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Tarezax posted:Maybe my art and penmanship wires are a bit crossed from learning to write Chinese. Chinese writing instruction teaches basic penmanship principles alongside stroke order and whatnot. r/relationships: to be clear I have never laid my hands or my flip flops on him ever.
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# ? May 18, 2024 09:44 |
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# ? Jun 11, 2024 11:26 |
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AITAH for not wanting to go to my sister's wedding because she's getting married on my birthday?quote:My (20M) sister (25F) is getting married on my birthday. When I found out the date she was planning on getting married (June 1st) I was very surprised. She told me about her plans last year and told me that it was because her fiance wanted to make sure his family would be able to fly so he suggested that date since all the kids would be out of school by then. Ok, so if wedding>birthday, where does 21st birthday come in?
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# ? May 18, 2024 09:57 |
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I feel like having your first legal drink be the champagne toast at your sister's wedding is a pretty fun anecdote. Work it into your speech, the aunties will love it.
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# ? May 18, 2024 10:11 |
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I mean no one can make you do anything, but FFS it's a chance to show your family you care about them. If you don't want to that is your perogative, but don't act suprised if people don't care about your poo poo in the future.
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# ? May 18, 2024 10:15 |
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Might as well just start drinking at 12:01am and show up munted to your sister's wedding if you want to be excluded from the family so much.
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# ? May 18, 2024 10:26 |
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Feel like the various bent out of shape about birthday people are doing it wrong. I've had a bunch of birthdays, and extensive testing indicates it doesn't really matter if I celebrate (and am celebrated) on the day of, or maybe we push it out till the weekend.
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# ? May 18, 2024 10:31 |
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AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal?quote:I (19F) am good friends with Emily (20F) since highschool. Emily wants to move to South California, apparently she has enough to move there. Unfortunately, South California is basically home to a bunch of attractive women. If you aren’t attractive in SoCal, then you aren’t necessarily going to fit in.
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:01 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal? lmao people get such weird ideas about California
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:11 |
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"struggling to talk to me" is a weird way to describe "ignoring the poo poo out of me"
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:17 |
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Josef bugman posted:I mean no one can make you do anything, but FFS it's a chance to show your family you care about them. If you don't want to that is your perogative, but don't act suprised if people don't care about your poo poo in the future. She already showed she didn't care about her family when she booked her wedding on the same day as her sister's 21st birthday.
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:22 |
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Tarezax posted:lmao people get such weird ideas about California Can confirm, I live in Southern California and there are ugly people here just like anywhere else. OP needs to meet that "have you no sprezzaturra? must you look so pained?" guy.
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:34 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal? sounds like she'd fit right in in Alberta
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# ? May 18, 2024 11:42 |
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Slo-Tek posted:Feel like the various bent out of shape about birthday people are doing it wrong. I've had a bunch of birthdays, and extensive testing indicates it doesn't really matter if I celebrate (and am celebrated) on the day of, or maybe we push it out till the weekend. the significance of this one is that presbylutheran Americans who haven't been allowed to sniff so much as a microgram of alcohol put an enormous amount of weight on their 21st birthday as a result. if dude exists he's trying to eschew religious dogma so hard he's willing to sacrifice the next 60 years of family relationship with his sister for it just so he can get plastered on his 21st birthday. verdict: the rack
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# ? May 18, 2024 12:22 |
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Slo-Tek posted:So, somebody familiar with 100$ to show up parties, what is the point here? Do the people demanding this windfall also go to dozens of 100$ to attend parties to bleed it all back out, or is this musical chairs where you hope that you throw the last 100$ to show up party, and sit the rest of them out, bag secured? I've been to a party like this, my friend's 30th birthday was this type of party where she rented out like a fancy party area of a hotel and a hospitality suite and stuff. Except she didn't charge anyone because she's a trust fund kid and paid for it all herself, but it was the kind of okay where normally everyone would chip in
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# ? May 18, 2024 13:12 |
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If your relative holds their wedding on your birthday, have your partner propose to you at their reception and announce you're pregnant
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# ? May 18, 2024 13:14 |
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Lone Goat posted:She already showed she didn't care about her family when she booked her wedding on the same day as her sister's 21st birthday. His, the dude is 20m currently. You don't have to go along if you don't want to, but you also don't get to be suprised if people don't show for things that are inconvenient for them.
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# ? May 18, 2024 13:20 |
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FMguru posted:A company fucks itself, and then decides to follow that up by loving itself even harder. From r/AskHR: lol this company about to get some exposure alright if they fire her
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# ? May 18, 2024 13:22 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal? It's true. They do Logan's Run there.
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# ? May 18, 2024 14:38 |
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Josef bugman posted:His, the dude is 20m currently. You don't have to go along if you don't want to, but you also don't get to be suprised if people don't show for things that are inconvenient for them. I mean the real problem is that now his birthday is going to be forever overshadowed by his Sister's wedding anniversary. And is his sister going to make room to celebrate him *at* her wedding? or is he just going to have to sit there and stew in silence?
