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I'm not in school and I'm not interested in anyone at work. How do I even meet girls as a 25 year old male? In high school, things were so much easier and I never even took advantage. Now, it would be "creepy" if i tried to hang out there. I don't dance, and I really don't have a wingman to go to bars with. I guess I could go alone and sit at the bar like an old alcoholic, but I just don't really think that's a thing outside of lovely, old pubs where most of my fellow drinking comrades will be older, depressed men. The only place I regularly go outside of work is the gym, and I've never seen an opening there. Help me, GBS.
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hurry *looks around* RUUUNNN!!!!
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Jul 19, 2016 16:13
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Get some friends?
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Jul 19, 2016 16:13
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Prorat posted:Get some friends? I have friends, they aren't really the bar-going types. Makes sense, neither am I.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:15
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Unsolicited dick pics
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Jul 19, 2016 16:15
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try going to comic con or anthrocon or anything that ends with "con"
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Jul 19, 2016 16:16
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buy a puppy and take it to the beach also having good weed helps
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Jul 19, 2016 16:16
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On Backpage there are "escorts", they can accompany you to dinner, movies, or whatever, for a nominal fee. I hope this helps
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Jul 19, 2016 16:16
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Moon Atari posted:Unsolicited dick pics I feel like it would get made fun of, society is telling everyone to be obsessed with size, even when most girls, deep down, are not. I'm probably slightly below average, but it's definitely a handsome cock.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:17
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Uhh the internet dude. Or do it old school and be a man about town doing things that make you seem attractive. Then you sack up and talk to one you like. I recommend complimenting their appearance and asking for a phone number.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:18
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Become transgender. That should put you in touch with other girls.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:19
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Hell Yeah posted:try going to comic con or anthrocon or anything that ends with "con" i don't really like comics or anime or star trek. i would not fit in.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:20
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a dog from hell posted:Uhh the internet dude. Or do it old school and be a man about town doing things that make you seem attractive. Then you sack up and talk to one you like. I recommend complimenting their appearance and asking for a phone number. I failed at Tinder, was rejected by nearly my entire zipcode and surrounding zipcodes. My pics were poor, but that wound is still too fresh to jump back in those waters. I guess I could go to a starbucks and act like I'm writing a novel. But that could become expensive, fancy coffee isn't cheap.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:22
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meet them on omegle and chatroulette
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Jul 19, 2016 16:22
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:I failed at Tinder, was rejected by nearly my entire zipcode and surrounding zipcodes. My pics were poor, but that wound is still too fresh to jump back in those waters. I guess I could go to a starbucks and act like I'm writing a novel. But that could become expensive, fancy coffee isn't cheap. Well, your head is in the right place at least. I say have at it and if you don't find success then refer to Kuato's post.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:24
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start wearing very tight leggings, they will come to you
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Jul 19, 2016 16:24
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Kuato posted:On Backpage there are "escorts", they can accompany you to dinner, movies, or whatever, for a nominal fee. I hope this helps I have ethics, man. I think the struggle is all too real in America to indulge in escort services. Women are drawn to that profession out of desperation, not desire. If I was in a progressive Euro country where new moms get 6 years paid off-work, I would be all about that stuff.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:26
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Drape yourself in the finest shoes. e: Do activities that require frequent shoe changes.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:26
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City of Tampa posted:buy a puppy and take it to the beach this man speaks the truth dogs + weed = women
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Jul 19, 2016 16:26
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:I have ethics, man. I think the struggle is all too real in America to indulge in escort services. Women are drawn to that profession out of desperation, not desire. If I was in a progressive Euro country where new moms get 6 years paid off-work, I would be all about that stuff. Horseshit. They're hooking because they're lazy and need cash for drugs.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:27
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:I failed at Tinder, was rejected by nearly my entire zipcode and surrounding zipcodes. My pics were poor, but that wound is still too fresh to jump back in those waters. I guess I could go to a starbucks and act like I'm writing a novel. But that could become expensive, fancy coffee isn't cheap. No that's stupid. God has other plans for you. Become a Trappist Monk
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Jul 19, 2016 16:27
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try musk
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Jul 19, 2016 16:28
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volunteering somewhere, especially in the arts, is a great way to get hella laid/find a gf/whatever you're after. especially if, like me, you're not a mincing theatre student like every other male in the place will be.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:29
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Luvcow posted:this man speaks the truth A. My apartment doesn't allow dogs. B. I don't want to take care of a dog.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:30
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a series of deadfalls and skilled use of a blowdart gun
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Jul 19, 2016 16:30
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a dog from hell posted:Horseshit. They're hooking because they're lazy and need cash for drugs. Having sex with strangers to fuel an addictive craving isn't desperation to you?
