answer a question honestly, but only the exact question asked. Talk to stupid Sphinx, win stupid prizes
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# ? May 8, 2024 11:43 |
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The Alchemist posted:Talk to stupid Sphinx, "What is married in the morning, opens the relationship at midday, and single in the evening?"
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# ? May 8, 2024 12:43 |
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You know the Sphinx just ate all the dumb people. We need the Sphinx back
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My (29F) Husband (27M) allowed his Brother (30M) to propose to his Girlfriend (23F) at our wedding after I said No. Is our marriage salvageable?quote:Throwaway because my handle is a recognizable one. Names have been changed.
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# ? May 8, 2024 13:18 |
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I feel like “I didn’t want to stress you out” is the most common excuse men use when lying to their partners or withholding information.
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# ? May 8, 2024 13:30 |
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It makes sense since people don't usually get at all stressed out when someone goes behind their back to do something they explicitly said they weren't okay with during something that's already one of the most stressful days of their life
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AITA for refusing to give my stepdaughter a graduation present?quote:I (48M) have been married to my wife (43F) for 6 years. She has a daughter (18F) from a previous relationship who I'll call Amy. Amy just graduated high school last week. have a guy who is getting roasted to gently caress in the comments
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# ? May 8, 2024 13:38 |
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Safety Dance posted:Using my own fleshlight at work I thought this was going to be an autocorrect posting at first, where we'd just laugh at the poor newbie who had one letter wrong in his question. I was not prepared for union-provided fleshlights. datajugend posted:They ate FOUR pizzas?? Grandma glutton At first I thought these were tiny individual pizzas since she talked about them being homemade, but they also talked about cutting them into slices and you don't usually slice tiny pizzas.
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# ? May 8, 2024 13:45 |
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Why can't people just explain "you don't propose at other people's weddings because you are taking someone else's celebration and making it about you, and that's rude and lovely."
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Sometimes I think it's the incredulity, that you actually have to explain that to another human being in the first place.
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For the kind of person who wants to propose at someone else's wedding, the rudeness is the point.
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artsy fartsy posted:AITAH for kicking my (26F) boyfriend (31M) and his friends (27-34M) out after I overherd a conversation where they compared me to Tony Soprano? fake sopranos fans, they would have called her a goomah
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Yeah, they don't need it to be explained because they don't care. They see it as the most logical way of saving a whole bunch of time and money because "everyone we know and love will already be at the wedding"
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# ? May 8, 2024 13:59 |
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Yeah, less intentionally rude and more just completely lazy and moochful.
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mystes posted:The probability distribution of a murder suicide occurring in a specific places makes no difference in terms of the expected probability of one occurring a second time given that one occurred to a first time compared to one occurring for the first time if two events of murder suicide are uncorrelated, and based on the central limit you can still get a normal distribution of the frequencies in that case, which is what I assume you actually mean by murder suicides being normally distributed. It’s only takes 30 houses in the same room for the likelihood that two of them share a murder-suicide day to be over 50%
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2 houses sharing the same murder suicide?
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AceClown posted:AITA for refusing to give my stepdaughter a graduation present? "we aren't particularly close" bud you've been in her life for 6 years plus. obviously this is news to her.
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It's weird when adults think kids are supposed to be like adults and responsible for their interpersonal relationship just like the adult is. Because obviously they don't actually treat children like they're real people in any other context
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Benagain posted:2 houses sharing the same murder suicide?
