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not trying to sweep the Damiya thing under the rug or anything, just don't think those threads are supposed to stay in public forums. RIP Damiya don't think this will be a long term cjs thread, just somewhere for you guys to react or whatever.
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prefect posted:there's a poem called "richard cory", about a guy who's rich and successful and well-liked, and who kills himself. it's not going to be as cause-and-effect as you want it to be. maybe some improvements can be helpful for some people, but sometimes it's not going to make a difference Richard Coury has a happy ending though, this is real hosed up and sad.
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whoa holy poo poo y'all i come back from getting slapped around by work and see that we're neck in neck with the catte thread our family dealt with a p serious attempt last year and the only reason that this person is even still alive is because they paralyzed themselves enough to be unable to finish the job and were instead stuck at the site for like 6 hours before being found and brought to the hospital this was attempt #2 for this person after they attempted it with pills (which turned out not to be lethal at any dosage) what was super fun was administering heavy painkillers needed by a person due to a suicide attempt who had previously made an attempt with pills - you basically hafta have a safe to keep the pills in since they've gotta be someplace in the household and they just stare at the pills the whole time you're giving them to em ugh this kinda thing is the worst
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Citizen Tayne posted:Richard Coury has a happy ending though, this is real hosed up and sad. "the right people never get hurt" --reid fleming, world's toughest milkman and i get it swsp; i remember ozma (i think) posting that saying you're suicidal will get you banned, because they don't want to encourage that kind of thing and people should get pro help instead of complaining on the internet
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can't get at the post i was in the middle of quoting but: hey quiggy you seem to be dealing w/ yr transition + all the poo poo that comes with it better than most anyone else ive seen. don't know how you manage it considering how much you got on your plate, but it's hella impressive 
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Citizen Tayne posted:Richard Coury has a happy ending though, this is real hosed up and sad. don't sign all our posts
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even tho all of you are lovely posters please don't kill yourself.
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coffeetable posted:can't get at the post i was in the middle of quoting but: yeah same.
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also at a completely different level, posting your suicide note to yospos jesus loving christ if any of you feel like that's something you'd do, your life is hosed up. get a hobby and make some friends
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PuTTY riot posted:even tho all of you are lovely posters please don't kill you are self.
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good work mr parrot.Cold on a Cob posted:don't sign all our posts
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PuTTY riot posted:even tho all of you are lovely posters please don't kill yourself. i love all of u even tori
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Cold on a Cob posted:don't sign all our posts
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PuTTY riot posted:even tho all of you are lovely posters please don't kill yourself. i love u all even the ones i dont like
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gently caress. don't kill yourself. get help if you think you need it. talk to your friends and family.
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coffeetable posted:can't get at the post i was in the middle of quoting but: quigs is a loving rockstar on the real and im proud to call her an e-friend
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not now cosby damnit
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Jonny 290 posted:quigs is a loving rockstar on the real and im proud to call her an e-friend same
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for what it's worth I don't think anybody should blame themselves for not doing more. she'd made up her mind weeks ago. that suicide note was no cry for help. there's some hosed up solace to be had in the fact she posted it here at all. she knew there were people here who would miss her and did us the courtesy of sharing it with us instead of just disappearing.
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Jonny 290 posted:quigs is a loving rockstar on the real and im proud to call her an e-friend same. i also considered damiya my e-friend. 
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Werthog 95 posted:for what it's worth I don't think anybody should blame themselves for not doing more. she'd made up her mind weeks ago. that suicide note was no cry for help. that's true i guess, i still feel crummy though
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Werthog 95 posted:for what it's worth I don't think anybody should blame themselves for not doing more. she'd made up her mind weeks ago. that suicide note was no cry for help. yeah. i am actually glad she posted a link to the note here. beats finding out about it a month from now
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born on a buy you posted:gently caress. don't kill yourself. get help if you think you need it. talk to your friends and family.