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Jul 19, 2016 16:31
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Find some activities that sound interesting to you on Meetup or whatever that have a social component and then do that for a while. Usually there are singles groups for different age ranges in most cities as well where you can hang out. Even if you don't make a connection with someone there, it gets you more comfortable in social situations and also means you come off as more interesting to women in general.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:31
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Wait, so you don't go to bars... ...or cons...? Do you do loving anything? I guess you should work on being less boring.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:31
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chalk posted:volunteering somewhere, especially in the arts, is a great way to get hella laid/find a gf/whatever you're after. especially if, like me, you're not a mincing theatre student like every other male in the place will be. wtf does that even mean? you want me to mop jizz at the community theater for free? why don't I just get a second job at mcdonalds and get paid for it?
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Jul 19, 2016 16:32
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:A. My apartment doesn't allow dogs. B. I don't want to take care of a dog. volunteer at a shelter and walk their dogs
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Jul 19, 2016 16:32
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build a strategic network of radar stations and airbases along the arctic circle
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Jul 19, 2016 16:32
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*wears a dress*
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Jul 19, 2016 16:32
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:Having sex with strangers to fuel an addictive craving isn't desperation to you? I dunno why you draw only that conclusion, but all I'm saying is the majority of it isn't sex trafficking or even worth a sob story. It's just girls that play to win. If you got a girlfriend you know she'd make you buy her stuff right? Anyways, I have a new idea. Sign a contract with the devil in blood.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:34
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Post unfunny garbage on the internet then just wait for them to come to you.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:35
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old folks home dude, those randy old broads are ready to gently caress
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Jul 19, 2016 16:35
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:wtf does that even mean? you want me to mop jizz at the community theater for free? why don't I just get a second job at mcdonalds and get paid for it? because it's not about the money 
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Jul 19, 2016 16:35
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kuddles posted:Find some activities that sound interesting to you on Meetup or whatever that have a social component and then do that for a while. Usually there are singles groups for different age ranges in most cities as well where you can hang out. Even if you don't make a connection with someone there, it gets you more comfortable in social situations and also means you come off as more interesting to women in general. I used to play pickup soccer with a group on meetup. Did not meet a lot of women, lot of foreign men though. I think I'm too niche of a person to join one of those new in town 20-30 groups. I cringe at the thought of hanging out with a crew of optimistic extroverts who had affluent parents and supportive peers growing up.
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Jul 19, 2016 16:35
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:I used to play pickup soccer with a group on meetup. Did not meet a lot of women, lot of foreign men though. I think I'm too niche of a person to join one of those new in town 20-30 groups. I cringe at the thought of hanging out with a crew of optimistic extroverts who had affluent parents and supportive peers growing up. so nothing?
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Jul 19, 2016 16:36
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jarjarbinksfan621 posted:wtf does that even mean? you want me to mop jizz at the community theater for free? why don't I just get a second job at mcdonalds and get paid for it? Because you didn't ask about how to make money, you asked how to meet girls. You don't meet girls at McDonalds
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this is turning into one of those threads where the OP asks for advice and then rejects every single thing anyone comes out with
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