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Harold Fjord posted:It's weird when adults think kids are supposed to be like adults and responsible for their interpersonal relationship just like the adult is. Because obviously they don't actually treat children like they're real people in any other context america being the only country not to ratify the UN Rights of the Child is frustrating
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I thought this was going to be an autocorrect posting at first, where we'd just laugh at the poor newbie who had one letter wrong in his question. I was not prepared for union-provided fleshlights. i also thought this, it took me a bit lol what an incredible brain on the OP
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# ? May 8, 2024 14:39 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Yeah, they don't need it to be explained because they don't care. They see it as the most logical way of saving a whole bunch of time and money because "everyone we know and love will already be at the wedding" I don't think I'd have minded if the timing were right. If I'm already hitched, dances danced, and halfway to drunk and horny and on my way out of the venue, if a cousin or sibling or something wanted to have 2 whole minutes of my Special Day to announce an announcement? Seems possible to me. Obviously, it can be done badly and inconsiderately, and I'd want to talk it through first, but I'm not convinced it is a third rail faux pas that you are automatically an rear end in a top hat for thinking.
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I think if you ask and are specifically told not to do it then it does in fact automatically make you an rear end in a top hat.
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Slo-Tek posted:I don't think I'd have minded if the timing were right. If I'm already hitched, dances danced, and halfway to drunk and horny and on my way out of the venue, if a cousin or sibling or something wanted to have 2 whole minutes of my Special Day to announce an announcement? Seems possible to me. Obviously, it can be done badly and inconsiderately, and I'd want to talk it through first, but I'm not convinced it is a third rail faux pas that you are automatically an rear end in a top hat for thinking. Sure, but waiting until people have started wandering off defeats the purpose of hijacking a big event where everyone's already gathered so that's not what people are typically doing. Then at the other extreme you get stuff like this: WIBTA if I proposed to my girlfriend after my brother's destination wedding? quote:My brother and my future SIL will have a destination wedding in the Philippines. And they wanted us to fly in 2 days prior to their wedding day. However, they're not paying for any of our flights, hotel, food and etc. IIRC there was another story from the previous thread where someone proposed privately in their hotel room after the reception was done and dusted and got told off for it, but I'm not going to spend a lot of time digging.
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Mx. posted:My (29F) Husband (27M) allowed his Brother (30M) to propose to his Girlfriend (23F) at our wedding after I said No. Is our marriage salvageable? The immediate annulment feels weird cause like, didn’t you knowingly sign up to marry a guy with high-functioning autism? Who isn’t great in social situations? His toxic family ran over him in a social situation and you’re mad that he didn’t handle it well. Did this lady not think anything through when she decided to marry him?
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# ? May 8, 2024 15:04 |
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FSIL is an entitled moron - how can it take attention away from the wedding if it happens afterwards and in private? What, just because it happens to be in the same country (don't get me started on "destination" weddings)? FSIL can go gently caress herself.
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the holy poopacy posted:Sure, but waiting until people have started wandering off defeats the purpose of hijacking a big event where everyone's already gathered so that's not what people are typically doing. How dare you propose during my birthday month, you selfish monster?
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# ? May 8, 2024 15:14 |
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I don't have any strong feelings about family members announcing their own weddings at someone else's wedding ceremony inherently but it seems like, at least in the case of people who want to do this despite being told no, they do so specifically because it's very important that they announce their wedding in person to receive attention, and therefore they are essentially intentionally trying to hijack the attention given to the bride and groom in the wedding However, by the same token the people who say no to this seem to also have an unhealthy attitude towards their own wedding ceremony
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That whole DONT TAKE MY ATTENTION ITS ALL MINE PEOPLE EXIST ONLY TO LOOK AT ME TODAY vibe is unsettling, but I also get that a lot of women are poo poo upon daily by this world so they may put an inordinate amount of stock into the one day they can assume they will be treated well and as if they are important.
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My ex-wife and I wanted to get married in the summer (indoors) and my sister threw a fit because her three children were born in June, July, and August and our anniversary taking place during any of those months would render their birthdays meaningless or something. EDIT: I think people are getting hung up on the idea of this sort of thing being done at a wedding. It would also be inappropriate to announce your engagement during your sibling's graduation party, for example.
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mom and dad fight a lot posted:Final Update: AITAH - My friend keeps on talking about my Ex in front of my fiancée congrats to OP on finding a diamond tier wife, drat
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