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# ? May 18, 2024 14:56 |
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lol another person assuming anybody but the couple will give a flying gently caress about their anniversary other than, like, maybe the first one and the fiftieth one
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# ? May 18, 2024 15:04 |
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Kid should go enjoy his birthday, 21 in the US is enough of a milestone that if it matters to you celebrating it at a wedding would suck. Also yea their anniversary isn't going to interfere with his future birthdays, that's not a thing.
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# ? May 18, 2024 15:19 |
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Fil5000 posted:"struggling to talk to me" is a weird way to describe "ignoring the poo poo out of me" Obviously she wants to talk to OP; after all she clearly admires OP's beauty and helpfulness. There must be some kind of mysterious force preventing her from doing it, maybe psychic control or possession. Has the friend handled any cursed relics lately?
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# ? May 18, 2024 15:38 |
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A HUNGRY MOUTH posted:Obviously she wants to talk to OP; after all she clearly admires OP's beauty and helpfulness. There must be some kind of mysterious force preventing her from doing it, maybe psychic control or possession. Has the friend handled any cursed relics lately? Clearly the friend needs to find another cursed relic so Andrew Divoff can fix it all
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# ? May 18, 2024 15:49 |
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It'd be funny if the guy ends up going and it turns out its a dry wedding.
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# ? May 18, 2024 15:54 |
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Internetjack posted:It'd be funny if the guy ends up going and it turns out its a dry wedding. I like that Billy Idol song
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:02 |
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i like to think the guy who ran off with his college money and the guy who fragrenced his penis are the same guy
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:14 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal? Does she think that Southern California is huge dance club, surrounded by a giant velvet rope with bouncers on the roads and in the airport telling everyone who doesn't look like a model to get out?
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:21 |
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The_Franz posted:Does she think that Southern California is huge dance club, surrounded by a giant velvet rope with bouncers on the roads and in the airport telling everyone who doesn't look like a model to get out? No, she justs thinks TV is real life
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:35 |
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Troublemaker posted:AITAH for not wanting to go to my sister's wedding because she's getting married on my birthday? I'm gonna go ESH (or maybe even NAH) on that. I can see why he'd be a bit upset, even if you have a full birthday party another day, you might well expect to be able to sit down and open cards/presents, maybe have a nice meal and a chill day doing what you want, but there's going to be exactly zero space for you on a wedding day. And they way he frames it, it doesn't sound like there's a significance to the day beyond that it's in school holiday, so, like, why not go for the following weekend? I don't think I'd deliberately schedule my wedding on an immediate relative's milestone birthday, it just feels weird to me. And he's not even demanding they move it or making a big stink about how unfair it is, he's just decided not to go and let them get on with it. I agree with you guys that the wedding is the more important event, and I think he may well regret skipping it, but it doesn't seem like he's making it anyone else's problem. The conflict is just that his sister doesn't like the choice he made, and that feels like a her problem.
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:36 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:AITA for telling a friend they aren’t attractive enough for SoCal? I can't believe the people in this thread suggesting that Katy Perry's 'California Gurls' is not an accurate description of the state of California.
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:45 |
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A lot of attractive people do move to LA to try to make it in Hollywood, but most of them go back to the Midwest after inevitably washing out so it doesn’t move the needle as much as people think.
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:49 |
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deported to Canada posted:I can't believe the people in this thread suggesting that Katy Perry's 'California Gurls' is not an accurate description of the state of California. it's undeniable
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:53 |
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I went to LA on vacation last year and everybody was crazy hot. Wait staff, desk clerk at car rental place, museum docent. It honestly was like I was in a tv show.
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# ? May 18, 2024 16:59 |
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Tarezax posted:lmao people get such weird ideas about California
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# ? May 18, 2024 17:05 |
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California pushing through a constitutional amendment restricting the right to free interstate travel in favor of attractiveness border checks. Uggos may be allowed temporary visits, given appropriate travel visas
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# ? May 18, 2024 17:09 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:California pushing through a constitutional amendment restricting the right to free interstate travel in favor of attractiveness border checks. Uggos may be allowed temporary visits, given appropriate travel visas There's plenty of room in California for everyone. Just don't allow uggos past Bakersfield.
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# ? May 18, 2024 17:14 |
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Wii Spawn Camper posted:A lot of attractive people do move to LA to try to make it in Hollywood, but most of them go back to the Midwest after inevitably washing out so it doesn’t move the needle as much as people think. I heard it was more that a lot of them end up sticking around and the gene pool ends up crazy.
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# ? May 18, 2024 17:16 |
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Batterypowered7 posted:I like that Billy Idol song lmao I can hear the talentless christian cover band playing this
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# ? May 18, 2024 17:20 |
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AITA for ruining my boyfriend’s brother’s wedding, by showing up?quote:So I (16m) boyfriend’s (17m) older brother just got married this past year and I was invited as a plus one.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for ruining my boyfriend’s brother’s wedding, by showing up? Yes, you’re the rear end in a top hat for sure, for ruining whoever’s wedding or something, definitely. I just can’t see it any other way kid, you’re an rear end in a top hat.
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