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H.P. Hovercraft posted:whoa holy poo poo y'all i come back from getting slapped around by work and see that we're neck in neck with the catte thread the day i got my wisdom teeth out, i remember my mom talking to the surgeon about the long night they'd just had (she was a nurse) -- a kid had tried to kill himself, but didn't account for recoil, and blew off the front of his face instead. i hope this isn't a terrible thing to say, but i like to think it was as quick and painless as possible for damiya
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Werthog 95 posted:for what it's worth I don't think anybody should blame themselves for not doing more. she'd made up her mind weeks ago. that suicide note was no cry for help. planning it out and setting a date is strongest indicator for a successful attempt and the very first thing that a healthcare worker will ask you if they have reason to suspect or w/e
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Man I don't really post in the cj thread but like =\ we're all one forum
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whos damiya
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prefect posted:the day i got my wisdom teeth out, i remember my mom talking to the surgeon about the long night they'd just had (she was a nurse) -- a kid had tried to kill himself, but didn't account for recoil, and blew off the front of his face instead. i hope this isn't a terrible thing to say, but i like to think it was as quick and painless as possible for damiya not to get all morbid but it was 00 buckshot. she didn't hurt.
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i loved chatting with damiya when she was up and hated it when she was down. and the ugly truth is that for a while she was banned from #yospos b/c she was too upset and off the rails and we didnt know how to help and she didnt know how to accept help but i cant dwell on that b/c i believe that guilt is a horrible millstone and instead am going to focus on trying to honor damiya by being a little bit more patient and kind and tolerant to those of us around me that are in pain
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prefect posted:the day i got my wisdom teeth out, i remember my mom talking to the surgeon about the long night they'd just had (she was a nurse) -- a kid had tried to kill himself, but didn't account for recoil, and blew off the front of his face instead. i hope this isn't a terrible thing to say, but i like to think it was as quick and painless as possible for damiya That isn't a hosed up thing to say at all, no one wants to see anyone suffer.
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prefect posted:the day i got my wisdom teeth out, i remember my mom talking to the surgeon about the long night they'd just had (she was a nurse) -- a kid had tried to kill himself, but didn't account for recoil, and blew off the front of his face instead. i hope this isn't a terrible thing to say, but i like to think it was as quick and painless as possible for damiya i don't think it's terrible at all to hope that, if it happened, it hopefully happened in the least painful way. drat. i never knew damiya but this is still very sad.
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Jonny 290 posted:
Good man
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Also killing yourself after you've "won" and have a high-paying job makes a certain amount of sense, once the dog has caught the car what the gently caress does he do then
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:
Yeah this
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prefect posted:the day i got my wisdom teeth out, i remember my mom talking to the surgeon about the long night they'd just had (she was a nurse) -- a kid had tried to kill himself, but didn't account for recoil, and blew off the front of his face instead. i hope this isn't a terrible thing to say, but i like to think it was as quick and painless as possible for damiya this is super common - futurewife had one of those and they were putting him through rehab even tho he was blind and couldn't eat through his "mouth" and his life was basically over and would for sure attempt it again, probably by walking into the street after being discharged hoooooly poo poo tho do not ask healthcare workers for sympathy about suicide attempt victims i have never heard so much bile and rancor from a nurse or doctor
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i have dealt with mental illness for a long time. it took me five years to come to terms with the fact that i had depression and it took me several years to figure out what it was and how to handle it. it never goes away and for some it takes their lives seeing someone go after seeing so many indications of a problem being there is painful for me. seeing a note left in an irc channel for everyone to read including myself is even worse it's not her fault for this and it was not selfish. the pain is awful, dark, and in almost all cases, indescribable i am sad hug your friends, family, pets, whatever... love, family, and friends is what keeps the problem from getting its grips on me
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OSI bean dip posted:hug your friends, family, pets, whatever... love, family, and friends is what keeps the problem from getting its grips on me i could never kill myself as long as my parents were still alive. for whatever ridiculous reason, they seem to like me, and making them sad like that would be a terrible thing
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